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>>18003145
Bump for interest

does anyone know?

>>18003145
Im guessing their either shy

its the female version of spaghetti

>>18003133
First of all, my heart goes out to you.

Second, SJW reason that anything that is supposedly oppressed is their natural ally, which it isn't. Because muslims in the US are discriminated against (which I believe they are, I'm not full /pol/) they think that they must fight for their rights - which would be cool, except feminism is now no longer about rights but about changing mindsets and culture. So they stick in this logic of "oppressed because they can't celebrate their culture/religion", not looking at the fact that said religion is completely against what they are supposed to stand for.

My best friend is lesbian and is an extreme leftie vegan person too, so I have no idea how you would deal. I don't know either how SJWs can continue doing the shit they do to your face as you explain your position.

I don't know if you're a student, already working etc, but try to associate with regular people. Not everyone who has a sound mind about islam is a zap-the-gay-away bible thumper, there are normal, sound minded people around. Make friends there and expand. I think you might need to turn your back on the gay scene for a while.

As for meeting cute girls if you ever want, once you have a group of friends, and they know you are lesbian, don't hesitate to ask people if they can match-make you. The best way to meet people is still through friends, and basically, I'm telling you that you just need better friends.
I'm straight, catholic, from the middle of nowhere in Europe and even I know a couple of lesbian people. So if I knew of your position and we were friends, and you asked, I might try to set you up. That sort of things.

>assuming every muslim community is a rotten cult

Not even baiting, but your experience in a particular community isn't going to be the standard.

Yeah, there are a lot of muslim groups that treat their women like garbage. But not all will do that. You got dealt a shit hand by a shit community. Gotta move past that and chill out with the hate.

I agree SJWs know fucking nothing about islam though. Never met an SJW who actually knew a muslim person.

>>18003133
Western females need islam.

Sure?

That's a pretty general question. If you're planning to just move there with no money then you'll want to go somewhere with a lower cost of living.

>>18003088
>>18003088
is this a serious question? Colorado is different from Montana is different from Washington is different from NorCal is different from SoCal. Where do you actually want to move?
Some things they have in common: In general things are more spread out. Aside from the California coast, there's a lot of emptiness. For example Denver is the only large city within like 500 miles or so.
Aside from the pacific northwest, much of that area is also dry, you won't get as much rain as you get on the east coast and you should try to conserve water.
There are large, well-preserved areas of wilderness. Most of the biggest national parks in the continental US are in the western US

Aside from that... it's a really big area and you need to be more specific

>she's 16 i'm 19

Dude, this will not last so just fuck her and get on with your teenage life. Don't catch feelings, but if you do and your hear gets broken (which I guarantee you it will) just remember that you learned a lot.

tl;dr: have sex, be nice about it but don't catch feelings.

>>18003072
Another lame thing about me, i want to lose my virginity to someone that will last. Not just get rid of it on some random person

If you genuinely like her and she like you then you may want to have sex. If not then I would leave her. she's been around and you are over 18. First time someone calls her a slut she is blaming you. She seems to be looking to bang but 16 is a lot of problems. I wouldnt risk it. But you are in the stitiution. Good luck and dont be on the losing end.

>>18003058
the only true existentialist is a dead one

if you're still here you've found a reason to live

posting this thread means you've found a meaning to live

>>18003063
I see what you're saying but how do I find out what it is?

>>18003085
do you really need a 'reason' to keep on living?
can't you just do it for the hell of it?

>>18003049
Bump

>>18003049
First don't worry about being the "disappointment" your family shouldn't make you feel like a disappointment and if they do, they aren't really family. Second if you want to get better or try start small, goals that are attainable to a degree start with those and work your way up. Motivation is hard I know, and you'll have highs and lows with it but muster what you have and push. Anon you have potential that only you can set up for yourself and what you put in is what you get out

Get into organized crime. Talk to a bunch of really sketchy people, and get if you get arrested your life sucked anyway.

There are 7 billion people in the world. Do you care what they all think?

I don't really care what my Dad thinks about me, but I care a lot what my Grandparents think about me, and a handful of friends too.

You NEED to care about what SOME people think of you, but you need to educate yourself on who you want to appeal to and why. Normally you can think about shit like VALUES.

An example; one of my friends is always very negative about my professional life and financial situation. Now, I used to get upset about this. But then I thought about it- I'm out here doing my shit, keeping my head up with whatever the fuck I have, while she's had an incredibly lucky life with a hyper supportive family. I realised that she has literally no baring on what I've been through, and indeed what my life has been like- so it's easy for her to sit there and make comments about me not earning enough or being too free. Ultimately, I don't really care because she's completely ignorant of me as a human being.

