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For a couple of years now I've had these bumps growing on the side of my thumbs, and I have no idea what caused them. They suck as they are VERY sensitive to pain, and said pain lasts a long time. I don't even remember what life was like when they started growing, but I'll give the run down.

~3 years agoish, a bump on my right thumb starts growing, and fast.
~Later on, I try multiple things to remove it: popping it with a toothpick (turns out it's made of flesh and blood, not juice like blisters), compound w, and cutting it off. Too no suffice.
~2 years ago the one on my left starts growing. To this day it's never been as big as my right one, but it's still growing unlike my right one.
~Later that year I got them both removed; had to wear bandages for like 2 months only to have them come back.
~1 year ago the left one starts growing like it's on steroids. Still not as big as the right one, but it's p. much multiplying.

What do I do? They hamper almost every aspect of my life and they're very unpleasing to the eye. I've tried freezing them off, cutting them off, popping them, and to no avail. Wat do? Will post more pics.
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If it helps, it seems to be that the edges of my fingerprint cover the edge of the bumps. I'm hoping that it's not in my genetics or caused by some mutation, but at this point any closure would be nice.
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back of the right one. It protrudes much less from the finger print side than the nail side.
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this is the left one. smaller and not as painful.

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I literally can't get hard but I can. If I masturbate I get hard but barely and it has to be to a fetish to get hard I also wake up hard every day but I never get hard enough to penetrate. What do I do?
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Its purely mental, you've probably desentisized yourself to porn so much that nothing gets you excited anymore. Id say stop the porn for a good while, and maybe the fapping too. Or at least if youre gonna fap try not to use porn, go back to the early days of using your imagination.
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>>18043855

This guy is right. Sounds like you're addicted. If you disagree, then try quitting for a week.
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find another hobby

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So I have been with my bf in a long distance relationship since 1 year. I don't know if i love him at all but I like him very much. I met him through an online game and he pretty much helped me to get through a rough time, which I am really grateful for but lately he is acting more and more cold towards me and he gets very controlling. I have to send him screenshots of my whatapp and sms, text him every hour at least once, I am not allowed to play with other people etc. I don't know why he only acts like this since a few months but I assume its because I lost a shit ton of weight (he also talked to me about how I am too thin now for his taste). I tried to talk to him about how I don't like how he is acting towards me but he always gets angry at me. But otherwise he is really sweet and caring and he even will go to university because I once told him I want to marry only a guy who has at least the same level of education as I.

But recently I have been meeting an other guy. I told this guy I am in a relationship at the moment and I am not interested in dating him since I want to stay faithful to my bf, after he said he wants to be my bf. Anyway we have been meeting a few times as friends and we both have much more in common than me and my bf, for example we both enjoy cosplaying, metal, festivals, playing magic and pen&paper games (all things my bf makes fun of me for liking them). Also he takes me to meet with his friends which is also very nice since I don't really have any friends. I also feel like I could talk to him about anything I want and it's way easier to talk to him than to my bf. But he has also a way lower education than me and I don't really want to form a serious relationship with a man who I need to provide for.

What should I do? Should I break up with my bf and enjoy myself? Or should I be faithful even thou I know I won't enjoy this relationship any longer since he is such a douch to me. I also don't want to lose him even if he is a jealous asshole.
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Truthfully I believe you should communicate this issue to your BF, the distance has clearly put a toll on you both and although he has the right to ask you questions now and again, they are quite excessive (desu men know the tendency of other men). You need to in general make your needs clear and so does he, but at the same time, he clearly cares enough for you to go university for you.theres a lot of things you guys can do to make it work but at the same time that all depends on YOU and no one else. He shouldn't be getting angry at you for making your opinion known you need to let him know that it its not how a relationship works. If this doesn't work my advice to you would be to end it with your current BF. However this doesn't mean you should just jump into another relationship, you need time to process things and your current BF deserves the respect of not having you just jump into another persons arms, that shit can hurt and make you doubt everything you had. also you need to consider whether that momentary enjoyment is going to be worth it.
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>>18043829
Drop him. You're probably going to end up losing him, but oh well. Cut him out of your life and pretend like he never existed. It'll be better for the both of you.
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>>18043829
This one is easy. Break up with him.

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First time here but need advice quick. How do I deal with the feeling of guilt?
>inb4 tell the person what I did
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>>18043807
It depends on what you did and how bad it was.
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>>18043811
Got pressured into cheating... I can't tell my girlfriend because it'll wreck her self esteem. I really love her and it's eating me alive.
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>>18043818
What do you mean you got pressured into cheating?

