i can't stop thinking about her.
>>16632327
I'm sorry for you. It will get better in time and maybe she'll visit you somehow to let you know she is okay.
>>16632327
Sorry to hear
>>16632327
;_;7
Asexualfag here. Why do so many people break up? Why is it that a lot of relationships do not last?
Pic unrelated
>>16632295
Temptation and/or the lust wears off.
Because we live in the age of Kali Yuga.
Sometimes you end up not being able to stand the other person. It gets to the point where being alone or even death seems better. So you break up and life doesn't suck as much.
My boyfriend keeps pressuring me to have sex. I'm not sure that I'm ready ,but I don't want to lose him to some who'll do him! So I was considering anal. But I'm not sure if I'd be comfortable with that. Do guys even like that sort of thing? Will it stretch my ass hole? I'm so lost I'm not sure what to do... Please help?
It's gods loop hole
>>16632277
If he leaves you only because you won't do anal, then he might not be worth worrying over.
Just try shoving a dildo in your ass it'll give a perspective on the situation if you don't have a dildo use a wii remote those work great!
Lets say you have a son and daughter. then some guy who is mad at you kills them both to get back at you, then kills him self. would you kill his only child to get back at him?
lol idk
sage
>>16632265
No. That child had nothing to do with the situation, and since the man is already dead, he'll never be able to feel the pain that you went through
>>16632265
Yes if it were legal, justice is justice.
>roommates stole some shit
>go into their room while they're gone
>they have a fucking security camera under the bed
Fuck. What the fuck do I do? I didn't notice until after I looked through their shit
>>16632227
*go into their room while they're gone to look for it
If they stole from you, and you're just taking your own stuff back, then you've done nothing wrong. Why would you live with people who steal from you?
Did you find your stuff in their room? How do you know that they stole from you?
How do I convince my gf to do anal
>>16632226
Me, I live by the rule: better say sorry than ask for permission. Take that as you will.
You become a ninja a sneak it In the back door
Can you do anal?
for love to come into your life, do you:
have to search for it and make it happen?
or
let it come to you?
>>16632169
You should know by now that love is just a short drive away in Flavortown.
>>16632171
>not falling in love every few years
>>16632175
>falling
therein lies my question
is it something you "fall" into?
or is it something you have to look for, say "this is going to happen," and make it a reality?
guy at work calls me "buddy" and it really bothers me. he only calls the men at work buddy, and i'm not even his buddy. he doesn't like me and told me i was no fun to talk to. he's not a bad person though and tries to be nice except for this one thing.
trying not to care but each time he says it i feel annoyed. help.
have you tried not being insane.
>>16632111
Ask him to call you pal, friend.
call him some name that he doesn't like
Then fight him in the parking lot when one of you has had enough.
What is the best way to cook a chicken for a group of people you've never met? Im not sure what any of them likes.
>>16632074
Rosemary chicken or teryyaki chicken. Cook it well, you don't want to kill your guests who trust you to feed them.
>>16632074
Fried. Fucking everyone loves fried chicken.
>>16632074
Grill.
What does a man say to his girlfriend of one week who actively talks to her ex's, spends time with guys she has previously fooled around with, and made out with her best friend, another female, avidly on new years?
>>16632058
Tell her that her behavior is bothering you instead of making a thread on 4chan wasting my bandwidth.
Jesus.
>his girlfriend of one week
does she know she's your girlfriend?
>IMG_5775.png
Is that you? What the fuck is your problem?
Btw this Chris is her ex. Do I just cut my losses?
>Can't decide a major
>wanted to do film at first
>but FUCK that the curriculum was so ugly, and the horror stories i'd heard
>came to realization, dodged bullet
>Wanted to do physics next because it was interesting and it would maybe get me somewhere
>Didn't like the idea of all the school, and search for tenor to research. A bachelors would get me a few good looks on resumes. but not physics
>decided to maybe write programs for physicists and astronomers who needed it
>Switched to Computer Science
>Spent my just my Pre-calculus class thinking about other things I could be doing
>lose motivation from not studying physics
>don't want to go back
>"maybe I can use this all to work on something fun like video games."
>use that to numb the pain for a bit
>girlfriend brings up 3D animation instead
>begin fantasizing about that in class
>"well, it's not exactly film.. and everything is 3D now right?"
>grow more dissatisfied the more I think about it in math class
>ditch final
>glad to be out
>Not sure what I'm really doing though
>google "3D animation" and mostly for profit schools and niche programs come up
>not sure what major I should be taking
>currently taking a transfer path for Fullerton's major Fine Arts: Animation
>uncertain of the future
>uncertain of my path in life
>don't want to waste time taking classes anymore
no matter what path you choose you'll need the basics so don't freak about "taking the wrong class". just focus on learning. even if you decide to be a burger flipper in the end, knowing calculus won't make you any worse or prevent you from being a better burger flipper.
in your spare time try to contact people studying what you want to study, of working where you want to work, and see if that's what you want. if you're still lost just pause your education till you can get your shit together.
