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I went dancing last night with some friends since my psychiatrist told me to get out more. I actually had a good time even though that wasn't my kind of dancing. I felt a bit sick from my meds staying up so late. I enjoyed the conversations though. Unfortunately, when it comes to the opposite sex, I'm not very intelligent in picking up on when I'm being hit on. I was having a great conversation with this guy who abruptly asked for my number after dancing a few times with me. He jokingly asked if I wanted private lessons and I didn't pick up on the fact that people do this when they're flirting and not being friends. I shared with my friends what happened and they jumped all over me for being stupid and saying too much and this and that. Now I can't stop thinking how I shouldn't have even went to this stupid swing dance thing. I feel stupid. I can't stop the thoughts. What should I do?
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I feel the same about a girl at a show, so don't kick yourself. Just breathe a little deeper and take it easy.
I'm kinda still depressed about my experience though.. 2 days after the fact, but really it's because the event I went to only happens for about 5-6 days every year, and I was crushing hard on one girl I've seen there before, year after year, but I always saw her as out of my league, I still do really.. but she's much more special than I had originally thought.
Most those years before though, I was really depressed over an ex, finally now I feel strong enough to just start something serious with someone. And although I spoke to her, it was brief and felt like a part of me had died after.
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>>18045783
I had to go home, I was tired from working all day. But I told her basically how special I thought she was, in my own words, then I told her she's the last person I wanted to talk to that night, and it was sadly, the last night of the event.
I can't even find her online in any way.
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>>18045798
Thanks anon.
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I don't mean any harm in asking this, but when you're reading the Bible and you come across something that doesn't make sense, or you personally believe is downright wrong, how do you feel?
How do you resolve the disparity between the belief that the Bible perfect, God's word given form, and the reality that there are some real problems with some of the content?
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I'm not even religious and I can answer that.
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>>18045649
if there is god how do they speak or write and says nothing about who is translating it. also on whose authority is it corroborated perfect, sounds like fake news to me
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I've never come across anything wrong in the Bible. I think if you go out looking for problems in anything you will find them.
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i seem to be developing a crush on a good friend with whom i stand no chance. ive been in this position before, years ago, and it left me rekt. i am not looking to do it again.
i value her friendship, her personality is one that i really need in my life (we share very obscure tastes/beliefs, everybody needs a connection like that), and that type's hard to come by. plus, i dont have many friends in the first place. so distancing myself is not an option that i care to consider.
how the heck can i just like, force myself to not have feelings for her? sure i can focus on her bad qualities or whatever but i need something better than that. what techniques would you recommend?
havent had feelings for anyone in a number of years, mostly due to my last few relationships meeting terrible fates. i guess this means im over it all, and thats good, but i dont need a new form of heartache to take its place.
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Did she reject you last time?
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>>18045595
perhaps i worded my opening statement poorly
what i meant by that was that ive crushed on other female friends who would never see me as anything more than a friend in the past, not that i have a history of having feelings for her.
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>>18045605
Why do you think she wouldn't see you more than a friend?
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Last Friday was my second time doing Molly. I took 2 pills and 2 dips of pure M. Today I still feel drowsy and foggy. Is this normal? Anyone have experience with this?
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Yeah bro
Its permanent but not as bad as the first week
But from here on out its drowsy and foggy days forever unless you take more molly.
I quit the second time i did it because it made the daily drowsiness worse. Its harder to hit higher highs and lower lows. From here on out its low highs and high lows.
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>>18045610
This.
It feels great, but the only downside is that you might get Parkinson's when you're 50-60 years old.
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>>18045610
You're joking right? Do you have evidence?
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So a while back I got unlucky and had a Bullshit experience with a cop. He gave me a ticket for 85 dollars and my court date is today. I'm gonna write this off on my good driving record but this is my first time going into the court for something. Few questions.
>Are jeans and a sweater fine or do I need more dress up?
>Do I just tell them I want it on my driving record? Or how do I go about letting them know
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>>18045440
Depends. If it's traffic court?
How you will be pleading? Age?
Considering it's a ticket that low, i'd assume a button up with khakis is safe maybe even a polo
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Dont know about the driving record stuff or how to plead since it hasnt happened to me.
But i have been to small court before. Jeans arent allowed. Any shoes are fine except open toe shoes.
A sweater is okay.
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>>18045440
Why do you have to go for court for just a small ticket? Are you just going to pay or do you have to stand in front of a judge?
