File: office-space[1].jpg (32KB, 620x310px) Image search:
[Google]
![office-space[1].jpg](https://cdn.4archive.org/adv/image/1448/776/1448776214184.jpg "office-space[1]")
32KB, 620x310px
Alright guys, so im gonna go on a little rant, to get the advice i hope for.
two and a half months ago, i started my new job.
its at an upscale grocery store, where the pay is much better than what i was getting at my old job-
In the store, im working in customer service (showing people to shit they need, doing returns, etc), I am trained in stocking shelves, finding products in the back (very limited skill in our store), doing delivery audits, i run a register, i bag peoples shit..... and i was really excited to work in the cafe when i first started.
my backround.... i have 2 years of culinary school experience, four culinary jobs, military training (usmc med discharge), IT pursuits, and im a jack of all trade-
anyways, so at work, i got to work in the cafe-
with my experience, i figured i'd kick ass in the kitchen, and make a major difference, because i KNOW food. its simply what i do best. the thing is, there is ZERO, and i mean absolutely ZERO sanitary protocol, and the few staff members i work with have zero discipline and are very very VERY careless.
i asked three of my 8 managers (why arent i a manager, ffs) to please stop scheduling me in the cafe as i am losing all appreciation for culinary arts and cuisine.
"okay, we'll work on it"
the next week, i was removed entirely.
this week, i am removed entirely.
next week...... three fucking days of my 3 days in the store of the week (vacation) i am working cafe....
asked them, why is this- "oh, we just need someone in there"
i told them this isnt acceptable, period.
tonight, i just got my schedule for the following week....
FIVE FUCKING DAYS IN A ROW IN THE CAFE.
this is the shit that is pushing me to quit, and i NEED this job.
i just got a car, insurance, and a girlfriend, and groceries to buy.
this is BULLSHIT. WHAT DO.
ps: emailed one of 8 bosses that 11/10 trolled hard
11 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
File: Shallowgrave.png (289KB, 456x340px) Image search:
[Google]
289KB, 456x340px
You violated the chain of command, foo'
>>
Maybe you should think of working in the cafe as an opportunity. If you're not happy with the hygiene, try to change things.
>>
You're incredibly incoherent. Do you, or do you not want to work in the cafe? Also you're pretty entitled for someone who's been there only two and a half months
File: Screenshot_2015-01-25-00-34-15-1.png (237KB, 720x711px) Image search:
[Google]
237KB, 720x711px
Told my ex I cheated on him almost a year ago. He broke up with me. We both have depression issues. This sent me over the edge I cut myself went to hospital. He hated me. A week later and we're talking again a little. Hanging out a little while he plays Vidya. I know we're over but I don't know whether he's still mad or just being nice so I don't kill myself...I wanna ask him to watch a movie but I don't wanna pressure him into hanging out with me..what do you think I should do?
39 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
You cheated on him. You deserve whatever happens, don't put the guilt on him of you killing yourself because you decided to be a whore. Let him leave you for fucks sake
>>
Do stuff by your self like an adult.
You need to heal alone before you try dragging anyone else into your uncontrolled emotions.
>>
>>16512233
>>16512256
Cunt apologists leave.
No better yet, kill yourselves.
OP you're a sick and deluded piece of shit. Everything is your fault.
File: image_0(8).jpg (78KB, 550x733px) Image search:
[Google]
78KB, 550x733px
Successfully matched with someone through Tinder.
My question is, I have no fucking idea what to text to keep her interested in me. How the fuck do I do this? Females if you're on please give me some input.
24 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
Welcome to tinder. Matching with someone isn't a big deal. Either using a corny pick up line, or start a conversation based on similar interests.
>>
>>16512209
I just need some pointers on texting. I'm not too good at it.
>>
File: The-Great-Gatsby1.jpg (75KB, 640x360px) Image search:
[Google]
75KB, 640x360px
Ok so here is 3 simple things you can do to keep her interested depending on the type of girl.
Disclaimer: I have never used tinder but I can pick up girls on kik super easy.
