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Breakup after a bereavement 2017-01-29 03:56:38 Post No.18002177
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Breakup after a bereavement
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2017-01-29 03:56:38
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Was planning on breaking up with someone but her cousin has just died. She's very upset. How much time should I give her before going through with the inevitable?
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>>18002177
for a cousin? id rip off the band aid sooner than later. i know shes upset but this can drag out.
if shes able to work and maintain school than shes able to handle a break up.
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>>18002177
Do it right fucking now. Nobody needs two tough blows like that back to back.
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>>18002190
I was thinking a few weeks, up to a month, no longer.
>>18002191
I really couldn't do it now. She's not in a good way.
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I really need help with a problem I have been having all my life?
What are some best excercises or methods to that I can practice or do that would help me avoid loving my gf too much?
Like its to the point where its clingy and shes not a fan of it, but loves me so puts up with it and even I know its too much. Like, I need to be hugging her and kissing her constantly. Im trying to fight it, like I promise I want to try to give her space, but its like I cant help it and I cant understand why.
Basically, I am living with her family until I can move out. A few months ago we started dating and its been going great. Shes literally perfect for me and we already talk about kids and marriage and our future so its mutual. My fear is that my clingyness will mess things up and drive her away. Its pretty bad, like if I hear her voice early in the morning, even if i slept for 3 hours, my heart beats fast enough like I did a light jog and im awake, even when im trying to sleep. With anyone else I can fall asleep thru it with no problem. We have been dating for 3 months more or less and living with each other but separate rooms out of respect for her parents. We also did everything but sex, shes a virgin and wants to wait til marriage so Im respecting that too.
So thats some back story and some advice would be appreciated on how to manage this obsession of my gf. I try keeping busy and even then having her around is hard to concentrate.
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>>18002140
>Basically, I am living with her family until I can move out. A few months ago we started dating and its been going great.
You've only been dating for a few months? Yikes.
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>>18002149
Yea well I was staying with them prior to us dating
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I found bed bugs in my apartment. It's pretty common in my city. I mentioned it off-handedly to my boss and a few of my co-workers found out.
I felt kind of bad coming to work, but, at the same time, I might have picked up the bugs from my job. It's not as if I could afford to take up to two months off work unpaid while I wait for the infestation to be taken care of.
I've stopped mentioning it to people because of the reactions I've gotten, but how should I address it if someone asks me why the hell I dare show up to work when there are bed bugs living in my apartment?
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>>18002096
say you're smart, you bought bed bug resistant bags that you keep your clothes in, and this means they arent being brought to work, but that everyone should be careful because yiou have reason to believe you got them from work to begin with, so everyone else is at risk.
also throw in that you can't just stop working cuz then you'd become homeless.
even if you're lying. but in the future dont tell people. im sorry you got bed bugs. its a horrible thing.
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>>18002108
>but in the future dont tell people.
Yeah. I'm definitely not discussing my personal life at work anymore. If they were in my situation, they'd do the same thing. The only issue is that we're a non-profit agency that works with foster care and the disadvantaged looking to find work, which is why bed bugs have been a problem at the office in the past.
> im sorry you got bed bugs. its a horrible thing.
Thanks. I'm pretty pissed off about it.
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>>18002119
its a nightmare. took me over a year to get rid of them but i managed to. luck mostly i think
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Will I ever fulfil big brother complex 2017-01-29 02:50:52 Post No.18002020
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Will I ever fulfil big brother complex
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2017-01-29 02:50:52
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How do I find someone willing to be my older brother?
I have always had this sort of complex. Someone caring to me and has reasons that I'm special because he would have always been there when I was younger.
Obviously that can't be replicated now. But the guys I have dated don't seem to want that kind of companionship. (I have both daddy and brother issues as we never got along) It would satisfy me if the guy would look like me a little bit.
I guess my fantasies are just unrealistic. What do I do anons?
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>>18002020
Get off this board you faggot
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>>18002031
shes probably a girl.
>>18002020
you dont. you can only wait and see what happens. unfortunately thats not so common as you would think as far as opposite gender relationships go.
me and my friend recently took on a 'big brother' role, we got an 18 year old fresh off the boat and showing him around town, helping him get laid, helping him with some of his issues (he was raped in his home country). and its a lot of fun.
but you couldn't convince me to take a girl under my wing that way. as a general rule that sort of relationship inevitably leads to romantic or sexual attraction
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I don't understand. What exactly is it that you want that a normal loving relationship won't give you?
