I sometimes ask my girlfriend to be my femdom and it works fine

Relationships are about meeting in the middle, ask her if there's some weird shit she wants to try and roll with it. That of kill that part of you. My wife will never do anal, and I will never get to stick it up her ass. But I'm fine with that because she sacrifices for me too.

My girlfriend likes the rougher stuff too and initially I didn't enjoy doing it to her. What really helped is that she shows clear excitement, happiness, and arousal from it. When I see that kind of positive reaction I can be rough without any malice because I know it makes her happy. You don't need to be sadistic to act that way (this is healthier too).

We've progressed further now. We can role play where she doesn't show happiness and I'm still comfortable because I KNOW she enjoys it. It took time to establish that trust.

Help your girlfriend realize your enjoy her treatment of you through your actions and moans and stuff in the moment. It'll take time. You may have to focus on clearly expressing pleasure in the beginning to help her understand you enjoy it.

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you should start by playing that album on repeat until she enjoys it