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>Be Me
>Complete established University w/ Dual Business Degree and IT Minor and 2.5 years of work internships
>Come From Well off Family
> Go on over 50 interviews after College
>Apply to over 400 job applications
> Be continuingly 8 months unemployed since graduation
> No Girlfriend
>Neet Lifestyle playing videogames for majority of day
> Losing Hope in all that surrounds me

What is the point of waking up to another endless Sunday? Where is the town I've come to know? I prepared everything so it wouldn't be this way, im losing everything I hoped for. I have no one to rely on, no one cares and they cant do anything for me.
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>it's a millennial thinks the whole world is going to be handed to him on a silver platter episode
One of my favorites
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>>18242105
how is a dual degree and 2.5 years of internship expecting the world on a silver platter
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>>18242100
>Go on over 50 interviews after College
How comes no a single one had a positive result?

Also cut your vidya time, it's poison that dumb you down over time. What are your hobbies?

>tfw seeing three different girls on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday
>two are sleeping over
I think I have a problem
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Cool blog, subscribed for updates!
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You forgot to ask question
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>>18242114
Oh sorry.

Do I have a problem?

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What is the point of dating apps? I was recently divorced and I'm lonely as hell trying to find a legit woman. I lurked and u guys said bumble had classier women than tinder. But nobody matched me. It's easier to chat girls up on Facebook but they all have boyfriends or "free spirit" types. I just want a legit woman to take my BWC. Why is our society so retarded. Pic is my profile maybe u can tell me why I suck so bad.
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b8
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>>18242046
what do u mean im not trolling i need a woman
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>>18242044
Well, have you tried to uhm
look like
uhm
attractive not like serial killer dude?

Dat beard, dat life threatining grimace, dat turtle, dat fat? body, dat tattooooo, dat bio.

I say try to work on your profile more. Start by getting photo where you look like easy going dude who wont murder you on 1st date. Also when you have no hair, dont try to hide it by shit cap.

You have to embrace your baldness.

Also why have you divorced? Kids? Reason?

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>tfw in relationship where we're perfect for each other
>have been on and off for about a year
>but after her grandma talked to me and after she wrote me a heartfelt letter, it seems like we're together for the long haul
>but today I found a condom missing from her room
>this isn't the first time I've suspected her of cheating
>Ive also cheated on her before

What do I do? Think if I came clean about my cheating, she'll admit hers and we can try to be honest going forward? Or should I just play ignorant and just also cheat? I really don't wanna breakup with her because it feels like we're meant for each other in a lot of ways.
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>>18242035
It looks like a huge train mess waiting to happen
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Distance yourself. And relationship will fall apart naturally.
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>>18242035
Dump her.
You aren't perfect for each other, otherwise you wouldn't be on and off and you wouldn't cheat on each other.

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I am a christian catholic. Though I don't really go around preaching and converting people, I do however disrespect atheism and all the modern crap. The girl who is crushing on me is an atheist and pro all of the modern shit. I have a crush on her, but now I'm kinda afraid how could this look like. We are both crushing on each other yet we are so different. Do I Deus Vult the hell out of this or do I stay in this deal.
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>being a pope worshipper
Absolutely heretical
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>I am an Odin-worshipping viking. Though I don't really go around preaching and converting people, I do however disrespect christianity and all the modern crap religions. The girl who is crushing on me is a christian and pro all of the christian shit. I have a crush on her, but now I'm kinda afraid how could this look like. We are both crushing on each other yet we are so different. Do I the deliver her the justice of Thor or do I stay in this deal.

See how retarded it reads OP
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>>18242022
don't fight me schismatic brother, the real enemy is the devils synagogue

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Help!
I need your advice!

Yesterday I had 1st sex in my life - with a girl that is a waitress in a bakery/coffee house near my university. We met last Friday, messaged a bit, went to two dates and had sex in my flat yesterday.

A few minutes ago she phoned me and told me that she wants 500 Euro from me or will go to police and tell them that I raped her.
I never did anything remotely like rape! At once she was in my flat she basically stripped me from my clothes and practically forced me into sex (not that I needed any forcing).

I could afford the 500 bucks rather easily, but what then? Would she not be able to blackmail me again and again?

What to do now? Should I go now to police first and tell them my story?
But will they believe me?
And if police started an investigation - would I not be at risk of losing my reputation anyway just for the reason that there was "something"?
What would my friends and family and their social circle think when they would learn of the accusations against me?

Dammit, I am in real trouble!
I could ignore the 500 bucks once, but I fear that it will develop into something like 500 bucks per month as blackmail cash for her every month from now on, and I don't want that.

Guys, what should I do??
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Record the conversation and call the cops dummkopf
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Record her lying.
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>>18241992
murder her, throw acid in her face and burn her.

blame Achmed

Tldr
Friend i love went to hospital for suicide attempt
She's been getting raped by teacher for months
No reporting it does not work
I'm really angry I came here wanting to kill him but you guys said no

How do I kill this asshole and get away with it
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Mask. Leather on hand and a knife
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How did reporting to Police not work? What about her family, the authorities? Story?

Maybe she's faking it. Or she had relationship with him and went through some drama, thus suicide.

Whole thing sounds fishy. Elaborate.
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>>18241940
Start by not leaving a digital trail you nincompoot.

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For all the kissless virgins, people in overly long romantic/sexual dry spells...

...cut out porn and 4chan entirely. I'm in my first serious relationship in a few years and can barely believe how much damage the internet has done to my ability to be with another person in normal, healthy ways.