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Is it possible to study too much for college, /adv/? Since the semester started, I haven't shaved because I don't have the time and I'm having to make myself eat because I don't feel hungry anymore. Every moment I have is buried in a textbook and when I can't study any longer from fatigue, I feel horrible and guilty. I feel like I haven't studied enough after six hours and I feel guilty when I have to take breaks. I feel like I murdered someone when I take a fifteen minute break to get some fresh air.
Has anyone else went through this? What do you guys think I should do?
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>>18002014
>Has anyone else went through this?
definitely not me
>What do you guys think I should do?
get a life loser
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>>18002014
>Has anyone else went through this?
Sadly anon, I went through this exact same thing. During my freshman and softmore year, I would study all day and feel bad when I was not studying. Then, during my junior and senior year, the reality of the situation dawned on me. Grades don't mean shit. GPA doesn't mean shit. The high GPA didn't help me get a job at all. I stuggled to find work, and then when I found it, it sucked.
Sorry to give you the redpill OP. It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's good for you
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>>18002014
Yes
You study enough for a 3.0-4.0 GPA and supplement that with things that are useful or fun. Join a club. make friends. Fall in love. if you feel like those aren't productive enough, get a job. You are wasting your youth.
what classes are you even taking where you need to study this much?
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Pregnancy Scare Updated 2017-01-29 02:48:02 Post No.18002012
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Idk if anyone remebers or cares but on Tuesday I made a post about possibly having a pregnancy scare.
I followed some bros advice on here and she took plan B about 25-26 hours after the scare. I am still kinda freaking out and have been thinking about this nonstop so I just want to post what happened and my rationale and would like other guys thoughts.
I used a condom the first time and came in it. I then took the condom off and put on a new one and we fucked more, I did not cum again. She then gave me a BJ and i stuck it in raw for a bit. After many condom changes, the lube kept going dry, she gave me another blow job and I hit it raw and 100% pulled out.
I'm irrationally worried that there could have been sperm still on my shaft and that could have gotten in her. But, she did take Plan B just in case.
I have had girls take plan B before and even cummed in a girl before she took it and it still prevented pregnancy. I also do not even think she would have gotten pregnant to begin with. So idk why I am so worried this time.
>Please help a over worrying bro out
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I just want her to have her period soon so I can stop freaking out
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I will not let this thread die
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Anyone with medical expertise can tell me whats wrong with my toenails? Pls help
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No trimming paired with a fungal infection/s. If I were you I would just tear it off and start over again. Maybe just lose the whole toe.
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>>18002021
Only upper part is loose. Bottom part is really hard can't really tear it apart without dying of pain
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>>18002025
Trim it back and buy an antifungal creme OTC.
Keep your feet clean and dry with talcum powder and it should stay away.
Also chop off the toe.
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>have crossed eye
>in club with friends
>chick seems like she's trying to grind up against me and also look back with a smile
>I grab her hips, she continues then turns around, pushes me with a death stare and says "you're a freak"
>her ass was rubbing against me crotch for a good few minutes before I grabbed her
>feels absolutely shattered inside
>she starts hooking up with one of my friends
I've tried several procedures but none have worked, my quak has said its nothing to be worried about but it is definitely noticeable until your use to it
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>>18002000
That sucks, man. I can't do anything for you, but you have my sincere sympathies. That's some horrible emotional damage. Try to stay strong, brother. I'm rooting for you.
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Ever considered wearing an eyepatch? You could look badass.
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>>18002088
I'm tearing inside, I was out until 5am, only got 2 hours sleep and still feel numb, I don't even feel tired....probably my emotional state
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So Idk why but I run out of energy alot. Like I slept about 8 hours last night, go to work at 12 get out at 6 and all I do is work a market, I got super tired laid for like 2 minutes and almost fell asleep, how can I gain more energy. The work I do is not even tiring at all. I need my energy to be higher so I can actually do things I want to do and not sit home alone all night over and over.
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If iron deficiency can be ruled out then all I can suggest is to avoid "fast carbohydrates", since it causes a rapid increase and decline in your blood sugar (see pic), and cardio.
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>>18001980
I don't eat white bread, I drink soda a little here and there. My diet is kinda shit I eat fast food alot so im gonna be 90% sure thats the issue honestly lol its just alot easier to come home and eat when im super hungry or have little to make in the house.
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>>18001964
It seems backwards, but exercise actually helps. It'll build up your stamina for life.
