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How to kick the bitches out? 2015-11-28 12:09:45 Post No.16509328
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How to kick the bitches out?
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I'm living with two girls. I just moved in with them because the flat is great and cheap and one of them told me she would move out by the end of the year.
Long story short: She's not moving out until next year and the situation gets unbearable for me.
Any ideas how to get both of them (or at least one of them) to move out? They're acting like best friends, so I think i's enough to get one of them to move.
Ask for details if you need more.
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>>16509328
I'm currently trying to get one of my housemates kicked out. Trust me, if they're best buds and you try to get rid of one of them, chances are they'll both turn on you and get you kicked out. You need one of them on your side to get the other out, but if you need em both gone I don't see how this will work. If you get evidence of them breaking their contracts maybe? You can't annoy them until they leave because they'll just complain about you and the landlord will kick you out. He'd rather replace one person rather than two after all.
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>>16509332
It's a bit more complex between them.
One of them is rather hot, but has no self-confidence and has like 4 friends (and single).
The other one got a boyfriend which she want to move together with. I'm pretty cool with him.
I thought of getting the washing machine or freezer damaged so we had to get new ones and the other one would think it's not worth it because she wants to move out either way, resulting in her moving out instantly.
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>>16509350
Apart from damaging stuff you use that's actually a solid plan. I assume the one you want to move out is the one with the bf. She could be sticking around for a number of reasons.
She might not be as serious about moving in with her bf as he is. This is a problem for you, because if that's true then the relationship *could* go south before she moves out.
She could also be putting it off because she's worried about her friend being lonely.
The hot girl, ask her out. Think about it, be really chill and say you'd like to get to know her a bit better or something. Go hang out together and stuff, even if she doesn't like you in that way you'll still be her friend. That way, girl with bf will think her friend is going to be ok/ she'll feel like shes third wheeling if you guys decide to bone.
TL;DR. Try and fuck the hot chick.
P.S. if you're not interested in her for any reason, I'll happily date her to get her out of your apartment more OP.
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I have a problem with pathological lying. I vastly exaggerate or make up random stories to seem more interesting. In addition to that I sometimes lie for no reason about trivial stuff, like when someone asked me what I did yesterday. I think I want friends, even family etc to see me as a person I in reality am not, and I really can't seem to stop it. I don't know why, because I don't have any obvious insecurity issues or whatever. I'm perfectly fine with who I am and I live a happy life.
For some reason I'm also a very good liar. Stories, backgrounds of characters, tiny details etc just materialize themselves as I'm making stuff up. And it's affecting my memory as well. After long enough time, what where lies become memories in my head. I sometimes have trouble telling if stuff from years ago was real or not.
Anybody like me out there? How to make it better?
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>>16509250
Go see a professional.
You're never going to have any good relationships with that on your hands.
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>>16509250
Go to therapy.
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You can't accept yourself and you think the only way to make yourself appear valuable and gain acceptance is to lie to others. You need to realize that the biggest lie is that you are not valuable otherwise. Each one of us have doubts about our own worth, but if you always remind yourself of it, it will only get worse and you will always want to hide yourself from others, but this way you will never be able to build up a happy life. Try to trust others more, give them a chance to accept you.
femanon here...
Is it normal to experience a moment where porn no longer makes you feel horny... at all.
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>>16509224
yeah
some girls are even not into porn, but they opt for dirty fanfiction instead
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yeah thats when you up the kink and move on to more deviant shit.
I dont get off unless its hidden toilet voyeur porn where the girl is taking a dump these days...
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>>16509224
Usually after I've cum.
i'm in love with my friend...i'm quite sure he is aware of that but he wants to talk with me all the time. why would he do that if he isn't into me?
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>>16509215
Maybe he thinks you're just friends. You women pull that shit all the time :^)
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>>16509217
how can he think that when i told him??
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>>16509225
Maybe he's trying to let you down easy or he could be nervous himself. We don't know this guy. You do. What do you think?
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Buying a gaming laptop 2015-11-28 09:27:53 Post No.16509075
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Laptop 1
>Intel Core i7-6700HQ
>Nvidia Geforce GTX 960M
>12GB RAM
>Windows 8
Laptop 2
>AMD A10-8700P
>AMD Radeon R9 M380
>8GB RAM
>Windows 10
I am not a computer expert but laptop 1 seems to have a better cpu/memory while laptop 2 has a better gpu and is running windows 10 which is my preferred OS of the two.
