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>>18539352
thanks

>>18539351
rapists, homophobes, and homophobic rapists

no seriously. Homophobes are so in denial of their sexuality they'll "ironically" rape gay guys


haha that'll show em, right??

>>18539261

the reason there arent any resources for that is because it simply doesn't exist. america does not welcome workers without a specific need. if you applied for a work visa they'd only allow you to work in your field. a problem a LOT of the actors have here is they cannot support themselves with a regular job because they are foreign, they are only legally allowed to accept acting jobs and it kinda fucks em over cuz it takes a long time to secure that if ever.

the best thing you can do is greencard marriage. I've considered offering my self for it on numerous occasions, both romantic and platonic, but unfortunately im not in a great place to make that kind of offer anymore as my income is based 50% on renting out my spare room in hollywood and having a husband sudden;y move in would fuck that up unless he wanted to take that spare room him self but its 1100 usd a month

>>18539315
I see what you mean. I'm glad you understand the struggle. Even visas for the arts aren't encompassing enough for all artistic professions. You almost need to be part of some production currently being done and whatever and be a fucking nationally recognized artist to qualify. That is simply not the majority of actors or would-be great actors in the future.

The only thing I can immediately think of is if a radio station would sponsor a work visa for me. That is something that could work but getting that to happen while I'm here is hard enough, never mind being over there asking for such a thing. I wouldn't mind being tied to working on the radio, that would actually be brilliant, I wouldn't need to be looking for something else or whatever. Its in my field and its a 9-5 with lots of connection opportunities. However as I said, connections are a bitch.

>>18539332

>to qualify

maybe. i know a lot of actors here on work visa, but they get sent home fast. i think most of them got it though cuz they did school here firs.t that makes it a LOT easier cuz they just apply for a work visa after and i think they're more likely to get it then just flat out applying for a work visa from the get go.

im american my self, at least legally, I only know the struggle second hand.

working for a radio station is a hard job to get though. dying profession, and in LA they mostly hire existing C list celebrities who can't get visual work anymore.

>>18539228
yes you fuck it's antisocial as shit

thats like someone having a viewing party at their house and you say "No thanks, I already saw this" and go upstairs to watch a movie on your phone

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>>18539228
>go see a Wonder Women

Do it.

>>18539233
when you put it like that, you've convinced me

>>18539236
it was a simple mistake

>>18539211
Indian men are really comfortable around each other.

>>18539215
As much as I love Daddy Son sexy time moods, I need your help anon :(

>>18539211
>Next week
Too much time

>>18539107
Gay bars/clubs? Biker bars? Prison?

>>18539107
Find a homosex while performing an activity you like then ask to be his friend. I you like him after knowing him better then ask him out.

>>18539107
Meetup.com

lgbt outdoors camping hiking kayaking groups

>>18539106
Yeah. Friendship.

>>18539106
Sounds like they're just friends. I have a male friend who tells me about his relationships.

>Am I a cuck?
Yes.

>>18539064

are you a cute grill?

>>18539064
well start by taking hormones, that bitterness will stop :D

>>18539066
No. And I don't put out.

>>18539074
Why, yes. The only thing better than being a woman must be being a fucking freak.

>>18539023

everyone is different. for a lot of people its simply connection. they find a woman, they love the woman, and then the desire to have kids follows. you don't really live as a single man thinking 'wow i really want kids right now'.

for other people its more circumstance. they didn't want to start a family, they simply got married, got lazy with birth control and ended up pregnant and it wasn't a bad thing so here we are.

and for even more people its just a woman wants to have a baby because of her natural biological time clock and the men arent entirely opposed tso it happens. its the kind of thing thats a lot easier to get excited about if someones trying to convince you.

its okay to not want kids. its okay to never want kids. people will give you shit for it but its really no big deal just brush it off and keep on keeping on.

>>18539023
>Where does this drive to start a family come from?

Because it's the easiest way to leave behind a legacy. Women have a biological drive to want children and men want to leave their mark on the world.

>>18539051
>to leave behind a legacy
But why? I don't care what happens after I die.

Also forgot to add, she sometimes has irregular periods and has even gone without one for three months before.

Ya OP you're a dad.

Yes! Congratulations! When is the Brit Milah? (circumcision)

>>Lose weight and get fit (I've already lost around 12 pounds, I'm currently 240)

Just keep doing what you're doing then, it obviously works

You should do these two together:
>Quit smoking
>Driving permit

As you quit smoking you'll get healthier, and if you can drive it'll be the door for new job & social opportunities.

Then you
>Lose weight & /fit/
>Surpass dep & anx

As you work out it'll give you the confidence for socializing and overcoming your internal issues.

