Big dick problem + general dick advice thread...
So I've just had to buy this for my girl because my dick is too big for her and made her bleed about 10s after penetration. She's a virgin and I've only fucked around a little.
The dildo is 7inches and 4.75 around which is a little smaller than my 8×6" dick but its still pretty intimidating. Do any of you guys have any advice on how to work her up to being able to take me? She's even afraid of the dildo and I'm worried this is going to fuck it up for us if we can't fuck.
Having a big dick is not like what the movies told me...
throw virgins in the trash
they're awful
>>18541258
Bro, i have an 8 x 6 and its never been a problem. Thots these days are so worn out the can take cucumbers in there.
>>18541260
How? I have a problem everytime if I'm not really careful.
>chatting with qt
>turns out she lives near me
>we talk quite nicely but I'm a bit autistic
>says she has go to bed and will write the next day
>next day I write her, she says she's working
>say she can respond me when she's free
>doesn't write me again
What should I do now, did she lose interest or should I wait until she responds again?
I'm probably not the only one she's chatting with.
>>18541254
Either she's really working or she's avoiding you
been there my dude
in fact im there right now, talking to one guy for over a month every day, met up once, whenever he doesn't reply idk if he hates me
most likely she's just not free, but if there's another reason i wouldn't worry given she barely even knows u, and she's probably not worth it if she's that flakey and uncommunicative
sending happy feels :)))
>>18541330
>>18541333
but I mean it's just a message you can write in like one minute on a bus or so. It's okay if she's working, but why can't she write back in the evening or the next day.
Is veganism flawed? Recent post made by a family friend:
Arguably, the egg and dairy industry is worse than the meat industry. It is beyond me how people have and continue to contribute to the pain, suffering and murder of these sentient beings. Watch from 8:30min to see what happens ALL OVER THE WORLD to male chicks in the egg industry.
We are constantly being lied to, but the truth is starting to come out. You do not need to eat animal products to get the nutrients and sustainance that human beings need to live healthy lives and flourish. In fact, eggs are incredibly unhealthy for us. They are very high in cholesterol, the thing that leads to some of the most common, preventable diseases - heart disease, diabetes, stroke and high blood pressure.
There's no need to eat eggs, or any other animals products. Do it for the animals, for our health, for the environmental and for each other, GO VEGAN
There is no real flaws in the vegans arguement. It's your prerogative to not give a fuck about the suffering other living things go through to be put on your plate, but you can't argue it's not abhorrent or unecessarily cruel, or even useless to your nutrition. It is all of these things, demonstrably so.
>>18541253
Tell that to my hypoglycemia.
I eat alot of greens, but the protein is what i need and i want it to taste good. I don't purchase cheap shit either,
As tge real question, why are vegans so dumb? EVERYONE knows how cheap meat is produced, it's not a ground breaking discovery, we choose to eat meat for the benifits of our energy and muscle mass. as a man who works hard shifts in construction, i need high protein diets. And im not going to get that woth greens.
>>18541336
Don't have a lot of time, but:
First things first, people are different and bodies are different. I have a friend with IBS who literally cannot eat leafy greens without causing huge intestinal problems. Also people who are anemic will struggle with a vegan diet because it's much more difficult and taxing on the body to get iron from vegetable sources. Same with lots of other nutrients. You can get them, but your body can't process them as effectively.
Also, veganism isn't cruelty-free. Consider the way that harvesting machines kill animals in the fields. Consider the exploitative human labor, sometimes even child labor, that harvests the produce. Consider the fact that quinoa is produced and exported from South America to developed countries and the people who rely on this staple food receive less and less access to it. Consider the fact that some cultures and people absolute rely on meat to survive. Consider that some creatures such as deer are extensively overpopulated, which causes harm to hundreds of other species in the area due to overfeeding, and the entire ecosystem could really benefit from deer being hunted, since we removed the predators that would normally keep things in balance. Consider how well-meaning vegans boycott honey, which is contributing to the downfall of honeybees that provide 60% of produce, and absolute need humans to remove honey because they produce way too much and fill their hives so full that they run out of space for their babies. Consider the food deserts where fresh produce is difficult, prohibitively expensive, or even impossible to obtain.
If you want to go vegan, that's awesome. I fully support you. I absolutely agree that we should reduce cruelty wherever possible and reduce reliance on meat. But things aren't always black and white. There's a lot of gray, and what is a good choice for you will not be a good choice for everyone. Not everyone can go vegan.
I'm unable to take pictures of myself.
