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Guys plz
I'm having a ffm threesome tomorrow. It's with my gf and our friend. Our friend is much more attractive than her. How do i not fall in love with the friend? She's moving in August.
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>>18543356
lust and love are different. Dont let your dick tell you what to feel.
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You should split up with your gf if you're more attractive than her and switch to her friend instead
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If you're risking it, you shouldn't be doing it, or maybe even not dating in the first place
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So i need some advice on what to do now or even if theres a name for what im going through
>grew up a really quiet kid
>didnt have a lot of friends
>for a couple of years in primary/elementary school had absolutely none
>grow up into average 4chan autist
>around 21 begin to come out of that
>lose my virginity, go out partying, make new friends
>now 23, realise I have a deep seated dislike of people probably from my childhood
>have a deep down well of autistic rage which explodes from time to time
>realise im probably a misogynist as im jealous of how women get accepted in society instead of me
>always have to pick the ocntrarion opinion because i want to disagree with society
>feel almost not human
Thats my best summary of my problem, sorry if it sounds scatter brained.
For what its worth, i dont think being a misogynist is a good thing and im not trying tobe edgy when i say i dislike people. Im not rude to people i just dont really relate to them.
Since i just realised this all in the last week, is there a crisis im going through or what? What do i do to fix myself?
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huh, I also just remembered i had a schizophrenia like period of two years where i thought people might be stopping time and torturing me during it and i went almost suicidal looking for evidence.
I guess that would explain why i feel different..
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>>18543156
I wish I could help sorry man.
I don't know try to find people who you can get along with and have similar interests and hang out????
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My gf -who is on the pill- was away working for 2 weeks. Shortly before she came back she called me and said she's worried that she's pregnant so she made me buy (edit: ok I offered to) tests when she got back.
She left the sunday. Last time we had sex was the saterday. Sperm lasts a max of 3-5 days in the uterus and a fertilized ovum takes 6-12 days to implant, but usually 7. Her (supposed) implementation bleeding started the Tuesday. Exactly 10 days since we've had sex. That would require the highly unlikely scenario where both conditions are maxed.
She's studied biology at a tertiary level so she is bound to know these facts better than I do.
Then the weekend she came back she started talking out of the blue about how she was glad I wasn't one of those bfs who got paranoid that my gf was cheating on him (I did not know there was a man their age where they were working, the students were 5 girls, the prof was only 3 years older).
So naturally this made me very paranoid leading to this thread.
She's been pretty loyal for the 7
months that we've been together and I've never had reason or wanted to suspect. The relationship is perfect except for this, never had a single fight. We spend most of our free time together.
Should I confront her? Am I over thinking it? Maybe I don't want to know?
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Do you even know for how many days she has been pregnant. She could have already been for a few days of course. Pregnancy doesn't even show up on tests straight after conception, takes a few days usually.
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>>18542929
We tested the tuesday after we came back.
Test was negative. Sorry forgot to mention.
It'a what she said that bothers with the timing of the first time she said she wanted to be tested.
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>>18542910
>Should I confront her?
Confront her with what? You have absolutely no evidence or reasonable suspicion to believe she's cheated on you other than some loose googled data about how a uterus works. You don't have a uterus. You aren't intimately familiar with her menstrual patterns or what her body normally feels like so I'm not sure where exactly you feel like you have a solid foundation to believe she is cheating on you.
I understand I'm playing devil's advocate pretty hard here but I have a difficult time understanding how any reasonable person would say to their girlfriend "Hey, so you've been very loyal to me and our relationship has been perfect but yesterday I googled "uterus" and now I think you're cheating"
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Something's off. We're dating for 4 years and I love him so much although I was never very sure he's the one I want to spend my life with. But recently I'm just thinking so much about leaving and being around him feels so weird and I'm stuck in this loop because how do you not feel weird around a person you low key want to leave? Sex feels super wrong, like I have a big sex drive but with him I just have to think about being somewhere far away... I love him, I care about him, I don't want to see him hurt but I also don't want to get physical or all cute with him. I know that if I leave I should let go of him and probably can't keep him as a friend.... Am I just overthinking it? Should I just surpress those feelings? Will they go away? Help me.... X(
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>>18542714
>ITT looking justification for cheating on your BF
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>>18542714
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence
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>>18542714
I can't say whether or not you should leave him. That is a decision you have to make on your own. What I can say is that suppressing these feelings isn't fair to you or him.
