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Getting married in a year. Fiance and I are both Catholic. I don't go to church anymore or really believe in anything anymore outside of a basic Deism, but she's an active church goer and believer. However, we've been having sex since early on in our relationship (2 years now). We did the pre-marriage counseling class (pre-cana) where one part is them explaining why it is important for couple to wait until marriage. I don't buy it, but my fiance said she isn't sure if she wants to continue having sex until we're married.
So wat do? I'm not doing anything retarded like breaking it off for something ultimately irrelevant, but it kind of irritates me. Not having sex will suck, but it's more the fact that she wants to change the nature of our relationship. And some part of me wants to be vindictive and deny her something in return. I know that's probably wrong but I can't help feeling that way.
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>>18543613
Id talk about it with her, if it's really a big concern to you she might budge, good luck op
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>>18543613
I'd have a long discussion about it with her, and ask her why it's that important to her... and why it wasn't before, or why the act of sharing sex wasn't important.
Religion screws up everything, though; it tends to just be an overlay on life, but people accept it as a part of life which makes it impossible to separate from objectively.
It sounds like a minefield. You might be (left un)fucked.
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>>18543626
Kek. Oh well, I still have hundreds of nudes I took of her that I can fap to.
I'm talking with her about it. She's still unsure about it. I explained to her how I feel and she said she agrees, but there's still something she can't quite explain that puts her on the fence. Probably because she still follows the church, which I get.
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I'm split.
>Full ride to unremarkable, meh-tier university, get undergrad for free and pocket $30k college savings, big fish small pond meme
>Attend top 10 prestigious university, small amount of loans, don't pocket $30k
Which would you choose?
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The former. It doesn't matter where you go for your bachelor's.
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>>18543606
This, 100%. Student loans are a scam, even small ones, and while the marketability of your school matters a *little* for grad schools + employment, it really is just a little. $30k in the bank (or wisely invested, or spent on something actually worthwhile, not frittered away) is UNQUESTIONABLY more useful.
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Depends what you can do with 30k, that will make you more money.
My wallet was recently stolen so I don't have an ID. I already schedule an appointment to replace it. What would happen if I just walk into a liquor store, grab a bottle and leave enough cash to pay for it (and walk away)?
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Also is there any other way to prove I'm 21?
I'm literally turning 22 in 2 weeks so it sucks I can't buy anything because some scumbag stole from me.
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>>18543563
Birth certificate or passport? Honestly just ask for a friend to buy it for you.
Or, go somewhere where the person at the counter already knows you and hope they won't card you.
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>>18543582
I dont live near any friends (like 30+ min away) so I'd feel like a dick asking for help
Also the liquor store I usually go to (closest one) they ALWAYS ask me for an ID, I've been there 10+ times. The same guy too.
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I'm on new anti-axiety medication to treat my nightmares and flashbacks. I'm also hoping it treats my social axiety, but that's not the issue.
I can't cum.
Seriously. I'll stay hard as a fucking rock for hours, but I just can't cum. No matter what.
As you can guess, my girlfriend is enjoying this, but I'm at a loss for words. My current record is staying at max-hardness for a full 3 hours before I just gave up.
What do I do?
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>>18543546
I'm a femanon, but I had that exact same problem when I was on Celexa. You're probably on an SSRI. Those things change your seratonin levels, and seratonin is also linked with sex. I don't have any advice for you anon other than talk to your doctor about it and try a different medication. I stopped taking the meds all together myself, but that probably isn't the wisest call for you.
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>>18543546
It will go away after a few months.
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>>18543565
I'm pretty much non-functional off of medication. I'll wake up every hour at night with a diffrent one of my 5 recurring nightmares, I'll start to sleepwalk at around day 3, and then the actual flashbacks to really fucked up shit start to happen. Before I was medicated, lightheadedness, vertigo, and even fainting happened during flashbacks.
It sucks because I have no triggers. Shit just happens randomly.
So, yeah. Medication is needed.
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>5 months ago
>Be really flirty with girl
>She's really flirty back
>Get really into the flirting
>Ask her out
>She says no
>Drop her cause she basically lead me on.
>Last week
>Start talking to her friend
>Her friend brings her around
>Her and her friend drop strong ass hints
>She tries to bait me into flirting again.
Should I even go for it? She's pretty hawt, and has a decent personality. She told me she didn't want to date the first time, cause she broke up with her bf of three years a month beforehand. It was a legit reason, but she shouldn't have been flirting in the first place if she wasn't ready.
I'm conflicted. I genuinely still like her, but I don't want to end up with her getting cold feet again.
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>>18543471
I'd stay away, she might be looking for a rebound. Unless she and her friend are looking for a casual threesome?
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>>18543483
She has been pretty open about doing nothing but sucking cocks at parties for the past five months.
