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After that convo he just askes where they went and she gave like a 2 word reply and then she cleared the chat. She also cleared their chat on facebook. Like i know she has this tendency to clear chats, all her friends comment about it because she does it all the time with everyone. She has some OCD habits, i just didnt know if she did it because she was like this coversation is over or if she was trying to hide something.

The only thing that makes me think that she didnt cheat is that the guy is not particularly attractive at all, i also see now that he is now also friends with her couple friends that she went out with so they could have all just met him then and chilled together snd maybe he is just trying his luck to get in there now?

I also see he liked a ton of her old photos at 3 am this morning which is pretty fucking weird, so he might just be a creeper.

I dont know if i should bring it up or not? Am i in the wrong?

>>18002466

The photo that he refers to is just them standing next to each other. The club took a polaroid and he took a photo of the polaroid and uploaded it...

Dude that number is not blurred enough the numbers can be made out easily

what ever you hobby is got out to a place that is for your hobby, like comic books go to a store and become a reg, go to gaterings ect, ect. comics not your thing mybe your a health/ gym buff then go to health events semanars go and hang out at your gym durring bussy hours and about allll just talk to people and be 1 yourself/ just honst, people know went your bsing them/ dont really like small take any more.

good luck

When I was in college, a girl in my class just came up to me and randomly asked me to get lunch with her. We've been friends for 17 years now. When you see someone you may be interested in talking to, whether in class or in line at the college bookstore, listen in and see if you "butt" into the convo. Example: You hear two people talking about how the girl in front is holding up the line:
person 1: Ugh...why can't they get another cashier?
you: Right? This is taking longer than my history lecture.
person 1: (chuckles but silent)
you: I see you have (name book they are holding), who is teaching that this semester?
person 1: Mr. Smith
you: Haven't heard anything about him yet.
etc. etc. etc. etc.
After chatting for a while, then say, "I am Joe/Sarah (whatever name) by the way.

Try meetup.com

Jerk more

>>18002399
Don't do this. Are you on any types of psychoactive medication?

as your doing just tlak about what your doing and if any thing make you even the slityst bit happy/ smile then say it.

the more you talk the better ting will be/ youll be mor involed with them

good luck

There are schools for music. Do you fucking think there are rockstars on 4chan or some shit dumbass?

>>18002362
You don't need school for music when YouTube has 3 hour long videos of music theory. I suggest learning all you can about composition and music theory as well as listening to bands that inspired the bands that inspired you. Just have fun OP, that's what making music is all about.

Yeah all the greats watched fucking YouTube videos to learn how to play music.

>>18002318
Not attracted to someone in the sense that you haven't found someone irl you would like to pursue or not attracted to anyone you have seen IRL or online, 2D or 3D, etc for the past 11 years? Either way, why worry about it? I don't think the latter part is "normal" but if it's not negatively effecting you why worry?

>>18002341
The former. Im not worried but people seem to have crashes on people they barely know all the time, so I was wondering if my situation was abnormal.

>>18002318
I don't think is normal but there´s nothing wrong with being like that.
My sister is really the same as you, she is friendless and has only fallen in love with fictional characters.
I'm kinda like you too, but actually i not been attracted to anybody in aprox 4 years, with a exception in December but i just rethink and cold down my feelings, they died shortly after that, i still thinking that i forced myself to devolve feelings for someone because i feel pressure and abnormal because i don't was like everybody else who are able to easily fall in love and dating. That's not a good idea and avoid doing something like that, it's unnecessary and you could hurt yourself trying to do something like that.
My advice is to check if is not because you are depressed or something like that, i mean if you are not experiencing more things like that it's fine.
But again don't feel bad if it's not normal, normal don't equal to good and being different doesn't equal to bad.

Ruin their relationship.

>>18002304
I would probs talk to her privately and tell her you are not trying to do that and that you just want to get along with her just for the benefit of your best friend.

>>18002962
I did this already :') resulted in her unfriending me on Facebook

Classic mistake. Intro classes are basically free As but the follow ups don't fuck around. You pretty much just need to force yourself. I found that making myself do assignments/reading/etc immediately after they are assigned works best. If not you will just end up doing them at the actual last minute.

You have to bust out this degree or your life will be shit. Motivation isn't what you want but rather diligence. One of the turning points in adulthood is realizing you aren't meant to enjoy every second of life and have to do things you dislike to improve it. Quality>Quantity for happiness

>>18002277
I've had similar struggles in the transition to upper level courses.

Make a calendar for the semester with all important dates on it (essay deadlines, exam and quiz dates, etc). Use this as a quick glance calendar so things don't sneak up on you. Then, make a to-do-list for each day or week. Do your best to stick to it, and make it as specific as possible. (Like, do reading for X class, write draft for Y essay, take quiz for Z). Mark things off as you do them on both your daily list and your calendar.

Do your best to attend class. Review notes and readings before taking quizzes.