1. Send her selfies... Send her selfies of you being funny send her selfies of you doing something weird. Send her selfies though adjust depending on what kind of girl she is
2. Send her memes... This works especially if you use popular memes make sure you do ones that are not too dirty, too racist, or too political.
3. If all else fails send her songs... This gets them between the legs all the time for me at least good luck mate
File: e66525735c054a42557fff6398ff0d56de24f247c35264e7fcfc7201c4360978_1-1.jpg (60KB, 480x454px) Image search:
[Google]
60KB, 480x454px
Simple question I feel the need to ask to some random anons. When a girl is blowing you, does the gagging they /may/ do turn you on? Do you find gagging hot in anyway and if so why/why not?
Tldr; is a girl gagging while sucking dick hot, why/why not.
17 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Yeah it's hot because it usually means she's trying pretty hard to do a good job and the fact that she cares enough to try turns me the Fuck on.
>>
>>16512172
Yeah kinda
Might get annoying if it keeps happening over and over
>>
>>16512172
I'm just glad to be getting a blowjob.
Tomorrow night I'm getting dinner with a girl I like, and a mutual friend had informed me that she likes me.
How do I seal the deal?
Should I talk to her about it, or just go in for the kiss at some point?
13 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>16512005
Flirt a little, shell pick up. Bring it up at some point where theres not many people.
>>
>>16512059
I am really not good at flirting.
Any tips?
>>
>>16512088
Wear this and you won't have to say a word.
Would you judge a guy for wearing this shirt if he wasn't fat/neckbeardy or creepy looking?
I've worn anime/game shirts in the past, but mostly subtle designs and symbols. Just slightly curious how much the waifu aspect of the shirt would turn off most people, seeing as it's all girls on it.
16 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
yes
a lot
>>
>>16511878
If I saw a guy wearing that shirt, I'd probably be kinda weirded out just bc I'd assume that he's looking for a Waifu.
Not like in a big way though, I wouldn't dismiss a guy for his shirt if he was handsome.
>>
>>16511878
It's pretty cringey to most normies.
It's like wearing a Minecraft creeper hoodie. Looks kind of immature.
Anonymous
Porn doesn't do it for me anymore 2015-11-29 02:13:31 Post No.16511570
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Porn doesn't do it for me anymore 2015-11-29 02:13:31 Post No.16511570
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Porn doesn't do it for me anymore
Anonymous
2015-11-29 02:13:31
Post No. 16511570
[Report]
[View this topic]
I'm in a long distance relationship, so I go without sex for a couple months on end. Having experienced real sex with someone, all the clichés and my turn-offs in porn have become way more obvious, to the point of it not getting me turned on enough to masturbate regularly. I get horny after a few days without cumming but porn takes me a long time to cum. This gets in the way of work and other important stuff that wouldn't have been a problem before. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Is there an easy way to get porn to be hot again, or to make me go longer without wanting to masturbate?
I'd like to get this problem out of the way fast before I somehow wind up jacking it to questionable shit.
>inb4 'dump their ass and fuck someone else'
Pic unrelated, I made this bread today
24 Posts / 5 Images
View this topic
>>
Ask for more nudes or try video chatting naked
>>
>>16511570
Buy lube, an onahole, and an onahole warmer. Or some other various sex toys for yourself. Apparently feels closer to the real thing, and makes masturbating more interesting.
Also arrange it so you two can have cam sex. If you've never had it, it's way better than masturbating alone.
>>
>>16511673
OP here. Thank you!
Anonymous
Is there any hope that the job market will be better by the time I graduate? 2015-11-29 01:38:04 Post No.16511457
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Is there any hope that the job market will be better by the time I graduate? 2015-11-29 01:38:04 Post No.16511457
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: job market.jpg (15KB, 420x279px) Image search:
[Google]
15KB, 420x279px
Is there any hope that the job market will be better by the time I graduate?
Anonymous
2015-11-29 01:38:04
Post No. 16511457
[Report]
[View this topic]
When I applied for the course - there were shortages and a lot of students were headhunted. Now I am a freshman. Suddenly, the job market became super saturated and many people cannot find a job. Our professors invited special guests (eg. people who work in senior positions in the government and recent graduates) to tell us how job hunting will be very competitive for us and how we should consider jobs not directly related to our degrees.