I'm not a sperg, but the cracks are there and every now and then she sees them. Only I know the cause.
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I don't have or want anything else to do
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>>18241895
You should definetely never visit some boards (mainly porn boards and b) but others are ok. I fully agree porn is bad, porn on 4chan tends to be of the worst kind.
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>>18241895
how does one run an empire?

>Never drank alcohol. Never smoked weed. Never planned to.
>Met a girl, she's inviting me all the time
>I am actually thinking about going
She is actually telling deep private stories to me, looks like she trusts me.
Does she really have interrest in me or am I just a good friend?
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>>18241863
>Does she really have interrest in me or am I just a good friend?

How could strangers on the internet who know neither of you personally possibly know the answer to this?
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>>18241870
They have more experience than I do
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>>18241871

Well, maybe it's time to experience then. Just ask her out and find out for sure.

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Last December I switched jobs and elected not to take COBRA coverage from the last job for health insurance, since the new job would provide it after the probation period, and I didn't want to pay a ridiculous premium for a couple of months of coverage.

But my dad found out, had a complete panic attack, and gave me cash to pay for this "temporary" health insurance so we wouldn't squabble over the cost. I took the money, but they came back and said I wasn't eligible. Unfortunately I'd already told my dad I signed up.

Now I have a couple hundred bucks in cash sitting here that was supposed to have been spent. If I give it back to my dad, he'll flip his shit for lying to me... I feel guilty spending it... but I could also use the money.

What do I do?
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>>18241823
Here's a really wild, off-the-wall thought.

Why not tell him the truth?. "I urned out that I'm not eligible for the bridging cover. But thanks for the offer. Here's your money back."
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>>18241823
Save it for urgent care/the er if you need to go.
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Group health insurance shouldn't need you to prove your medically insurable, did you wait to enroll?

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Hey /adv/, I'm 23 and balding. Not too close to the point of no return, but it is noticable at times.
When it gets more significant, how bad is it going to fuck my lovelife?
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>>18241655
Do you have personality or you relay on good looks?
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>>18241655
Shave head, hit gym, become god
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>>18241664
Looks, mostly. I'm somewhat funny and outgoing most of the time, but would like to improve my personality. What's the best way to do that?

>>18241689
Does this meme actually work? I'd figure there'd be fucktons of bald buff dudes by that point. Won't it make me as common as possible?

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>ask her on a second date
>takes 2 hours to respond
>"yeaa"
>ask her what day of the weekend does she prefer
>"I don't mind haha"
>"Ok then, is it fine friday, same hour as last saturday?"
>doesn't respond
She's going to flake, right?
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we can't really know,. did she read the message?
Anyway, just date a few other women at the same time and stop worrying so much about a girl that may not care at all about you
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>>18241683
She didn't read it.
Also, her last hour online appears as minutes before she sent me a message.
Am I blocked?
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Start texting like her.

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Not much else to say beyond title. Long story short, me and my gf suspected since 2013 when we all traveled toghether with a "friend" of his who was clearly gay and they both stayed in the same room.

He's not flamboyantly gay, we mostly found it out because he's always traveling to meet friends who are clearly gay and he slipped a text to my gf that should be for his current bf.

We're both completly ok with it and want to let him know that we know to ease his mind, kinda extend a hand to him to pull him out of the closet, but... how do? Straight up telling him "we know you're gay" is obviously too blunt. I tought about just saying "we know about you and X" and this should suffice.
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>>18241613
Ask him if he would like to blow you.
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>>18241618
Comparing to his last bf's I'm definitly not his type, so I don't think this would work lol
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>>18241613
Saying something like that makes it sound like you are accusing him of doing something bad. Stuff like this can be really sensitive to some and you should never make someone come out if they do not feel comfortable.
Just tell him that lately you have been suspecting that he is hiding a big part of his life and that if he feels that he need to share something you will be there and not judge him about it. Just that you care about him and want him to able to be himself.

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>be me
>21 y/o anon
>feel like shit because i never had the stereotypical "teen" lifestyle

basically anons, i feel like i've wasted my life from when i was like 14-19, my parents were never together so i used to move around a lot as a child and i never could make friends that easily, this led on to me not getting too close with anyone and when i went to high school and i suffered because of it.
never did the "cool" stuff that every teen seems to have done like have a gf, smoke weed, hang out in general with their peers etc.

i'm in my early 20s and i feel like i've just fucking wasted that entire part of my life because if I were to do most of that stuff now, I'd be seen as a social freak.

i can't talk to my irl friends or family about it because they'd just laugh at me.

is this a big deal or am i just blowing things out of proportion?

tl;dr i feel like shit because i never had friends in high school and did any "teen" things.
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>>18241519
Who cares? Fun starts when you're in your 20's. Stop being such a bitch and get on with your life. Go out make everything you missed out on happen.
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>>18241519
Similar person here, I regret that I had that lifestyle. I used to smoke weed, have a gf, hang out, drink and stuff like that. Now I regret it and feel like I have wasted that part of my life. You have not missed anything from my point of view except of socialization part, but better for you if you have not done that things that early. Now you are more mature and the fun just started.
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>>18241558
>>18241569
thanks lads, i went away to think about it for awhile and i think i just needed to hear that out loud, cheers

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What do I answer /adv/, quick
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>>18241344
Here's what I answer: Gym, films, walks, restaurants, research.
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>>18241346
Okay thanks my dude
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>>18241346
You sound boring.

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