>get little to no action on dating sites
>get depressed because this means I am basically undesirable unless I drastically change my appearance and personality
>Don't bother to just quit and come back once I an less uggo and just continue making minor tweaks in the hopes of being noticed
>continue to get further into depression
How the fuck do I just stop paying attention to this kind of bullshit so that I can move on in live and learn to accept that I will probably die a virgin who never had a gf?
>>17883122
Don't mind it senpai
The important thing is that you try. That you get yourself out there. That you let girls know you're available and your interested in doing stuff. No matter how little the effort as long as you get the message out it all adds up.
>prefers to die a virgin instead of drastically changing appearence and personality
>applied darwinism
>>17883122
>wanting a gf
trust me, in this day and age, you don't want it
>>17883122
Just do your thing, achieve your own goals, girls will notice and come up naturally... dating sites are mostly for girls who try to boost their self esteem
>>17883140
>The important thing is that you try. That you get yourself out there. That you let girls know you're available and your interested in doing stuff. No matter how little the effort as long as you get the message out it all adds up.
not if no one is checking out your profile, matching with you or generally treating you the way you are normally would in person. Also all of that leading to depression and desperation