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Maybe it's just like that from sex in general, I'm no doctor. Is this common? I haven't heard about this and now I'm kinda worried about developing it in the future.

>>17998180
Could be literally anything or nothing.

Make sure whatever you put in there is clean including your partner. Shower regularly and try to hypoallergenic soaps or go soapless for a while.

>>17998180
It's possible that the friction that comes with sex is causing you to become sensitive and inflamed, especially if he's on the larger side. That happens to me sometimes, even with more than adequate lubrication. If you're not in any noticeable pain, I wouldn't worry about it.

>>17998175
ignore it. Continue on as normal. Thus proving to your boss the person complaining is an idiot.

>>17998175
How many coworkers can you narrow it down to?

>>17998183

I really want to, but when he is believing their shit and confronting me about it it worries me he might do something

>>17998190

Not enough to make any accusations

>>17998128
It's "my boyfriend and I", firstly. Second, as long as you have breasts that stick out more than it does it's fine. It can actually be pretty cute too.

>>17998128
He won't care.I can literally promise you he wont care.

Chubby tummies turn me on!!!

>>17998122
better than nothing. But you have tot take them with food of they just blow right through you.

Multivitamins are a supplement only to eating a balanced diet. They're not a substitute to food.

>>17998122

nope, vitamins are good. not all vitamins are created equal from what i hear though.

I've been taking chewable vitamins just because thats what all mens vitamins seem to be at my store. either way ive been taking them for a year now and do notice that i have a better immune system. illness used to kick my ass, now i seem like a normal person.

i also eat healthier in general though so that may be it, though i imagine both are factors.

regardless, the thing to consider is that vitamins wont magically fix what problems you have. you are already on the 'decline' once you hit about 22. after that your body is just going downhill. eating healthy, exercising etc. is what slows down your decline, it wont heal your existing problems.

>>17998086
>is there anyway to decrease the male libido without causing harm to myself?
>Dude that is harming yourself it's not natural so it's harming you

>>17998086
chop yer ballz off , you stupid cunt

>>17998086
Wait for puberty to end if you under 25.

work out more.

>>17998075
Yeah that's fine.

Also, if you have one, add them on Linkedin. That's a great way in keeping track of connections.

>>17998075
"Hey John,

Thanks for letting me know. I hope you will consider me if any other openings become available.

Thanks
-Ethan P."

>>17998075
>not sending them pictures of their kids at school
>not sending them envelopes with powdered sugar

>>17998034

because you are sad. its normal.

we need to stop acting like were able to just turn off bad emotions.

you're going to be sad. over time things will start to be less sad and you'll feel better.

want to avoid pain in the future? dont over invest. its okay to date but never delude yourself into thinking that this girl is gonna be the girls who stays just because shes the next girl who agreed to date you.

>>17998034
It takes a heartless bastard to get over a relationship like nothing happened.

Just take your time and handle it your own way, but by no means let it interfere in your daily life. If it does, you haven't thought about WHY you broke up. Getting stuck in the 'happy times' loop is something we all go through, but the moment i remember why we stopped it all is when i assure myself that it's for the best.

Life is an adventure, go out and have one.

Look for peace. Meditate, breathe and let go.

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>>17998023
>she's on about raising a family and all of this other stuff that really shouldn't be the case for someone i've known a week
She wants to what now? Just like that?

Abort mission, she's nuts.

I would resist, but i know virginity burns hot.

Basically i just never trust a girl who is chatting about having a family right away. Because it means she generally has no aspirations or is already pregnant. Well unless she is in her thirties.

>>17998042
She is, but should that stop me from taking the opportunity?

>>17998003
I can sit in the same room with you, not say anything and just enjoy the companionship.

>>17998003
I actually stop doing the crap she tells me to stop doing, and i do a lot of stupid crap.

I'll actually want to spend time with her
I'm happy being with her
I'm happy in other aspects of my life too
I tell her I love her
Occasionally treat her to some surprise
Still go on dates/do fun or new things
Support her in her endeavours but also offer counsel if I disagree with her opinion
Actively make plans for the near future
Consider her priorities as well as my own

>>17997981
Also, I'm not going to fucking vape. So don't even try. It's stupid as fuck, and all you're doing is replacing one habit with another.