You need to sit down and tell him everything you just told us and put the ball in his court. Additionally, you need to decide if this is something you're willing to work on or if you're already tapped out of this relationship and just not ready to admit it. Whatever this issue is you need to discuss it with him and then decide together where to go from here.
Even if you end up leaving the relationship, after four years together you owe him an explanation. Don't forget that this is his relationship too. If you really don't want to see him hurt then be honest with him. It may be very painful for him to hear the truth but it will be infinitely less painful than dragging this on and letting him believe that his relationship of four years is still working when it actually isn't.
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I'm 21, girlfriend is 19. We live about 250 miles away from each other. 4 or so hour drive.
Met my girlfriend a couple months ago and we hit it off immediately. We're so perfect for each other its insane. I've never met a more perfect person for me. She respects me, supports me, is smart, hilarious, beautiful, the sex is amazing, and we can talk about ANYTHING. She lives with her parents and siblings. Last night a two in the morning we were facetiming. Out of nowhere I hear commotion and she does too. She goes to check it out and comes back with a really scared face and ends the call.
I freak the fuck out for a couple hours because at one point she buttdialed be I believe and I heard fighting and her saying that she's gonna call the cops.
A bit of back story about her most recent ex: She broke up with him 6 months ago and stopped talking to him 3-4 months ago because he would ask her family about her whereabouts.
Yeah so her ex barged into her house freaking out. Goes up to her room, fucking grabs her laptop and phone (she fell down the stairs and got pretty beat up in the process). Her father woke up and was like fighting the guy (she buttdialed me and I heard fucking everything it was fucking insane). At one point amid all this chaos he shows the parents the texts and they are disappointed at my girlfriend.
He then leaves.
I was supposed to meet her parents this week. Now I can't. We were supposed to meet up next week, can't again.
Honestly we're so right for each other and I love being with her. No matter how hard it is to see each other, we're still gonna be together.
Like am I too naive for thinking like i do above? I wanted to meet her parents so bad now this fucking asshole ruined it. Our relationship will be harder, but it'll only strengthen us.
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someone give me the ol' emotional support pls
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>>18542380
What has she been sending you that ruined meeting up with her parents? Something isn't adding up.
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I'm not sure I understand why her parents don't want to meet you anymore. What was in the texts that they saw?
Anyways, you and her are both adults, you can decide for yourself what to do. If both of you still want to be together, her parents cannot stop you.
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Femanons,
Let's say you get to build your bf/partner. You select the personality, profession, interests, body type etc and are left with the face. I know this is a nonsensical question but what kind of face do you prefer? I know there are 3b+ women on this planet and am asking this question but still.
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>>18542247
Is that nick bateman? His face is too intimidating for me for some reason. I would never feel comfortable around him.
I prefer someone like lachowski. He is really popular on some boards. In fact I think we have 1-2 threads up with his pic. I have a thing for pretty boys.
>Tfw no qtie patotie like pic related to cuddle with
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>>18542247
just watch the red pill vids by FACEandLMS man
they got this covered
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>>18542255
I know. I just wanted to know what women who go to a site like 4chan like.
>>18542252
Good choice. One of the best pretty boys on the planet.
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We are both virgins. How do I make sure she enjoys the first time very very much?
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Femanon here,
Check out orgasmictipsforgirls tumblr and see what tips women post there. My friends and I visit this tumblr regularly.There are a few videos too but I don't think a first timer man has the stamina for it.
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longer foreplay means happier bitch
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PRO-TIP: Don't just shove it in balls deep in one fast thrust.
Let her take you in slowly and continually adjust to you before inserting your penis further. It's sensual and it shows that you know how vaginas work.
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Is Non attachment a superior form of loving someone?
I don't mean emotionally distant or closed off, I mean not having your entire happiness dependent on one person, and being able to freely give and expect nothing in return.
Is this the ideal way to approach a romantic relationship?
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>>18541662
yes
remove "superior" though
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>>18541662
Romantic relationship is not ideal.
Ideal form of love is love without attachment like you described. Without expectation of returns. This love, since there is no attachment, extends towards all beings.
Romantic love is purely attachment love. Ideal romantic love is pure attachment love.
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>>18541662
Yep.
Sometimes it's tough but it hardens you.
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How much is too much pubic hair on a woman?
