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What is your opinions on a hairy body (mostly looking for a girls perspective)
>21 Male here
>Portuguese (50%) Dad is very hairy more then me
>Hair on my----
>Arms and behind my hands (kinda thick)
>Chest ( Not that thick but noticable)
>Shoulders and back ( medium thickness)
>Legs (medium high near the hips then thicker as it goes down)
A few girls I know have said that I have alot of body hair and they can only imagine how much I have under my clothes. ( They only see my arms)
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Hot
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>>16638492
Yeah but alot of it? or like a small fuzz here and there
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>>16638482
gross
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That feel when jealous as fuck gf.
So, during New Year celebrations, workmates from a whatsapp group texted me with "happy new year" shit messages.
My gf asked me later if i received some text for new year, and i told her about this. She got mad and all that women shit.
We've been discussing a lot since then, and she spouted i was bad for not telling her in the moment.
She has made a shitton of these scenes in the past, and really started to lost my patience.
Should i dump her? Sorry for bad engrish.
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>>16638430
And what about her and men?
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It's not going to get better. Decide on whether you think the relationship is worth it, you're the one dating her.
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Was she mad that you didn't text her for New Year's, or is she mad that you got a group text from people she's jealous of? Either way, that's not jealousy, and that's not "woman shit." That's just crazy person shit.
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Sup /adv/ I ran into a small problem, I don't think I have a style. Right now most of my shirts are one color and no design on it, and I just have normal jeans. Small bio to help out
>21 Male
>206 pounds ( working on lowering it at the gym its going pretty well)
>Hairy Body ( dont know if that matters like should I cover up my arms or not)
I want to try and get some better shirts or at least a distenctive style so I can feel better about myself when I go out.
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Bump
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>>16638412
Don't. It took me a long time to learn that there is no style. the only way you should dress is like people you want to be around, your age and wearing stuff that fits and looks natural.
Dress like the cool people in your area, not like a fashionista. Fashion is kind of like a gang sign, the clothes you wear tells people what you represent, and your style is really just copying the style of a famous person... Fashion is vain and there are artists who make clothes, but for normal people clothing is just like gang signs, dressing different is like being in another gang - it's threatening.
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Where would be a good place to shop or look for clothes that would be for someone around my age?
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I cheated on my gf by receiving a bj from a prostitute while being black out drunk 8 months ago.
I told my gf about it and she broke up with me.
Ever since, I feel like I have no reason to go on living. I dont necessarily want to kill myself, but I just have no motivation to do anything, and just dont see any point in living. Does this change after some time, or am I doomed to live out the rest of my life like this?
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You sound depressed. Sometimes medication can help. Talk to your doctor about it.
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how do you know you did the thing
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>>16638396
I couldnt be bothered to go to a doctor
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I remember images, when I ger totally drunk I remember like snapshots of what happened, also a friend who was significantly less drunk than me was in the brothel with me and he confirmed that I did hire a prostitute while being barely able to walk, so yeah, it happened
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When I was an idiot teenager I moved across the country to live with some guy I met online and had been in an ldr for a few months. I threw out almost everything I owned and took my most valuable possessions with me. Of course things went south very quickly and I had to run home after a few months and leave my things behind.
We keep in touch. He thinks I'm going back eventually. There's no way I am, I just talk to him so he can send my things back to me. He's promised so many times and I even sent him money but he never did. He promised to pay it back but of course he never did.
I know I'm getting scammed but they are irreplaceable sentimental items that I miss daily. Like my late grandpa's harmonica. I can't just go over there and collect my shit otherwise I would have.
What do guys. I just want my stuff back.
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It's been a few years since the move.
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get a bunch of friends, break in and get your stuff
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>>16638256
It will cost me thousands of dollars to get there and back, if it were any easier I would have done that
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My girlfriend has put me in an impossible situation.
We have been together over two years, we both still live at home, however we have been working a year now and are looking to move out this year. We would like to get a joint mortgage and are saving for that. Her parents own a flat which they rent out for extra income, however the people have just left. They have offered my GF and I the flat at a reduced rate, and shes really keen but I am not, and this is why;
we always agreed that staying somewhere under either parents lead is a no-go as they will be in control and we might as well not move out, to a certain extent.
We dont want to rent ideally, as its wasted money, and whilst we are at home to stay here and save for the next 8 months would make more sense rather than the bills that come from having your own place, which could mean we can get a morgage a lot sooner than later.
