My wife got a part in a independent film.
Nice, good for her. Is it a major role, or just an extra or something?
>>16510968
no one cares. what's your question?
>>16510979
Ya she's pretty excited about it. It's one of those independent or indie films. She has a big role in it but requires nudity and sex scenes.
Recently my very best friend died in a car accident. He was more than a brother to me. We literally grew up together and knew each other for more than twenty fucking years. Basically since birth.
Mom called, started crying
>paul is dead
Sister called, cried
>paul died in a car crash
Dad called, cried
>You heard paul died?
His sister didn't say anything
I can only imagine the pain his parents are living in. Such a good family, christians, well behaved. And he was a good, hard working lad, planned to get married next year in the summer, never stepped out of line. He was one of those people that's a real shame they died.
And I can't seem to feel anything. After being through all those heart wrecking calls, I just opened a beer and went on with my shit like nothing happened.
I am somewhat aware that I may be depressed (at least that's what google tells me) but I don't seem to be sadder than other folk and it's not affecting my life in any way other than just making me think about it now and then. I just didn't feel anything about it, and edge aside, It's concerning me.
I've been alone (both single and away from my family) for many years now and this can't be healthy for my mental state. Am I slowly losing it? I don't want to go to a doctor, not yet at least since I'm a functioning member of the society, I manage my own life, have a bunch of good friends, etc.
But there's something off about me, and I'm aware of that, if only vaguely. Oh, and not american, so therapy, pills and shit is not as accessible (not that I'd want to be hooked on a fistful of pills a day anyway)
Is there anything I should know or do?
meditation cured my depression and insomnia
http://marc.ucla.edu/body.cfm?id=107
>>16510967
You're fine. You don't need to try and act like a Hollywood portrayal of grieving. It's different for everyone in every case. It might hit you like a ton of bricks somewhere down the road, or it may not hit you at all. You're emotionally stable enough to not be impacted by something that doesn't actively threaten your survival. Be thankful.
maybe you just don't give a shit about paul dying.
what's your reaction to that?
What are some warning signs that your boyfriend is losing interest? And how does that behavior differentiate from just being distracted/busy/stressed etc?
>>16510962
Are you in a monogamous relationship? Is he fucking other women/men? If so, he might be losing interest.
>>16510962
Well, he'll definitely lose interest when you become all paranoid about how you think he's losing interest.
>>16510971
I've not hinted or confronted him about this at all for that reason. I'm just completely autismo when it comes to relationships.
>Went on a date with a super qt
>Good chemistry, had fun
>Went in for a kiss at the end, she gave me a hug and then explained that it takes her a long time to warm up to people
>That's cool, I don't mind
>Also starts joking how her mom asked her to take a selfie with me so she'd know what I look like, wanted my phone number, facebook and some other personal shit
>Says all this jokingly and doesn't actually ask me for this stuff but mentions "my mom will probably be mad, lol" in a text later
Should I bail? She's 22, I'm 24.
>>16510902
This is a stupid question and you should feel embarrassed for asking it.
NO, YOU SILLY TIT!
Unlike the vast majority of OPs here you seem to have somethinging promising going! NO you don't ditch it when she makes a tame joke! Christ...
>>16510908
Really?
On one hand I don't want her to think "he's not interested because I didn't advance with him so soon", but on the other, I'm scared it'll turn into "well we've been dating for almost a year and still haven't even kissed, and my family is judging you the entire time and grooming you to be a good husband" or some shit.
Get out while you can.
Using mom as an excuse is going to hurt you in the long run.
Nosey family=over protective= Drama.
Hello everyone i need some input as my mind is self destructing.
So...
The girl im going to marry tells me that im the best she has ever had in every catagory, i strive to be the best i can. yesterday we were on the topic of dick size and i apparently rank 3rd that she has ever had, ok third place isnt bad i guess, she even stated that im the best lover she ever had.
today i found out that her last ex was #1, he had some weird sexual quirks which made it easy for me to surpass him in the entire sex category but heres what destroyed my self esteem; he was 10'' and last i measured im 7'' and 5'' girth. she tells me she loves mine the way i am and that its perfect and she even cracked a joke about "maybe hes the reason im so loose" not knowing that this was a sensitive subject. all in all this guy is a piece of shit from what shes told me and only had this going for him. so my questions to femanons;
Is this an issue? downgrading in size like this? please be brutally honest.
anons;
im going to begin jelqing because this is killing me. who all has done this? what were the gains? what was the timeframe/your routine?
and yes, OP is a faggot, kill self, i get it. i dont really know who else to ask and 4chan has always pulled through when it counts
pic unrelated
>>16510789
>dick envy
>mature enough to get married
I'm sorry OP but you can only pick one
>>16510789
>being in top 5 percentile penis size
>jelqing
>4chan has always pulled through when it counts
hahahahahhaha weak
>>16510801
not envy so much as it is an insecurity and a feeling of not being good enough. if it was from years upon years ago that it was a no more than a story then it would be bearable but it was the last pilot that sat in this seat and still has his ass grooves in it
My anxiety with women is too much to face. Am I going to be a virgin forever?
>>16510768
Fuck guys, or girls that look like men
>>16510768
>My anxiety with women is too much to face
Interact with women more (in any context, especially professional), you will become less anxious with experience.
>Am I going to be a virgin forever
Only if you keep worrying about something so stupid.
>>16510768
Yes
>watch shark tale with brother
>mom's cell rings, it's my aunt, she's crying
>mom starts crying, it's my cousin who's been in a car crash
>apparently he was trapped in the car, it started burning and he couldn't get out
>he was conscious during the entire thing and didn't get rescued until the fire was put out
>condition critical, 3rd degree burns on 40% of his body, multiple serious fractures and he may not make it
>grew up with him, love him to death, he's my family, my cousin
>not really coping well with this...