>>16632050
But I want to know now, you know?
Like I've got some sort of idea..? I'm kind of decent when it comes to art when I'm winging it, and my gf says with more practice I'd be phenomenal.
I also think 3D animation might be a way for me connecting with Film, which I originally skimped out on.
But I just don't know where to go with it, how I'll end up.
The comforting thing with CS and Physics was, atleast I was pretty much guaranteed a job *somewhere*.
I know it's not going to kill me but it hurts not to know, and it's been driving me mad.
>Start at film
>go through real things people do
>arrive in fantasy land
you fucked up. go back.
>Is 29-year-old femanon
>Been dating a somewhat obese, average-looking guy
>He is nice but kind of boring
>I can financially support myself
>>16632007
Unless you're very attractive and a virgin before you met him you're not settling.
>>16632018
How is this relevant?
>>16632007
>>16632037
What do you want out of this thread? To be told not to settle?
>>16632037
He is saying it's the best you can do, it's pretty relevant, if a bit trollish.
I've been with my gf for just over a year, and I'm starting to feel, well, bored.
she's not my first serious gf, and I know all about the honeymoon period (which was over for us quite a while ago, being at a year together already), and while she is really cool, very nice to me, and such a sweet girl, I have started to notice how boring she is
Other girls I've been with, or been interested in, have really been able to keep me on my toes, and seem to constantly find new ways of surprising me.
One that I keep thinking of was a girl I knew/dated for a combined total of maybe 6 months, about 2 years ago. Smart, down-to-earth, in-touch in almost a hippy way, but not excessively so, devout Catholic, just a very interesting girl overall. because she was a devout Catholic, I never got any action from her, but I honestly didn't care. On top of that, I didn't masturbate, or really even think about it, for practically the entirety of us being together. And I'm the type to whack it at least once or twice A DAY normally. she just had some kind of magic over me where talking to her and being around her was enough.
now, my current girl, even after a year of being together, I can spend the night at her house, have sex in the morning, head home to do my stuff for the day, and whack it once I get home. the sex is amazing, but I think it's the mental fulfillment that I'm lacking, so I make up for it by masturbating, if that's even a rational way to think of it. there's no mental stimulation, no true desire to make myself better for her sake, no dreaming about this amazing girl or hanging on her every word.
I realize not all girls are like the one I had a while ago, but the fact that I had at least ONE makes me think there are others out there, too.
is it worth giving up the relationship I have to go try and find that again? or is it a fantasy that I won't ever find again?
Yeah, if you're already bored at just over a year, she's not the girl for you.
>>16631983
i suppose the root of my question is:
what makes a successful long-term relationship/marriage?
average amount of work put into someone who is just normal and not exciting to you?
or someone who might be really exciting to you, but stressful because of the excitement?
I feel like the girl I knew was definitely exciting and made me really fulfilled, but rationalized our separation later by telling myself I'd probably get tired of her wanderlust, her always asking questions, her crazy interest in seemingly EVERYTHING...
bumping because I could use some insight
the only thing that keeps me holding on, I suppose, is when she talks to me. if we don't talk for a few hours, and I start getting inside my own head thinking about this stuff, I start to have a crisis where I think "what am I doing, the last girl was so much better, I can do better, why do I have no excitement towards this girl" but then we start talking and I feel fine, even if it's about nothing.
is it just the attention I enjoy? the sex? it is amazing, but then again, I know other girls can be, too. I don't know. there's something about her that always keeps me going back to her, and I'm not sure what it is. i feel like if it's one of the aforementioned things, I can find that anywhere.
is it a red flag if I can't pinpoint what it is I love so much about this girl?
Hey i am so depressed. Tomorrow i am going to check myself into the hospitol. Does anyone know what i should expect.
>>16631922
Supreme boredom and more questions than you want to answer.
>>16631923
They wont let me have things to do
Check in by yourself ?
At the advice of a medical professional?
Do you have insurance?
Does your country offer free medical support? How much research have you done on the hospital?
Is it a psych facility or a general hospital?
Do you have any issues with rules and a set structure?
How are you with speaking in a group?
Hi, This is the first time I post here. Lately I've been severly affected by fear. I always think in the worst possible scenario of almost every situation and I can't avoid it. I already have colitis for being worried all the time. I really can use some advice.
Did a love one of yours die?
>>16631925
No.This whole thing started because I have a 16 year old dog and I feel very afraid and sad when I think of her future death, She is like part of the family and she's been my only companion during the last year. Tonight she was kind of choking after her meal and I just froze by fear. She recovered a few seconds later by herself but I couldnĀ“t help her at all.
I always imagine the worst scenario and Im sick of it.
>>16631989
You're probably going to be sad. That's normal. Being afraid of being sad is not normal.