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>>18046763
Block caller.

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>>18046774
>He is blocked, the messages are still viewable in the app
I turned the notifs off because my best friend confessed to me that he would never date me because I don't meet up to his qualifications when it comes to mental stability and I've done too much for him.

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>help me /privatearmy/, I'm a girl on the internet and I am being abused

>"hope you're okay"

>>18046715
You need to survive and take care of you and yours first and foremost. Sucks you're miserable but this is the path you chose. Your family is going to be fucked without your support it seems, so don't fuck them just because the school environment inconveniences you.

You feel miserable?

Focus on your end goals

Sacrificing it for temporary relief is not a mark of a disciplined man

>>18046715

I'm 30 years old, and I've been in my profession for about 6-7 years out of college.

I'm gonna be frank, I've suffered through a lot of job disappointment because I didn't follow my dreams, and took classes that "made more sense."

I think being a professional translator is a perfectly reasonable profession, and that forcing your way through med school is a very poor idea. "Making ends meet" is a lot different than being as loaded as a doctor.

You have to do this, not them. Do what feels right.

>>18046638
Go do something else like a hobby.

Realize stalking her online activity will only hurt you, drive you nuts and screw the relationship.

Date more than one woman.

You're not fucking married, so don't act like you are. Where confused young women plague the world with militant feminism, confused young men plague the world with "I'm waiting for the right one" which leads to "holy fucking shit I'm so stressed out over the amount of time she takes to text me."

This kind of attention doesn't benefit or please women. It's the most annoying thing in the world to bystanders of both genders, so kindly stop broadcasting it.

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>>18046647
This.

>>18046622
Then change it.

>>18046637
Change for me is becoming a bad boy....
That's why i'm here.

>>18046687
Being here is the opposite of being a bad boy. Its conceding to mental masturbation and delusions.

>>18046610
>Do ladies sit there alone late at night years later pondering what they did wrong and what could've been too?

Yes but not until their 30's

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>>18046619
AoC to 29 is the females' playground.

30 to ripe old age is the males' playground. As guys get older and less concerned with earning headpats from females, the social power of females drops like a meteor. Proper boys' clubs can't really happen before the age of 30.

Every day of my life for the past 7 years I've been single, and I'm only early 20's

Go to college and major in a STEM field

>>18046544
this is so obvious i wonder whether you really are that smart

>>18046579

Maybe post-secondary education isn't an option for whatever reason.

>>18046519

Just be straight forward and ask him out. Some women go a lifetime not understanding that men don't understand women games.

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>How can I get an anon boyfriend?
You'll have to ask another website, we don't have real answers here. We just have preaching and flame wars.

>>18046519
real talk, ask him what boards he goes on, cos theres a very reasonable likely hood he expects you to literally be a dick receptacle and nothing else

Nothing, all of that shit is 100% scam

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>>18046503

>>18046503
32, ADHD here

I have a cup of green tea and sometimes lay down for 5 minutes focusing on breathing or counting to 100.

Its personal preference. But psychosomatic trick work well.

Keep shit cigarettes on you so when he bums some off you, you have that.

>>18046491
stop letting him bum smokes off you.

>but he is my boss

Fuck a job where you have to provide someone paid more than you with smokes.

>>18046491

go to the store and buy the cheapest pack of cigarettes there give them to him when he asks for a cigarette. the whole pack. if he says he can't ttake it say your cigarettes are imported so you're rationing them.

bump

in the words of gang starr, 'my only crime was that i was too damn kind'

>>18046480

Stop talking in memes. Stop generalizing.

You are not nice, you are the awful "Nice Guy" that thinks he is owed sex. Grow up.

>>18046480
live your life, get out regularly and women will come to you.

How many dark mysterious guys do you see on a regular basis? Very few, if at all, because they don't really exist outside Mills and Boon novels.

Stop trying to be edgy and create a persona.

been like that for quite some time. the thing is, girls don't approach guys in their 20s, no exceptions. What you will get a lot will be girls that avoid you after a few weeks because they hoped you would approach them but feel bad because you didn't. You have good chances with girls, if you are looking for somethign serious, but you have to beat your insecurities before you can get to those chances.

I still can't and have avoided approaching chicks iRL, I only date online because it's a lot easier and you can go for the girls you like.

If you just want to lose your virginity, go for imigrants, black chicks or hookers if you got money, they can teach you quite a bit, but be nice and don't abuse their trust for your gains.

I would definitely suggest you try to get some not serious dating experience before you go for serious dating, because it will help you tons with getting along better with women and the next girl will be at least two ranks higher than your first.

1% of attraction comes from personality so yeah, confidence and attitude matter very very little. Looks and status is what really makes you attractive (there's a sea of studies about this). That role is retarded and cringeworthy, however chances are it won't do anything, maybe just appear like a narcisist with a personality disorder. But girls really won't care as long as you are physically attractive.

>>18046296
I don't trust anyone including my partner to a certain extent (I.e. they could always wind up cheating). Always mentally prepare yourself for the worst.

>>18046306
This. No matter how hard you try, you can't really stop him from cheating. Godspeed.

>>18046296
put a cb on dat nigga

say bitch get over here give me some brain. works 100 percent of the time 70 percent of the time.

>>18046251
"I would appreciate it if you sucked me off"

Any girl? Go outside.

One specific individual in particular? Get rich. Or, face your stage fright and ask her one day "what are you into?"

"What are you into" was the 1970s version of 'hello.' What the fuck to people say to each other in this decade? Anything at all?

I noticed no responses, so is this just dumb or an incredibly trite thing to ask?

She was never interested in you romantically for more than sex. She was acting on lust and now she's got it, she doesn't need it.

>>18046414
what's that even mean?

say "they call me the blizzard. i'll give you seven to eight inches and make it mildly uncomfortable to move around in the morning".

Say: "Are you an archaeologist? Because I've got a bone that needs examining."

>>18046219
>>18046223
solid lines my friends.
but seriously. is the only way to get a response is to write some terrible terrible line and hope it works? seems ridiculous and like it would never work. maybe i'm just not that type or person so it doesn't seem natural to me? idfk. i'm already socially awkward/afraid and this shit just makes me overthink