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what's on your mind faggot?

>>18002792
Diccs

>>18002792
I just ate too much food, and threw it up. I dont know. I have gf. Life should be made. . I dunno. Invasive thoughts have been with me for long time.

Break up because he doesnt have the balls to.

>>18002752
I did actually.But he didn't want to.We decided that we should remain together and try to fix our problems but I am the only one trying.

>>18002753
What was the communication problem?

>>18002714
What no you'll get arrested not worth it

Stalk him jump him somewhere secluded

Seems like one of those things that logical and rational people would take to the police.

I suggest you follow him home from the gym and then murder him and his entire family in their sleep.

Can alway count on the 4chan for solid advide. Thanks famz

Well, what are the differences?

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>>18002677
You don't.
It sucks, and that's what humans do to each other.
Try and communicate, do as much as you see necessary to make it work, but if they're determined otherwise you'll just make each other miserable. When that happens, back off and take all that pain to the chin.
Go back to your friends, family and hobbies; go back to who you were and are, because guess what? You've probably spent most of your life outside of intimate relationships and you'll manage again.
Then, when you've let time prop you up as you get yourself back together, keep trying to find what makes you happy.

Alternatively, murder-suicide because you'd rather be a giant, violent child. Maybe mix some alcohol in to make it spicy.

>t. a person who also lost a 1-and-a-half year relationship

>>18002672

yes, you will get aids and you will die, better break up before people start calling you gay.

>>18002695
how did you know people are calling me gay?

Her biological clock is ticking and she might want kids.

Make sure you are on the same page.

Retarded.

>>18002666
Short term love
A fling

>>18002679
fpbp

>>18002652
Man up, and admit your fault. You feeling guilty is a good thing actually, having a moral sense like yours is rare nowadays. But if you get over it and hide it, you'll weaken it. So OP, do the right

thing, and admit your faults.
Or if you have enough time you could find a part-time job so you can pay him back yourself.

>>18002663
thanks for responding, i know you are right, admitting mistakes is part of growing up. i just hope i see that car again/remember which one it is.

Why do you think you're having these car incidents? Are you distracted, angry, tired, or depressed?

called her 15 times? Bruh it's your co-worker. don't fuck with that shit

I don't fuck with coworkers. Shit gets out of control fast. But "too nice"? I've heard that shit way too many fucking times. I'd say leave it be. Also, I think you kinda rushed with goin straight for vag.

No, there's nothing more to say. Sounds like you just want some fuck. There's plenty of pussy out there dude.

>>18002620

most of my luck comes from online dating to be honest, but I've had quite a few from real life. generally hwen i turn off the apps, i end up finding someone within a month (and thats the max).

>>18002704
where does that happen, at parties?

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>>18002620
I met her, if you could say that, in third grade. Didn't think much of her. In fact I always considered her a side character in the movie that is my life.

Then in middle school I befriended her friends, lathough she hated me and thought I was a jerk.

By some miracle she gave me her number when I asked in high school, freshmen year. She later told me that she was put on the spot and didn't want to be mean. This is probably the only relevant part to your post. You can stop reading now.

We started talking and somehow she started crushing on me. I took the hint and asked her out because I was single and had nothin to lose. Oh boy.

That was almost a decade ago. We've been through thick and thin. Life can be cruel, ugly, and abhorrent in the most unimaginable ways. Humans are so fragile and are only here for such a short while.

But goddamn is it worth it. I wouldn't trade this life for anything, faults and all. I know nothing lasts forever but knowing this I still would choose her. I know things can seem so dark sometimes, especially here, but just keep going. One moment is all you need to have a memory forever.

Can speak from experience....Sort of. Got some really bad, really weird infection under my big toenail one time and had to pop the gigantic puss bubble under it and then clip the nail down to the quick (pretty much) so I could treat the wound. It should be fine if you treat the area at least twice a day and try to keep it bandaged up.