We always agreed that we could rent for a small amount of time, however under the brackets above, and after saving for longer. i.e end of 2016. Since her parents told her this she is over the moon, excited and I havnt said no but I've shown my dislike of the situation.
She has changed her mind obviously about the parent thing, and she has virtually said if i say no she doesnt mind moving in by herself until im ready, and we can do that later this year. We have always been a very open couple and very rarely would she want to be apart however she mentioned that it could be ok for her to stand on her own two feet, that she would be fine with it.
I know that if i say no she wil l take it as me not wanting to move with her, getting cold feet or whatever, however if I say yes i have a gut feeling it will backfire, not with us, but maybe rushing too much or later this year seeing a perfect opportunity we could have only done if we'd of saved the money.
Am I being unreasonable? Should I do it, or whats the deal here?
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you are being super unreasonable.
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Very very unreasonable and unwilling to compromise. She wants to move out so adjust your plans and stop worrying.
There is also such things as renter rights. You have 24 hour notice rights before landlord can just barge in. This doesn't change even with a discount.
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I just think its a waste of money and such a spur of the moment decision change. She obviously wants this but if we put the idea on the table last month it was no. We could leave it 8-10months have double the savings and move somewhere better, start towards something we own, rather than throwing away money, to of all people- her parents.
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>Bf and I have been trying to have a baby for a bit over a year now.
>No luck
>Go to doctor, try to see if either or both of us have any health problems.
>We check out as completely normal, healthy, fertile.
>Recommended we go for artificial insemination if we still have trouble, but that shit is unbelievably expensive.
Don't know what to do.
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A baby?!
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Have you been doing cycle tracking, to find the days you ovulate?
Find a local group of moms who does some kind of playdate thing and hang out with them, being around the pheromones of pregnant and lactating women makes you more fertile yourself
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There are medicines that increase your fertility. I imagine your doctor had prescribed you these. Did you try saline uterine flush? Did you ever have any chemical pregnancies (pregnant for a few days but implantation didn't take,or miscarried)? Did your doctor rule out a fallopian tube blockage?
Wife and I are in a similar situation trying for a second child. I know how frustrating this can be.
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As a 24 year old man who finally has a job that will allow him to move out of his parent's house...what are the pros/cons of getting an apartment or buying a house?
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Obviously, I'll have to live with my parents a while longer if I choose the buying a house route...and if so, should I save up until I can buy a house for its full price rather than paying it off as a monthly fee?
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Renting comes with a lot of bullshit but you can move around. Buying a house is forever.
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The house option fully paid is obviously a good financial move but it would take some time living with your parents and working to be able to pull that off.
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If a girl acts different around me than everyone else can it mean she likes me or that she hates me? Her friends say she's kind of shy, but I can't tell if she's shy or cold with me. If she's nervous or if she wants me to stop talking to her. Some friend of mine (not hers) told me she stares at me a lot but to me she seems like she avoids looking at me.
I act kind awkward around her because I like her but I still can't tell what would have made her be shy/cold with me since she was kind of different the first times we met.
Also, is it rude if I just go and ask her what's the deal with this attitude (in a nice way) and maybe tell her what I feel for her? I assume asking a friend of her about this (who's also friend of mine) would be a bad idea.
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>>16638111
If her friend is telling the truth and she actually does stare at you, I would say she probably likes you.
The reason she avoids looking at you might be because she doesn't want to look like a creep staring at somene for a long time.
It doesn't seem like you have much to lose by asking her out, so I'd just take the first step and invite her to do something fun together.
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>>16638111
Most of the time I assumed girls who did this, hated me. Later I thought maybe they switched and started liking me. Now, I'm like: wait a second!
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Same shit's happening to me, except this was 6 months after being rejected by her.
Pretty sure she hates my guts, but for you it could be different, you can never tell with women.
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How do you find a hobby? 2016-01-03 15:20:30 Post No.16638105
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How do i find a hobby that i can peform alone? I'm currently sitting in front of my computer 12h+ just thinking of the things that i should do (but i never end up doing).
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>>16638105
If you have friends, do something with them they love, it will motivate you et it will be very fun.
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>>16638105
>How do i find a hobby that i can peform alone?
most hobbies can done alone
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>>16638112
I find it really exhausting to hang out with friends, i rarely feel motivated after hanging out.
>>16638113
Maybe so, but i just don't know what to do.