But she's always been a dirty bitch, so i don't know if I can believe it or not.
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>>18543471
go with the friend. She just shittesting you.
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>have a girlfriend
>also have a girl friend
>tease this girl friend
>girlfriend gets angry, calls it flirting
>make fun of this girl friend
>girlfriend gets angry, calls it flirting
>joke with this girl friend
>girlfriend gets angry, calls it flirting
>outright insult this girl friend
>girlfriend gets angry, calls it flirting
>talk to this girl friend
>girlfriend gets angry, calls it flirting
>girl friend happens to come up in the conversation of somebody nearby
>girlfriend is gets pissed off
How would you handle this situation?
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Have threesome with girlfriend and girl friend.
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>>18543438
I'd talk to her and reason with her. If she couldn't be reasoned with, I'd question why I'm still in the relationship-- absence of reason is the birthplace of red flags.
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Stop flirting with other girls. It's disrespectful to your girlfriend.
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Need a fem input for this or maybe not an asshole guys perspective.
I've had all great relationship for the most part. Very little arguing, happy times, very long lasting relationships, and so fourth. Whenever I go back into the dating pool though, like every woman I talk to has so much baggage! I'm talking like emotional abuse, physical abuse, being cheated on, taking a guy back after, being raped (they say no to sex while in the relationship and the guy forces them). I mean and this is from a huge pool, co workers, people who share similar hobbies, social groups, and online. Is the majority of men out there really all dipshits or are women just kind of exaggerating about this stuff?
I feel like a fucking saint in world of scum or something.
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Yeah, there are a lot of toxic personalities out there.
I'm 2 for 2. First boyfriend lied and cheated on me, second one was a narcissistic abuser.
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>>18543322
Everyone likes positive illusion and constantly runs from the fact that most people are really big "sinners" so to speak, and that a concerning amount are outright "evil" so to speak. It's just a common fact among women that men will assault you and a common fact among men that women will try to emotionally manipulate you like something out of hell.
Welcome to the real world, smoothskin.
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>>18543322
but there's also some statistic probability at play here. most people worth dating
>usually have a partner
>or are single and focusing on their own lives
>or have been married
anyone who's not doing one of these things is automatically in question. you're not going to find cream of the crop on OKCupid or whatever. you'll find them going to work, taking care of their kids, making art etc.
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How is prison like both female and male jails?
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>>18543296
I can't imagine why you'd need to know about both male and female prisons.
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I would know, I've experienced both
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I just want to know what's wrong with that
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I got sued for a review posted on glassdoor & an OSHA complaint. I removed the review after he threatened to sue me & my family. I thought this isn’t worth having my modest check reduced to min wage & bring a lawsuit down on my family. The judge ruled in favor of this man & accepted my counterclaim for the modest check that he refused to send me. I owe him more than the amount of my check. She said the statement “the owner nor the company is licensed in any trade” implies that he doesn’t have a business license. His business license was never a concern. I was worried about the steep hill employees had to scale just to use the bathroom, the fact that he works on hot water heaters, septic tanks, & mold remediation without the proper licenses/ certifications. When I offered letters from State board & the IICRC she dismissed it & said that it wouldn’t prove anything because a letter is not a witness. I was so confused & very disappointed in the judge’s decision. After all, I had proof that I didn’t damage his already not so great reputation & proof that he/ his company was not licensed/certified. I’m afraid I’m going to have to pay this man or appeal & risk losing more money trying to defend myself. I didn’t have the money to hand over to him right after the hearing so he threatened me again outside the courtroom & told that “I would see what he could do”. I think potential employees need to know what they are getting themselves into by working to this unlicensed, uncertified, unethical & immoral man/company. He’s using the judicial system to profit off $11/hr employees (former) & succeeding in silencing everyone who attempts to inform the public that he’s in fact not licensed/certified. State board can only look into this so much but there is little they can do if they don’t actually catch him in the act of performing services he’s not licensed to perform. Should I appeal, hope for the best & pray I get a better judge?
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Do you have a lawyer? Because this whole thing screams 'I'm defending myself and I have no idea what I'm doing or how the legal system works'
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>>18543225
I've emailed/called a few and I'm waiting to hear back from them. This just happened. The ones that I have spoken to don't even want to take my case because it wouldn't be enough money in it since it's not a corporation that's suing me.
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>>18543239
If it just happened, how has a judge already ruled in his favour...? You're not very coherent and I actually have very little idea of what's actually happened.
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Lost my Virginity to a prostitute, I'm fucking depressed
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I think I made one of the greatest mistakes of my life yesterday, Basically I got horny and tired of being a 20-something year old virgin with shitty social skills so i caved in and hit up craigslist to find a woman to bang.
