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How do you not be needy as a 24yo virgin? I work on myself but I'm still desperate for sex and relationships and therefore drive women off.

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how do i become that type of guy who just winds up having sex with a girl, like we're just bored and we end up having sex?

i wanna have those types of experiences in my life but with lots of different girls

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How did you guys get past depression? I decided today im done being a fucking loser and i want to get help because i cant do this on my own. But I have decided that i want to better myself once and for all.

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This girl hits me alot when shes drunk and she kissed me goodnight on the cheek twice but shes a complete bitch to me when shes sober. Constantly shits on me, calling me a pussy, etc. Makes fun of me for being single a lot.

I always have to end up comforting her when she gets way too drunk, and i dont try anything or push for more. Just rub her back and tell her everythings gonna be okay. Im not the type of guy that takes advantage of drunk girls, infact, when she kissed me twice she said she wished I could stay over. All I did was make sure she got inside and locked the door.

She texted me some drunk incoherent babble the moment i dropped her off.

Not sure what it is thats going on. I care about her, but I dont know if its more of a friend thing or not. Other guys would have hopped on that ASAP meanwhile im not.

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Plastic surgery advice, have a new job already have a few thousand saved up going to aim for plastic surgery later this year need advice

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What is the average amount of girlfriends a guy in his late 20s has likely had? Specifically, 29 and from soc if that helps.
I know that he has had sex. As one time it came up in a convo that he did something kinky with his ex. But other than that he doesn't mention much.
I am just curious of what the statistics are. I am wondering if he had so many that he is redpilled or something. Plus I am trying to figure out why he was on there in the first place and why he settled for someone so much younger.

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I think my gf has cheated on me /adv/

So we have been fighting non stop for the last 2 days. She got super jealous when she asked me what I was doing and I mentioned I was chilling with one of my friends that is a girl.

Then she sends me a message at 5pm yesterday telling me shes going out to a club with her friends and her battery is going to die so she will speak to me tomorrow. So I send her an apology at 10 am this morning, even though I wasnt really in the wrong. She doesnt read my message, but I see she has been active on facebook and instagram. I see that she started following some guy that is from that area that she went to last night and he doesnt really have any mutual friends with her.

Next thing I did I am not proud of and I kind of crossed the line, but I logged into her facebook and instagram as I know she uses the same password for everything. I see this guy messaged her late last night asking where she was and he liked a ton of her photos and then I see her messaged her this morning on facebook saying hey stranger.

I might be jumping to conclusions but this is extremely fishy. She eventually replied to me and we seem to have patched things up, but I wonder if she got drunk and hooked up with him last night because she was angry at me or something and I dont know how to ask her because I know I crossed a line logging into her social media.

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I need some advice on what to do about oral sex and my partner.

I have a 6 inch circumference on my shaft and maybe a smidgen bigger for the gland. (in no way am I gloating because sadly this is my problem) The thing is, I have a blowjob/deepthroat fetish, but my partner tends to scrape with their teeth after a short period of time and I am never able to climax.

I wanted to get a mouth gag, but after a good hour of searching I can't find one that will accommodate me or my partner. (looking for something soft in the mouth. no metal)

Any suggestions or if anyone can relate or if by chance someone knows of a product that works? Thanks guys. Willing to answer any questions.

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Ok i'll lay out the detail as much as i can

>brother 24
>step mother 29
>dad 44


>dad left recently after mom refused to stop drinking all day with brother
>trying to win him back with gifts and sex
>firmly believe she is fucking brother

Now they have always been flirty, my step mom is the cliche trophy wife, no skills, barely any english from Brazil. Brother hasn't moved out and mostly games all day

I recently went snooping and found some pretty non motherly things sent between them including a game of truth or dare which ended with her suggesting oral sex.

Now the question...do i tell dad?

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So I've been living with this guy for about a year and 2 months now. We have butted heads on many occasions, he's convinced since he's older than me that automatically makes me lesser than him. Gives me no respect and constantly treats me like a child (I'm 28 and he's about 55). We're staying in a one bedroom apartment that we were only able to afford thanks to my income because he refuses to work since he's 'waiting for social security to come in' claims he's disabled and has neurological disorders. Whatever I dont really care about any of that.

What I care about is that he constantly treats me like a child, makes a huge deal out of minor things, and is just generally giving me no respect even though I more than pull my weight constantly.