For the same price which would be a better buy for gaming purposes?
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tits or gtfo OP
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A gaming laptop? Shouldn't you get a gaming desktop?
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>windows
>gaming laptop
>windows 10 is preferred
>intel
please die
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Scared of getting fired for sexual harassment 2015-11-28 09:01:05 Post No.16508994
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Scared of getting fired for sexual harassment
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2015-11-28 09:01:05
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So I got hired on to a retail store about 2 months ago the same day i got hired a cute thick girl got hired too. It all started pretty friendly but it quickly escalated to flirting and then i got her number and i started making sexual innuendos where she would play the innocent girl that didnt know what was going on. Well i stated getting more ballsy at work and I would come up from behind her and press my boner against her ass and she fuckin loved it because she let me do it and she would just giggle, Well fast forward to yesterday I did the same thing only this time i also played with her tits which she also loved but a few ours later when she was leaving (this is where i fucked up) i gave her a hug she hugged me back but i also went in for a tit squeeze and she pulled my hand off and said "no stoooop" in a joking but stern kind of manner and she said "youre gonna get in trouble" in a teasing kind of way to which i responded "sorry i just needed one more tit squeeze for good luck, have a good thanksgiving" and she said "you too even though you gotta work all night" and that was that (so i thought) well today she was acting pretty distant and when we were both leaving from work i hugged her and she didnt hug me back so i thought to myself "wtf?" so idk i guess shes upset at me. And if she does file for sexual harassment thats really gonna fuck me up because all my mangers love me and want to promote me to team leader and im scared shell use this against me (this and also some sexist remarks about her needing a man to carry so and so)
So how fucked am i /adv/? Anything i can do to fix the situation or am i fucked and should i just quit before i get fired for sexual harassment even though i was doing really good here?
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Bump
I really need some answers guys, i cant sleep and im fuckin anxious as hell over this
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>>16508994
im no expert but maybe go to her first, let her know you never meant for her to feel uncomfortable or harrassed, then gauging by her reaction make your descision
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You just might be being paranoid. For now, since you got the vibe that she is being distant, tone the flirtatious stuff down and act normal.
How do I get more IQ points in my brain?
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please respond
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Do you mean for iq tests or learning? For leaning challenge yourself in a daily basis and just be open to learning new things. Try joining free online courses, watching documentaries, reading books, etc. Become interested in the way things work and why
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You can't you fucktard, jeez no wonder you're asking this question.
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NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO READ GUYS 2015-11-28 08:21:10 Post No.16508892
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So I've been close friends with this Korean guy (I'm a white female) for about 15 months now. About 10 months ago I told him I liked him, and he turned me down and dated someone else. I moved on and we progressed as good friends. He quickly broke up with her and I've dated a couple guys since, but I still really like him. Recently his behavior towards me is changing.... On Halloween we got really drunk and he kept putting his hand in my inner thigh and spanking me...? And this week I was studying at his house and he kept tickling me and running his fingers through my hair... it got really late and he told me I could stay over and so I slept in his bed and he slept next to me... he didn't try anything because I think he was tired and wanted to make me trust him... I wanted him to! At least cuddle! He calls me and texts me everyday. The problem is that he said last year that we should just be friends, so I'm scared to sleep with him (I'm a virgin) because I really like him and I don't want to fall in love with no commitment. I feel like there is a culture and language gap... Not sure how to move forward... Should I just YOLO and sleep with him? :S I really want to be his girlfriend, but I'm worried that I'm not reciprocating his advances properly... and I don't want to mess up our friendship if that's all he wants...??
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>>16508892
not sure if bait
>incase 1/10 nice meme
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Fuck off.
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First figure out what you want and then his intentions.if they match then go for it, but otherwise dont put yourself in a situation that will only end awfully for you (no settling for fwb if you want to date, especially if you hold your virginity somewhat special) that's my advice b/c I was in a similar situation and know it sucks..good luck
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So I recently got out of a friendship with a manipulative poisonous gypsy faggot.