If you have to stand in front of a judge, the nicer you dress the more favorable the judge will be.
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Write a program that will prompt the user to input and integer that denotes sizes of sides of a triangle and determine the following:
a. determine if it forms a triangle or not;
b. if it forms a triangle, determine if it is and isosceles, equilateral or scalene.
c. if it doesn't form a triangle, then program should prompt the user that the inputs don't form a triangle.
Note: Consider the following guidelines:
a. isosceles triangle is described by having 2 sides equal.
b. equilateral triangle is described by having all 3 sides equal.
c. scalene triangle is described by having no sides equal.
d. to determine if the triangle really forms a triangle, the sum of 2 sides must be greater than the other side.
e. please provide comments of your program.
Please help me ,
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do your own homework
(or pay me)
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Please Help me. I beg you.
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>>18045452
I accept Bitcoin or Paypal
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So i fancy this girl (lets call her louise)
She is a bit of a loner and used to spend her spare time sitting with me and talking with me in the shop i run.
I ended up hiring her.
I have her number. And facebook and speak to her frequently. She does however lie quite a bit (little white lies)
I was wondering if i should ask her out or if its best to leave it as i can imagine it ruining our friendship if i were to ask her out.
Heres some parts of a chat i had with her to get some insight
(white lie she told here is thats shes drinking she would not be drinking)
Louise
"i bet ya after tonight i will drink more and still be able to text without mistake
because ya know you guys are getting old...cant handle your drink like the young :')
ME
Yo got no credit though lol
Louise
i mean on fb twat face
speak later lol
And then the hint i missed that night
Louise
Can't you just go somewhere on your own drinking alone is better and I'll be fine DW I'm getting good at this
ME
Im on my own in the car if that counts lol. Rather be with people instead of been on jack jones all the time
Louise
You could join me but I'm crazy when I had a drink....
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you are a grade A idiot and shes a grade A golddigger
just ask her out
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>>18045424
Cant gold dig off me im broke
I am also aware im an idiot.
If i ask her out itll be on the 15th to avoid valanties date fees n shit
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>>18045424
But if she were to say no. Or she doesn't like me then wouldnt asking her out ruin our current relationship? Making things award between us
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Hi /adv/isors, I have this coworker who has a total crush on me. She's a 7.5/10 girl who always seeks my company.
She wants to chat with me, smiles, seeks eye contact, wants to cheer me up, and when we're talking about generic things she diverts the topic to sexual things.
If I'm working and she's around sometimes she will just look at me smiling while visibly absorbed in her thoughts.
She is kinder to me than to others, seeks the opportunity to be alone with me, and seeks things that she can do for me. A few days ago she wanted to rub my back.
If I tell her to do, she always does it with top priority. If we disagree in some small things, when we argue, if I look her in the eyes and ask her kindly to do it my way, she will break eye contact, blush and say ok. She looks nice but I don't like her personality so I don't want a relationship with her.
It's very embarrassing for me, how can I reject her in a polite way?
>inb4 being rude or very firm with her. I think she would cry.
>inb4 pump&dump I would hate and could never forgive myself for the rest of my life.
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>>18045404
The firm one.
Just up and ask, "hey, do you like me?"
And whatever your response is be honest without sugar coating. It's only gonna help her character and supplement time.
Also part of you really wants to pump that.
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shes giving you signals
if you dont respond she will lose interest
just dont encourage her
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>>18045523
She didn't lose it for two months.
>>18045519
I don't want to hurt her. I feel like if I'm just cold, or firm, I'll hurt her a lot.
What do I get my husband for valentines day?
I have £7 (plus what ever I can scrounge from the sofa) and that's it. Like literally it. I don't have a credit card.
What can I get him that int crap? £7 don't go far round here that's like barely enough for a bottle of milk and a pack of cigs.
Suggestions?
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>>18045259
Cook him something nice. Maybe some risotto or a roasted chicken with potatoes.
Have a nice, cheap date with him.
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>>18045265
I always cook for him so it wouldn't be special
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>>18045269
I mean - it's tomorrow so you don't have time to create anything, and you don't have much money.
Either go out and look for something in huge sale, or just set a nice date with candles, nice food and wear a cute dress and have a nice date with him.
I can't think of anything else.
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Did I just get hired at walmart?