>>17997981

you already know all the popular methods. have a buddy watch over you til its out of your system (or your wife?) if you can.

>>17997981
The only way that worked for me is just to cut it off completely. No tobacco/nicotine in any form. Vaping or chewing Nicorette will keep you addicted, and eventually you're just gonna say "fuck this fake shit" and go for a real cigarette.

You just gotta be strong and get through the first few weeks. If you DO slip up, don't get discouraged. Smoke a shameful cigarette and throw the pack away.

The first 2 months were rough for me, but now I don't even miss it. I still have the occasional cigarette when I go drinking with friends, but they're fucking gross now. I'll have about half a cig and think "I can't believe I used to smoke 10 of these every day"

>>17997968
You don't talk enough.

Take it from someone like me
>6ft 2, wide neck and shoulders
>angry look on my face (its comfy like that)
>good posture (straight back)
>heavy leather jacket

People tend to think i'm up to no good. Because i look like it. When i talk to a group of people i don't know at a party i can almost see the nervousness float around them, but after cracking a joke or 2 and showing i'm not a dumb brute people tend to like me more. When i dress differently, like at work, people aren't as nervous around me as when i dress as i do outside of work. Appearance defines how people think of you without meeting you, and conversation is how they think of you afterwards

>>17997968
You can be calm and give a chill vibe. Some people seems so cool and mysterious when they're calm, but you seem like the next shooter.
So try to relax and watch yourself in a mirror, you might have a bitchy resting face, a weird posture, something like that. You could ask another person too.

But what do you mean by folding hands? Like the happy merchant or the prayer kind of folding hands?

>>17997994
Could you post a link to your heavy leather jacket? I need one...

>>17997967
Are you really asking if you should just try? What are one phonecall or text gonna cost you?

>>17997967
Just text/call her again you moron, if she blows you off without a reply then you can safely say she isn't interested.

>>17998002
>>17998014

I guess I'm asking if having me wait a week is sufficient proof that there's no point in making an ass of myself.

But yeah, you're both right. I'll get in touch. Thank!

>>17997938

I'm 30, staring down 31, as a guy with some of the same issues. I don't want to settle, but I do unfortunately approach most dates with the mindset of "well, at this age, I need to consider if this person is long term material... right?"

I mean, I'm not committed to marriage or kids like it sounds like you are, but in the back of my head it does seem like the next step.

I think you're mostly on the right track, but maybe need to switch it up. Have you tried online dating at all? I actually know of a fair amount of success stories from there around our age.

You're going to have to filter out a lot of shit, but it's a decent first step.

Good luck anon!

>>17997974
I might try online dating. I have the advantage that I look good for my age, some girls really have let themselves go by now.

Do you think I should mention the autism thing on the profile or not at all?

>>17997974
>>17997938
You guys should just meet up, maybe something will come out of it.

I'm confused as to why you would want to prove that?

>>17997937
So he can be a top memer on an anonymous underwater basketweaving board based in Guatemala

You go to Reddit then you never come back

>>17997926
POF- is literally the bottom of the barrel. you have to hit on girls way below your standard.

Tinder- is usually good for fucks but you need to play at being successful and/or handsome.

OKC- is the best for finding a relationships but everyone is super fucking picky.

Online dating is only good if you look and act your more successful. Your best bet is to socialize with outside people more often or look outside the box.

>>17998006

Explain on POF? Why below your standards? Just because girls are more picky? It's my least used of the three.

Tinder isn't really my jam. The city I live in is too touristy, and I could just as easily go to the club if I wanted a cheap fuck.

OKC is in the middle... there aren't a lot of people there that are attractive or of value, on average.

I socialize a lot, but I never seem to meet anyone. I'm stuck in a city I grew up in, so everyone seems to know someone I've already dated or whatever.

Really, the only place to meet cute girls is at loud as fuck bars where I can't hear anything and the place is packed.

>>17998006
>>17998039
My experience with POF was not good. Basically not much luck except with fat dumb neet girls. Like really bad ones. Got a BJ from one and never saw her again because she was super dull. Met up with another and smoked weed in an alley. Got a handjob but we just stopped talking after that.

OKC is probably your best bet then since relationships are the priority.

I actually met my wife on Deviant art through group chats. So i guess just be gregarious.