Long story short, he's a manipulative little shit who is 16 years old and has this 25 year old child molester for a slave who will do anything for him because hes a weak minded autistic fuckface; and when I learned he cheated on his girlfriend by raping someone, I figured that it was time to end the already toxic relationship.
So I did, and I humiliated him the next time I saw him after and told him over a groupchat that he has no balls (in front of a ton of people) which resulted with him kicking me from the chat because he couldnt handle the fact that hes a little bitch, but the thing is... lately I've been feeling rather... vengeful. Like I want to ruin his life, and just how much hate I have for him has been a major distraction to my state of mind lately. I know hes not worth my time worrying about but part of me wants to ruin his little drug filled worthless life.
The other half of me, just wants to move on with life, and thats honestly what I want to do, and I try to, but the mere thought of everything has been so distractive that Im split with uncertainty.
Question is for all of you: how can I find redemption in this very dirty mess? How can I keep ancoent history from corroding me from the inside?
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>25 y/o autostic slave
That wasnt enough to make you stop being his friend?
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Lol this made me nite
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>>16508891
Aparently not, me.
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I have an enjoyable, fulfilling job that pays well, plenty of hobbies, and I live with my boyfriend who loves me.
I'm aware I should be happy, but I'm not, and almost everyday I fantasize about living by myself and only leaving to work, otherwise staying inside and drawing and playing games and writing. It makes me slightly short with him sometimes, and I have days where I feel like I'm sleepwalking.
When I am alone and have nowhere to be, I'm fine for awhile and then feel devestating loneliness and depression.
Is this real life for everyone else?
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pretty much, i also wanna die real bad too
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Yes. Life is an endless cycle of misery.
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>>16508801
Talk to your boyfriend about it.
If you're in love, he'll try to understand and want to offer better solutions than strangers on 4chan.
In what world does a girl go over to her male co-workers place to play vidya and it not be a romantic/sexual thing?
Maybe I have trust issues but I feel like I've been here before and I don't want to be here again.
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You make it sound like that's not a common thing to happen. Are you one of those 'guys and girls can't be friends' people?
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if she wants to play she wants you. even if she say no anon you take her she will like it
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>>16508733
Fair enough, I just have never heard of it in any of my friends dialogues beyond the "i want to bang her" context.
>>16508741
Should of clarified, shes a fresh gf (first I've had since a long term 2 years ago) and was her reply when I asked what she was up to. Its currently midnight but shes usually up late so not sure if thats influential.
Maybe I'm just too paranoid for relationships now.
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Have any of you guys taken drugs prescribed by doctors? I mean I guess sallot do us have , but my doctor is suggesting I tale antiandrogens . I'm kinda nervous at to the site effects etc. Also do they have to discloses the reasoning for prescribing them?
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>>16508684
How were you sitting there and you didn't think to ask: "Oh, okay. Why do I need those?"
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Antiandrogens sound like something that would make you grow a pussy
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>>16508687
I kinda did and he said besides drugs and counseling there's no way to treat my condition.
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This is a bit of a rant and cry for help.
I'm "dating" this girl. Our dates consist of hanging out and shopping but there is zero intimacy. No hugging, holding hands, kissing, sex, etc. She speaks to me about OUR future as if we're going to be married next year. The most affectionate thing she has done for me I guess was cook me food twice at her place.
But I what I don't understand is... why does she show zero intimacy? What should I do? I honestly feel like she's just using me for money. My spending has went up ridiculously since meeting her. Spending all of my money on someone and not getting even a hug is killing me. And if she really does think I'll marry her, looking at both our situations, she has a lot to gain from such a thing while it would inconvenience me.
When we first met and sometimes while chatting she'll talk about courtship and how guys need to show they have good intentions by being patient but that sounds pathetic.
Today we went to this mall and she was looking at these fucking $300 "on sale" designer purses. "OMG IT'S 40% SO IT'S ONLY $300 TODAY! I NEED IT!". She actually pestered me until I bought her an $115 "on sale" purse. She seemed to gloss over the name of the brand than the actual functionality and material of the thing. It's like she NEED some shitty name brand that costed at least a certain amount of dollars. That made me realize that I need to do something quickly.
Besides the obvious "leave her", what do I do? I feel like I'm in too deep. What are steps to slowly correct this problem? Why the fuck are women so materialistic?