Long story short, I ended up fucking a 40 year old milf who took her $120 and left without a trace. I actually felt proud of myself afterwards, but slowly the reality began to sink in that I just fucked some random married stranger because of temporary impulse and wasted a once in a lifetime oppurtunity that could've had with someone really special to me.
Don't get me wrong, the sex was great and i lasted a good 10 minutes and she fulfilled damn near every fetish i have. But the act was without genuine love and affection and wel, I just can't get over it.
I've even been having suicidal thoughts and hardcore depression, I don't know if i'm gonna make it through this. I don't wanna die, but I can't see the silverlining here.
I can't just see it as some random fuck that i should be grateful for and move on with my life, I'm just not wired like that. I just feel unbearably depressed.
The worst part about is that a very close friend of mine was trying to talk me out of it all week and i was too stubborn and horny to listen to him.
Anyone else know how this feels? I'm just real befuddled right now.
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>>18543186
Good, that's what the fuck you get instead of working for your meal.
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Lost it to a prostitute as well, but I was so glad for it. Felt like a burden was lifted off of my shoulders.
Fucked plenty of girls after. So in that sense, I'm very thankful for the experience because I wouldn't have been able to pull it off otherwise.
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>>18543186
Stop being such a melodramatic pussyfaggot
literally nothing has changed
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What to do after a breakup?How can you get over it?
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Do some crying and then go for a long walk and then watch a movie.
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>>18543210
Tell me some movies that I could watch
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>>18543242
Watch whatever genre you like.
I would suggest staying away from anything romantic.
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How do you know when you're depressed?
I'm having suicidal thoughts more regularly. I have no ambitions anymore and feel like I'm just floating along. I feel like my life has no direction and anything I could want is out of my reach because of who I am/my personality/my anxiety. I don't know how to fix this or if it's serious enough to see a mental health professional. I don't know if I'm "sad" or something serious is going on.
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I've also been having about 5 or 6 drinks a night, 7 days a week.
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Get a one week vacation from your work, go somewhere nice and don't use your phone or drink or smoke weed. Being sober the first few days will suck, and you'll probably get really emotional/suicidal, but at the end you should be able to think clear and begin to work on yourself. Working out consistently is your best bet. Probably 5 days, if you do an EOD full body routine you will just think it's ok to drink on your off days and fuck yourself hard getting plastered and taking too long to recover. Try testosterone too.
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>>18543141
I already work out consistently. Only goes so far.
I just took a job in which I'm making near six figures.
I'm just an empty, incredibly flawed person.
Am I still "practically a virgin" or at the very least sexually inexperienced if I'm a 23yo who has only had sex ~40-50 times? (not with 40 different women of course) Most people my age have had sex hundreds of times...
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>>18543031
Firstly, There is no such thing as "practically" a virgin. Secondly, why the fuck are you even concerned with how many times other people your age have had sex? Why does it matter if other people have had sex more times than you? What does that have to do with anything?
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>>18543031
find yourself some real problems, you stupid fuck
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I'd be more concerned that you've kept track of how many times you've had sex to be able to give a ballpark figure of 40-50.
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What's University like compared to High School?
I was always a slacker but Ive cleaned up my act since them. I'm 21 and I've gotten myself into a position where I can comfortably go back to school.
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>>18542958
its whatever you make of it for the most part. because of the way the schedules work its less classes, less time in class, but more time on homework. there isn't a NEED to be a part of the social hierarchy. some people use college simply for education. others engage a little. others a not at all.
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>>18542958
>its whatever you make of it for the most part
Basically this. You will need more discipline than high school and if you were a slacker in high school, you'll probably fall back into your own ways.
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>>18542984
You don't even know me, or the amount of effort I put into changing my habits. How can you possibly assume Id go back to my teenage mentality?
I'm a manlet(5'5) about to go on a date with a much taller woman(5'10). I know it's funny and all but we've seen each other at a party before texting and also when we were much younger. If she's interested enough to the point of wanting to go on a date with me should I make a remark about our height difference or should I just act as confident as I can? What can I do to not screw things up?
Pic related, she looks a lot like Hila
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>>18542939
If you talk about it, you come off as insecure. If you joke about it, ASSUMING SHE IS NOT SENSITIVE ABOUT HER HEIGHT, then that could show off your confidence.
>5'5 with a 5'10
I wish I was in your position
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I actually admire men who are able to pull taller women. There has to be something special about you.
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>>18542939
As a shorter dude (bout an inch on you) who's dated a number of women of all sizes (taller, shorter, significantly shorter/taller, bigger, smaller, same races, different races/cultures)
Most people don't give too much of a fuck.
Especially if they've already agreed to go out on a date with you (unless it's some online shit and you lied anyway).
Doesn't even need to be mentioned. Just don't be an insecure spaz.