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Drugfags needed.
Anyone ever had a psychadelic crisis? How did you deal with the trauma afterwards? I can explain my situation if people actually show up to help and it's not just a bunch of straight edge losers trolling

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I live in Canada and have since 76. As far as I remember I would avoid Canadians for the most part until forced(crushed) to interact with them and now I see the cryptic language patterns of this place. It's so sickening to realise some being warps peoples minds but does other interesting effects as well. The Canadians are obsessed with ruining my life and it's been that way since I was born. Even my kindergarden teach who I had a crush on was named miss foot then wham many years later my foot gets crushed... This place is seriously some fucked up mind control hell. The Canadians are so insanely corrupt and the piece of shit being that influences our lives keeps helping ruin my life. LIke I came back to this place and after a bunch of interesting effects which I caught on camera kind of proving something manipulating people and reality all this place did was constantly annoy in almost every way possible. Like having thoughts pouring in to my mind synchronized with others driving or walking around. Just some really fucked up shit. I kept getting the idea to try and warn the female character about this place since I can see and feel how my mind and body are being influenced and how this place planned out creating a trashy story with our lives. Which atleast here according to language patterns are as God and Goddess characters. So it's like... just some really shitty like story that's as if the Canadians wanting to arrange relationships for our lives and doing so in cryptic patterned ways so as to prove we're being mind controlled. And just the thougt of either of us being sexual with Canadians is just a trashy story. All this place ever does is constantly arrange ruining my body and life. Like an obsession with words such as PRESS... which can be to CRUSH! So they oppress me, and pressure me into situations which ruin my life, Crush/Press/ Force together into a relationship and basically rape my life and crush my foot in a press! to express language patterns!

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Does anyone know what it's like going to college with no plan? I'm a year and a half into getting a general studies aa and I feel like I've just been waisting my time and parents money going for something so general with no plan

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>be me
>"celebrating" 18th bday
>invite girl I really like over
>things get heated
>get to see her tits
>her tits could be ALOT better
>dont know what to do now
>still really like her
>dont want to dump her just cause of her tits

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So, at what point should a person get help? A relationship I had recently ended unexpectedly and although I've had many before and been just fine, I seem to be really struggling at the moment. I've been crying every day for a month and have constant panic attacks. Friends think I'm being melodramatic but I'm really struggling day to day here. Should I wait it out and harden up or do I seek help?

It seems kinda stupid to get psychological help just because of a break up but I'm not coping. I no longer enjoy anything and I feel sick in my stomach all day.

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>Meet girl on Tinder
>Nice, we hit it off we've met once
>She texts me everyday says I really like you and shit
>Suddenly she stops texting me on Jan 1st
>She says she's straight edge and very monogamous
>we're in college and she's at home over the break
>Ok, won't pester her too hard
>Jan 2 I text "how's 2016" or something
>Nothing

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>20
>lost my job
>2.18 gpa CM&E program
>need a 2.5 to stay in program
>pscyosis
>diabetic (T1)
>gf lives over 1000 miles away

Recently lost my job, I'm getting by shoveling shit at a barn now. Give me some kind of legitimate justification not to either kill myself or go back to taking adderal just to get through the day

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Why do some, mostly younger men address women as dude, man, bro, etc.?

Is this socially acceptable now?

What happened to hon, woman/girl, or sister?

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I got no dating life what so ever and I don't see the situation improving itself. The fact is that I'm getting older and therefore losing my looks as the years come by. I'm not really being approached now and I don't see guys doing that when I get older and saggier and what not.

I broke up almost a year ago, but I still miss my ex and think about him daily. I decided to step out of the dating game until I'm fully recovered, and since the breakup I've just dedicated to improving myself.

I'm just afraid that I'll never meet anyone who'd compare to him. Not that he was a 7'0 astronaut with a dick made out of chocolate, but I really loved him from the bottom of my heart. I don't know if I can love anyone else like that. Honestly, I don't wanna and I don't believe that I could find someone who'd compare to that feeling.