Try to get someone to hold you accountable. Find a friend that will said "did you do the readings? Wanna do the online quiz together?" It will help.

>>18002277

stop looking at your studies as something you have to do and start looking at them as something you want to do. easy.

>inb4 i don't want to do it
should've picked something you liked

Guys are so bizarre holy fuck. It's like....do you like beef or chicken better? One person may not particularly care for chicken and prefer beef. Does that mean chicken is on a "lower pedistal" and that no one else will ever eat it and it should just feel like shit? No, that'd be stupid. Chicken sells even more than beef, plenty of people prefer it. All the stuff you're talking about - the "points" you get by being strong or attractive or suave - those help you get dates or get gfs. After you get them it's just seeing if you two work well together. Think about how complex you both are. Yeah, maybe you could bend over backwards to please her, but that would get old, and she would be able to tell you were acting anyway. Girls are looking for actual connection at that point, it's just quantity breh. Use your skills and pick up another girl, get to know her. If that doesn't work, do it again. And again. Long term relationships are much more about finding the right match.

>it's going to be hard as fucking balls to find a girl better than this one.
She doesn't sound like that great of a girl if she's hooked up with multiple guys
That's what you call a slut my dude

>>18002284
>Use your skills and pick up another girl, get to know her. If that doesn't work, do it again. And again. Long term relationships are much more about finding the right match.

This shit is painful man I lose a piece of myself with every girl

Cont.
>Dreaming one night
>be in girls place
>having good time
>she has based parents
>just got new car
>say i gotta head to sonic to pick up some grub
>she wants to take a ride with
>parents say ok cause ive been a family friend for years
>she knows
>drive out of the cul-de-sac
>shes looking at me
>stop in empty lot outside of neighborhood
>her body is up against mine
>itistime.gif
>dip my fingers into the untapped honey
>embrace her and deflower her
>she can't get enough
>she takes control
>we end the night in the back seat
>she genuinely loves the shit out of me
>i don't plan on spending my life with her
>i just want her to have a good life without decadence
>her sweat coated body wrapped around mine
>wake up
>check facebook
>shes a whore now

its not fair
what could i have done better?
OP image name related

Dude I don't get it, are you saying that you stole the car to fuck their loli daughter and now you have nightmares about it?

So...what advice are you looking for here?

First make sure that she's not engaged, and then think of a great excuse for tracking her down

>>18002236
What would be a great excuse after 9 years no contact?

>>18002234
add her on facebook and do a casual hey hows it been going thing, too creppy to have her number and her not give it to you,

>>18002172

hiragana is like learning the alphabet, its good if you're reading a childrens book, but not much else. kanji is where most of the language happens.

it would take far more than six months to be fluent, 6 months would be a couple of drops in the water, especially if learning on your own.

>>18002180
The person I talk to said he uses romaji more than kana
I was told to first learn hiragana, then move on to katakana then kanji
Is that a good order?

>>18002202

thats the correct order, though you tend to learn kanji kidna at the same time as katakana.

>romanji

in what context?

I hope you're fucked, that's what you get for trying to be a smart ass but being stupid instead

Grow up. Why did you even put yourself in this situation lol.

I doubt anything will come from it. They can't go through your phone without a warrant and why the fuck would they get a warrant to mess with some idiot doing pg13 texts.

How do you know they called the cops?

Buddy of buddy said the wife reported to the cops.
:(

Depends what you mean by like. She is probably not desperate to birth your hapa offspring but almost certainly doesn't hate you. It's worth giving it a go if you're interested in her or learning chink. It may not be fully possible through wechat but it's not like she couldn't help

Just being nice son. You are pussy whipped.

>>18001965
I'm living in Norway, she is living in China. Is there really a point? ;o She is hella cute though and English is decent. :)

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Its hard to tell man, maybe but it may just be her literally wanting to take it slow. She made it clear she was down to keep hanging out and take it slow. But i think over time it will show.

>>18001921
Was it actual dates or just hanging out? Did you specify it was a date? I've hungout with a girl and we both didn't consider it a date, we just chilled at her house and ate food, watched tv and played video games.

>>18001921
Don't assume she's friendzoning you because she wants to take it slow. She told you outright that she wants to take it slow, so trust her. Yeah, maybe things won't go any further and you end up being just friends, but her saying she wants to take things slow doesn't automatically mean rejection or friendzoning.

>>18001908
sell drugs to highschool kids

>>18001908
Disregarding the "popular" for a moment, let's focus on "acquiring validation and worthiness" first. Having a successful career and having loads of friends aren't the only options of getting a sense of fulfillment and self-worth.
Try to find meaning in the small stuff you do.

In a more practical sense: Go do some volunteer work.
That'll give you a sense of worthiness and also surround you with people to validate that worthiness.

Stop being a loser for one. No one likes an unemployed bum. For you I'd say your only shot is doing something so terrible you end up the headline of CNN for a month because your case is that fucking bad.