I'm a 23 y male, always had some kind of social awkwardness, lately after progressing in my job and clearing some mess in my life my confidence improved quite a lot.
I can have decent talks without spilling spaghettis, still I have troubles taking pictures of myself.
I just don't feel ok with that and I always do a dead-inside facial expression, unable to smile.
I have been on SSRI for 5 months now for depression, now in the process of tapering down.
This might seem a really small issue but actually in today's world you need to post your snout everywhere, corporate email, linkedin, facebook, hell why not even tinder.
All my propic are either blank or some random landscape.
I don't consider myself THAT hideous, what the fuck is wrong with me? Someone relates?
>>18541220
I feel you man, they made technology into a slcial thing now. And when you put your picture, it will never leave the face of the net again.
It's kind of weird, but I had to deal with it and take pics to get in some places like linkedin and driving for uber.
I mean, it's not a bad thing, but I know how you feel because I am the type that tries to save and use as much privacy I have, but these days privacy is just going away.
I got a new phone and am being careful with it a bit, but I am putting out personal emails, because my school email is literally my full name. One little spill/mistake, your identity is known. But hey, it was already known without you even thinking about it due to google.
Either we're getting old or something wanted this to happen. Mass control? Either way, if you have a good portfolio and go to meetups with the work you do, it's nice. I bet it will be normal and handy in the future though.
>>18541225
Appreciate that, anon.
The internet privacy, "botnet" and whatnot doesn't seem to be the biggest obstacle in my case, it's mostly the act of taking a picture itself.
>Either we're getting old or something wanted this to happen. Mass control?
It feels somewhat weird to me that the vast majority of western people post gigabytes a year of their face, and it has in fact became almost a daily need or anyway an habit.
>25 y/o developer
>Shit job, need a new one
>Everyone in this industry has a LinkedIn with a beaming photo of them in business casual and bullshit like "I'm an energetic, motivated person that enjoys rock climbing and also javascript on the side :D"
>All the self-promotional crap and 'networking' makes me cringe hardcore, but I want a better job
so ive had very few major panic attacks in my life (the ones where u think you're having a heart attack so call the ambulance) but every couple days especially when i used to smoke weed i would get a period of anything up to 3 hours of heart palpitations and obscenely paranoid thoughts which i think might also be panic attacks
that said, i've had really intense dreams over the last 6 months like mostly pretty ordinary things but incredibly vivid but getting more and more intense and the last couple weeks I've had multiple dreams where I have crazy dark panic attacks. Is this because I'm having them while i'm sleeping? or am i building up a phobia of panic attacks? or something else? thanks
>>18541153
Dude weed lmao is psychotic drug. It means that everytime you take another joint, you have a chance to trigger ANY mental illness like schyzo, depression and so on (if you have predisposibility for it) or worsen its condition.
Considering the fact that only biggest losers takes drugs and you already have history of
>panic attack
i would say you already have some mental problem and sooner or later the weed will turn your life into major disaster. Not to mention that a lot of companies do random drug tests and weed can stay like 1 week in your urine.
But i also know you wont listen to me and keep smoking your sanity away, so good luck!
Weed will destroy your ability to sleep, ability to make decisions and act on it, take away your resolutions and generally tirn you into that funny homeless dude who cant be arsed to take his pants off when peeing.
https://www.addictions.com/marijuana/
Good luck!
>>18541190
um thanks but
>used to smoke weed
implying i don't any more
thanks for the copypasta-worthy reply though
>>18541197
Well, the damage has been done already. Been to doctor and psycholog yet?
>sometimes it takes just one acid trip to turn your whole life around, weed is just weaker
So I went out with my chinese/asian friends. It was my friends bday and he brought a girl from hong kong to his bday who he liked.,. he took her out to play arcade games and decided to go to the club. Im black, and we had an autistic korean kid with us who was pulling as well. She decided to stay with us and was letting me grab up on her/ we got her number at the end of the night. Now I feel bad for my cuck chinese friend who was trying to find a real girl. :/ I threatened the korean guy who was trying to get with her. But seriously, I felt bad for my friend. :/ She rubbed her somewhat decent boobs on me, and gave the autistic kid her number. she was obviously drunk but man.... It felt bad
How should I/he approach this. ?
>>18541151
>I threatened the korean guy who was trying to get with her
why did u threaten him lmao pls refrain from chimping out in front of foreigners
>>18541151
You have to be 18+ to be here.
>>18541151
Why the fuck do you need to make this about race? Why does your BLM worshipping ass need to make EVERYTHING about race? What the fuck does it matter that your friends are Chinese or Korean or anything?