I just interviewed for an overnight position in a walmart in Tehachapi.. then after a question or two, the woman had me start signing some paperwork for a drug test and background check. She told me to come back in the morning for the drug screening, and gave me a welcome packet to take home.
I mean, it seems like I'm hired, but it seemed too easy. I interviewed at Walmart once before like 10 years ago, and was asked a shit ton of questions about what I'd do in certain situations. Being the autistic faggot nigger that I am, I bombed every single one and wasn't called back. She didn't ask me anything like that though.
What are the odds that I'm actually going to get hired once I pass the drug test?
There were two other people who got interviewed and they seemed like perfectly fine, normal, non-autist people who had no issues talking to people. I know I didn't do any better in this interview than in any other that I've done. Why would they choose me? Is life finally taking pity on me, or has Trump already made America great again that quickly that even I can get hired?
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Yes, congratulations anon
You won
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I was on the same boat as you about a year ago.
They have VERY low expectations for people applying to jobs with high turnover rates.
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>>18045041
I won't celebrate until I know for sure. I still can't believe it...
>>18045047
I guess that makes sense. I can imagine not too many people can work overnight routinely...
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Ok /adv/, so last night I got text from some random number I'd never seen with a North Carolina area code (I'm in California) asking who I am. I just ignored it since they obviously had the wrong number, but now they've texted me again claiming that they have the picture I sent them (???) and that they've got the police "furious and looking into it".
At this point I'd had enough, I told whoever it is to fuck off and blocked their number. I realize this is most likely some kind of scam or something, but now I'm sitting here stressing out for some reason, wondering what the hell this could be about. Is there any way a 3rd party could have somehow used my phone number to send a picture to this person? I've never heard anything about this happening and it seems improbable, but I'm starting to get really anxious and paranoid now. Any input from you guys as to what could be going on would be much appreciated.
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Have you ever done anything that could incriminate you? If so, was there anyone with a camera nearby?
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>>18044982
Nope.
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>>18044951
By blocking them you missed out on the third message, which would have been "Send us XXX dollars and we'll forget the whole thing"
19 year old girl suffering from panic attacks and anxiety HELP!
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Tell a doctor
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see a shrink
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Uninstall your social media apps.
What are the best jobs I can get with the least amount of education? I'm not expecting to be wealthy, but 50-60k CAD (approx 35-45k USD) would be nice. And I'm not afraid of hard work, I just don't want to spend a lot of time in school.
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if you dont have a decent education, and aren't willing to get one you're soon going to come face to face with the fact that your only value is in the capabilities of your body.
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>>18044654
I have no problem with skilled labor.
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>>18044654
>implying
most people get to where they are at (success wise) because they know people.not because they decided to spend $50k+ on a piece of paper.
Anyways you could learn a trade, like carpentry. The world will always need carpenters. Technically, learning a trade is a form of education, but it takes much less time than going getting a degree.
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how can i ask a friend to fuck?
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Say please?
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If you have to ask her for sex, I'm assuming she's not interested anyway. Flirt with her, better than going "excuse me, can I have pussy please?" Though I haven't tried being that forward.
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get a gf or hire a prostitute
alright /adv/ i'm cutting to the chase quick, i'm one of those people who represses their negative emotions in an act of being unfazed by anything and it ends up stabbing me in the back everytime
i guess all the stress accumulates in me over time and when my mind can't handle it anymore, cue the month-long anxiety attacks in a way to release all the stress inside
it's like a cycle almost that keeps repeating and i'd like to know of any advice on how to release stress before allowing it to turn into anxiety
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Habits will keep stress down. It'll be easier to do certain things once you get used to doing them regularly. Like picking up trash, dirty laundry and used dishes around your place for 10 minutes every morning. A lot can be done in that short amount of time if you focus. When you get home, there will be less mess to worry about.
Habits work like a charm on most things you have to do but it's hard to build them and probably not possible to build multiple at once and stick to them.
Also read up on meditation or try yoga (gentle or more energetic depending on your needs for the day).
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>>18043421
i actually have a lot of habits i developed into my routine to give me more of a sense of stability and i do enjoy doing them during the times i'm not undergoing so much inner turmoil, but when i'm currently under stress overload i find myself unmotivated and tend to stress even more by forcing myself to keep up with the habits if that makes any sense
i'll look into meditation and yoga, there's actually some free yoga classes offered in my community so guess i should take advantage of that, thank you
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meditate