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where do you meet non-normie girls (outside of 4chan)?
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>>16637880
normie girls go out, non-normie girls are shut-ins
like you!
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Online dating is a big one, my man.
Or conventions.
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>>16637890
the numbers are way too skewed for online dating to work. if i was a girl, why would i care to respond to some random scrub when i'm bombarded with hundreds of messages a day? i have tried it, was pretty shitty
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and they're as unapproachable as i am, yet may be the only ones that could accept my situation. it's a pickle
My girlfriend is a very religious person and that has become a reason to not have sex or any intimacy in that area (not even touching)
Everything was good in a start, but she has started to go deeper into christianity.
I love her, and without any doubt, i wont cheat on her, yet im young and i want sex, i want sex only with her. What to do /adv/ ?
(Im scientist-believer myself, student, working in a lab of cellular pharmocology)
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Don't have sex, marry her, or jerk it. You aren't going to convince her her religion is wrong and she's not going to fuck you until you marry.
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>>16637877
I thought about it and im planing to do it, but cant yet.
Problem is, we live in a different countries. See each other like 2-3 times a month, speak every day via skype.
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So you're not the typical "I'm into science, religion is a scam", you're the next level "guy into science" because you actually work in a scientific field. Well science (formerly called 'natural philosophy') is not completely accurate to believe in because no scientist can say as there is no religious field - are you going to trust an astrophysicist to have the answers to lifes greatest questions like he's some master philosopher for being an expert in only ONE branch of science? there's just a lot of people "into science" and against religion but they're foolish. they're just as foolish as people "into religion" and aren't dedicating their lives to it, you can't possibly know all the science branches so don't act like you have all the answers. maybe when we can download books into our brains, progress will go quicker but how are you going to figure out something that's supposed to be a mystery until you die?
As for your girlfriend, if you are good with deep conversation and she is passionate (like most women) you can convince her to have sex if it's a sensual experience, very feely, girls like that. Not too sexually ravenous which is what she's avoiding as a Christian because it's too primitive and sinful. She should understand you are young and you haven't got the rest of your life to wait, you'll be old and sex will be less pleasurable. Don't regret not having sex when you're of young age. Just turn it into a passionate experience and you might avoid marrying her.
If she refuses until marriage it won't last I think, that's how it ended for someone I know.
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>GF enjoys it when im more dominant in bed
>She always tells me to go harder, faster, bite her more, spank her harder etc
>Tells me she wants to be totally submissive and absolutely dominated
EVERY FUCKING TIME SHE WILL END UP GETTING SO TURNED ON, THAT SHE WANTS TO GET ON TOP AND RIDE ME, AND CONTROL IT, AND ENDS UP GOING SUPER SLOW BECAUSE ITS MORE SENSITIVE FOR HER
This really kills my rhythm and breaks my feeling of dominance.
At times ive told her no, thrown her back down and overpowered her, but she always "breaks character" and asks if she can go back on top to get herself off.
Its really fucking hard to be dominant, when she attempts to do what she wants, and effectively asks me to star fish while she goes at her own speed on my dick.
Aside from chaining her to the bed, how do I address this, and make her remain in submissive character ?
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>>16637798
...tell her that?
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Wait. Is it you or her that wants her to be totally submissive/you to be totally dominant?
Your greentext says it's her preference, which makes me ask why you hate it when she's enjoying herself.
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>>16637807
She switches in the middle though. That's the thing.
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There is a guy I'm interested in. I recently found out some things though, and I am getting a creeping feeling he might be a ... bad person. Tell me what you guys think.
1. He has stolen guys girlfriends not once, but twice (afaik)
2. he recently slept with a girl who his close friend was in love with. She was also close friends with him, but I thought it was unethical to have sex with someone your friend feels strongly for. Also it sucks that he slept with his friend, in general.'
So, does he seem like a bad guy? Cause I'm starting to feel that way.
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>>16637639
At least in terms of relationships hell fucking yes.
If you want to be in a relationship with someone who cares about you stay the hell away.
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>>16637648
Thanks, I think you're right. It's too bad, we get along extremely well.
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>>16637649
It seems pretty clear his dick overrides his heart. He may just not give a shit about others.
Either way, yeah, stay away. You dodged a bullet.
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Hey /adv/.
I masturbate on the upwards of 6 times a day.
I am a single-by-choice, young, heterosexual male with quick access to masturbatory aid (I.E porn sites, porn mags) and a high sex drive.
I sometimes feel like I masturbate simply because I am bored and find myself with nothing to do, and am rarely in a situation that disallows the action.
