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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 122.4) Holy Shit It's 2016 (FOR REAL) Edition 2016-01-01 18:35:07 Post No.16629826
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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 122.4) Holy Shit It's 2016 (FOR REAL) Edition
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2016-01-01 18:35:07
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Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
(Version 122.4, running since Oct. 31st, 2013)
REMINDER: This isn't>>>/r9k/orwizardchan
Happy New Year NEETs and shut-ins!
Drop out of school due to anxiety? Haven't left the house in a few years? Maybe you have a job, but don't leave the house or talk to people for any reason outside of it? Finding a job sure is hard these days.
The best time to change your life was 5 years ago. But the good news is, the second best time is right now!
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I just dreamed about my highschool time , I was in a rich zone high school , at that time everything seems to be possible for me in the future , I was getting good at grade , good at social , I have no idea how fucked up I'm going to be as now , I have accepted that the term "society" is a fake construct because friends and languages cannot get you a job that sustains your life but examinations and trades do. Should I go travel by myself /adv/? I can't afford many things but I still wanna see europe. I am a chinese who's good at English.
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Happy New Year, NEETs and everyone else.
>tfw sick with a cold and it makes me real dizzy
Also I am that NEET who had two job interviews right before Christmas. They did not go well. And now it's scary how easy it would be to slide back into the hikki world.
Oh well, anyways everybody keep your hopes up for the new year!
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Okay. I would like to have advice from a guy, please.
I'm married. My husband works A LOT. He says that's why he doesn't have sex with me much anymore. Well, last night I found out he's been watching porn & masturbating. The only reason this bother me is because he has to time & energy to fantasize about some random girl on his phone, but not the time or energy to make love to me anymore.. We recently had a baby a few months ago. I know my body isn't as great as it use to be, but that doesn't mean he should just stop having sex with me. I just feel like I'm not good enough. This really hurts.
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Kek why is there suddenly a massive surge of clingy bitches that need to calm their tits down?
Masturbating is easy, "making love" is exhausting. He's tired when he comes back and sometimes he will want to empty his nuts and you take this personally? If you are horny then masturbate, if you want to have sex with him then initiate and stop wishing for him to beg you for it. Fuck damn these people.
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Have you talked with him about it?
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>>16651543
don't listen to this guy OP he's a kid or an idiot or both
How many times have you had sex since the little one arrived?
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Hello, i am a 22 year old male who is quickly slipping into a very dark place i should be happy with my life i am dating a 16 year old very attractive young woman whom is frankly completely out of my league..i have no job i am not in school and i live with my mother and random misc shitty people she keeps around..i cant remember the last time i felt happy i barely leave my house other then to take my girlfriend to and from work..i am making this post because about 20 minutes prior to me making this post..i got into a heated argument with my girlfriend and she said alot of things that hurt me..though i know they are all true and that frankly makes me feel awful about myself..every time we fight ..cont
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cont. she brings up how she supports me and how i have no job and im such a loser for being in the situation i am in and i agree with her about all of this 100% but the thing is..i just dont know how to get out of this it's extremely hard to explain..i contemplate killing myself daily it's common for suicide to cross my mind every few minutes or so i feel emasculated worthless and without any hope for any good to come to me my mother and rest of my family hates me and i feel alone..if not for my girlfriend i belive i would not be alive right now..and i feel like im slowly pushing her away from me daily..and she even says this herself..i dont talk to anybody anymore ive lost all of my friends besides 2 people whom i rarely talk to..i ignore all of my problems and they turn into much bigger problems..i start conversations with people on facebook and then completely abandon them..i havent actually logged into facebook in about 3 weeks now..i have court tomorrow and ive completely ignored everything i was supposed to do for court..so by this time tomorrow i will probably be going to jail..i guess what im trying to ask is..how do i get out of this.. im sick of contemplating blowing my brains out every second of the day..i dont want to feel like a worthless leech anymore.i am a pathetic excuse for a man..my 16 year old girlfriend has a longer work history then me..please help me before it is to late..
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ok, easy now anon.
first thing first. what's that about with court? what have you done?
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>>16650822
It's all petty shit.. a trespassing ticket and driving on an expired license..but due to me ignoreing it i will go to jail.
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My friend has a bunch of crazy theories about a large sun-like object coming near the earth and causing increased earthquakes, flooding and volcanoes.
Scientifically there's some basis here. Floods and earthquakes have skyrocketed in recent years when looking at a chart of 100-200 years, for example.
