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How do I attract non-white women as a college age white male?
Im good looking and fit, but only white women ever go for me. Im not interested in them though and most just gross me out.
It's been this way ever since I became good looking in HS the summer before my senior year.
Im not into black girls or girl who aren't American/don't speak english.
If they aren't into white guys just tell, at this point being in a relationship with a girl is a pipe dream and I dont expect to be successful at this.
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anyone?
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Cover yourself in tattoos and act like you have never even heard of being classy it's the easiest way to pick up nonwhite women
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>>17885721
lol i have no tattoos and im not getting any. Classy? I went to private schools and Im a STEM major I kind of can't just change how i am.
Are you happy, anons? I have come to realise that a lot of my unhappiness comes from FOMO and constant striving for more. How do I deal with this?
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>>17885592
Can we be friends
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>>>>>17885609
Sure, why not
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>>17885609
I'm not OP, but sure.
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If I ask a girl out
and then i suddenly put "actually don't tell me i'd prefer not to know if you like me"
and she replies;
"You don't want me to tell you? :'D"
Have I clearly fucked it?
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say "nah I want you to show me"
Then unsheath your katana
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No, that's actually quite good
but since you have to ask, I'm betting your game ends there.
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>>17885578
this OP, cast a jutsu or smth
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Just need some motivation to keep going. 2016-12-23 11:27:14 Post No.17885564
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Just need some motivation to keep going.
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Hey, guys. I've re-made myself over the last year and a half but am hitting a hard rut and just need some encouragement to keep going. I'll post a "before" picture with this post and an "after" next.
>From 234 lbs to 179 lbs. 5'11"
>No sense of fashion whatsoever to new wardrobe I feel good in.
>Healthier lifestyle has lead me to have a better mood most days.
>In a bad spot that's making me want to do things that would make me lose momentum.
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op "after"
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>>17885569
It's alright but their seems to be something "off"
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>>17885589
I feel like this is supposed to be a pun I'm not understanding.
I'm currently not satisfied with anything in my life- my income, my intelligence, my level of fitness, my social skills, pretty much everything. I can't change any of the things that matter substantially, though. How do I lower my standards without having that gnawing feeling of failure lurking around in the back of your mind?
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bump why doesn't anyone respond to threads that aren't copy pasta/r9k shit anymore
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>>17885590
I'd say that all of the things you've listed are changeable mate. It'll take quite some hard work and dedication, but it's not impossible. Are there other things bothering you?
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>>17885596
I've tried very hard for a very long time to change these things. I don't want to try anymore, because trying = failing. They don't change (aside from fitness but I've nearly killed myself too many times to bother with anything that isn't bodyweight training anymore).
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What do you do when you don't have the knowledge, talent or skills to achieve your dream job?
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>>17885523
Find another dream. We can't all be astronauts OP.
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>>17885523
depends. what was that dream job? yes, its relevant.
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>>17885523
You gain the knowledge and skills necessary? Talent is only a bonus.
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/trv/fag here.
I just got back to the United States after spending a half year in South Asia. Due to my circumstances, I won't be able to resume taking university courses again until either May or September. I'm very confused about what to do in the meantime. While I previously held a managerial position with a logistics company, I doubt I'd be able to find something that'd pay as well again without a degree.
Maybe I'm just being stupid and arrogant, but I really don't want to go back to flipping burgers or delivering food. I did that for years and don't think I can handle rude customers or a boss breathing down my neck. Going from a dress-code-free office where I interviewed employees and got a $1,000 bonus for recruiting to minimum wage and a funny t-shirt would be miserable. Of course, I'll do what I have to do, but I'm considering alternatives at this point.
I have $300 in JetBlue credit and can fly most anywhere around the Caribbean, Costa Rica, Mexico, or Colombia for "free" (I paid for the ticket last year but had to cancel). I also have a motorcycle that I'd love to take to the American Southwest or maybe even Central America.
My bank account right now is pretty low, which is my biggest reservation. I don't want to fuck myself with bills.