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What advice would you give a very submissive yet inexperienced girl to help her better please her master and be better prepared for sex?
Pic unrelated
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>>18043765
Do as ur told that simple.....now let me see that body
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>>18043774
That's exactly what I do. That can't be it, there must be more to it and haha no that would get me in trouble
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Get into bondage. Lots of leather and blindfolds. You should give your "master" a name, like daddy or bae or something, bonus points if you call him mein fuhrer. Really tho just say yes master after every sentence. Practice with vaginal weights.

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Hey /biz/, I've been contemplating making a dating app, but before I commit the effort to making it, I want to see how much interest there is.

PROBLEM:
The current generation of dating apps have shifted the balance of power in the dating market heavily in favor of women. Apps like Tinder give already inherently choosy women so many options that now even 1/10 meth-head landwhales won't date anyone that's not at least an 8/10. Worse, "feminist" dating apps like Pink and Bumble put outright restrictions on their male users to further shift the balance of power. The result is an entire generation of extremely shallow and entitled women.

SOLUTION:
A dating app that's designed to covertly shift the balance of power back to the center. It's going to be called Soul, with the taglines "find your soulmate" and "dating for people, not animals." It will be a location-based dating app similar to Tinder et. al., but with some important differences.

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Users will only be able to view and match with a subset of nearby app users, based on compatible personality traits and interests. The trait selection UI is going to be intentionally gimmicky, in that it will be set up in a way so that selecting certain traits forces you to exclude others you might also want and include some you don't want. This forces users (and specifically women) to prioritize their interests instead of inputting an unattainable perfect ideal companion into the app.

Additionally, since only nearby users matching your preferences are shown, your options will tend to be more limited. This has the sideaffect of forcing users to be less hyper-selective when using the app, and go out on more actual dates to get to know the people.

Finally, and this part is most important, the app is going to attract users and force them not to be shallow by using using psychological suggestion in the marketing material, as well as within the app itself. Most men are already fed up with the current selection of dating apps for the reasons described above, so getting them to use the app will require less effort. However, in order gain female users, some industrial-scale guilt trips are going to be used. The current generation of women in their 20's have been praised their entire lives and have lost the ability to respond to criticism, and especially criticism coming from an unknown source. This whole app is based on the theory that it should then be possible to shame people into not being shallow with some clever marketing. A series of YouTube video ads will be run that follow hypothetical female Tinder/ Pink/ Bumble users and humorously highlight bad experiences that may result from selecting matches purely based on looks or other shallow criteria, followed by a more positive experience after using Soul. The goal is to make it humorous and impactful enough that it will go viral and drive user conversion for the app.

Is anyone interested?
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>Is anyone interested?

nope
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You need to do this!

My girlfriend's older brother used to deal drugs when he was young. he was caught and went to jail. He never attempted to do any studies either

Once in jail, he claimed to have found and heard the voice of god, and he became a better person.

Problem is, since then, he went from a punk to a very religious (muslim) guy who pressures the women in the family to conform to muslim law, like no contact with boys, obey the men and be religious if you want to be a good person. My (secret) girlfriend actually has to struggle to get them to let her study and have a career (she's 19 on scholarships).

He's convinced that he's being a good person, and that he's in the right, but any challenge towards his views is met with violent behavior.

Anyone been through a situation like this, with an ex convict who "found god" or being one yourself?
Any advice to give on how to deal with this behavior?

I keep wondering if prison conversion to anything is actually a good way to become better, or if it just turns you into a worse person.
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>>18043727
>conflicting opinions causes violent behavior

What a fucking nigger, this just makes me hate Islam even more
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>became a better person.
>but any challenge towards his views is met with violent behavior.

Choose one
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That's Islam for you. You should report him anonymously and say he is planning a terrorist attack. That would get rid of him.

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How do you accept the fact that you're a human being so you'll always have addictions and bad habits? I seem to be a "perfectionist" i.e. I have this idea that life isn't worth it if your behavior is flawed. I don't know where I got this from, but I can't help it. Is there a good way to deal with it?
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yes just give up already
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>>18043739
no
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>>18043748
pussy

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How the fuck do I keep my computer running like it is fresh year after year. It gets slow as fuck after 6 months or so?
Its annoying doing a refresh a few times a year.
INB4 windows sucks
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>>18043722
You should probably just buy a good cpu and a fan to help cool it. My friend bought a super cpu 4 years ago and still starts opens games up faster then my 1 year olf laptop. Waaaaaaaay faster.