Like for instance, we were moving his and his girlfriend's things into the apartment right? And he said 'put that box in the bathroom' and I didn't know where the hell he expected me to put it besides the piss covered floor, so I set it like 4 feet away from the bathroom. Suddenly he's screaming at me and shit, and we get a noise complaint because I have to sit there and try to tell him to calm the fuck down because all this shit isn't worth a goddamn box that can be moved 4 feet.

He is obsessed with the fact that the apartment is in his name even though I paid for over half of it, and is just generally a shitlord. So i'm moving in 3 weeks because apparently he's 'kicking me out'. And is gonna freeload off his girlfriend's social security. (Who he also treats like garbage)

My question to you, is how should I get even?

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In college. Socially awkward. Decently attractive but absolutely no self esteem whatsoever. Will literally go to parties, stay for 5 minutes, and make up some half assed excuse to leave because I don't want to be there. Weekends I spend alone playing vidya. I know I have to be more social but idk how. Any advice for a pussy like me?

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Yesterday, out of nowhere, I suddenly remembered being molested.

I was in elementary school, about 5th grade. 11. I had an older stepsister who was the epitome of cool and perfect. I admired her, envied her, and really liked her. I did everything she did and loved all her fun cool friends who did fun cool things. I made Myspace even though my friends didn't have it, but because she had it.

I remember I was talking to this guy on Myspace and we met up in real life. I told my parents I was hanging out with my best friend. This guy was in high school, 14 or 15. I was so naive. I didn't even know what sex was at that point. He said we were going to the movies but we just sat in the parking lot and then out of nowhere, he kissed me.

I was in SHOCK. I've never kissed anyone before. Fucksake, I was 11. It wasn't even a peck, he shoved his tongue down my throat and started groping me. He started to run his hands on my legs and I shoved him away and asked him to take me back. I remember coming home, acting like nothing happened. I threw up. A lot. I felt so sick and disgusting and I didn't even understand any of it.

I just.remembered.this.last.night. Like out of nowhere. I was sitting on my bed and it just hit me like a truck.
I am 19.
Holy shit.

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I've been with my girlfriend for well over a year now and recently she started telling me she was having thoughts about other guys. After talking to her about it I figured it was pretty normal and nothing to be worried about. She would tell me she sees a guy in class and thinks he's cute, and occasionally she would say she glances at his dick. I do the same shit with girls, and I know I'm faithful to her, so I wasn't worried.

Recently, she started getting really depressed and acting weird. After getting her to talk she pretty much broke down and told me she's been thinking of guys sexually quite a bit and its on her mind all the time. Almost every guy she sees she thinks "I would fuck him" and even more recently we were having sex and she started acting weird. I stopped and asked her what was wrong and she started crying and told me she was picturing me as this guy she has in class that's cute.

I got pissed and we had a big fight, but we made up afterwards and I thought we worked some shit out, but the past 3 days she doesn't even want to kiss me, and when she does she keeps her eyes open. We went to fuck tonight and I told her if she had any of the thoughts to get tell me and we could stop and let her relax. We fucked without problem and afterwards she broke down telling me she was imagining the other guy fucking her.

She's super fucking depressed and wants the thoughts to go away. She has been asking her best friend for advice as to how to make them go away, but her friend is saying its normal and to just ignore them.

>tl;dr my gf is thinking of other guys while fucking me

What should I do about this? I've been with her for a long time with no problems and she's been faithful to me. But now shes thinking like this, and just tonight after we've had sex shes told me at least 10 thoughts shes had about this other guy fucking her, eating her out, or her sucking his dick.

Wat do

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A recent epiphany has lead me to the discovery of--and explanation to--why many of my romantic on-goings with women often don't last... and that discovery was the recognition of the relationship ending plague known as "excessive independence". In a modern world where everyone must have it their way, the dependence or submission to one another has been met with negative connotation and labeled as weakness. Women are especially prone to this excessive independence due to an ever growing societal complex of not wanting to "end up like their mother", and the radical feminist doctrine that doesn't only preach prejudicial independence but also a purge by fire for anyone who attempts non-self reliance.

This mindset is pure vitriol and I want nothing more to do with it. Flags are easy to spot and avoid now that I can recognize what the problem is. While independence itself is not a bad thing, too much--similarly to too little dependence--is becoming ever more abundant in this 'I want it now' world that is quickly losing ethical and moral balance.

Is there hope?

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Is it possible to stop having feelings for a girl and just be friends or is it just going to get worse?

She already has a boyfriend so I can't tell her of my feels but I really enjoy spending time with her and I really don't have enough friends to spare losing any.