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You already know the answer, but you clearly came here to validate your relationship.
My question is: Would you heed our advice if we gave it, despite the obvious answer? Answer that first, and I'll so my best to help you.
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You're the one enabling this behaviour, you know. If you said no from the beginning when she asked you to buy her shit, she wouldn't have got into the habit of asking you for things and you wouldn't be spending so much.
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>>16508674
>Besides the obvious "leave her", what do I do? I feel like I'm in too deep.
Without her killing you in her sleep with those designer stiletto heels, nothing. Just up and leave.
I was initially going to suggest that your gf is awkward and doesn't know how to be physical in a relationship, but this is ridiculous.
This is worse than girls using guys on Tindr for restaurant food.
>What are steps to slowly correct this problem?
Honestly? Nothing.
>Why the fuck are women so materialistic?
Please don't generalize because not all women are that materialistic.
But typically people who are that materialistic use stuff to fill a hole within themselves.
She probably has issues, but I wouldn't fuck with that. Especially if she's using you.
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Idk what to do.
>gf sells panties on the internet
>she tells me
>I'm ok with it at first, she explains it's just for extra cash
>later I snoop on her phone, and yes I know I was looking for a problem
>see she messages the same guy every couple days if not daily.
>tells me only cuz he buys often.
>ok what ever, bit pissed.
>gf claims she loves me and best bf ever.
>send me nudes one day, fucking great.
>well got on her phone again to see if anything new going on.
>find out she sent him the same nudes with 1-2 more ones I didn't.
>weren't even any panties in the picture so don't think it's "business" anymore.
There's more, will clarify on more if asked.
Edgy picture also.
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>>16508653
Never listen to what a woman says, but what she does.
Do you try to romance your girlfriend anymore OP?
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>>16508653
As a girl, if you sends you some of the nudes she took for another guy, she probably felt bad.
But feeling bad isn't enough.
I'd bring this up to her and say you have room for unfaithful girlfriends in your life.
Cheaters just keep cheating if you don't take any action and end it.
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>>16508653
MOAR!
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Plain and simple, it's just not working out with my psychiatrist. She refuses to listen to me.
She wants me in therapy but I can't DO therapy because I cannot open up during therapy. It's the whole reason I came to psychiatry--I need drugs to help loosen me up before going to therapy. How do I KNOW this? I've tried it before coming to psychiatry. I went to my university's counseling services and tried seven appointments. All were spent in maybe 40 minutes of silence because I couldn't open up. I went to each appointment with the legitimate hope that I would walk out closer to being better than I was before, so I don't think it didn't work BECAUSE I didn't think it would help.
She wants me exercising. I can't do that either because people are always watching me when I exercise and it highly discourages me because I know I'm not doing it right. A lot of times, people come up to me and show me how to do it but I still don't understand. When I'm out jogging, I see people snickering at me. And then I stop exercising.
The next appointment I have with her will be Tuesday. Is it worth mentioning the above to her? I plan to and if she still doesn't listen, I will be flat out telling her that I want to see someone else.
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Psychiatry is a pseudoscience.
You don't need mind altering drugs.
The mind-altering drugs will most likely make you have far worse anxiety in the long run. Look up benzo and SSRI withdrawals. Benzo withdrawals are worse than heroin, they can kill you, they typically last for months/years, and can cause permanent damage.
Exercise at home.
They're probably not snickering at you.
Tell that bitch why you come to her, and that if she's not just going to be a proxy for mind-altering drugs, which is all psychiatrists are, then tell her you're finding a new psychiatrist.
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Stop giving a fuck about what people think when you exercise. I know it's probably hard for you, that it might be one of the reasons you need therapy in the first place, but exercise does a body (and mind) so much good.
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i dont like excersizing in public either. what i did was buy a cheap treadmill on craigslist for 100$ an a cheap benchpress bench, some circle weights and some dunbells.
i can hit pretty much all the major muscles and get cardio in all in my room while either listening to music or watching tv shows while I do cardio. its not perfect but i do feel alot better from doing the excersize. and i dno what drugs you need to loosen you up but i had a issue with booze/weed/opiates, and quit them all, at first it was shit but over time complete sobriety + excersize helps you feel alot better overall.
also vit D , multivit, lots of vegetables+water etc etc.