Lost my Virginity to a prostitute, I'm fucking depressed

>>18543186
Good, that's what the fuck you get instead of working for your meal.

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Lost it to a prostitute as well, but I was so glad for it. Felt like a burden was lifted off of my shoulders.

Fucked plenty of girls after. So in that sense, I'm very thankful for the experience because I wouldn't have been able to pull it off otherwise.

>>18543186
Stop being such a melodramatic pussyfaggot
literally nothing has changed

>>18543193

>Fucked plenty of girls after.
I don't get this. If you've had sex with plenty of girls after, why did you need a prostitute in the first place?

>>18543217

Because it boost your sexual confidence. But it's really fucked up my confidence now. I'm not sure if i even want to fuck another girl ever again. 2 weeks ago, I was horny virgin jerking off to girls in my dorm through my window.

My mom would never forgive me if i told her about this.

>>18543217
Pretty much a confidence placebo.

>>18543186
>wasted a once in a lifetime oppurtunity that could've had with someone really special to me.
Don't worry op, no woman would have wanted to have a "special moment" with a 20+ virgin. You had lost that chance years ago.

fuck you guys, I understand 4chan is the place to be edgy pseudo-tough assholes but come on! I need friend.

I'm fucking traumatized.

>>18543186
I've been debating fucking a club slut as my first time?

How worth it was it?

>>18543262
You're really fucking pathetic op, but not because you fucked a prostitute.

Get over it.

>>18543227
>>18543235

I never understood how that is a confidence placebo.

>be virgin
>pay $150 to sleep with some druggie in a hotel room for an hour
>suddenly leave having the confidence to form an intimate relationship with a woman

Is there a step or a mentality in there I am missing?

>>18543266

Are you a sentimental pussy like me that values romantic intimacy and love?

If yes, Then don't fucking do it.

>>18543273

How the fuck am i gonna get over it?

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I lost my virginity at 17yo with someone I loved, and it's definetly a nice thing to know, but then again when I was 15yo me and a friend wanted to call a prostitute for did 20 mins for 30€, until one of us stepped out and was like "dude we're 15", I don't feel like it's something I wouldn't be able to overcome had I gone through with it, I think it would make me tougher in my own eyes

>>18543186
Virginity is a meme. Stop moping and give me the prostitute if you're just going to cry about it.

>>18543331
fuck this, i'm going to reddit.

>>18543301
Thats why its a placebo. You think it does something when in reality it does nothing but you thinking it did something has a positive effect.

>>18543337
Lol, don't come back

>>18543186

Virginity and your first time aren't something you should place too much value on. For most people it's very awkward and sex only really becomes rewarding after you practice and learn what you need to know about your partner.

When my girlfriend and I first tried to have sex it ended up a little disastrous. She was more experienced than I was, so I felt intimidated and couldn't get it up. I knew she had a previous boyfriend and that was enough to put me off.

It was relationship straining that after 3 months of getting along like a house of fire, I was suddenly unable to do the deed.

Having watched a lot of porn though, I tried some other things I'd seen that I could do for her. Eventually I got up so we gave it a try, turns out I'm quite a bit bigger than her last partner and I ended up hurting her which immediately put a stop to the whole thing.

My point is, as long as the woman you slept with isn't diseased you probably did the right thing. Sometimes what you need is someone who you aren't emotionally connected to to show you the ropes. When you actually have your first time with someone you find special, wouldn't you rather that you can both enjoy it and really indulge in it rather than mess around awkwardly and ruin it?

Incase, you're interested it only took 2 months of sex from that point for my partner to go from saying "you aren't the best at sex" in a disappointed tone to saying "You're amazing at sex and it's awesome!" and actually want to go again and again. So make sure you put in the effort to learn what pleases your partner, it'll pay off.

If it makes you feel any better, I lost my virginity to a girl I liked very much, and that didn't feel like much of anything, either.

Turns out virginity doesn't really mean jack.

What's stopping you from having sex with someone you care next?

Ffs stop being a little bitch

>>18543186

I fucked my first on a pile of laundry while I waited for my dishwasher to finish the first cycle of the day so I could rally my roommates to wash dishes; this girl was responsible for giving my best friend a handjob (a conflict I had since resolved by the time of the lay).

Look, the first time being magical is a hentai thing. Even hollywood has gotten the fuck over it, it's just... sex. It's as sweaty, exploratory and carnally based then, at your first time as it is likely to be at your last time (whether or not you still derive the same meanings or pleasures from it notwithstanding).

In all honesty, you probably weren't going to stay with your first. Do you really want to bring a heartwarming tale of how you railed some other chick's virgin pussy in some consummation of Disney-esque love by the time you end up with someone who's just as tired of life fucking them around as you are?

The grass is always greener. If I could've paid my way, I would have saved a fuck ton of money, heartache and being lied to by some cunt I'd still like to give one good raw, ragefuck and creampie while I yank her hair and make her scream for me.

You probably don't want that. What you have is instead the 'laminated version,' you paid for sex and got sex, the product instead of sex, the act. Oh well. You're 20something, you've got like twenty good years left. I know 'the first time' sounds nice on paper, but honestly this chick was a massage student who turned tricks for fun AFAIK-- it's not like I had some heartwarming exchange. We rolled off my bed making out, she said, "Do you wanna lose your virginity?" and I did. I wrapped it, tapped it and it was over in minutes (probably less).

In fact, you could collect all of 4chan's users and probably have a minuscule representation of 'that' first time.

Don't romanticize things all willy-nilly like that.

>>18543188
Ha! Gaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy

Call that same prostitute over and have her fuck you in the ass with a strap on. Its the only way for you to reverse losing your virginity so you can give it to that imaginary girl you'll never meet instead.

>>18543186
I lost my virginity to an escort and it was fantastic. Now I'm not nearly as worried about sex as I used to be. If anything, I'm much more confident when it comes to women. It's really all in how you look at it. I'm sorry you're having such a bad time after what should have been a fantastic experience.

Sex, like most things in life, is something you learn how to do better and what you want out of it with experience and time. When I was in my teens I'd bang anything that would have me, but now I probably wouldn't have sex with a girl unless we were mutually very into each other. The best sex I've ever had is with women who are just as crazy for me as I am about them. I learned this from sleeping with girls who were simply horny, but barely knew me and I barely knew them. It was unsatisfying, but instead of regretting it, I learned from it.

lost to a prostitute too. i sort of wanted to lose to someone special too, but im 5'6", never gonna happen, so fuck it