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And how turned-off by it is the average man? I really have no idea if my hair patterning is normal for a white girl since images on the internet always seem to be of extremes, but I feel like a I have more than normal. I don't like it, but shaving always results in irritated skin by the end of the day and ingrown hairs, and I don't really want a prickly pussy either. Things rub down there. Even if there's a way to cut down on the ingrown hairs, maintaining a dedicated pubic hair removal routine with daily upkeep sounds a lot more bothersome than keeping it and maybe giving it the occassional trim. Waxing is out of the question; I couldn't do it to myself and I'm not going to pay some bitter asian lady to torture my exposed vag. So I'm wondering if a girl with hair around her butt and on her inner thighs is generally seen as un-feminine and a slob?
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>>18540060
>So I'm wondering if a girl with hair around her butt and on her inner thighs is generally seen as un-feminine and a slob?
personally, I wouldn't care, but I'm afraid with porn being so common, most guys will expect you to shave or at least not be too hairy
it does look better to most, though there are people who prefer hair
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>>18540060
Buy a laser hair removal system from Amazon
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>>18540070
That's what I'm afraid of. Do you mean shave it all, or just the parts that fall out of the traditional pubic area i.e. butt and thigh?
>>18540071
Do those things actually work? I've always assumed that the affordable ones were a scam.
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Can females have autism? 2017-07-20 11:46:46 Post No.18539684
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I was diagnosed with autism at 5 back when diagnosis's for autism meant something in the late 90's.
I had all the male symptoms of moderate autism except i didn't have a retard voice but there was debate with another doctor that females cant get autism.
After i watched exploitative rap mum put on the tv about beating and fucking hoes i got gender dysphoria, hated females and wanted to grow a dick.
Everyone treated me like a dumbass about it so i grew out of it in my teens when female emotions kicked in and i got anxiety.
Because of my anxiety as an adult i had to go to a retarded program with all adult male autistic retards with retarded voices and a gay with YY chromosomes that also admitted to being a pedophile, everyone wanted me to be friends with him because me and him were the only "high functioning" ones in the group.
I then got held hostage by a bad person for more than a year and i made myself go so crazy i beat all my mental disorders and feel like a 4 year old a lot of the time because im still recovering.
After this around a year ago i noticed regular adult and teenager females were getting diagnosed for autism for normal behavior, all this talk about autism being different in girls and stuff when most of these people are just borderline narcissists stealing the movement from low functioning autistics and gasslighting anything about the low functioning autistics.
I found out Amanda Baggs was normal functioning and pretended to have autism later.
So was i autistic because i use to have the male symptoms as a kid?
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>>18539684
I am trying to understand what you mean about "male symptoms"
I am a behavior therapist for kids with autism and have worked with a variety of ages, sexes, and types of autism, and while there are more males, both boys and girls have similar groupings of symptoms. Of course there are different levels, types, clusters of symptoms, but gender means nothing. I've worked with aggressive autistic girls, nonverbal girls, pattern-thinking girls, aspergers syndrome girls with low emotional and physical responses and monotone voices, but much closer to typical than most.
When I was in college, they did say for a period within studying autism, doctors thought girls could not get autism, however this was debunked.
However, I have come across kids that were later misdiagnosed. Some having just speech delays, some having severe mental disorders that simply presented like autism when they were young, some were emotionally disturbed rather than autistic.
Have you ever wanted to try sorting it out with a doctor?
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>>18539684
Not sure what you mean about 'male symptoms' but my sister is definitely autistic. She walks in circles and lays on the floor/ground in public when she is over stimulated, has no grasp on social cues, stims with her hands and body, and acts very very young for her age.
do you only have anxiety?
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>>18539722
Im sick of you quacks.
Btw assburgers isnt autism
I drew this btw
Btw i saw a lady on youtube calling her selg autistic while waiting for a diagnosis. She thinks shes autistic because she has psychotic depression symptoms and her channels called "becomingautism"
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Hey /adv/,
Im meeting with a bdsm escort for the first time on saturday, so to those of you with experience I would ask a couple questions.
What is proper ettiquette with behavior, money exchange etc.?
How do I ensure that if this isnt a legit thing that I minimize my losses?
Also just general info on what to do and what to expect please.
Thanks
Escort is pic related
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>>18539664
>in contrast i may also be painfully cold and will not hesitate to use your mind and body as the canvas for my erotic torture!
>Understand i do not suffer disobedience or deception well, for those clients with scene experience i strongly suggest ,"NOT topping from the bottom" or our time together will not go as you expected.
>Make no mistake sexual services are not part of this experience. Any such request will be dealt with sternly!
how much is this bitch charging you?
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>>18540704
400 for 2 hours
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>>18540863
Is that a good price for no sex?
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You know the drill.