He also implied that much of our ancient stories and religions are directly tied to the occasional visiting (into our solar system) of an extra celestial body which is being kept secret by the authorities and silenced experts of the various fields of study.
He is very serious about it and even more convincing. He can bring up about 1000 points which really make you wonder finite 100% true.
Then, when I hear him saying it to other ppl nearby, it's even more convincing... and he starts bringing up 500 other intriguing points - which are then new to me at the time - and which further support his ideas.
Perhaps one ofnthe best parts, he doesn't even need to invoke the Sumerian or Zechariah Sitchin in his ramblings. He's just as content mentioning the Egyptian accounts and ones from ancient Greece, wherein they referred to the celestial body as Phaeton. The are even Celtic accounts of the visiting celestial body, apparently. Some mightbrefer to items The Doomshape or the Destroyer, he says.
An astronomer named Carlos Ferrada, through his studies of the planetary movements, (has accurately predicted earthquakes) proclaims such a visiting body exists. He calls it Hercolubus.
I'm now wondering if I should open myself to such theories. Any advice on whether I should accept these theories as 'plausible'... or should I get my friend some mental help?
Pic related from a video he showed me today.
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Dear OP. Your friend is just bat shit crazy.
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People can talk and talk and say that the Earth is flat from just how charismatic and confident they are.
Unless they say "This accredited, peer-reviewed scientific journal stated this result, observation, or fact," you can't take what they say as absolute.
Your friend sounds like is entering the early stages of schizophrenia. Is he in his late teens or early twenties?
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>>16648271
I'm going to flamebait a bit here, but I'm willing to wager money that he's one of 2 things
1)pre right wing nut job
2)is pre-psychotic and a smidge paranoid
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Hi /Adv/
Need some help with this delicate issue.
TL;DR:
Girlfriend sent
Her: I love him a lot (that's me), but I have tinglings for you so I'm confused.
To another guy. What do
I'm living with my GF of 5y and we're doing pretty well, I love her to bits.
In the past we had a few arguments about a guy she was calling and texting also in the middle of the night (red flag). So I told her to not contact him again and she went ballistic. I know that later on she was still in contact with him though less and less since he moved abroad. However recently (2 weeks ago) I discovered she was texting him again A LOT. More than she ever texts me. So I was scrolling in her phone and found:
Her: I love him a lot (that's me), but I have tinglings for you so I'm confused.
Which she had sent to him.
So now I don't know what to do. Do I confront her and tell her I don't want her to talk to this guy anymore? Which will effectively ruin the relationship since she will say she can't trust me anymore because I went through her phone. Or do I talk to the guy? Or is it all lost.
Thanks in advance.
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How's the sex? Declined in frequency or quality lately?
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>>16650113
Yes but that's been this way for some time now.
Although the last few weeks we've done it more often.
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Don't bring it up. Quit going through her shit. Work on making her happy and she won't stray.
It's fucking dumb how most guys react to their woman being interested in somebody else, like she's your goddamn property. If you can make her happy then she'll stick with you. Don't give her a reason to leave.
Take her someplace nice
Eat that goddamn pussy like it's your last meal
Tell her you're lucky to have her
This shit isn't hard!
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I fucking hate this girl. It's my boyfriend's ex. Every time he gets drunk he talks about how he misses her because she's so cute & small. SHE'S 14. I know I'm not 4'11 or 180 pounds like her. I'm not cute, my skin isn't perfect, but I'm beautiful in my own unique ways.
My heart hurts. Every time I see her face I want to vomit. He's constantly co.paring me to her. I'm starting to hate myself..
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>>16648736
She's fine. It's your boyfriend that's a dick. He's still in love with her. Dump his ass.
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>>16648736
Ordinarily I don't tell people to dump their gf/bf but your guy sounds like a piece of shit.
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This is me.. I'm just so plain. There's nothing special or different about me. I wish I could just wake up & not look like myself anymore.
My dad hit my mom yesterday and my mom told me she is going to press charges tommorow and wants me to tell the cops what happened. However my dad is the only breadwinner in the family and we would be fucked without him. Should i support my mom or lie to the cops so i can eat?
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>>16648725
Support your mom and help her get a job. And get a job yourself.
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>>16648725
Support your mom you asshole.
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mom has been a housewife for 20 years and i already work but i'm still in highschool for 2 years.
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Convince me not to kill myself
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>>16647213
I'm pregnant with your baby
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>>16647213
how old r u anon?
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>>16647225
25
>>16647219
Kek
What advices would you give to your 16 year old self?
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She isn't worth your time.
