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Getting married in a year. Fiance and I are both Catholic. I don't go to church anymore or really believe in anything anymore outside of a basic Deism, but she's an active church goer and believer. However, we've been having sex since early on in our relationship (2 years now). We did the pre-marriage counseling class (pre-cana) where one part is them explaining why it is important for couple to wait until marriage. I don't buy it, but my fiance said she isn't sure if she wants to continue having sex until we're married.
So wat do? I'm not doing anything retarded like breaking it off for something ultimately irrelevant, but it kind of irritates me. Not having sex will suck, but it's more the fact that she wants to change the nature of our relationship. And some part of me wants to be vindictive and deny her something in return. I know that's probably wrong but I can't help feeling that way.
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>>18543613
Id talk about it with her, if it's really a big concern to you she might budge, good luck op
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>>18543613
I'd have a long discussion about it with her, and ask her why it's that important to her... and why it wasn't before, or why the act of sharing sex wasn't important.
Religion screws up everything, though; it tends to just be an overlay on life, but people accept it as a part of life which makes it impossible to separate from objectively.
It sounds like a minefield. You might be (left un)fucked.
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>>18543626
Kek. Oh well, I still have hundreds of nudes I took of her that I can fap to.
I'm talking with her about it. She's still unsure about it. I explained to her how I feel and she said she agrees, but there's still something she can't quite explain that puts her on the fence. Probably because she still follows the church, which I get.
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just get married already and fuck!
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>>18543702
Well the wedding is planned for a year out already. We need that much time to get things together too
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Uhhh if she wants to wait until marriage why not? Like if you love someone how can it be a big deal? Me and my husband waited until marriage. I don't get it.
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>>18543613
Waiting until marriage makes no fucking sense if the both of you aren't virgins.
It's a pretty big deal that she'd be willing to completely upend sex just like that.
I could understand people turning to religion in difficult times but the focus on stupid moral codes is so retarded. Read your gf this
> Timothy 2:12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet.
and ask her again if every rule in the bible is worth following.
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