Me and my girlfriend just dont click, I guess. We don't really fight, its just that I.don't understand her, at all. Anytime we argue, even over stupid shit she.just cries.and stops.talking.the.rest of.the.day.
She says I.dont care about how other people think or feel, and I dont, I.hate other people and am very anti-social, but I.have never been.mean to.her, everytime she has ever gotten me angry I always suppress it and talk calmly to her. I think she is just an oversensative victim-case woman, and its really getting on my nerves. If this keeps.happening, we will.break up.
Idk what to do
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>>18001959
>She says I.dont care about how other people think or feel, and I dont
>I think she is just an oversensative victim-case woman
Have you considered that she's normal and you're insensitive?
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>>18001959
When she says that you don't care about other people, it doesn't mean that you're actively mean. Normally in relationships, people like to do little things just for the other person. Out of love. They like to be warm and helpful.
Not being mean is the baseline for being a decent human being. It doesn't make you a good boyfriend.
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>>18001959
>I.hate other people and am very anti-social
Why do you have a girlfriend then?
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How does one become charming? Like Eric Roberts or something?
Also, when taking a monster, stubborn shit, what's a good bottle of red wine to have in the bathroom in order to help yourself relax, and finally pass that rock of a muddy baby who's been daunting you for the past week or two?
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>>18001935
This webm was the best 56 seconds of my day.
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>>18001944
It's like they finally genetically engineered a real-life Disney princess.
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You're fucking retarded. White wines, like Pinot Grigios, are better suited for defecation. Red wines, such as Merlot, are for pissing out a blocked urethra.
>that girl IS pretty damn charming though
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I need help taking a shit, I believe I have constipation and I've tried a great deal to get this shit running.
I've had plenty of water, I've tried excercising, I've tried shit like prune juice, but it's not fucking working.
Any solutions?
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Try ex lax
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>>18001938
Haven't got any laxatives on hand, plus the prune juice should be acting as a minor lax, I'm thinking of going to the doctors since this problem has persisted.
In the meantime, any foods I should avoid eating to ease up my intestines and shit?
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does your bathroom suck
I get constipated when I'm out / traveling because I am not comfortable shitting in unfamiliar possibly contaminated toilets. So I can be constipated all day but the moment I step into my house it wants to explode out.
it doesn't really help that the last couple times I've had a road trip, it was visits to relatives with bathrooms that either locked from the outside or did not have a lock at all. Can't shit peacefully like that.
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I'm 24 and about as virgin as it is possible to get and socially isolated. I kind of want someone to do stuff with on occasion but other than that I really couldn't care less.
If I think about it it's a little sad I'll die alone and am missing out on certain experiences and shit but is it worth it to try and change and is it even possible? Is it okay to just not bother with that stuff?
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I really try not to sound like a snowflake/hippie/whatever but,
Life is whatever you want it to be about. Society says its to have a family, worship your god, and contribute, but all of it is your choice.
So it's okay to not bother with "that stuff", but yea you'll be missing out on love. If you really don't care, don't bother.
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I'm the same way op, you don't happen to live in NYC do you?
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>>18001869
>That pic
My grandmother was one of 7 kids and she was the only one to have children of her own. 4 of her siblings were doctors too.
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How to dance at a nightclub? 2017-01-29 01:20:12 Post No.18001840
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How to dance at a nightclub?
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2017-01-29 01:20:12
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Never been to one before and want to dance, what can I learn to not make myself look like a twat?
I'm a man.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d17ggav1Lto&index=89\
like that
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>>18001840
I'm also very awkward when it somes to dancing at parties. Welcome to the club. I might as well be better listening to >>18001867 , which I am now currently listening
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You do it with style and class. Take some inspiration from the movie: Blast From The Past.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXi7mCd7JAQ
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what does it mean to be a good girl? 2017-01-29 01:00:44 Post No.18001774
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what does it mean to be a good girl?
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and how do i be one. like i'm nice to people or whatever but i want to be known as a good person socially. so idk. does this make sense?
please make sense of my thread and respond.
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to be a good person is to share happiness.
anything else people tell you is "bad" is not bad if it doesnt hurt anyone.
go, experience the world.
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>>18001774
Honestly all I did was try and make people want to have a reason to live. I loved going to places like shelters and finding someone who you could motivate. Fix them on there feet and give them a reason to live. However it's also made me want to kill people and sympathise with genocide.
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>>18001774
step 1. Don't be a slut.
that's pretty much it.