>celebrating my birthday tomorrow, not really feeling like it...
I suck at coping with family tragedies, because it really messes me up... What should I do? Any advice?
I'm sorry. I'm not really good at it either but you deserve a bump
>>16510930
Thank you, kind anon.
>>16510767
Talk about it with your family and any of your closest friends. Find things to occupy your time and FORCE yourself to do them. If you smoke pot, do that, it'll help immensely.
I got rejected by a friend I was into, so I started going to bars to meet other girls. Problem is I don't even want to talk to other girls because I'm not over the friend yet. What do
>>16510735
>Problem is I don't even want to talk to other girls because I'm not over the friend yet.
So don't until you are. This does not seem complicated. You'll never get anywhere while you're still hung up on her.
It's been a month shouldnt I be over her by now?
>>16510913
I don't fucking know, it's your life. Go do something else to distract yourself from moping.
Hey /adv/, i know you guys usually have relationship threads but i have a different question for you today.
Im 19 and have gotten into lockpicking pretty big. Bought a lockpick set off amazon and practiced on cheap padlocks and the door to my house, and have gotten ok at it
My question is why shouldnt i steal shit? The area a mile away from me is full of normal families where the kids are out at school all day and the parents are at work. Nearly all of them have electronic stuff thats easy to sell.
Also any tips for those who dont want to give me a moral lecture. Already feel bad thinking of the idea of stealing a kids favourite game, but im pretty sure he could buy another copy.
>>16510680
because when the cops finally do catch up with you, and they will unless you get shot by some homeowner, you're going to be in for a nice long prison term somewhere and a felony conviction that will hang around with you for the rest of your life
>>16510697
Im from england sweetie, our cops dont carry guns and our home owners dont have guns. Plus prison sentances over here and pretty leaniant.
Thanks for your post though, is perfect for those who are doing this in america
>>16510707
TIL no one in england fights back
Is it reasonable for an older sister to yell at you for this?
>Be in a twitch chat.
>Find a girl who is 13 that you talk to over the course of a month. She seems pretty chill, you like her.
>One day you start saying sexual stuff to her, and at first she laughs at it but when she realizes you are serious she says it makes her feel uncomfortable
What gives??
>>16510581
How old are you?
>>16510583
Around close to 18 and my sister is 21
>>16510592
That's pretty gross then, dude. Hit on girls your own age.
2 weeks ago I realized out of the blue I've fallen in love with my best female friend who I've known for over a year now.
Fuck this, what do I do now?
Anon, I had the same situation happen to me with a best female friend who I've known for 6-7 years.
Do you think your friendship can handle it if you tell her and she's not interested? If so, that makes it easy. Just talk to her. Remember she's your best friend and doesn't want to hurt you at all.
What you really have to ask yourself is if you're willing to never tell her how you feel. By doing so you're not gambling the friendship, but you'll have to handle these feelings of love you have every time you see her.
I personally told my best friend and it turned out well. We're not dating because of distance (I'm in uni, she's in our hometown), but we've been on a date and are more intimate with each other now. Best of luck anon!
Fucking tell her the truth
>>16510558
If you're both mature enough to handle it then explain the situation to her. Either she's open to the possibility of a relationship, or she likes you but is just nor romantically into you, in which case you will, believe it or not, have a much easier and less stressful time if you know for sure it was never an option.
Okay /adv/ here's the quick version. I judged a family member for doing something that pissed me off about two years back but never got to say anything because I'm not good with that kind of thing.They all make me feel like shit for judging them and they might disown me. What fuck do?
Need to know specifics in this context friend.
>>16510462
You're going to have to get more specific OP, what did they do, will your Entire family disown you, why the fuck do you give a shit about people that disregard your feelings and can't anticipate something that will bother you for years without you having to spell it out for them, etc...
>>16510497
>>16510497
I normally don't give a shit when people disregard their feelings, but these are more than people to me, they're family. So they pretty much laughed this picture that I despise and I finally got my shit together enough to say "Why would you laugh at that" and they got all pissed about it.
I told my girlfriend that I like rough and she said she does too. I assumed we had the same idea of what that is...apparently not. I started choking her , and I kept choking her even when she was trying to slap me and had a hard time breathing , and her struggling is what gets me off. Afterwards she SLAPPED me and was very upset. Do I have a "weird " version of rough sex or is she being very overreactive?
you should've talked to her about exactly what rough meant before you started. she should've done the same.
>>16510464
That's true I lost my last GF because of this. I punch her during sex and she got very upset. So it's a communication isssue?
>>16510464
This guy has it right. Rough didn't mean you have free reign to fuck their shit up during sex. Need to communicate shit first or else you could easily, very easily, end up a sex-offender.
Hello /adv/, I'll get straight to the point. I've been dating this girl for a while and I've fallen hard in love for her. She's an extremley beautiful curvy girl but recently she has started to gain some weight. I still find her attractive and it's not something I would break up with her over but I don't want this trend to continue. I want her to be healthy and in shape for her sake as well as mine. She is very insecure about herself so it's not a subject I can bring up easily if at all. What are some ways I can try and reverse this trend? Should I offer to go to the gym with her or try to explain to her calories in/calories out?
I know our relationship would be better if she had confidence in herself so I think that this would help.
>>16510315
Fuck her way more regularly, make her do more of the work so she'll burn more calories
Lonely bump
What do you think is the reason for her weight gain?
If a guy, around 17 wants to have a relationship with a 12 yr old girl, is there any way to make it work?
>>16510180
No, and the guy will end up in jail.
>>16510184
But he's 17, he's not an adult how can he get in trouble?
>>16510184
Rightfully so, one should add
Also, kill yourself OP