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never been in a relationship before.

I'd probably grope or give a little love tap to my boyfriend, in public

>>17623055
my wife does this.

>>17623055
Giving him head/handjob while he's driving.
Taking off my panties when we're at the movies/restaurant and I'm wearing a skirt, and then give them to him.
Rubbing his cock through the pants.
Sending him sexy messages while he's at work.
Waiting for him at home, cooking his dinner half naked.
Sitting on his lap and grinding slowly against him.
Touch myself a bit and then subtly make him smell the fingers.
Giving him head while he's watching tv/sports.

Probably some other things, too.

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Information you would like to share is always welcome. In fact, it is needed.

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On studying

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IlU-zDU6aQ0

Documents and other valuable info:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MOL822Z70BLJZNmDsVQeB5PEeFCFgpIbVLFkfb5eELw/edit#

I am very fond with Elliot Hulse's videos, and I think I should share some of the ones that are on the
top of my head on certain topics. Anyhow, I strongly recommend people to check his channel as he has preached on a lot of different topics.

On motivation and discipline:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yx0moKyWoW8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D00atlIwwPw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnMp-d5pKs

Staying on the path and quitting:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUp07I4VaNc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PODtipE3MHc

On the warriors / hero's journey:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hbJJEcbTzw

>>17622777
What's this picture?

>>17622816
Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy

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I think the war is over, which means I can be 12 again and continue my life as planned ;)

Ok. Are you seeking advice or just a sympathetic support group?

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Any advice on how to keep myself motivated? This isn't where I saw myself years ago.

>29
>living back at home like a loser
>no job, keep getting interviews but rejected
>job search slows due to frustration
>start looking at mcjobs but get depressed
>couldn't make myself get out of bed today and slept in

>>17625704
What can I really do with my gender studies degree?

>>17625709
Get me a gf?

I'm friends with a girl who I'm deeply emotionally invested in and the feeling (probably?) isn't mutual.

How do I get over myself? I want her more than I've wanted anybody else.

I dont need a reading, i use to do tarot readings. But if your willing to listen and i need someone to talk to, why not?

Why would a girl you have been texting almost non-stop for a week stop replying mid conversation, and then delete you off facebook?

What do i need to do? Ask a question?

>>17622850
It could be a couple of different reasons but it has not to do with you it is something she has to deal with it is better just to move forward. If she is playing games do not waste your time it sucks some times when we feel we make a connection with someone and they cut that bound without a reason.

This is a continuation from the lest thread if any of the anon I was speaking to makes their way here

At the time we really didn't know each other much, spoke a handful of times prior. But R was already pretty good friends with her by then.

I don't think she really had the "guys just want me for my body" mentality, well at least until R planted the seeds (If he did) She just seemed to kind hearted for that, volunteering at hospitals, Special Olympics, as an EMT and other stuff. Though she did say that she was just coming out of her shell, so maybe she may have thought that. But who knows, unless she opens up with me.

But yea. I kinda get the feeling that she is still trying to figure if I am as I present my self, or if it is just an act to get in her pants.

I guess really all I can do is remain as friends with her, and hope that what ever the snake said is forgotten, or kinda overwritten I guess?

My video games and internet are all I can depend on to make me happy. This world is cruel, random, and unfair. I don't want to be apart of this world anymore, I don't even want to be me.

喜利子・・・
君には、本当のことって何将来に教えてくれない・・・?

Whats the best position to have sex in to hide the fact that you're a virgin? Also, I met a girl off tinder and I'll be meeting her this weekend. Any do's and dont's for the first time meeting someone? we both agreed that we are only going to be friends.

>>17621220
>we both agreed that we are only going to be friends.
You're not going to have sex with her.

Are most of these threads 95% dudes asking the same 3 girls questions?

>>17620565
ugh enjoy your divorce

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Holy shit

The Happening: Part Two confirmed?

>>17620570
Stop saying that, I already told him.

I'm only creating another one because people asked and I followed the advice, so again: If she starts asking about the arousal tomorrow, how do I respond?

>>17618268
An anonymous user on 4chan will think less of you.

ps. that person is me

Getting arrested in states or countries where it's illegal to carry and smoke weed.

Otherwise I think you're all good! Smoking weed is fun, relaxing, makes food taste awesome and brings people closer together. It's not a hard-drug and can be used for medicinal purposes too. You can't really overdose on it but you can go hard so it's better to pace yourself so you won't feel all groggy and sleepy.