Is there any hope that the job market will improve by the time I graduate?
28 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>16511457
bump
>>
>>16511457
bump again
>>
>>16511457
bump
Anonymous
Should I keep in contact with her? 2015-11-29 01:02:12 Post No.16511315
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Should I keep in contact with her? 2015-11-29 01:02:12 Post No.16511315
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: pen pal kit.jpg (179KB, 600x698px) Image search:
[Google]
179KB, 600x698px
Should I keep in contact with her?
Anonymous
2015-11-29 01:02:12
Post No. 16511315
[Report]
[View this topic]
When I was still a young child, I befriended a young girl in Canada and kept in contact with her. In the pre-internet days, we wrote letters to each other. Nowadays, we communicate via Facebook and email. However, since she lives in the middle of nowhere in Canada, her internet access is very poor and she is rarely online. I feel like we are distancing ourselves from each other and we just chat about very general stuff around once every 2-3 months.
However, we have the "routine" of mailing each other presents annually during birthdays and Christmases. The presents I mail in one occasion tend to cost around $20. It can sometimes even cost more. Mailing fees are expensive and I don't use a lot of the presents she sent me. Over time, this has become repetitive and we tend to send similar stuff each year - notebooks, bracelets, pens, key chains, etc.
It is hard to break away from this pattern though. Someone has to start it and breaking away from this "routine" will be rude.
Should I even keep in contact with her? I think it is natural for people to lose contact over time, but our pattern of mailing presents is preventing that.
17 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Whatever decision you make is fine. There's no wrong answer here. However if you're looking for a way to make a gentle break, you could include a letter in this year's package saying that you won't be able to continue the exchanges any longer. Thank her for everything, wish her well and do the slow fade online as well.
>>
>>16511325
Or alternatively, is there a way to change the pattern and become "closer"?
>>
Move on and save yourself the money of a relationship that isn't going anywhere. I am serious here because you aren't getting anything out of this besides shit you find in futureshop.
File: 1448750958863.png (152KB, 616x725px) Image search:
[Google]
152KB, 616x725px
Need some help bros.
>Dating a girl for a few weeks
>Everything is going really well
>Have a really romantic date on Wednesday
>Ignores me all the next day and then messages me saying how she isn't sure where she'll be in a few months and ends it. Says that she never wants to talk to me again.
What the fuck? Was there someone else?
28 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>16510871
well what exactly happened on that Wednesday?
>>
Onto the next mate , shes not feeling you. But good practice right ?
>>
She got back together with her ex OP. You dodged a major bullet.
Post pic and i'll tell you what to do to look your best.
314 Posts / 81 Images
View this topic
>>
>>
But I know the answer already.
>start lifting and eating healthy.
No thanks.
File: 2299-hotel-rwanda-f.jpg (313KB, 1920x1080px) Image search:
[Google]
313KB, 1920x1080px
I just watched Hotel Rwanda yesterday and I feel incredibly vulnerable. I can't stop thinking about how much evil is happening in the world and that Western civilization lives in some fairy tale bubble that world is safe and cool. All my problems, even my depression seem so unimportant in comparison to African folks problems. I wish I could do something about it. I want to sign up for some humanitarian volunteering, but I lack the guts. I feel bad for being a weak, cowardly human, I want to be brave and bring change to the world, not just by sharing stuff on FB and crying over post-colonial countries' people. I'm afraid though I'm going to die there and my work won't bring a significant change anyway and I'm paralyzed by this fear. Does it mean I won't make a good volunteer if I'm this weak?
How do I deal with these feelings? Does anyone has experience with volunteering in Africa or other hardcore part of the world? Hope to hear your stories, especially how you overcame fear of death.
32 Posts / 5 Images
View this topic
>>
The most effective thing you can probably do is get a well paying job and donate to charities you think actually help.
>>
>>16509735
It's ok. Dying isn't evil. People die all the time, both good and bad, both peacefully and violently. Sometimes bad people die peacefully, and sometimes good people die violently. In either case, it isn't wrong if you have no control over it. They are humans, and humans die no matter the quality of their virtue. It is totally natural. The only things you can judge as evil are your own actions based upon your innate sense of virtue. Everything else is circumstantial and cannot be understood. Truly, most men commit evil by mistake, thinking they are doing right but acting out of fear or pride.
