I'm on new anti-axiety medication to treat my nightmares and flashbacks. I'm also hoping it treats my social axiety, but that's not the issue.
I can't cum.
Seriously. I'll stay hard as a fucking rock for hours, but I just can't cum. No matter what.
As you can guess, my girlfriend is enjoying this, but I'm at a loss for words. My current record is staying at max-hardness for a full 3 hours before I just gave up.
What do I do?
>>18543546
I'm a femanon, but I had that exact same problem when I was on Celexa. You're probably on an SSRI. Those things change your seratonin levels, and seratonin is also linked with sex. I don't have any advice for you anon other than talk to your doctor about it and try a different medication. I stopped taking the meds all together myself, but that probably isn't the wisest call for you.
>>18543546
It will go away after a few months.
>>18543565
I'm pretty much non-functional off of medication. I'll wake up every hour at night with a diffrent one of my 5 recurring nightmares, I'll start to sleepwalk at around day 3, and then the actual flashbacks to really fucked up shit start to happen. Before I was medicated, lightheadedness, vertigo, and even fainting happened during flashbacks.
It sucks because I have no triggers. Shit just happens randomly.
So, yeah. Medication is needed.
>>18543572
Do you know if you are on an SSRI? If you are you might want to read this article. There are other medications to treat anxiety, but SSRIs are commonly perscribed because they have milder side-effects than the alternatives.
http://www.mdedge.com/currentpsychiatry/article/64123/depression/how-do-ssris-cause-sexual-dysfunction
You could also do what this anon suggested >>18543571 and try to wait it out. From personal experience I can't say if it does go away since I never took my medication for very long.
>>18543546
SSRI's are shit and blood pressure medication is bad for you. There's no reason to take that unless you need to. Nobody needs to take an SSRI, despite what the pharmaceutical companies told the insurance companies told the doctors to tell you.
But you keep enjoying not cumming. Why listen to me? I'm just a crazy guy on 4chan. We shouldn't even be on this site, oh, it's bad for our mental health.
>>18543565
Can confirm. I'm on 20mg Celexa and the first 1-2 months was extremely difficult to come, it was possible though.
I had decreased libido too, i didnt enjoy it mostly. After the 1-2 months it went back to normal, even my libido.