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Burn in hell like the rest you mentally ill twat.

Get help for your mental disorder. This way you will be bro's for real and hunt pussy together.

Go to church and pray for Christ to save your soul. Truly you are an abomination that could bring about the destruction of the world. Purge Satan from your soul, don't ruin everything your ancestors worked for, truly they are turning in their graves

>>16506249
Are you meeting these girls through tinder or what?

It sounds like your social skills are worse than you thought.

Post screenshots of some conversations for actual advice

>>16506271
First one I went to school with, and reconnected with later, she lived several hours away. Three were on OK cupid, and the most recent one was a co-worker's niece.
>>16506272
Yeah, probably. Most were awhile ago, but I could probably make one up for you.

>>16506245
pawn it pussy

Why would someone turn in jewellery they stole when it's so easy to sell. So you're fine, but you're better off leaving it at Wendy's. No one had ever called the police because they lost their ring

>>16506336
They might if it was an engagement ring

>>16506218
Let it be, you're not Superman.

>>16506218
Thats really impossible.

>>16506218
Have fun getting catfished.

A situation which I never really moved on from is making me doubt what I thought I knew about the concepts of 'friend' and 'girlfriend'. At first we were just casual friends (the type most people have lots of). We'd see each other at social gatherings, enjoy each other's company as part of a group, and not really care about each other any more than that. Then we started to get closer. We'd hang out together, just the two of us. She encouraged to tell me things that I wouldn't tell other people, and I think she felt like she could trust me too. We had lots of the same interests and would talk with each other for hours most nights. We'd go for walks together, days out, etc. We both had lots of other friends who we also spent time with, but I always felt this relationship was more important and intimate. Eventually we both got more flirtatious, and started sleeping with each other too. She invited me to come and stay with her for a few days at her parent's house. We never defined what we were doing and I thought I was playing it smart by 'taking it slow', but I thought that it was obvious we both wanted to be with each other.

Then she went on holiday and I didn't hear from her for a while. Nothing had changed in our friendship, I'd spoken to her the night before wishing her a good time and she said she'd miss me. The next time I spoke to her she told me that she'd met up with some friends she used to know, and had been sleeping with one of the guys. She just dropped it into the conversation casually, as if I wouldn't care. I told her how hurt I was, and I think she was genuinely surprised when she learned about my feelings for her. She basically told me that she was really sorry to have hurt me, but she'd only ever seen me as a friend and nothing more. The friendship pretty much died at that time - she said we should go back to only seeing each other with other friends so I didn't get the wrong idea, and I became very bitter and decided to stop seeing her at all.

>>16506189
So I handled the 'break-up' very badly, and basically just became socially isolated and depressed. It got me thinking: were we really 'just friends' (or just friends with benefits) and I just thought we were more because I've never had that sort of close friendship before? Should I be closer to my platonic friends, or is it right that those things are reserved just for romantic interests?

I don't think it's a matter of being closer or distant with certain relationships, but a matter of communication. You should have clearly communicated you romantic feelings and that you wanted exclusivity.

>>16506087
>should I try to blackmail her with zero evidence since she's engaged?
hm, I think the fiance knows and he's okay with it since they're getting paid more
there's no way that he didn't put two and two together when she got promoted to manager after a few months
dont think blackmailing is going to work

Imo you should have brought up who was gonna replace him more clearly to the manager before, was that taboo to discuss?
But Im just speaking in retrospect so it's easy to criticize for me.

anyway it sucks, if I were you I'd just keep my job and eventually ask for a raise.

I feel you, injustice at work can be incredibly infuriating, but remember you still have a stable job, don't act on a whim.

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>>16506087
same exact thing happened at my work, anon
it was so fucking obvious too
just accept it, there's no changing in
>should I try my luck, bend over and take it, talk to the slut and ask for a raise?
this is your best shot

Collaborative writing, co-writing of any kind is plagiarism. Discussion to refine your ideas is not. Don't be like the chinese losers that copy paste their whole essay.

>>16506092
Basically I was caught in a snag for an assignment for programming, did some research in some forums, found a solution that uses concepts the prof. has already taught us, and went on my merry way

>>16506086
Professor here.

