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Absolutely


Commitment has nothing to do with love

As far as what you should do.


Don't force it. Enjoy the experience of both. Eventually it will sort itself out.

>>18000288
Depends what you want.

A relationship? Pick one.

Fun? Fuck both.

A non commited romantic encounter? See both.

Be honest to both of them. If you want a long term relationship then you gotta cut one.

That doesn't prove whether or not women desire the top 20% of men

Maybe they don't feel as if they can get a chad so they settle for less

>>18000280
and men are fine with average, they don't even have to settle?

the 80/20 principle doesn't mean only 20% of men have sex you retard. It means that the men at the top fuck a lot more girls than everyone else combined. Kinda like how 1% of the population controls 99% of wealth, this doesn't mean the other 99% of population owns nothing, it means that they own very little compared to the 1%.

You're proving the point, really, you and your average friends manage to get an occasional one night stand here and there, while the "chads" get them a few times per week.

>>18000255
A fwb of mine had some kind of "egg" with wireless remote .. used to have it in either vag or butt when we went out and let me handle the remote. As I remember it no sound escaped from her cavities. Can't remember make though

>>18000283
How would something egg shaped not get stuck up there lol, especially innaass

This one is more of a clit vibrator and sits on the outside rather than inside which I figured is the problem. Anyone have a suggestion for one they've used that it's for sure silent enough to use in a not terribly loud environment

Bumpy. The whole thing was positive life changing experience for me - I moved from lazy stagnation into self improvement, doing fine. Anything else I can do? Is new love and/or time only cure?

It's normal to feel hate and anger toward her. You invested a lot of yourself in that relationship and it's completely normal and natural to be hateful and angry. Learn ways to manage your anger and hate though that are healthy. Exercise, go for a run to blow off steam, tell your thoughts to stop and then ask if they're really true. It's going to take time anon. You'll get through this. And you can get into another relationship when you're ready. Don't ever think for a second that getting into another relationship will help "fix" your anger and hate concerns.

how long ago was the divorce. As cliche as it sounds, just give it time, it will go away on its own

Kill the first one. Marry the second. Fuck the Plumber.

you ended it. so just stfu and deal with your decision. it's over because you killed it. let it die.

>>18000205
Give it time. Dominance stuff fucks with your head. As you spend more time not doing that you'll start to appreciate sweet things and feel comfortable getting turned on by making love rather than fucking. Once you have a good normal relationship you can try to introduce kinky shit into that one if you want, knowing that it will alter your brain but you can go back if you want to.

Caveat is that you'll have to never ever talk to ex again and block him on all social media so that you can't relapse into that mindset.

I did this. Worked well. Am now in a well-adjusted loving relationship, and throw in a bit of dominance for spice every once in a while. But I feel no pressure to submit all the time.

Look at old exams.
They will give you a good ide of what kind of questions there will be on monday.

>>18000211
Also, try doing the old exams and score yourself.

You can also look at the coursecriteria. What is this course supposed to teach you? Focus on that.

>>18000217
And lastly, go through the lecture slides. What chapers in the book are actually relevant? Which chapters have you read and which ones do you need to look at again?

My boss collects bizarre pinecones. She travels a lot and has some from trees in Australia and other places. It's always a cool talking point to people when we meet at her house. So maybe something like fossils or cool rocks or lame shit like that? Idk anon, I don't collect stuff but it works out well for her. Just make it something you can talk about.

I collect bottlecaps. I have 742 right now from different countries. I travel a lot, so I just ask in the restaurants if they have any I can have, or go look in stores if there is anything new.

Hand-made wood carving.

pretty
relatively cheap
relatively rare/exotic
lasts a lifetime
easy to maintain
worth passing on to descendants/other wood enthusaists
[spoiler] every work may have a story worth telling so infinite conversation topics[/spoiler]

Or maybe hand-made glass. Or anything really. World is full of crafty people.
Neither clothes nor soap though. They are mainstream and monetised.

>>18000159
Underage reported

>>18000161
t. Bitter virgin
I'm just a retarded 19 yr old

>>18000159
Depends on when she ovulates bro.
She could even ovulate ON her period, only chances of preventing pregnancy is safe sex or abstinence.

>>18000095
I don't think I've ever been annoyed by a deep voice,. high pitched, absolutely but deep voice, never.

Post a recording and we will tell the truth

>>18000095
Post a recording!

>>18000104
>>18000108
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0BNdkXUPn0T

I could go on and on about how it sounds bad cos I'm tired right now but I won't.

>>18000054
Starving activates your lizard brain. You will eat double what you would have normally had.

>>18000058

Is there a way that I could prevent that? Water maybe?

>>18000066
Lock yourself in a room and don't come out until someone finds you! Take some multivitamins or some shit. Idk, this is probably not a good idea. I tend to fast for a day if I notice I'm losing self control with eating, but that's not so much to lose weight as to remind myself that I can overpower my hind brain and do whatever the fuck I want and I am not a slave to my body.

>>18000045
1. Not being fucking obsessed with women
2. Having self respect and being self motivated
3. Not being degenerate
4. Leader
5. Probably like Abs or something fuck idk.

>>18000049
>3. Not being degenerate
Can you elaborate on this?

>>18000056
not femanon

Pretty self explanatory, stuff like being a shut in, doing drugs, being a piece of shit and the opposite of
>1. Not being fucking obsessed with women
>2. Having self respect and being self motivated

It's fucking ignorance and desperation is what it is

>>18000003
Don't shit where you eat basically .. been there, done that, never going back .. trouble to no end

Work is where many adults meet IRL, so no.

Because youre a man in a feminist society you might get severly into trouble though. I recommend caution.

One of the reasons for declining birthrates is probably the lack of safe ways to aproch girls without the risk of destroying your life.

>>17999990
You have two options

You can give her a chance to let her show you her best side

Or

You can hurt her feelings a bit to prevent the situation to be misunderstood and hurt her even more.

>>17999990
You're a moron, why would you sleep with her if you don't fancy her. Now go out with her and gice her a chace, that's the least you can do

>>17999990
Drinks doesn't necessarily mean romance. She could just want to get smashed again. Why shouldn't you have had sex with this girl?

>>17999885
just tell her in real life, i'm pretty sure she'll understand but don't go out of your way to tell her; make everything seem natural

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>>17999905

I had not considered this, I can probably handle that. Thanks anon!

>>17999885
If you start apologizing it will make it awkward.

>>17999882
Studying together

But im not that good at the class we are in. I'm just auditing

I feel like there's a good chance that she can just tell you're really fuckin smart and wants to have your help studying. Girls do try to lead guys on so they can get help in classes, I got a friend who's degenerate and does that shit all the time.

Invite her over to your house alone. Say something like "im studying tomorrow in my apartment if you want to come over" so it's obvious to her that it'll be just the two of you. Remember, girls aren't auti so if you don't imply there will be others there she'll understand. If she makes some excuse she's not interested. If she asks to meet at the library she's either not interested or not degenerate, based on her actions at El library date. If she comes over to your house alone at night/evening she probably wants to fuck.

Just remember she could be leading you on to take advantage of your understanding of the class, and if she "seems really interested but also talks about other guys" or "we never hang out or do anything besides study" or "she'll be just about to confess but then ask me about this one problem" or "She is kinda physical with me like touching my shoulders and stuff when we're studying, but doesn't give me the time of day in public" she's a bitch, drop her.