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I need serious advice 2017-07-22 10:57:19 Post No.18546088
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I'm currently 20 and have no direction in life. For the past year I've been free loading off my buddy and my girlfriend. I feel like I'm running out of time and I need to get my shit together. I'm not lazy I work and am always looking for opportunities under the table. the problem with what I do is it's not consistent. I struggle with mild seasonal depression, anxiety/fear and ADHD. (No im not retarded) And these things tend to hold me back in life as I'm sure they do for others. I'm getting medication soon and kick my ass everyday mentally but when it comes to taking the first step I'm lost. Or when I start I get distracted easily. Any advice would help.
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>>18546088
When are you getting on medication? That's an important step especially with ADHD. It will help your distraction and lack of consistency.
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I have a appointment next week. The main thing I'm worried about is being prescribed shit that makes things worse or that don't help at all.
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>>18546088
What type of ADHD do you have OP?
I was given medication for it. Vyvanse seemed to help me out a lot with what you said you had. Helped me to focus, and as a side effect made me more out going socially. As for the depression, and anxiety; you might want to speak with a psychiatrists.
Another note I stumbled upon another type of ADHD that has similar symptoms you speak of. Found out I had suffered from this, and was misdiagnosed. ADHD SCT (Slow Cognitive Temp)
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How to tackle first date? 2017-07-22 10:42:53 Post No.18546052
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How to tackle first date?
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2017-07-22 10:42:53
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Yo guys so I scored a date with this cute girl I've been talking to, and she wants to grab drinks Monday night after work. Problem is, I've never actually gone out JUST for drinks before, I'm not sure how it works. Do you just order a drink and go sit at a table, even though you dont get any food? Or...what? I've had drinks before in shitty run down bars, but never took a girl to a nice tavern
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No fucking clue.
If it were me, I would bank on that "Haha, it's my first time doing drinks, how does this normally work?" Cute, charming, a little goofy.
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>>18546063
No man dont do this
Just like you said, you sit at a table/whatwver and you order some drinks
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>>18546069
Fuck what do I do after the drinks? Try to get her to my place? Invite myself to her place? End the night?
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Feeling Insecure about my body 2017-07-22 10:18:21 Post No.18545957
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Feeling Insecure about my body
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19yo, since I've got into puberty I've got this chest and stomach hair that makes me feel so uncomfortable so I avoid taking my shirt in front of people and going to pools, etc. How bad is it?
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it's pretty ugly. shave it and start hitting the gym
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>>18545957
Not bad at all, makes you look older.
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Another pic.
Why do such disgusting emotions always come out during breakups? Why can't people handle these events like adults? Why can't they appreciate the good times put their chin up and say goodbye? It's just gross
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How did you break her heart?
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>>18545883
Why are you texting her?
Just leave it be dude
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>>18545892
She broke up with me 5 months before this. She wanted to get back together "later" I got tired of waiting.
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Don't like black women 2017-07-22 10:00:20 Post No.18545877
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I am a black male and I do not prefer black women. I was trying to... adjust that I guess. Also, I am saying that I do not like DATING black women. Being friends with or being related to them is fine. Dating however.. really puts me off.
I am bothered by dating black women because I don't feel attraction unless they are a very specific kind of black woman basically. and I hate to admit this but if they are "red bone" then I am usually fine with it.
However, I often see these hideous orchish looking black women with like 9 kids and obese asses and its just horrific. I am not saying all black women look like this but it is the majority that I see. Get on a dating website like okcupid and you will see. Search ONLY for black women and you will see how only like 1 outta 10 are average looking. Whereas if you search white, asian, or hispanic, you see many more average looking women.
Anyway, my question is simple.. How can I appreciate black women more I guess? I just don't like swearing off an entire race of woman to date but I just don't feel that attraction to them. Am I weird or fucked up?
People say shit like "You should date a black woman to raise kids proper with." but why would I force myself into that? Dating a black woman to me is a nightmare that hasn't happened yet and I feel like it might?
Can anyone offer any insight? Like I said before, its mostly just darker skinned black women I don't prefer to date. Lighter skinned ones are fine by me which I know is fucked up but I can't get accurate advice if I don't say the truth about how I feel I guess.
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Why force yourself to like something you don't ffs??? Just for being politically correct???
I dislike black women, period. Call me a racist, that's not going to make a boner magically appear anyway
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>>18545884
I guess you are right. I honestly prefer latinas anyway. I guess I am just hung up about it because when you dig deep down, it probably is kinda fucked up to swear off a race of women? I guess?
Who knows. Dicks have brains too. I guess that is what matters in addition to what skull brain wants.
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Just walk away. Constantly denouncing black women with posts and vocal rants does nothing but make them angrier. The few light skinned black girls who are attractive latch themselves on to white men anyways so you can write them off too.
Just don't acknowledge them. Don't date them, don't fuck them. In day to day interactions, just smile, nod, walk away, and go fuck a white/Indian/Asian/Latina/Arab/Samoan woman.
If you are trying to escape something (the reach and attitude of black women) why keep calling out attention to it instead of just moving on?