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>>16645820
Grow up wait till university
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>>16645837
>>16645851
Damn. Right on the money.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2016-01-05 02:27:07 Post No.16644232
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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2016-01-05 02:27:07
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.
>Frog
Also piss off.
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Is having a panty sniffing fetish weird for a girl to learn about, or is it so basic you wouldn't care?
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>>16644241
How is enjoying the smell of your partner a fetish?
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>>16644241
I'd be really into it, but I have no idea how common that is.
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what is your zodiac sign? 2016-01-03 23:06:03 Post No.16639602
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what is your zodiac sign?
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hey /adv/, I would like to know your
>zodiac sign
>gender
>MBTI type
>any other favorite boards on 4chan
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What is the point of this thread?
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>Sagittarius
>Male
>ISFJ
>/pol/ and /fit/
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What does MBTI mean?
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which country is welcoming of refugees? 2016-01-05 11:54:22 Post No.16646025
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which country is welcoming of refugees?
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I am Syrian in Syria and trying to get out because I don't think this war will end anytime soon and I want to have prosperous life
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>>16646025
Europe is going always worst mate.
Politician are arsholes and they tend to install anger againist people like you.
Italian here. We're having such a bad time for that. Also Germany will be worste in one year. France is the worst, french are becoming more racist.
Try easter europe, it is poor, but always better than a place with war.
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As i heard Germany Canada are most welcoming ones.. my prayers for you. I live in Pakistan so cannot help you directly but only pray which i will do inshallah
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>>16646025
I thought Syria couldn't shitpost here. Anyway try Saudi Arabia, they have money and I hear it's lovely this time of the year.
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I hate that because I'm white I'll never have a meaningful sex life nor be popular nor anything. Fuck my life. Fuck geneticd
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You're not popular or having sex because you're a whiny loser posting on 4chan about your problems. Ever think about that?
What girl would want to date a whiny loser?
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>>16643045
Its because I'm not black anon. Bitches avoid small dicks like me
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>>16643026
Oh magic 8 ball: should I go see a whore for my 28th birthday and finally lose my virginity?
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>gf gets into metal
> awesome at first
>take her to see a local band Ive loved for years
>gf starts following one guitarist on facebook, twitter, instagram, wants to go to all their shows
>don't mind because I really like them
>meet guitarist after show, he's pretty cool
>Introduce gf to pretend I'm not insecure about it
>make joke later that she owes me for introducing her to her boyfriend
>few days later tells me she wants to message him to buy me a shirt but is too nervous
>mfw I don't want a shirt and I could easily buy one at a show
>start noticing shit is obviously getting weird
>check messages, texts, find nothing
>few days later its Xmas, shes drunk and I overhear her talking to a friend about how attractive he is and just going on and on about how much she wants to fuck him (implied, of course)
>mfw xmas is ruined
>mfw I no longer like the band
>mfw she wants to go to one of their shows next week and I really fucking don't want to.
Bleh. I know I'm being insecure and childish but the whole thing just ruined a lot of things for me.
Talked to her about it and she apologized, seemed like she legit felt bad. Eventually we agreed to pretend it never happened but I still can't get over it.
Just kind of sucks because this is the first time in 3 years she's shown signs on being a skank. Kinda made me respect her a fuckload less as a person and made me contemplate doing the same to her.
Sorry for the rant, it's just been bugging me a lot. Part of me thinks I'm overreacting but my gut tells me this whole situation is bullshit
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She's not a skank for finding someone attractive. I'm assuming your pants still get tight when you see a hot lady?
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>Listening to metal and attending band shows
Are you underage or immature?
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>>16646888
Women are horny, and rock stars are sexy. Just accept the facts as they are, we're just ordinary people after all.
Nothing you can do about it pal, but after all she's still fucking you, so you got no reason to be upset. Tbh I would fuck Sophia from Obscure Sphinx any day.
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How do I get rid of cheating guilt? I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and a half, and spent the last 5 months of it having sexual relations with my ex behind his back. The guilt was so intense that I broke up with him thinking it would help, and it did, but only for a short while. I so badly just want to just tell him and apologize, but it's been several months since I've been in contact with him. Is it just a matter of time?
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>>16645502
you can tell him what you did and you might feel better
or you can keep it to yourself and he'll feel better.
either way, you did something bad. you feel guilty about it. that's life.
don't do it again. it'll pass.
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>>16645512
I definitely agree with this poster. Don't tell him. You're only looking for closure for yourself for what you did. Telling him now after several months and somehow expecting him to forgive you is selfish and insulting.
It sounds like you regret losing him over cheating than the actual cheating.