Let me assure you, his setup is fucking scrubby. but i just cant talk shit about his speed though
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>>18043722

What i do is have a fresh install with drivers and Office etc installed
Then i create an image of the hard drive and keep that on an external hdd

Then whenever i want, i just backup my personal files, and then restore the fresh hard drive image, and copy back my files.

This is also extremely convenient if you ever get infected with a crazy virus etc. I just 'nuke' the whole thing instead of fucking around with virus removal for hours. Restoring the image is a ~15 minute process.

Whenever you restore, the pc will be as fast as the day you got it.
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>>18043736
>>18043746
>>18043736
sorry anon forgot to add. Its a laptop :(
Thanks for the advice

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Hey lads,
Need some advice.
I'm planning on cutting certain "friends" out of my life completely. I can't stand them nor can I take constant barrage of insults as of late. I can understand banter but it's going to far. It's fucking toxic.I have tried reasoning but when they said they would stop they won't. This is the final straw. I'm starting college in September so il have a fresh start. Anyone have effective ways of cutting a people out of your life for good?
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It's easier than you think. I've gone through things similar and it all begins with just ignoring them and to stop talking to them. Don't even bother to ease off- the colder the turkey the better.

Just be wary that once you cut them out of your life expect to cut others too.
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are you fkn retarded?

unhook your connections to them (social media, shared activities, chatrooms etc.) and then ignore them if they try to contact you

crazy stuff!!
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1. Unfriend on facebook
2. don't talk to them.
3.Don't break rule 3
4. If anything goes wrong, pretend to be in a hurry and escape.

And if the bullying ever starts again, well shit man, call the police you're an adult you don't have to endure this.

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19 years old. I feel like a piece of shit. I feel like I don't belong, like nobody even looks up to me. I don't know anyone who truly understands me. Maybe it's a symptom of ADHD. I don't know
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b/c you're not doing anything with your life
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>>18043638
Why would anyone look up to a 19 year old?
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>>18043638

ADHD is made up bullshit

You just have too much energy. You should get into sport. Or study harder. Your father should discipline you more so you don't step out of line 2bh

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I met a girl online, shes 17 and im 18 and she said she just wanted to be friends.Anyways weve been texting for a week now and i want to meet her in irl but i need ideas on fun things to do with her.Things she likes doing are playing video games and watching anime.She lives two hrs away from me and i dont want to drive two hrs just to play video games and watch anime, so i need ideas on more interesting things to do with her.
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Does she like movies? Why not take her to the movies? Maybe you can go to a cafe after. Then you can use the movie as a conversation starter.
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>>18043616
Yeah she likes movies
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Any more ideas?

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>I'm depressed
>I'm lonely
>I have a meme degree
>I'm lazy as fuck
>I have no motivation
>I have no direction in life
>I'm underemployed

Yet I am still

>narcissistic
>think a lot of jobs are beneath me
>depression gets worse when working menial jobs

I'm too smart for my own good but not smart enough to do me any good. I do not have the courage to kill myself, before it is suggested.
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>>18043600
i was extremely lazy before and what helped me was setting up a schedule which i followed as much as i could

>go to bed at 11, wake up 7
>work out three times a week
>study for an hour, four times a week
>read atleast 10 pages everyday

i went from there and increased it every now and then so that it wouldn't seem to hard

also set up future goals to work towards
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You should look into the military many people go in there and come out a new person. You don't have to do anything crazy, but they're lots of different jobs in the military that you may find interesting. Talk to your local recruiter. The military is one of the most supportive teams to be a part of and you will make tons of friends. Not to mention you will be respected for your service.
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>>18043600
So you're an average 20-something. Who cares?

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How do I get from the good conversation level on the flirt level?
I don't know if I am doing it right.
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Sorry, son, you've already gone down a path there's no return from.
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touching and teasing
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>>18043625
What this Guy said

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I'm talking to someone on Skype who wants to kill himself. I have no further contact information. What do?
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>>18043568
ignore
he wont do it
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Tell him "do it faggot"
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Why do you want to stop him?
Guy's obviously living a shitty life, let him quit. Do you want to persuade him into prolonging his suffering?

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