What's the best way to keep myself busy for the next few months until I can work on my degree again? I've thought about making a blog or vlog. I have a lot of freelance writing work to my name and have scraped out a living putting together articles while traveling abroad. I know it's something I'm at least halfway good at.
What should I do that'd be constructive but would also keep me busy and happy?
Pic related - it's my piece of shit bike.
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OP please take another picture of your bike with a horizontal that isn't shit.
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Here you go, senpai.
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How do I stop falling in love with female friends?
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Get laid.
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Do you want to be gay? I don't see the problem here.
Unless of course what you're really asking about is "getting out of the friendzone".
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>>17885511
I seem to ruin my relationships with female friends after a while cause I get too attached...
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Don't join the military 2016-12-23 10:26:02 Post No.17885454
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Don't join the military
I am currently alone, in my shitty little bedroom in the mess, in a huge garrison with almost no women on it (and the women that are on it I would want nothing to do with), far away from home or anywhere decent, friendless and bored. My days consist of going downstairs form my bedroom to eat breakfast, cycling over to the technical area/offices in the other side of the garrison, working and then coming back to my room in what is basically a cheap hotel with staff that hate us.
Everyone in my regiment hates me because I'm not as gung-ho and HURRR ARMY as them. I rarely, if ever, get out. I don't meet people. I'm 26 and have been single my whole life except for a brief 3 month relationship a few years ago. Then I keep seeing shit like this on facebook, people I knew from university or school getting fucking married and moving into THEIR OWN HOMES while I live in a fucking cheap hotel (officers mess).
Don't join the Army. Other branches I know less about but they're probably similar. There's my /adv/ice for you. Bye now.
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>>17885454
Your regiment hates you because you proved to be a fucking bitch ass pussy in the time they've spent with you.
Maybe if you manned up and acted like you would actually be a benefit and not a burden in the heat of the battle, they'd have an amount of respect for you.
>he probably opted out of all the initiation stuff and got beat with soap socks
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>>17885454
You made a crucial mistake by joining the army at 26. That is way, way too late.
I don't mean physically. It's just that the whole "hoorah army bruh" horseshit (see this fag for example >>17885461) most easily rubs off on you when you're young and impressionable. By 26, one way or another, you've already had some life experience and have your own opinions. By then, it's impossible not see the army discipline for what it is - a massive, pathetic circlejerk.
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>>17885461
Shut the fuck up, there are people who hate because they aren't the same as them, it's just like high school. You don't have to pretend to be reatrded to be accepted by autistic kids, and it's the same as those service man. I'm in the Army as well and see where OP is coming from
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I got a new job in October doing labor but I broke my ankle 3 weeks ago. I had surgery on it last week.
I haven't been laid off yet but I'm not collecting any income either. Mostly I can't afford rent and I'm just busy healing.
Can a single white male in his 30s get help on a place to live and rent from government or is that just for women with kids?
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>>17885397
Did you break your ankle at work?
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I don't know much about welfare or hand outs but I'm finding myself in need of help and advice
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I can't provide what women want? 2016-12-23 09:53:21 Post No.17885383
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I can't provide what women want?
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I am 26 and I have never been in a relationship. I am mostly concerned because women want so much out of a dude. They want a guy who can do guy things like home improvement and car fixing or camping or fighting. I can't do any of that.
I can't even tie a tie or shave my face. I can't change a tire either. I can't change oil. No idea how to put a tux on.
What do women really want from men? All I want from women is just a healthy woman who wants to be around and loves me for who I am.
I feel like a lot of women don't love men for who they are but instead for what they can do.
I feel like I have no redeeming qualities.
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>>17885383
I've had a girlfriend for 3 years and I never had good income and now I'm unemployed. She still loves me a lot too.
Women want a stable man. I'm stable emotionally and in my thinking.
They also want a man who takes them on adventures. I do this emotionally too by exploring new ideas on always teasing her. She is never really bored with me even tho I'm not a particularly exciting or charming man.