I dislike people raping puppies. Do i tell myself and everyone around me that puppy rapers are evil and I'll never date a puppy raper, or do I just dismiss the subject and not think about it altogether? You should do that with black women and be invisible. This is the only option that will get you want you want out of life.
Im 18, my IQ is 120, I find myself distant from those around me and consider most people uninteresting and unfulfilling to have conversation with.
I've never had the patience to do anything that had a steep learning curve or didn't produce immediately impressive results when I put effort into it. From a young age I wanted to get into coding but never had the patience to for the reasons stated above. I'm now studying music production at university and am enjoying it. Despite spending all day surrounded by idiots and having to work on Crapple products I do enjoy my course, the software and the ability to manipulate audio in ridiculous ways intrigues me...
But I find myself feeling unfulfilled and want something more from life.
Would I have been happier if I got into coding and chose to follow that dream?
Could I do it now?
Is it too late?
Am I destined to be unhappy?
Everyone always tells me they expect great things from me, parents, teachers, friends, even random people who've been to my gigs... but I don't know what they're waiting for?
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>>18545855
Audio is cool, and I prob know more than you about audio, having worked in someone else's commercial studio for 8 years.
And prob older than you too.
My advice. Treat music as a hobby, BUT fund that with high salary.
Study to be a GP, work part time, and invest that salary into music and audio.
As a GP, no one will fuck with you, just refer risk cases to specialist. Done.
PS. Most "people" are only serving themselves, or bad liars.
Honesty is more rare than intelligence.
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>>18545855
>coding
go away
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Mentioning your IQ immediately drops your IQ by 30 points
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Femanon here, 24
Brain 1:
>wants to fuck, masturbates, has sexual desire, etc...
>its filtry, teases, feel confident
>team "do what the fuck u want with your body and be happy"
Brain 2:
>Can't stand intimacy
>Afraid of regret
>Really don't like anybody that much
Horny and frustrated, how do I solve this? How I pass the frontier of getting intimate with somebody again?
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>>18545846
Stop pretending to have two brains and get fucking real.
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>>18545846
Get pregnant and become a baby mama
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>>18545846
gonna have to elaborate more on the brain 2 things. why cant you stand intimacy/what about it turns you away? why do you fear regret and what will you have to regret?
for the last point, im gonna assume that because youre on 4chan you arent 100% a normie. find other people you like, its really that simple. i played football in highschool and dated plenty of normie girls but didnt like them that much. had much better relationships with other secret nerds such as myself
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Am I cynical for putting my feelings first?
>Me and girl talking for months
>Really like her and open up with her like no other
>July the 4th comes around and after weeks of being on shaky terms she finally breaks up with me
>Says she doesn't care about me anymore and that we should go our separate ways
>Also she had been talking to another guy behind my back and said he was right about me
>Really hurt by this, but realize this is nothing uncommon and I have to keep moving
>Days pass and she finally unblocks me and hits me up
>Says she is sorry and I forgive her but still try to maintain a good distance
>The next day a friend of hers dies and she hits me up saying i'm the only one she wanted to talk to
>I talk to her and give her kind words in her tough time
>Ever since then she's been hitting me up constantly while also being with the guy she left me for
>I log on my social media pages and see she's showing him so much love and also see some stupid shit she said about me after our breakup and before the initial apology
>All of this really pisses me off and the whole time trying to set aside my pride in favor of supporting her
I really really despise what is going on. I don't like seeing her with another man and I really want to just leave her alone all together. But I have a kind heart and I don't want to be cynical, I know she's hurting, but i'm also hurting seeing her with another guy. It doesn't feel right to me......
What should I do?
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Why would you ever talk to her after she broke up with you in that way? Have some self-respect.
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>>18545791
Tell her that she should be talking to her boyfriend about this stuff instead of you.
Then delete her number.
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>Says she is sorry and I forgive her
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We went out a couple of times and made out, but after that she happened to be busy on the two ocassions I asked her out again. Our last text convo was
>Me: hey are you down for some drinks this evening?
>Her: aw I have to work today"
>Me: yipes
>Her: emoji in tears
>Me: broken heart emoji
We haven't talked since.
Today I changed my Facebook profile pic and she liked it. What's on her mind?
Inb4 yeah I know I must stay silent with her in any case.
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You're a little bitch OP
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She liked your pic. Not that bad. Ask her a way she cant answer like women would like to.
:are you down for ___ in the next couple of days?( or someting along those lines)
If she is longer busy than she is supposed to, you know what is up.
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>>18545790
my opinion is that she is not interested. She may have liked your facebook photo, but some people like every fucking thing that comes up in their feed. Maybe she thought it was a good change. It doesn't change the fact that she didn't offer any kind of counter proposal to yours... Which she would have done if she was interested. Don't read too much into making out with you; people make out like shaking hands these days.
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How do I stop being a "nice guy" and repulsing women as a result?