I'd be hard-pressed to believe that my fapping isn't unhealthy, but what exactly are the negative effects caused by my sexual habits? Are there any benefits to masturbating frequently, even as frequently as I do? What are the positives and negatives to not masturbating? How do I kick the habit?
>tl;dr I masturbate too much, what do
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Start lifting. Get some friends
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>>16637586
>single-by-choice
Sure you are buddy.
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That's pretty normal and to be honest there is nothing wrong with that.
Do some push-ups instead every other time you feel like fapping. Something like that, actually do something productive in that time.
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I am 18, senior year in high school, and have pretty much decided to join the US military. I want to join in order to have a 'realer' life experience, and to actually do something. I want an experience that isn't simply more academics. I also feel like I could do some good in the military, now that transgender individuals will be permitted to join, I could be the first generation of openly transgender military women, I feel like this would be a positive change.
My skills are as follows
>Modestly proficient machinist
>Modestly proficient carpenter/woodworker
>Basic electronics understanding
>MIG welder
>Fast learner
>Not afraid to die
So my question is, what branch should I join, and what job should I pursue?
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>>16637393
Mechanic in any branch sounds like what you want
Try to kill the ASVAB and take what you get
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>>16637403
Sorry, forgot to add
Talk to a recruiter from each service.
AF crew chief can be an awesome job if you are cut out for it
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>>16637403
I took the practice ASVAB, but I really hard a hard time finding reference for what a good score is
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I'm an American living in Japan and I think I might maybe possibly have a shot with a girl here.
But Japanese as a language is very indirect, and I'm worried that if I am too direct it might scare her or give a bad feeling, maybe?
Anybody have any experience with cross culture relationships?
Note: her English is great. My Japanese is garbage but she appears to be interested in teaching me.
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>>16637377
Why not just talk in English then?
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She is talking to you for no apparent reason.
This means she wants you, ya dummy.
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>>16637380
That doesn't actually change the nature of how communication works with Japanese people, in my limited experience.
That said, we do mostly speak in English but I'm trying to up my Japanese too.
So /adv/ I've been in a relationship for the past 3 years. It was rocky for the first bit but passionate and we both desired each other. Now I feel like the desire or passion is gone and were running out of thing to talk about and it's just not as exciting as it used to be (but I still really care for him)
Any suggestions on how to get the passion or desire back? I know this happens in every relationship and I don't want to leave him, I just want to make some tweaks that can make things more exciting for the both of us.
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I don't think being exciting us a requirement. Hell, it isn't sustainable.
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I feel the same way about my chronically lazy and over masturbating boyfriend. I care about him but I don't want to be stuck with him in this state in the future.
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Take 70-100 MG of MDMA, it saved my relationship.
If you can't get MDMA, just have a night where you hang out, drink red wine, eat pizza, and cuddle. this is like relationship therapy. Enjoy each others company and have a heart to heart about your relationship under the good conditions of alcohol and delicious pizza
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How does one go about not masturbating?
I've started on the the day gay marriage was legalized and I've fapped 172 times altogether. Wat do.
I just now masturbated, and violated my unspoken New Year's resolution, just so you know. I would say that I felt bad about it, but I really didn't, at least not now, but I did several minutes ago.
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May I ask what your motivation is?
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Masturbation is healthy. Do it, don't eschew it.
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>>16637223
For the masturbation or currently failing effort against it?
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Are there any good ways to speed up getting over a girl? I'm doing pretty good but I just found out my ex already has a new boyfriend who's a skinny little fag boy and it hurts to know he'll probably be the one to take her virginity instead of me, and just hurts to think about them being intimate in general
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What makes you think you have any entitlement to her virginity? What's so special about her virginity anyway?
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Get a new girlfriend.
>It's the only way.
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>>16637162
A guy goes to his doctor.
"Doctor!" He says. "It hurts when I do this. "
You know what the doctor says?
"Don't do that."
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My gf got a tattoo on the ribs, and she will only show it to me in person. I find that kind of tattoos way to sexy.
We've never had sex or anything past kissing. And to be honest I want to avoid a freaking boner when I see her tattoo, because she will probably be in her bra or something, and it would be too weird.
Any advice?
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>>16637137
wait. what?
if you don't want to get an erection in front of your GF, who do you want to get an erection in front of?
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Have sex now, you stupid cow.
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>>16637137
That's fucking natural.
And girls with tattoos on their ribs are usually trashy anyways, why not try banging her?
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Hey /adv/ I will be losing my viriginity tomorrow, but I don't know if I should do it. This chick has slept with other guys and I don't want any diseases. Do I still go for it? I'm 18 male by the way.