Then, the final goal - A job. Money. Something that will require you to socialize, a driving permit, probably to quit smoking, and to look presentable (hence losing weight).

Godspeed.

>>18539124
Hmm, I suppose I could just continue to diet, I'm not exercising all too much as of yet, just trying to take baby steps to get me back on track and start somewhere.

>>18539129
I was honestly thinking of quitting smoking second last (I agree with the job part being last), but I completely understand why it should be the first thing out the door. I was thinking about dieting while quitting smoking, I have quit before for 2 months and I'm not sure if I'm quite ready to diet and quit in conjunction.
I suppose getting the ball rolling is the main goal to fixing myself up... Hmm, yeah, I'll do what you've suggested but I will study for my driving permit and do the test before I quit smoking, and then as I quit I will attempt to continue my diet like fellow anon above said (and if I only maintain my weight, it's not the end of the world, as long as I beat this disgusting, money draining addiction).

As I'm sitting here now I realize I have a plethora of ways with dealing with this, of course some courses of action are better, but I suppose as long as I reach my goal I reach my goal. The only problem is that I somewhat doubt my willpower, I know I have it inside of me, but I'm not overly pessimistic or optimistic about this.

>>18538885
>means you're gay

>>18538889
That doesn't sound like a medical diagnosis

Bump for assistance

When you build a relationship on trust and someone breaks it, it can mean the end for some. Others can work it out. It really doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. It's up to you what is tolerable and what isn't. I would be more concerned with why she felt the need to hide it as well as why is she contacting him. Sometimes people remain friends after a relationship but that friendship should be in the up and up and not hidden. Everything happens for a reason and I would be concerned about the reason.

>>18538876
You did the right thing anon. Do not go back or you'll become a toy in her eyes. Just think this relationship through. Why did she had the urge to keep in contact with jer ex? Haven't you two done some active stuff togheter? Haven't you gave her enough attention. Only you would know that. If that is so then keep that in mind for your next relationship and make it better. But this one is over!

She's acting behind your back after you had a straight talk to her about it. This is not the behaviour you change in a person, and it can be done about pretty much anything, from money management in a marriage to cheating. Not sorting out her shit with her ex before getting in a new relationship is also a huge red flag.

Dump and don't look back, better now than wasting time trying to fix it and having to dump for the same reason a few years down the line

pls respond

>>18538854
We're just waiting for you to forget you made this post...

>>18538854
take supplements
Talk to therapist

>>18538739

> How does a male not get fucked doing a marriage?

No matter what anyone tells you in this thread, there is no certain way.

1. "Marry a good girl!" - good girls change, our culture currently feeds middle-aged women tons of 'divorce porn' fantasies, stories about how women have it so good after divorce and you should just do it. You, no matter WHO you are, cannot guarantee that a good girl will not become one that will fuck you over through divorce, restrain you from seeing the kids, and laugh as you kill yourself.

2. Prenup/other legal protection - routinely overturned by family courts, which are very biased against men.

3. "Just live with her without getting married" - you will actually have even LESS legal protection doing this.

Here's the harsh reality: There's no way to guarantee you won't get fucked, lots of people are actively advocating for you to get fucked, and absolutely no one cares.

Why do people say you get fucked by getting married when what you really mean is you get fucked by getting divorced?

Just don't get divorced

Don't get married, buddy. It's the only surefire method. Get chemically castrated so you will no longer crave femoid companionship.

Similar situation alhough I got laid, once. Never had a real gf tho. I just focus on self-improvement - getting next degree, searching for a job of my dreams (for now I just got a better paid one but well, maybe the new degree will help me out), and friends (got plenty of them - and a lot of female ones too, it's almost surprising that after spending so much time with girls I have no idea how to flirt. Maybe I should ask them for advice or something). Works pretty well.

>>18538718
400 bucks and a perusal through the erotic review will solve your virginity issue. I was recently a 29 year old kissless virgin until I hired an escort. Don't get me wrong: pussy is absolutely fantastic. However, it's not the mind blowing change your life experience that you think it's going to be. You're just putting your dick in a mucus lined skin sleeve.

This helped me because now I'm not really all that worried about women anymore. Their vaginas hold much less power over me. Go out, get laid however you want to, and don't worry about women so much. Women are dumb humans just like you so treat them like that and you won't have any problems. Yea they're gonna reject you... Whatever. Move on to the next girl. She's of no consequence.

>>18538842
Yeah but there's 2 things: I want the social aspect and feeling of having a gf/sleeping with someone who actually wants me more than sex itself and I'm reluctant of having my first time with a hooker. When you read some people on the internet, the majority of girls seem to have no problem with a guy being a virgin but think that losing your virginity to a prostitute is off-putting and fucked up.