Example from today:
>move into a room in a new apartment
>three Korean qts living here
>I get home from running and pass them
>take a shower
>they knock my door
>I go out and they hand me some cheese as a gift
>I stand with them talking
>ask them questions about Korea, about learning English etc
>within 5 minutes one of them laughs awkwardly and says "okaaaay....have a good evening"
>obviously she senses the awkwardness
>ends on an awkward note with me thanking them for the cheese and them saying "have a nice evening!" in a real patronizing way
Now I don't intend to have sex or anything like that with any of them, but I just know they think I'm some "nice", awkward guy who is draining to be around.
Yet I don't feel the same instincts I did as a teen to be "wacky" and entertain them by being super energetic or acting false. Nor do I have it in me to be stone-faced and "mysterious" and act overly forward and tease them by touching them etc.
I know for a face that certain guys, including guys I once knew, would have these girls, or one of them at least, falling for them etc. Yet already I have smiled too much, acted too harmless, and been categorized as a person to be avoided.
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>questions about Korea, about learning English
Based on this I can imagine what happened in this conversation... you're not a nice guy, you're an autist
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If you don't have intentions toward any of them, get over yourself.
Don't use courtesy as a negotiation tool for interpersonal relationships. In general, women respond to consistently polite guys, not "nice" guys who are just nice for their attention.
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Cheese? Why would they give you cheese? Who the hell gives cheese?!
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>talk to lady who comes into my work
>says she likes me, adds me on facebook
>im 21 shes 34
>shes a 4/10 for me at best
>has two kids
>but i am desperate as fuck for sex
if she just wants to have sex im cool with it, but i've been dropping hints in messages and it seems she wants to get a coffee and get to know me better. she has a nice ass at least but should i go on a date with a lady way older than me if im not really attracted to her and kind of just want to have sex? how can i tell what she wants? if shes expecting me to be her boyfriend then theres no way
i've been messaging her a lot so i basically need to ask her out to get some coffee now but im really apprehensive. what do you guys think? any advice?
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fuck i just asked her if she wants to meet for coffee and she says she wants to bring her kids
this is fucked who does this bitch think i am
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>>18545778
Her new husband
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>>18545761
Never date anyone with kids. They're the ultimate form of baggage.
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Ever since I found my friend dead in her restroom I can hardly get threw any horror movie
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Yes what ?
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>>18545760
That's horrible. Have you come to accept her death as an outcome of life? What anchors you to that moment?
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Yes.
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So i started to this girl that I knew radomly after like 4 years without talking, she used to have a huge crush on me. She was really immature and stalkish (we were 13 then, now 17), but she has always been a 9/10. I tried talking to hear back then but I just found her too annoying at the time. I started talking to hear again bc I was bored. The conv started out nicely and we texted basically the whole day. Next day I don't talk much to her, but I tell her that i'm gonna call her at night... We ended up talking from 11pm to 6am and at like 5am she started to fish for comoliments and I resisted, but gave in and started comolimenting her, she gliggled and seemed to enjoy it. I ended te conversation saying "we need to sleep" and she said "Hell yeah sounds like an awesome idea" i laughed and we said our goodbyes and went to sleep.
So next day she totally ignores me and the next day said that she doesn't use her phone much. (I'm pretty sure it's true bc she wasn't online ln anything for the whole day) abd we haven't been talking much ever since.
What do? It's been 4 days since we talked for the whole night
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OP here, my bad for typos i'm on mobile.
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>>18545745
Either call her out on it or drop her hot/cold trifling ass
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Invite her on a date.
Anything else is showing her that YOU are not interested.
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I'm not sure if this is the place to ask but I'm interested in starting a web comic and I came up with a good name for it, but I'm worried about it being copy righted, what can I do? If there's a comic it there called "webcomic" and it was copyrighted, could I just call it Web Comic with a space in between or like Web-Comic? These are just examples as I don't want to give away the real name idea that I have
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misconception there mate, you cannot 'copyright' a title. you can trademark it, but i highly doubt any other webcomic is going to trademark their name.
trademarks can also be rejected for instance sci-fi channel really wanted to trademark the name 'scifi' so that people would stop confusing movies listed under that genre with their actual productions.
unfortunately for scifi, that did not fly. because scifi had already been an established genre it was impossible for them to get that. so they had to rebrand as 'syfy' to get a unique enough name.
so seeing as webcomics are an entire medium no one can copyright or trademark it. they can sue for other similarities, so as long as your webcomic isn't too closely resembling the other webcomic, its fine.
all in all, its webcomics, so i wouldnt worry about it, just focus on making it.
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>>18545728
Okay cool, thank you very much! I was thinking I if I did ever run into trouble with it, I could just name it "My first and last name's: Web-Comic" kind of like how all of Telltale's games are "Telltale's: walking dead" or whatever
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>>18545762
well thats not a copyright thing they do, they bought the rights to make walking dead games.
but yeah thats the big thing about it being an existing medium is you coudl at the very least change it to that because they cant copyright the name of the medium.
good luck
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How can you tell if a girl likes you without speaking to her?
I got some looks from this girl, and I have a hard time decoding it.
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>>18545665
You don't, looks alone are not enough to determine whether she likes you or not.
What are your other interactions like?
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>>18545665
Show get your pecker
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really can't tell from that case
some girls are good at hiding who they like