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>>16637115
I did something like that. Didn't really care then, dont care now
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>what are condoms?
>inb4 I don't want to use condoms on my first time
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>>16637115
If you're looking for a virgin girl who isn't ugly/fat you're about 5 years too late. Go for it.
I don't usually come on here, but I'm desperate. I need a Lawfag to help me with a predicament. I recently met a 16 year old girl online (age of consent in my state is 16). She was at a cheap diner in a shitty city on the outskirts of Detroit when I met her. She wanted to talk, so I decided I'd bite and talk to her. I had no intentions of sex, I have a gf, but she shared interests with me and I was bored so I said fuck it, free dinner and someone to talk to.
She ends up making me feel bad for her because she says her boyfriend ditched her, she's locked out of her house til 5 am(it was about 11 at the time), and she wanted to go away. I told her I'd drive her around and maybe find a place for her to crash for the night.
She insisted the whole drive to stay at my place, and I didn't want her to, I made it very clear I was just here to talk, she asks if we can go to a park late at night and hang out there to see it. I say fuck it why not. So after about 5 minutes of driving she says she wants to go out and walk, we do but it's freezing, eventually we decide to walk back to the car, and a cop nabs us.
>Flash forward to 3 days ago
Talk to the detective and he asks me a couple of questions, tries to see if I'm some kind of creep or pedo(finds out I'm not), and still tries to press charges on me. I now have a fine for "contributing to the delinquency of a minor" when all I did was get her out of that shitty diner and try to persuade her to go home. What the fuck do I do? It's a misdemeanor and I'm not trying to get fucked over this bullshit when I WAS trying to be a good citizen.
I wouldn't lie to you guys on here. I need legit advice, so throw some knowledge my way. The way I see it is she was out past curfew regardless if I picked her up or not, so this is bullshit.
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Get a lawyer.
And next time ask for a lawyer as soon as you are arrested, fool.
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They can't convict you unless you actually did something and they can prove it. You should be fine unless they convince her to say you did something. That said, you should go and see an actual lawyer, I'm just working with general legal principles I know because I know nothing about where you live
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>>16637144
Wasn't arrested, they sent me a letter in the mail saying I had to go to the court house to pay a fine and have a misdemeanor put on my record.
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So I've come across a dilemma:
Girls are attracted to me.
However, I don't find them attractive at all.
This has happened for years whether I've noticed it or not and at this point I've come to realize that this means that I'm not-so-attractive. It's not a confidence issue; I can love myself to near-narcissism and girls who are above my level will still not give me a chance. I see ugly guys believing themselves to be supermodels getting rejected by them.
Henceforth, I am left with three options:
1.)Gain power, money, status, and other external things
2.)Lower my standards
3.)Find a way to become attractive
The first option sounds great, but I like the idea of doing that for myself and I dislike the idea of a girl being attracted to the things I own rather than I, myself.
I don't like the idea of the second one, because I'm an idiot. I'd rather live a life of celibacy than be with a girl whom I'm not attracted to.
So that leaves me with the third option, to which I ask: how do I accomplish this?
There's exercising, eating right, and wearing better clothes, which I'm working on at the current moment, but is there anything else?
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wat.
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Go out with the girls that are attracted to you, date them, fuck them, learn the world of women. Then dump them for another that you like slightly more, repeat, and climb the ladder.
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>>16637125
It's my dream to lose my virginity to an attractive lady, so that doesn't work.
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There's this girl I know who I know for a fact is interested in me. I've known this for about 4 months now and it's common knowledge among mutual friends. She's really pretty and genuinely really nice, but I haven't asked her out or talked to her about it. The reason for this is that so far, she has not made single effort to gain my attention other than tell friends that she's interested in me, who then tell me about it.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but when someone is interested in you romantically, they should do something about it and prove they genuinely like you, right? Because otherwise, she seems like she doesn't give a shit. So far, her and our friends are expecting ME to make a move for some reason. It's not that I'm not into her, but it's that I'm put off by everyone expecting me to take charge of a vague, unenthusiastic opportunity that I didn't ask for. So what am I supposed to do? Keep her in tow until she proves she's actually interested, or just confront her and tell her what I'm saying in this post.
Pic is how I feel right now about people drama.
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There could be many reasons why she hasn't said anything. Do you two talk often?
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That's women for you. But at least she is telling other's about her liking you. It's a woman's dream for the man to make the first move and take her on a nice date. You can either make her fantasy come true or you can put on a fedora and post on /adv/ and /r9k/ about how dumb women are. It's not going to change.
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>>16637168
This