Femanons, pick the five features of a male partner most important/attractive

>>18000045
1. Not being fucking obsessed with women
2. Having self respect and being self motivated
3. Not being degenerate
4. Leader
5. Probably like Abs or something fuck idk.

>>18000049
>3. Not being degenerate
Can you elaborate on this?

>>18000056
not femanon

Pretty self explanatory, stuff like being a shut in, doing drugs, being a piece of shit and the opposite of
>1. Not being fucking obsessed with women
>2. Having self respect and being self motivated

>>18000056
This one I feel like is more particular to me, honestly. I get triggered about man whores and think a lot less of anyone who sleeps around or does drugs. Most girls don't particularly like the idea of being a "notch in Chad's belt" but they probably put it lower on the list and are more likely to be like "yeah he banged about a million chick's before but uh he likes only me now :E" these women are dumb and any man who rides the pushy coaster is damaged. However, since men are inherently obsessed with women, generally any man who's not a kid but still a Virgin is also "damaged" by virtue of him being so consumed with desire for intimacy that he can't have self respect and not be damaged. It's kind of a fun catch 22.

>>18000063
What this guy said. Not giving up on life and speaking out hedonism. Is a big fucking with most girls (not just me). Also it generally makes you hate yourself a lot less, so there's that too.

>>18000045
5 from your list?
1. Smart
2. Funny
3. Financially sufficient
4. Passionate about something
5. Good at socialising and listening

Physical attraction for me is a weird business.
Being a 5/10 or a 9/10 doesn't make much difference - if I like being around someone because of their intelligence or personality, I will end up desiring them physically and it doesn't matter THAT much if they are super hot or average looking.
But if I don't think you're attractive at all, there's no amount of personality that can make up for it.

>>18000073
This is literally how most all women are with regards to looks. That's why the whole "_/10" scale is used only to refer to women. Women refer to guys with more of a pass/fail approach. Actually there are 3 options. Either you're repulsive, not bad, or stunning. Stunning guys generally get more sloots but get equal amounts of women to average guys.

>>18000045
1. common interests
2. common sense of humor
3. not a slob
4. knows how/when to commit to something
5. tall

Honestly if you need to ask 4chan for a ranked list of traits that women like it's a red flag

>>18000133
>>>18000045 (OP)
>1. common interests
>2. common sense of humor
>3. not a slob
>4. knows how/when to commit to something
>5. tall
>Honestly if you need to ask 4chan for a ranked list of traits that women like it's a red flag

How bad is it if I pass the first four points and fail the last? 5 9

>>18000099
Women want men who are above their level. If they are just above their level in looks / social standing / wealth then its cool.

smart
good at socializing and listening
funny
being a few years older than you
passionate/ambitious about something

>>18000045
1. Funny
2. Smart
3. Attractive face
4. Passionate/ambitious about something
5. Outgoing
I laughed a bit at "fit body" I like my men fat. Does that count

>>18000182

It's very fuzzy when you have to compare a man and a woman in term of look, some guy might be a 6 in other guys eyes but might be a 8 in the woman's eyes, then there's all the bitterness resulted from it.
>why does she choose that guy who is uglier than me?
>post on 4chan

1. Get along - good friendship
2. Treat me as a person
3. Fill out each others strength/weaknesses
4. Similar ambitions
5. Loyalty

>>18000151
I'm only 5ft/152cm so I've never met a guy who was shorter than me. 5'9" is tall in my book, but I think most women who want "tall" guys are looking for someone who's 6+ inches taller than them.

>>18000333
Now that I reread my post I realize that I didn't answer your question. I don't think height alone should be a deal breaker but YMMV

>>18000333
I'm having a boner picturing a 5' qt

How old are you?

1. Intellectually witty and able to keep up with me or even keep me on my toes (the mind is a real turn on)
2. Has a life aka. Has goals and aspirations, puts them into practice the best they can, works, has hobbies, etc.
3. I don't feel unsafe around them
4. When it comes to looks, I'm a lover of blonde-ish brown hair and blue eyes
5. I find hands and shoulders attractive when they're big and broad

I'm not a female but let me point out the inherent issues plaguing this post. Speaking of posts, I will not be reading any of the replies to this post so save your green text.

There are choices within the OP that are going to trigger a negative perceived reaction from the female picking her 5. She, or even he because you could very well do this for guys, does not consciously want to admit to herself that certain qualities deemed shallow by society are qualities that she in fact deems important.

There are just way too many perceptions and false perceptions that the player, as well as those viewing her post, are going to get. Is she trolling, or is she not? Is she inherently lying to herself by not picking certain choices, and picking others?

Way too much psychological bullshit to sift through here, for all parties within this thread.

>>18000045

passionate about something

good at socializing and listening

attractive face

smart

well-dressed


These are the five most important things I look at upon general first impression. in order from most, most important, to least important but still important.

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>>18000063
>being a shut in is considered degenerate

w e w l a d

>>18000355
Dude don't hit on girls on fucking 4chan unless you have an extendo penis that can reach across countries.

ugh i just want him to love me and not lie to me

Most-least
1. Confident/dominant.
2. Serious, not just looking for a fling. Actually expresses interest in me, I'm not always the one contacting him, begging him to go out with me. He seeks me out sometimes instead of me always seeking him out.
3.Has life in order, or mostly in order. (IE has a degree, working on one, or has a job with prospect of growth. If not in school, doesn't live with parents. Has ambition and/or goals for future.)
4. Shares some or most of my core values/beliefs. We can get along intellectually/mentally/emotionally.
5. I find him physically attractive to some degree.

I'm not sure if attractive face should be at the very top, but probably top 2, definitely top 3. It's more important for initial and sexual attraction, but the second is more important for me being happy in a relationship and feeling loved.

>attractive face
>good at socializing and listening
>passionate/ambitious about something
>well dressed
>funny

>>18000045
-tall
-clever, ambitious, dominant, protector
-nice face, fit
-understanding, interesting in some way
-faithful to me

Honest
Open
Trusting/Trustworthy
Respectful (to himself and others)
Good communicator

I think these five are more important to mention because they are absolutely integral to any relationship, regardless of who it is, whether you're a man or woman.

>>18000603
>>>18000045 (OP)
>-tall
>-clever, ambitious, dominant, protector
>-nice face, fit
>-understanding, interesting in some way
>-faithful to me
Define tall please