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MAKE IT FUCKING STOP

No matter what I do

I always feel like I'm back at square one

I've joined a gym, worked out and got /fit/ for like two months now, made some new friends, done some uni work, kept myself busy, generally been very productive but I can't stop thinking about my fucking ex

I can't fucking handle it anymore how do I get her out of my head

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I know how savage some people on here can be and I posted a snap on my story that was me in bed (not a sexy pose) and it said "I don't want to be an adult today. Can I just stay in bed?" And this creepy guy just snap chatted me this. I'm engaged and I need a really good comeback that mentions that I'm engaged. Give me some savagery!

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I'm desensitized to stuff that kids shouldn't see online.

Dead bodies, shit like that.

But I have a very morbid interests in crime scene photos from famous events. To me it's like looking at the event uncensored, unfiltered. Not sanitized at all. It's a morbid piece of history.

9/11 is a big one for me and it still spooks me I lived in NYC so it was scary for me at the time as a kid..It seemed so taboo to discuss it but I found myself scouring the internet for any and all photos that weren't mainstream, like pic related.

I do not get off on these photos, but it's been such a morbid fascination that I keep to myself in general. Am I a freak?

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On the weekend I got too fucked up at a club and a guy I know offered to let me crash at his place because I was too far gone to walk home. I know him pretty well so I thought he was just being a mate and I accepted. As soon as I lay down I started losing conciousness, and he took my pants off and started touching me up. I'm not sure if he thought I was awake or not. It went on for a while until I found the strength to roll off the bed, and rebuckle my belt. I slept on the floor. I didn't remember this until I'd already left the next morning, but my belt was still done up so I don't think he tried anything else. The thing is, he knew I'm straight. I dated one of his chick friends for a while a few months ago and that night he straight up saw me making out with a girl.
Should I fight him?
I can't be fucked going to the cops because they won't take it seriously and I have no proof (and I'm not a snitch) but I also don't want to just let it slide.
I'm thinking about bluffing him and threatening to go to the cops if he doesn't fight me. I'm bigger and stronger than this guy and I don't think he'll press assault charges because of the whole molesting me thing, but I'm still not sure if it's a good idea

What should I do?

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How do I get an escort without going to jail/getting an STD?

>Dry spell for almost a year now
>Because I cant get laid I cant get laid even more and the cycle continues
>Might regain wizard status

Halp.

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i live with my parents
she lives with 3 room mates 40km away from me.
where do we fuck

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I recently did a gym test. I got 2 pushups in a row before stopping. I lied because everyone was able to see your scores so I said I did 13. I'm a weak beta faggot and I need to get 14 by the end of May. I have 15 lb dumbbells and am taking all honors. Do help! (Pic not related)

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Whatsup guys, joining a gym in about an hour and I need to make a final decision between two places. Both are close to home and have approximately the same facilities and are approximately the same price.

Do I join the gym that my friends go to, or do I join the one that none of them go to?

Have a chronic blood condition that makes me dangerously anemic at all times and want to get a bit /fit/ before I'm 30 to help my body cope with how fucked I am. I am getting away with it at the moment because I'm relatively young and fit but I am a bit concerned at how well I'll be able to weather my condition in 5+ years' time. Not worried about being able to motivate myself without my friends because I'm the sort of person who will absolutely do something once I've made up my mind.

If I go with my friends then there's a couple of them who can show me how to use machines and give me advice, but on the other hand they'll probably get too psyched for my liking and want me to show up 7 days a week at 5am and I'm not down for that.

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I live nearly 30 miles out of town, from all available areas of workplace. My family is poor, and we have one car that's used by my father, who works an hour from home from 9am to 9pm every day.

I have $700 in the bank, having dropped most of my funds into helping spot weeks they weren't able to buy groceries due to crippling debt they have. I have 0 credit, and am currently unemployed. There are no buses that come out here, I have no friends, and no other mode of transportation. To get a job I need a car.

What the hell can I realistically do?

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how do you give a girl the best sex she's ever had without rellying on penis goes in vag?

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Why do I isolate myself? A few years ago, I was married with kids, a nice house and a good, albeit very dangerous job. The marriage crumbled when I quit my job to go into business with my (then) father in law. He fucked me pretty good. And then my ex wife took her turn on me. She took the kids, left me to move in with her dad and went after every penny I had. She got me pretty good.

My life seemed hopeless, but I managed to get my old job back and moved on. I kept the house but it started to feel unrealistic to maintain and pay for a 4 bedroom house that I lived in alone aside from the 4 days a month that my kids were there, so I sold it within my family.

I moved to a trendy loft in the city and I just continued to work and pay child support. Didn't really contact or communicate with anyone. Then I met a great woman, she was a bit older but beautiful in every sense of the word. Intelligent, charming, witty and very physically attractive. She actually gave a shit about my kids and what I was going through. We had amazing chemistry but then about a year ago, something changed. She became short tempered, started complaining about my job and became suspicious that I was up to no good when I would go out of town for work (I was NOT up to no good) and it started to become very clear that this behavior was not a product of my actions. We were living together in her house and last Jan she just suggested I move out and we take a break.

So, I had to move into a friend's and I hated it. Then came heavy drinking and a lot of confusion from her behavior. She wouldn't text or call but she would send me letters in the mail. Or random likes on photos I put on social media. But never any real talking about wtf was going on. I found out recently that she switched jobs (it was on the news) and moved into this ridiculous mansion type house on a golf course.

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Part-time job is out of the question. It's hard to find one and I don't have the time. I'm in college and I'd like to have enough cash to buy all the books I want to read but between the money spent on tuiton, on travels to uni and food, I just don't have enough money to spend on anything I want, nor do my parents.

How can I make money from home by utilizing what little time I have?

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Hey /adv. Just came to the realization that my parents will eventually die... Currently crying like a bitch. They may have done awful things that I hate and awful things that I don't even know about yet but damn this just hit me out of nowhere.

Need help... Words of encouragement... Is this an overreaction?

Get in here, friends. :(

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I want to get my own place. Probably an apartment. Is there anything I should be aware of before moving out? What is a good price? I live in Toronto Ontario Canada. I'm not moving out yet but I want to do some planning and research in advance. And of course ask for advice.

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Hello /adv/

I don't know who would be reading this but I just wanted to get something off my chest. I'm not entirely sure about this being on the correct board. I am not in the best state of mind at this moment.

A little about my situation:
I am 28 years old, gay, and in a closeted relationship with an older man for about 5 years now. We both live in our own respective houses so I stay alone most of the time till he gets home and we meet up somewhere. My siblings and I grew up in an abusive household in which my mother terrorized all three of us. My father however allowed it all to go down. I have a rough time with socializing with others as I have moments that I get flashbacks of certain instances of my mother going crazy and yelling and beating us with whatever she had within reach. So I have very little social interaction with others and I don't have any friends to talk to about my situation.

Now the aforementioned situation; My brother (not the youngest) had been diagnosed with a rare type of cancer for his age. Undifferentiated embryonal sarcoma of the liver. Has had treatment in the form of surgery and chemo. The oncologist placed him in remission about half a year ago and said everything was looking great. My brother just informed me today that he has masses in his lungs and lymph nodes and he's mentioned that the oncologist has performed a biopsy after having a PET scan performed. He has a wife and a boy, and another one on the way. Again, I have nobody to talk to and I'm hurting really badly. I know the whole "be strong for him" yadda yadda but I feel like everything inside my body is on fire.

tldr;
>28 year old with nobody to talk to
>younger brother had been diagnosed with rare cancer
>younger brother in remission
>got the call that he has masses in lungs and lymph nodes
>what do
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