If talking about your ideas with others helps you refine them, that's OK.

If somebody gives you an idea you didn't have on your own, and you then develop it more fully and put it in your own words, that's OK with a slight tinge of grey area.

If you use someone else's idea without making it your own in any way, that's plagiarism just as if you took the idea from a book and just changed the wording.

If you use someone else's words that's plagiarism just as if you copied them from a book.

>>16505955
>LDR here
You don't. LDRs aren't called not real relationships by many without a reason.

>>16505960
Well it's not my fault we met while playing a game we liked at the time. Not my fault he happened to live far away. I think in all my years of gaming, I've only met 1 person in the same state as me (Pennsylvania). The closest I've even known someone was from New Jersey. But said boyfriend is from Arizona

>>16505955
> 1-3 hours a day is 'usual'
> we see each other so little

You're super in love with him that seeing him everyday feels little to you.

Many other LDR would kill to have what you have.

Talk to him

>>16505905

We have but I have to also mention, he is a compulsive liar... So every time we do try, he bends the question...

Probably something you have to talk to him about. You're his friend.

We are often shaped by our first sexual experiences. It can go to either extreme, I was molest by a fat woman as a child, so I now have am irrational disgust towards fat people and will occasionally throw up when I see obese people eating.

You can't get over your past so you try subconsciously justifying yourself that it is good. Try rebuilding your relationship with men and intimacy from a different emotional standpoint and only have sex if you got really close to someone. Put sex in a new context that is not broken.

I think you answered your own question. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just how you are. I think as long as you do it in a safe environment and perhaps in a loving environment, you can live out your fantasies without putting yourself in any sort of danger or bad place for want of a better phrase. There are people out their who will indulge your sexual fantasies while also caring for you, etc. Yourself and they just have to be able to differentiate from fantasy and reality.

Some guys want a dumb girl who won't challenge them.
Some want someone who can they can share and debate ideas with.

Though the "I don't want a gf right now" is a pretty standard bullshit excuse from a guy.
You could also be an uggo, in which case I'm sorry.

If men aren't falling in your lap then you clearly aren't as pretty as you think you are.
There must be a massive flaw that you conveniently left out of your post.
My guess is that you're fat and by ''strong and rational mind'' you are probably referring to STRONG WYMYN DON'T FAT SHAME ME, YOU BASTARD form of feminism.

>>16505838
men are falling in my lap just none want to commit to my lap I'm not skinny i guess you could say I'm sorta chubby I'm 5' 7 and 140lbs but my waist is tight and shit i don't know maybe I'm just a fat arrogant idiot

Smoking makes you cool and a badass, stop smoking only if you want to be a betafag whimp quitter faggot.
otherwise keep sucking on those bitches.
>no homo

>>16505809
>Should I stop smoking?
IF you really need to ask....then no.

Stop it, smoking is for weak faggots who need something to escape life and reinforce their omg I'm nervous bitchy attitude.

Get over it
or never talk to her again
or put her in position where she does something so disgusting you can't even look at her that way anymore.

those are your 3 options, anything else will lead to problems.

>>16505774
>or put her in position where she does something so disgusting you can't even look at her that way anymore.

ask another friend to get the both of them to prank you and pretend to be extremely offended by it. or... ask another friend to get the both of them to prank you, then make that friend fuck things up so the prank ends up a trainwreck, but planned trainwreck

Be a man stop beeing a pussy and take her by force her like she deep down wants you to

open your butthole and take it like a man
>no homo

I think you might have meant "depraved"

The reason this is an issue to you is you find sex itself to be a superficial and depraved act. Most people do not feel this way.

Regardless of your personal feelings, you can't deny that intercourse is certainly, and has been since time immemorial, an absolutely intregal experience in life.

>>16505694
I never have sex and I've stopped caring about it.

>>16505683
fuck you

>>16505683
Fuck you.

If it keeps you from killing yourself and doesn't make you feel like a zombie, where's the harm?
You should probably trust the doctor who prescribed it to you. Otherwise, get a second opinion from a qualified psychiatrist.