How bad are we talking here?

>>18002645
Like, it's not infected or anything, and it's not painful.

I was just sort of bumming around on my computer when I moved my foot and felt something weird, so I touched my pinky nail and it felt like a hangnail, so I tugged on it and thought "Wow that feels WAY better" and saw it was really big, I thought I'd not trimmed my nails for a bit.

It wasn't until a bit later, did I move my foot a weird way again and felt it was super sensitive, so I checked and noticed the whole fucking nail was gone. I checked in my trash and sure enough the whole fucking nail just sort of came off.

Go see a doctor

Sounds like some kinda health issue

>>18002598
**continued**

Then she goes on this whole wall of text about how she didn't feel valued and I left her behind to party with my housemates without her and told her to catch up with us. She says she didn't say anything because of the snap I sent her of me already out with my friends. I see it as her again not telling me things based off of assumptions she's making herself.

I don't know if it's alcohol or if I'm justified in standing up for myself here. I can't read her mind and I don't think it's fair for me to feel like shit retroactively for something I didn't mean to do. She doesn't tell me these things and I keep hurting her and that hurts me so much more

>>18002599
> I can't read her mind and I don't think it's fair for me to feel like shit retroactively for something I didn't mean to do. She doesn't tell me these things

No dude you're in the right here

>>18002598
>>18002599
tell her what you thought when she tells yu what you should have picked up. If she understands how you think, she should be able to communicate with you better. Also, try to understand her. I know, thats wat your trying to do, but all im saying is you should listen to what she says you should have picked up on, and use it for future reference.

>>18002545

you're supposed to do good things for the sake of doing good things, not for doing something in return.

I'm known for splurging on brithday gifts for friends. i dont do this because i want them to do the same, if i did id just buy myself the gift. I do this because I get happy knowing that i got the right gift for them ,even if expensive.

that being said, you are probably being taken advantage of if that money you loan is never actually returned.

>This goes from bringing food to lending money almost daily.

I cringed internally right there. These are 'shit-tests' anon. They're there to see if you're beta enough to fucking do it. You can normally crack a joke or play it off easily like "Oh I'm short on money this month" or "Don't you still owe me some nudes for last time? ;)" but the fact that you do it means they probably laugh at you behind your back or at least internally they think of you like a little brother/slave guy. Not someone to look up to.

They are taking advantage of you. Turn it around on them. Next time someone asks you to bring them food and it's a bit inconvenient for you, just offer some resistance (crack a joke, but not in a tard way) - say something like "I don't wanna encourage your unhealthy eating habits.. I mean they say healthy at any weight but..." and when she gets up to get something, ask her to pick you up one too.

Hope that was clear. Fuck this triggered me. Is this b8??

>>18002545
Don't give them your money OP. You are probably paying for their friendship. Restrict your spending on them, if they stay with you then ask if they'd be interested.

Ask her yourself I ain't your girlfriend

Anon, this is probably gonna really mess with her mentally. Like, a lot.

>>18002486
Obviously I wouldn't do anything she tells me not to. I just plan on increasing my forcefulness on her and see how she reacts.

I was just looking for any other pointers for this.

>>18002478

depends on who this 'someone' is and what kind of porn they look at. there's a lot of amateur porn that gets circulated like crazy.

>>18002481
boss, boyfriend, image boards

I mean it's not very good so i don't think anyone is looking for it.

if 4chan ever found it, it would just be used by /pol/ to show off degeneracy

>>18002478
have you tried looking for it yourself?
why don't you link us to it so we could accurately tell you how hard would it be?

>>18002467
Get into study groups. Also attend tutoring groups. Check out the professors' office hours to go over materials. Meet with the t.a.'s too if the classes have any.
Good luck!

grow a pair and work hard or drop out (college isn't for everyone)

>>18002474
This. Not everyone does well, and they literally can't because there are rules about grading to the normal curve. SOMEONE has to be at the bottom.