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Hello anons. I have a problem. My gf just told me that a guy is calling her via messenger and she won't answer but she will not give me his name. What should i do ? Is this a test ?
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what's the problem?
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>>16638072
She is telling me this but she won't tell me his name.
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>>16638077
but what's the problem?
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Migration to USA or CANADA? 2016-01-03 15:09:42 Post No.16638066
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Migration to USA or CANADA?
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hello. i am sick of my own country and looking to migrate to a far more developed country such as US or Canada. I am thinking of becoming a police officer and living in peace until the day I die.
What are my options? I graduated from law school in my country and have no skills whatsoever.
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>>16638066
>What are my options?
depends on how rich you are. if you are not, then try to get married or get a job there and get a work visa.
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Where are you from?
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>>16638075
hi. if i was rich i could probably find a way to migrate to a nice country by investing in some business or something. i have no money.
>>16638082
i am from turkey and i am seriously sick of islamist policies of our government and feel like we might be sucked into a war in middle east soon.
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Complete lack of energy 2016-01-03 14:18:01 Post No.16637978
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24 f here, I have such shitty energy, i'm not overweight or anything but I can barely last 6 hours without needing a nap
Coffee barely helps and my bf gets mad that i am asleep half the day
any advice?
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What's your diet like?
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Work out.
You can start easy, just a walk/run routine for the first month 3 days a week until you can run 5 miles uninterrupted, then get into weights. The physical training will give you energy and help you stay more than awake during the day.
Like you said, it's not like you are overweight, but lazy people tend to have lazy muscles which means low energy levels. Work out and you will see results.
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>>16637985
I Jog daily but get sleepy after 2 miles
>>16637981
pretty bad i'm poor
Should i shave my head
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>>16637969
you'd look good either way
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>>16637969
Just get a haircut
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As a person who has no other choice but to shave his head, no, get a fucking haircut and stop being a whiny pussy
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So here's the deal, I may not be an obvious attention whore and do things like post slutty photos on social media, fish for compliments, or anything like that. Although I do wear tight or slightly revealing clothing (half because it makes me feel good about myself, half for the stares), send nudes in hope of compliments, enjoy getting catcalled ect ect. Keep in mind that I do not look for attention and it doesn't effect the way I behave or annoy others around me, I simply enjoy attention.
Anyways my problem is, I have a boyfriend. Now don't get me wrong I love him completely, but he is the type of guy who never gives attention in any way(which I suppose is good for me in a way!) For example if he invites me to an event and I suddenly can't make it due to unforseen circumstances he'll simply say "whatever I have other people to take" (not in a bitchy way, but is simply apathetic). He is obviously not in the wrong so I of course do not voice frustration because I realise it is idiotic.
So my question is, how do I stop feeling frustrated due to a lack of attention? Thanks for any advice :)
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I mean, I kinda get what you're feeling, you want to incite a particular reaction out of your boyfriend and if it doesn't work then you feel like he doesn't care about your presence. This is an immature way of thinking, but it is pretty common and not crazy or anything. There is not much you can do, because it is all in your mind. You have to try and train yourself not to have certain expectations of people, and if they react in an undesirable manner you've got to convince yourself with logic and reason. Maturity is a large part of this.
For example, in the past when I fought with my boyfriend I played the whole "I'll never talk to you again!" card because I wanted him to chase me. Eventually he caught on and was like "ok" when I said that. I realised it was super immature of me and not how I would like to be treated myself, and now when we have fights I try to go about it in a logical manner, such as not giving silent treatment and actually properly talking things out without yelling.
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>>16637968
If you admit you dress to get attention and that you like to get attention, and that you don't like not getting attention: you like attention.
If it talks like a duck and walks like a duck it's probably a duck.
Once you admit that you can work on figuring out why you like attention and how to not need it as much.
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>>16637990
Yeah I realise it's a pretty immature thing to feel and that it is kinda unreasonable. The odd thing is that I use logic and reason is basically every other aspect of my life (almost to fault at times) but it seems this aspect of me has been excluded from the logical thinking.
The thing is, I don't do anything like the "I'll never talk to you again" thing because I don't actively seek a response, it's more just subtle things. Plus even though we have been together 7/8ish months we have never fought because 1. we both have very similar views and 2. we are both too logic orientated.
Literally, it barely effects my life at all, the only thing the need for attention causes is frustration. Although it isn't really to incite a reaction from my partner because I don't do enough to obviously incite a reaction and the attention doesn't necessarily have to be from my partner.