I've accepted that it's over and I know that it's probably for the best, but I still just can't think about falling for someone else. And as mentioned in the beginning, I never meet any new guys. There are no interesting ones at the uni, and my life spins around library and gym only. I spend time with my friends too, but the truth is that you don't just randomly get to know some people you have nothing in common with. If it wasn't for Tinder, I wouldn't even had any dating life, ever.

I don't know why men generally doesn't seem to be too interested. For most women it seems to happen so naturally and boyfriends falls into their lap one after another. I'm not ugly, but that's just not happening for me.

I just feel like that it will never happen. I'm 23 and I have never been in a real, actual relationship. (I've dated twice for few months but it wasn't that serious.)

My self-esteem is pretty good. I consider myself as a pretty, athletic and rather smart person. I'm not cocky, but let's just say that I feel pretty confident being me. Still, the fact that men doesn't like me per se makes me feel a bit sad.

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Almost every weekday morning I throw up/dry heave. A few times this year it's been so bad that I break capillaries in my eyelids/around my eyes and I look like I've been in a fistfight. I never feel nausea, but two doctors haven't been able to figure out what is wrong and just have assumed I really turned it up and drank too much - but this happens when I don't drink, too. And I know what a hangover feels like.

I feel like this is anxiety from my job causing me to do this, because it only seems to happen after I wake up and start to panic. What should I do to stop this?

I had to call in sick today due to it, because everyone is going to think I got crazy and got into a fight over NYE and I can't have that kind of perception in a corporate gig.

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Hey guys, i have a problem and i hope someone here can give me some advice.
I have been together with my boyfriend for 7 months now and he is pretty hung. The thing is that we like it a little rough, but I am pretty tight and after we have sex it often really hurts.. I have been to the gyno several times and she always said that everything is fine and that I am just swollen etc.
okay now has anybody had the same problem and knows a solution? Some special lube or something?

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So I tried to sneakily see how my friend felt about pedophiles. Judging by how she responded , do you guys think I messed up ?

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I need advice friends. I'm in the most perfect relationship with the girl I'm going to marry. For the past few days I've been quite lacking in passion towards the relationship. I believe it's the distance. Right now we're apart, only for a few weeks. I'm getting frustrated with things more then usual. She's depressive but this doesn't show often. But lately her mood and negativity has been frustrating me which saddens her further. It's a lack of empathy for her problems, but it's sad to me that I feel this way. This is the first time I have lost a passion for the most important person to me. This upsets me more because it seems like something as simple as distance has made me feel this way. Help me out /adv/ how do I change this, what thought path should I be on. Thanks.

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Need some advice on moving on from a relationship

Was in a long-term relationship with a girl for about a year and a half. We both really, really loved each other (in fact, I was planning on marrying her when things were more stable) but there were some bumps. We were both at a time in our lives where we were very depressed, and we sort of had a long distance relationship (lived about 2 hours from each other.) Eventually it became too much and we broke up with each other. There were a lot of bad feelings after the breakup, but we tried to stay in touch. Things were actually pretty good for a while, but then last christmas I admitted I still had feelings for her. After that she would only respond to our conversations with one-word answers, and eventually four months later she just stopped talking to me altogether, and blocked me on Skype and facebook. I sent her one last email over the summer trying to be as honest as possible with her, saying I still had feelings for her, and asking her if she still had any for me. She was polite enough, but she said no. A couple of months later I tried getting in touch with her again (not for any dramatic feels talk but just to talk as friends), but she completely ignored me. Over the holidays I'd send her a message every month or so, but never got a response.

I don't have romantic feelings for her anymore, and I guess now I have to give up on ever hearing from her again. The thing is, I still worry about her a lot (she was very depressed and suicidal during our relationship) and I think that if I knew she was okay it would be easier to just move on.

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I can't stand people who smoke, whether it's tobacco, weed, those vaping devices, etc. Here we are in 2016, and we still allow people to smoke? Despite all the scientific evidence that smoking is harmful? Where I live, everybody smokes. I know hardly any other non-smokers. People smoke everywhere, even in nursing homes and smoke-free areas. The streets are littered with cigarette butts. Everyone has an annoying smokers' cough and they all smell like an ashtray. Something needs to be done about smokers and the availability of cigarettes. I don't care if it's their right to smoke; they're too stupid to have any rights.