Most men don't know about the adventure part of women. That's why they make drama because they need adventure.
The last thing is, I lead our relationship. I'm always getting her input but I do the calculations and make the big choices for us. If she led our relationship it'd be over long ago. You don't know how many times she's tested me and I keep passing her tests.
I don't expect you to be able to lead well but those are the ingredients that make relationships easy for me.
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>>17885421
So my main point is that women want stability and adventure.
Part of stability is being the leader of the relationship. Like the driver of a car nobody should trust a blind person to take them where they're going. If there are issues like your not good enough for x reason it's just because you're failing to lead her competently or she's super fucking bored
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>>17885421
Well put, I'm glad someone on this board knows what they're talking about
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Hi, 28 male here.
I'm having sex on a regular basis for the first time, and this happened to my penis. It doesn't hurt except when my girlfriend's vagina is dry
Should i go to the doctor or just wait and see if the hole enlarges ?
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>>17885360
Put an earring on it
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I consider doing it before cutting it off, if i have to do it :D
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>>17885360
Fem here I've never heard of this that's fucking badass tho good luck anon!!!! Medical mystery up in this bitch
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Going to party haven't been to one in over a year only know like 3 people there any advice
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>>17885320
Drink before going.
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>>17885320
>only know like 3 people there
That's what parties are for anon, start talking to these fools. Also yes pre-drink.
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Whatever you do don't make the mistake of sticking with these people, use them strictly as your in to the party, then just meet people there. And please don't corner anyone and hog them in conversation out of fear or anxiety, it'll make you look weird. Just go around have fun and talk to people. Honestly drink a bit and it'll be super easy to just say hey I'm so and so what's up
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I had been working at a company for 5 years and was promised a possible promotion soon. However a nearby branch was closed because their boss was awful. Unfortunately they didnt fire them, and instead gave them my branch to run. They immediately gave my promotion to someone else, started playing favorites, and gave me less and less hours.
I just took up my hobbies of art and exercise. Im actually quite happy with that. Im making progress in both and made some money from doing art. Not enough to support myself tho and it would take awhile to actually build up to being able to. So while Im happy with this, I should find a way to make money.
The only problems are Im kinda afraid to work now. I realize I should probably leave my job for something else, but everything im offered seems miserable and unhappy or requires I give up on being as serious with my hobbies. Ive just been kinda sitting on my hands not taking any action and Im a little worried to actually. I remember how unhappy I was. I dont know what to do.
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>>17885318
Can I see some of your art, do you take commissions?
Anyway as to your question what kind of job is it, what qualifies you for that promotion? Why can't you take those qualifications elsewhere and move up that way? If your only qualification was time in with that company perhaps then you should go back to school and get some more qualifications.
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>>17885331
I actually went to school for art. I live sorta far away from most of the art jobs tho but got to do advertising for where I am now.
I actually got promoted and sent to a studio that was mainly run just by me, and when the studio got bigger, I was expecting to get promoted to the studio leader since I had the most experience and control over the place after we got some new employees. But that changed just because someone whose my boss and doesnt actually know what I do came in. Im kinda young and I dont think she was able to relate to that too well and didnt like me for it.
I do take commissions, but Id rather not self promote myself like this.
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You're not self promoting, I asked. Do you have a tumblr or fa?
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My friends used to say awful shit to me, and they spread some of that shit when my back was turned. I was always aware of it, but I never said anything at the time because I didn't know how to confront them, and I hated myself so much that I figured I deserved it. It's been a few years now, and lately whenever I speak to those friends I the feel the anger and frustration I didn't let myself feel back then. I thought I forgot about the shit, but it's been haunting me night and day for the last few months.
I'm getting mad at people over things they no longer say or do. It makes me feel so fucking childish. What should I do, /adv/?
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People who do that are not your friends they're your bullies learn to tell the difference.
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talk to them about it now. see if both of you can work past it, if they get all defensive, drop em.
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>>17885423
fpbp