>>17618268
weed is fun but it can make you comfortable being bored. If you want to smoke, it's best to limit yourself to special occasions or weekends so it doesn't impede on your ability to function as an adult.

If you get shit weed the carcinogens can (possibly) damage your lungs, but there's evidence to suggest that it's not super likely, especially if you aren't smoking err day.

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Who /losing hope/ here?
>been social autist all my life
>22 KHV
>only 3 semesters of college left
>actually pretty well set as far as education and job prospects go
>always found shitty excuses for not putting effort into trying to find gf, like "need to concentrate on academics"
>tfw hit really hard with loneliness feels last month, realize that I will literally be alone forever if I don't get this shit together soon
>spent the last month putting major effort into trying to improve social life
>making major normal friend gains (ironically) but still no luck with women
>talked to many girls that I'd consider dating, but always get overwhelmed with "I'm not good enough for them" thoughts and never work up the courage to ask them out
>still have major problems approaching random girls on campus
>starting to lose the motivation that I got last month to do all of this in the first place
Has anyone on /fit/ overcome a situation like this?
I feel completely hopeless desu

A LTR is hardly even my goal anymore. I just want dating experience before I leave college and am completely fucked.

Am I required to hang out with my girlfriend's friends? I really don't want to.

>>17610323
>I'm not good enough for them
Lower your standards. Consider every girl a potential girlfriend. You can only be picky if you only want sex.

What is a girl

made plans to hang out with a female friend this weekend, and soon afterwards started to think that i'd like to date her

i don't know how to turn hanging out with her into a date before i see her again, and i'd feel somewhat dishonest about hanging out with her this weekend when i know i want it to be more and haven't told her so

what do y'all recommend i do

Guys: Theres this guy who added me on fb and we had a flirting thing going on for a year but he never hit me up to do anything. I saw him because i was friends with his housemates and we would naturally gravitate towards each other whenever i was there and sit on the couch talking. But he never made any moves. We made out once but he stopped it before it went farther, and still kept flirting with me. I cant tell if its just flirting or not so i'm planning to hit him up to do something and if he doesnt respond, i'll just move on. Good plan? Or maybe its just flirting if he never made a move?

>>17618418
about what exactly?

Is this about giving your bi friend a massage?

>>17618430
Yes, the other thread had died when I got back.

>one guy has a sexual history you don't agree with
>is romance dead?

If you don't want to date him or sleep with him, don't. No one's making you.

>>17617772
You've already admitted you are only going to string him along. Dump him.

Why waste his time and yours

>>17617779
>>17617785
I guess I'm just scared it's him or nothing for a long time. I feel invisible to everyone else.

baby girl. he is worthless and is not worthy of your time or energy. If his life was that great would he have been taking advantage of such a younger woman? pretend that he did leave his GF and was with you. Think he wouldnt go out and have a 1 night stand with another?

Tell his girlfriend that he wined and dined you before pumping and dumping you. He clearly never had any intention of doing anything more than what it took to sleep with you, I think telling his girlfriend about his cheating ass is fair game.

he's probably married to this girl

you won't see him again to be honest

If you think her pussy is disgusting you should probably find a new girl. There's no way of sugar coating that, no matter what you say to her it's gonna sound like "Your pussy is fucking disgusting and I don't want it anywhere near my face"

Only way around this I can see, if you haven't already said something to blow this cover, is to say you don't like oral period. Like you don't go down on anyone.
And obviously, you should never ever expect to get your dick sucked ever. Don't expect what you won't dish out yourself.

>>17616282
>Like you don't go down on anyone.
The issue here is that I used to date her friend. So that lie will be exposed as soon as they talk. They arent super close friends and its been like 2 years, but I dont want to bomb sitting there.
>If you think her pussy is disgusting you should probably find a new girl.
I dont decide who to date by how aesthetic their vagina is. How shallow do you have to be to do that.

>>17616301
Then you're boned. Like I said, theres no nice way of putting it.

>I dont decide who to date by how aesthetic their vagina is
Yet clearly it's a big enough deal to you that you would refuse a sex act that she obviously wants that you would do on otherwise "better" vaginas.

I mean I get it man, admit it or not everyone's got deal breakers when it comes to looks. If you feel the need to tell her she looks too horrific to lick then you care more about it than you think and you likely just aren't sexually compatible.