Alright, you want to make this about race? Let me speak to you on your level:
Why do all of the top quality black women like white men, while only the emotionally broken white girls with daddy issues like black men?
See, that's absolutely irrelevant to what you posted; but so is including your races in the OP. So, answer the question, nigger!
Issues & Advise thread.
Post your dilemmas seeking advise, others see if you can help anons out.
I have a totally treatable but terminal illness
cant get doctors to admit it or treat me so
guessI'lljustdie.jpg
Im just waiting to throw a clot into my heart/lungs/brain and die
my home life is miserable anyways with no prospects of escape or improvement
should I wait for a 'natural' death or just figure out a way to do it myself? is there a way to increase the chances of throwing a clot to hurry it up? if someone lives nearby would they be willing to assist in my death?
>>18541134
Maybe try going to different doctors? Why are they denying you treatment?
>>18541135
>being on medicaid affects how doctors treat you; the time they spend in a room with you is time they could spend on patients that will make them more money
>diagnosis creates a 'duty of care' that doctors are reluctant to engage in, because then I become a priority over more profitable patients
some say 'its in my head', some are just terrifyingly uneducated and don't understand medicine, some lie to my face about my blood test results (this is not in my head because I read the lab printout). Some tell me I'm 'too young' to be sick at 25
paperwork and referrals fall through the cracks about once a week and I have to chase people for days to get things back on track
I've scored an appointment with someone who seems good but can only have an appointment about every 40 days because their practice is so busy. Good specialists are much harder to get because so few accept medicaid
at this point I'm doing enough clerical work a week to qualify it as a full time job but with no pay, sometimes with nothing to show for it. weekends give me anxiety because offices are closed and I can't make any progress
I just want to speed it up at this point, don't know how to move blood clots faster though. Stroking out seems like a great chance for peace, and rest. I've already had a small stroke and would definitely be ok with doing it again.
So my brother is mentally ill. We both live with our parents but, this isn't so much the problem,
He brought home pic related.
We already have a dog, two cats and a bird,
This cat was found in the ghetto.
My brother wants to hoard animals.
Do I take it to the shelter or throw it back out on the streets?
I feel like if I take it to a shelter he'll fetch it out.
but its so fucking cute!!!
You live in henderson or vegas?
anyone who wants it can for free.
>>18541070
>hordeing animals
That's animal abuse.
I'm 22 and I feel old as fuck when I see these 18 yrs old kids, I wish I could be young again.
Are you fucking kidding me bro? 22? You're life is just starting. Hell you could fuck up your entire 20's and start all over again at 30.
>>18541061
Not Op, but I needed to read this, thx m8
>>18541041
Same here, I'm 24 and feel old as fuck. Being 30 is closer than being 18 right now. Everything left is to get a job and fucking die.
Why does time have to pass? Fuck me
I have a multitude of problems and its almost sad to say just listing them all out would be a text nightmare, so I thought that maybe I'll give subjects to talk about, I expect that conversations about some may last a while
>Life and it's worth
>Love life
>The Emptyness I feel
>My reoccurring problems (Insomnia as an example)
>Where to go with my life
>Suicidal thoughts and actions
>Feeling like I'm useless and wont ever help the world
>Feeling like despite wanting to and trying to help the world pushes me away
Idk if this will all make sense so one more time just ask about one of those topics and i'll talk about it for a while. then maybe go to the next idk
>>18541019
Why do you think that the world pushes you away? Mind giving some examples of that?
>>18541044
Well, even now and back then I like to help people. I'd give people assistance, work, food, money(not usually money but sometimes) advice or just anything they need at the time. But it would usually seem that despite this they push me away or never return the favor. They will talk behind my back ignore me or anything. It has been a common trend sadly with my friend groups
>Life and it's worth
>Love life
>The Emptyness I feel
>My reoccurring problems (Insomnia as an example)
>Where to go with my life
>Suicidal thoughts and actions
>Feeling like I'm useless and wont ever help the world
>Feeling like despite wanting to and trying to help the world pushes me away
Help the world however you see fit, be it music, art, charity, enlistment, so on. Life's only value is what you make of it so make the most of that time. This might help with your feeling of emptiness and lost direction. Help people in the way that they need to be helped in a way only you can. You don't need recognition or praise. You did what you felt was right and needed to be done.
So I've had a gf for about 2 years now. It has been going pretty well for the entire time. She basically worships the ground that I walk on. Within the last couple of years my sex drive has been through the roof.
