My husband and I have been married for 4 years, we're both

>>17413036
Please stick to the topic at hand.

>>17413026

Obvious b8 if anyone responds to this seriously you need to be removed from the gene pool

>>17413042
Guess I came to the wrong place for help. Thanks for nothing, dick.

>>17413042
Why would you put genes in a pool????

>>17413026
You know your husband would not approve.
You want him to do whatever you want all the same.
So you hide that the kid isn't his.

You know you're headed straight into a cum-culpa divorce if he ever realizes, and that he'll probably do a paternity test as soon as the kid comes home, just to check if the hospital gave you the right child (that's still a pretty common occurrence), or if anything looks fishy about the child, like race, hair, eyes, face?

If you don't want to divorce, have an abortion and tell him you miscarried.

>>17413036
Haven't seen the troll line pic in awhile, this needs to be used more, especially these days.

>>17413042
I know it's b8 and I know it's not true but I'm still infuriated because I know that somewhere in this big old world of ours this situation more or less has happened.

>>17413026
I understand your point but you should have spoke to your husband at least so he can decide if he wants to raise another man's child. Furthermore I know a couple that chose donated sperm and she got pregnant. What you did not tell us is how were you inseminated.

>>17413138
I had sex with the other guy.

>current year

Also b8

>>17413165
So you cheated on your husband, got pregnant and now your trying to justify it to yourself. There is no getting around this you are a terrible person. If you have any good in you at all you will tell your husband the truth and accept his decision. If you don't I hope with every fibre of my being that you are found out before he can get emotionally invested in this child.

>>17413051
I don't know what's more annoying- this b8 thread or all of your stupid replies on advice.
Fuck off namefag, you're painfully unfunny.

You cheated on your husband. Rationalizing the kids heritage won't change that. You betrayed his trust and I hope he leaves you to fend for the kid yourself, and as a bonus I hope your child has an extremely expensive and difficult disability.

>>17413220
>I hope he leaves you to fend for the kid yourself

Yeah, right. The guy is already fucked. She won't allow him to have a paternity test to prove this. He'll be forced to pay child support if he leaves and if he doesn't leave then he has to live either in ignorance of this cunt's bastard child or live the the knowledge that this isn't your child that you made with the woman you loved.

The guy literally can't do anything to save himself now that she's pregnant. The best case is that he has to pay child support aka the "I picked a horrible bitch to marry" fee for the next 18-19 years of his life.

>>17413026
Dear op. Older anon here.

I can completely understand not wanting to have a child with someone who has known inherited health issues. I've expressly avoided women who wanted to have children with me for exactly the same reason (their known history of familial issues or a refusal to be genetically screened).

You want to have a happy healthy child you can raise and can enjoy raising, not some defective half baked screaming ...thing.

We're this the product of artificial insemination, then obviously there wouldn't be the stigma that you're facing right now...that being one of "you're a cheating whore"

I abhor lying. I suggest you tell your husband and try to work it out. I hope he's understanding and can see thing objectively for your sake. You're going to have to work through a lot to be forgiven for this because it's a breach of trust and YOU fucked it up regardless of the somewhat sound reasoning you employed.

Tldr: you're a cheating cunt pregnant with a genetically superior man's child. Divorce your current man and marry the better one or work your ass off to earn forgiveness.

>>17413026
Nice bait, you'll need something stronger though