Besides, the infinity of time stretching behind us, and the infinity of time before us make their lives, whether short or long by human standards, a trivial grain of sand on a great beach. There is no point to live in such perturbation over things utterly natural, and take less time than a blink of the universe's eye. Your life is yours to be enjoyed, do not worry over those things you have no control over. You change nothing, and feel pain over it, when you could instead have peace in the acceptance of the course of the world.
There will be many more massacres you cannot stop. There will be fear, jealousy, pride and conflict across the world you can't change. This does not mean you can't be happy. Accept these things as they are, a part of nature and neither inherently good nor evil, and move on with your life.
>>
You don't have to go to Africa to do important good in the world. Look at Nepal, for instance. It's one of the poorest countries in the world. They had an earthquake that killed almost 9000 people in late April, and those left alive lost the little commodities they had. Disabled children aren't recognised by the government. India just cut off their fuel supply, so it's very difficult to get around. But many people claim that it's one of the most beautiful, spiritual places on earth. Go there and build some shelters. And at the same time, meet incredibly peaceful people. There's very little conflict among the citizens. I know a couple of people who've been there, and they came back more beautiful themselves.
File: CGWvj1p - Imgur.jpg (641KB, 1920x1080px) Image search:
[Google]
641KB, 1920x1080px
Tell me. Why do you go on?
97 Posts / 13 Images
View this topic
>>
>>16505403
I want to make movies, and i have this delusion/hope that things might get better. :(
>>
>>16505403
Dunno, slim hope I'll feel well somehow.
>>
Drinking myself to death.
Anonymous
Girlfriend Won't Fuck 2015-11-29 08:04:00 Post No.16512787
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Girlfriend Won't Fuck 2015-11-29 08:04:00 Post No.16512787
[Report] Image search: [Google]
So I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months now and she absolutely won't do anything physical with me.
We have hooked up before and it was goddamn amazing, but this was over a year ago. Now that we're dating she won't even kiss me.
Now, I'm pretty sure that eventually she will crack and we will make passionate love again, but I am starting to lose my patience. Is there anything I can do to speed up the process or do I just have to try to keep my patience?
My efforts have inspired temptation but they certainly haven't been successful enough for her to give in.
>Hard mode: She no longer drinks or does drugs
19 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
File: david-bowie-china-girl.jpg (20KB, 700x487px) Image search:
[Google]
20KB, 700x487px
Communication!
>>
When you talked with her about this, and told her how important physical intimacy is for you, what did she say?
>>
>>16512787
She's probably not attracted to you.
Honestly I'd just flirt with other women because: a) it'll show she's not the best you'll ever have (which I bet she thinks) and; b) you might meet somebody better
File: 1337009012822.jpg (71KB, 500x630px) Image search:
[Google]
71KB, 500x630px
How do I into girls /adv/?
Started working seasonal retail recently. So naturally I have a couple of cute coworkers that I get to talk to on occasion.
Talking to them isn't really the problem, I can hold a conversation forever talking about whatever it is they're interested in and be confident or opinionated or whatever the whole time. So it's not like I'm spilling spaghetti everywhere every time there's a cute girl near me.
My question is, how the fuck do I escalate this. How do I go from just talking, to actually doing things outside of work, or getting a number without totally misreading the situation?
12 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>16512713
>Hey I was wondering if you wanted to go grab a coffee with me on X at Y?
A warning anon, dating or even attempting it at work can be a risky game. Not just in terms of getting fired or whatever but be prepared for lots of drama if anything explodes in your face.
>>
>>16512719
Yeah, that was a concern of mine as well.
Best to avoid entirely?
Or just not do anything proactively, so that I'm not really liable for potential "explosions" ?
>>
>>16512729
it isn't anything that you can really control. Let's say you invite one out and you go get coffee and she gets weirded out by you for some reason. Now every chick in her department and possibly the rest of the store will forever know you as "that guy who creeped out that poor girl"