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>>18538274
K is that you?
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Got a yeast infection for the first time in my life and fucking christ this is shit. Having to shoot that little syringe of cream up my virgin snatch was painful as shit, and now 12 hours later I'm still leaking out cream jizz all over my pants. When the fuck is this shit gonna work it's way out? and I gotta do this for another 2 goddamn nights?
Fucking hell I hate being a woman.
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I've been suffering from a case of one-itis. I've only ever experienced it once but it was over pretty quickly since she flat out rejected me, but this time its been lasting almost a year now. I may see her again when the new semester starts so I can ask for her number then, but in the process my tastes in things have been shifting towards people like her. For example, I've been developing a blonde fetish and went from liking more energetic girls to stoic girls. I even had a dream last night involving me finding out she's dating another guy already because I was too much of a pussy to ask for her number when I had class with her and I was absolutely devastated.
This could end really badly or really well, but honestly I'm kind of enjoying the ride. I normally don't feel such strong emotions for other people.
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Potentially Paying for Another Persons Electricity 2017-07-20 03:35:21 Post No.18538460
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Potentially Paying for Another Persons Electricity
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My electrical bill has been, what I felt was, unjustifiably high since unmoved into my new apartment. I work a lot more and I'm almost never home. Compared to my last apartment the current apartments electric bill is more so I know something is up. Just to be sure I found out what my two different neighbors are paying and while one is unemployed and leaves all his lights, TV, PC, and AC on all day everyday and the other has his AC on all day and watches TV, plays video games, and shares his double apartment with his GF. We are all in range of one another and somehow I'm not the lowest. Last billing cycle I was gone for 2 weeks on vacation and as a test I unplugged everything in my apartment with the exception of the fridge and my bill was higher by only a few bucks but it was higher. I searched around and two of my switches that were not functional I turned to the off position and got a call from the Landlord saying to turn my one switch back on it runs the lights in the community laundry room. I didn't jump to conclusions and assume I was paying for everyone else to do their laundry, so I contacted the local borough and they said they can't do anything but the landlord could contact an electrician and get it looked at because of the old age of the buildings it's is very possible. Contacted my landlord and he said he's "sure" I'm not paying for it and I'm not paying for the switch in my apartment. I explained about the electrical bill and he just danced around the point and dismissed it saying he wouldn't hire an electrician to look at it. Any suggestions? Should I contact an electrician myself? Is there a way to check if I'm paying for other people's electricity without an electrician?
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>>18538460
What is the terminology here, electrically cucked?
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I'm sure you're paying at least in part someone else electricity.
>moved into college apartment
>us on 1st floor + other girls second floor + basement
>electricity was a bit high
>first time bill owner so didnt know if something wrong
>one day my roommate forgot to pay bill by a day
>no worries they would restore power in a few hours
>girls text us saying washer isnt working
>power is restored
>go check washer
>it works
>ask girls directly how much they pay
>roughly $80
>ours was $150
>we were paying for washing room + exterior lights
definitely check into that. It will cost a lot of money if you dont.
Pretty sure this falls on your landlord but if he refuses seek 3rd party help.
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>>18538460
Do you pay this utility yourself, or do you pay your landlord?
I find it weird that a switch in YOUR apartment controls a shared space.
Idk the legality on if an electrician can come to a property you don't technically own, since they might have to get into the walls or something to properly diagnose the issue.
I'd keep badgering your landlord on it until they take action, or threaten to move.
My gf says this to me, we don't text super often but when we hang out it's pretty cool. Is this good/bad? I don't really know. I get the whole "you're really kind" thing a lot
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>>18543759
Bump
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>>18543759
Some people just don't like texting
Be glad you're with a girl who isn't staring at her phone 24/7 in that case
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>>18543793
I'm just worried it's her way of saying I'm too much.
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Do you really need a girlfriend in high school 2017-07-22 04:03:55 Post No.18543716
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Do you really need a girlfriend in high school
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People in my year shit on me for not having a girlfriend yet. Call me gay and shit, but like do I really need one. Like I don't have anything in my heart that wants to be with someone. Is a girlfriend all that great, do people use that as like a status symbol in school ? Should I try to get one? If not how do I tell them to stop.
>I'm a quiet guy
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You don't need one if you don't feel like you need or want one.
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>>18543716
Where are you from? Also, don't think you need one. I had a few only because I wanted to fuck around so i wouldn't call it dating.
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>>18543716
no. also status in high school doesn't matter after it's over, nobody in the real world really gives a shit.