Long story short I managed to convince a girl to have sex with me. During she struggled to make me come and at times I couldn't maintain an erection. She thinks it's her fault. I reckon it's actually mine. Apart from going to a doctor which I plan on doing what can I do to stop that happening again?
stop being so nervous, you fuck.
>>17413073
Figured it was that so I guess the next time it'll be easier but if it happens again i don't know if it's actually a problem I have.
>>17413064
Deathgrip, stop fapping so much
>>17413093
Yup not going to fap. I think porn desensitised me.
If it's your first time, it's pretty normal.
>>17413116
Yeah probably is but I'm concerned if it happens again. It's only occurred to me I don't get morning wood anymore.
>>17413088
The first time I had sex I couldn't keep it up, then the next few times I couldn't finish. Wasn't until about my fifth time that I started being able to have sex properly.
For me it was a mix of nerves and deathgrip. I relaxed more as sex became more normal for me.
>>17413226
Yeah death grip and nerves may be my problem. I'm not going to see her again for at least a week. Do you think that's enough time to be in a reasonable state. I'm actually worried if I've broke my dick from years of daily masturbation.
>>17413501
It's more the porn than the masturbation. Dudes have been jerking it forever. It used to be that sex was more stimulating than solo because all you had was your imagination or a photo that was relatively benign by today's standards. You'd be amazed how common this issue has become among guys, both experienced and not.
Anyway yeah, a week for you should be good.
>>17413572
Yeah the standard has changed significantly since I was a very young teen. Nowadays i need a HD 40 minute video of niche pornography rather than waiting an hour to download a low quality 2 minute video off kazaa. So I should refrain from watching any porn or will that lower my sex drive?
>>17413586
Very highly doubt it'll ruin your sex drive. Try it awhile. See how it goes.
>>17413596
Yeah, thanks guys. I just don't want to known as that guy with ED in their 20s
>>17413586
You bring up another good point too here though. Anticipation counts for a lot.