About 2 weeks ago I fucked my ex, I was hung up on here for a very long time and I was to a certain extent right until I fucked her. We both made it clear that is was just sex. And I no longer have this underlying want of her.
Afterwards I really didn't feel guilty (wore a condom, didn't cum) mostly because it reassured myself that I 100% want to be with my gf.
I'm still in contact with my ex with talk on snap all the time but the thing is she still wants to fuck all the time and when I get horny I get completely retarted. Like I'm suppose to go over after work in a couple of hours and fuck her. I had no problem with it being a one time thing but I feel like if I do it again I'm going to do it a third time etc, etc. And that's where the problems come
What do you guys think? Am I a complete piece of shit or just kind of a piece of shit. Should I completely cut contact with my ex or is it possible to have sex on the dl and not have it affect anything?
Bump
Bump?
>Am I a complete piece of shit or just kind of a piece of shit
Definitely a complete one.
Tell your girlfriend, break up if she doesn't and find an outlet for your drive that doesn't hurt people caring about you.
> Be me, 23, F
> Into a guy from work.
> Head chef, 29, stern, kinda dickish but very smart, playful, and sensitive when it counts.
> One of the only bosses I've ever had that cares about his people. Tells employees to go take 5 regularly, genuinely helps make paths of improvement and promotion for those who show they deserve it. Sometimes even helps pay for training on company dime.
> Everyone loves him.
> One night, out drinking, he invites me over to his place.
> Drive there, idle chitchat.
> His house is kinda insane.
> Tells me about how he grew up poor, with nothing.
> Washed dishes for four years before someone would consider giving him his first cooking job.
> Saved forever to buy land, build his home.
> Place is covered in plants. Not haphazardly, but instead purposefully placed into fixtures built into the home, all sorts of plants from small fruits and veggies and herbs to carnivorous and decorative.
> Water features built into the home.
> Livingroom has massive aquarium built into the wall.
> We talk all night.
> Tells me how he did this so that if he ever had children, they wouldn't have nothing like he did, in poverty.
> Tells me about plans to plant a small orchard of fruit trees next year.
> Cooks for me.
> We talk all night. He never makes a move.
> Feel inadequate when I realize just how smart he is. I can barely keep up.
> Ask him how he's single.
> " I'm used to being alone. I always have been. People act like I'm awesome, but never enough to take time out of their day to be a friend."
> Thanks me for the company. Apparently few visit him.
> Lets me sleep in the spare room.
I'm completely baffled, and don't know how to proceed. I don't want to be too forward, but at the same time it feels as though he sees me as some asexual creature. Also afraid of damaging work relationship by being to direct.
Help?
>>18540860
I would say you should just do you and wait for him to make a move. He does like you.
>>18540896
If he does like me, he doesn't really show it. While his humor can be dark and sexual, never is it directed at me. His eyes don't wander, and so on.
None of the signs I've learned from other men are present.
>>18540860
Start staying at his place more often if he's cool with it (Not all the time, just every 3 weeks or so) sleep in your underwear (Make sure he knows) and leave the door ajar but stay under the blanket. He'll eventually enter your room one night. But if he doesn't, wait til hes asleep then get buck ass nude, enter his room, and wake him.
i am becoming concerned. over the past year or so i've become noticably emotionally numb. i figure if i can notice it, it's gotten really bad. is something wrong with me /adv/? pic unrelated (lol boobies)
>>18540810
Maybe you're just content/neutral.
I only cry once maybe every 5-6 years. The last time I cried i heard a classical piece that made me tear up a little, but I hadn't cried 5 years before that.
No that's not that that weird. Men in general don't cry very much, there's also strong social norms against it. You are probably, not a sociopath either, so don't worry about that.
>>18540835
this is gonna sound really "muh not the answer im looking for" but i am very much not enjoying my situation, though i probably should. similarly, i haven't properly laughed or had fun in a very long time. even after seeing a friend and having a noticibly better time than normal, i kinda stayed the same.
What should I do today?
>>18540809
Strip club
>>18540809
Binge ano Hana. Only 11 episodes. Worth your time
Something worth while.
Clean your room
My gf takes those 21 + 7 rest days birth control pills, and she missed the #20, can she get pregnant while she is on her period?
Could she, Yes.
Is it likely, no.
>>18540776
It's about as likely as you breaking an arm while having sex safely in a bed
>>18540788
>It's about as likely as you breaking an arm while having sex safely in a bed
lol lol lol lol