>>18002988
You'll never stop caring what others think of you, that's just not how humans work.

What you need to consider is that people don't think about you that much really man. I'm guessing you think people will care about all the little things you do, you probably have anxiety? But guess what most people don't care man.

>>18002988
Good question.

You always care up to a point what people say, but you need to find some place within yourself where you feel loved or content no matter what. A lot of people meditate, I tend to go to a church and just sit there, thinking that at least God loves me, if nobody else.

If people are constantly negative about you, leave them though.
If you listen to your own thoughts and you are constantly criticising yourself you need to try and counteract these thoughts, or not think them too much, or think positive things about yourself. Sometimes the opinions of people are very painful because they resonate with stuff you already tell yourself.

Have more sex, try going for two times in a row etc.

>>18002969
yeah man just make sure you bust a nut an hour or so beforehand

that way you'll still be able to get hard (hopefully) but you won't be as sensative

pre mature ejaculation is nothing to be ashamed of, your DNA is literally jumping out of you at light speed so just laugh at off

Either pre-jerk, yeah, or give yourself breaks mid-sex.

What I would do if I forgot to pound it beforehand is pull out, do some eating/ fingering until the buzz in my dick dies down and then go back in. Don't stay out long enough to go soft, just until the pleasure dies down again. Every time you try to build it up from nothing, it gets harder and eventually you can do that "fuck for 15 minutes straight non-stop" stuff. Takes practice though.

stupid question but how do you know your depression isnt part of your hypochondria?

>>18002904
Hypochondria generally diagnoses things which are not there. However, I have many symptoms of depression, and, well, feel hopeless and depressed. I'm fairly sure (?) all that wouldn't be psychosomatic.

>>18002899
As in any job, some psychologists are shit. Others are great. Most are okay.

If you find one that is at least okay - it's worth it.
It may take a few tries, few psychologists, to find one you'll "click" with.
Do some research on "how to spot a good/bad psychologist/psychotherapist", it may be useful.

>>18002881
This won't last a week

When did she ask you in a date? Just tell her you've never done this kind if stuff before.

>>18002888
Not directly, but she wanted me to show her some good running spots around the county. I dont know if that is considered a date. Im not sure if I wanna reveal my low energy inexperience to her yet, then again Im the one asking for help.

Yes, but I think its more efficient and easier with the help of a professional.

Yeah, i manaaged it, but it really does mean you have to do the things you really don't like to do. You have to go out more, you have to try make friends, you have to try improve your career or education, you have to take up a satisfying hobby, you have to clean your room, you have to work out. These things suck to do but make you feel a million times better if you keep it up, and it becomes easier to keep up after a while.

Oops, I read OP as "is it possible"

>>18002842
Depending on the State/Nation you reside in you can see a NP they can prescribe and diagonals and have a lot less clinical view. They're more like people compared to a mindless doctor who asks thoes fucking on a scale from one to ten.

If you get a bad Psychiatrist don't give up, there are good ones just keep looking.

>>18002846
Arkansas so it's hopeless

https://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms

She doesn't feel ready.

There are thousands of possible reasons. Maybe she doesn't really like you, maybe it's not the right time, maybe she's not really focusing on / ready for a relationship right now, maybe she feels like you're too good for her.

There's no way of actually knowing, best to just get on with your life and keep looking. You can spend forever hung up on an answer that you won't get and doesn't matter.

>>18002856
>>18002839
I wish she could just tell me

>kicking out your own alcoholic brother

The answer is: What is human scum?

>>18002857
It's really difficult at this point. I feel used, I don't trust him, and I'm enabling him by letting him live here for free and allowing him to not meet his end of the deal because I feel bad for him. He won't get better unless he wants to get better. He has not actively made that choice.

Hold an intervention and there's nothing wrong with wanting to kick out your brother

take the redpill and save yourself from the crazies while you still have your wits about you is my advice

feminism was a ruse (and most of us fell for it)

>>18002795
I think you should remind yourself that there is nothing wrong with change, you're changing as a person and as you learn more your political views are bound to swing all across the spectrum. The people you hang out with also influnce you greatly, originally as a child you were left because maybe your family was, SJW who lives near you says you're being more right because you're in Uni and a majority of Uni students are right wing.

Remind yourself that it's okay to change, that as you grow and expirence more that your views will change, and that SJW cannot tell you who you are as a person. Sit down for a bit and rethink your political mindset then take a test and see where you land across the spectrum. No one is mad at you for changing views OP.

>>18002812
Honestly, The Red Pill stuff has never convinced me. I respect women- they respect me. I have an excellent relationship, and I don't believe all women are as that type say they are.