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Uh, you didn't consider whether she'd be comfortable in it BEFORE you bought it? How bad of a boyfriend are you?

>>18241273
Get the fuck over it. You can't make her be comfortable in her own skin. Believe me, I dated a girl like that before. That's the reason I broke up with her. If you wouldn't make a big deal out of it and let her just be, she might start becoming more comfortable with being open about her body around you, but buying her shit she's not comfortable wearing and then trying to badger her about it like it's a problem is not the right answer.

"I don't want to send them back"
Then don't? They look 10$ max, you'll survive.

>>18241180
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I am a loner by nature and I can honestly go weeks, months without needing to be around people. I've had girls interested in me before, but I've either been too scared or felt that they weren't "right" for me and had serious red flags. I've never dated and I am worried about how I will treat this girl. All my friends say that she is really hot and I find her attractive, yes; but I think somethings broken in me and sexual attraction. This girl is mature despite her age and when we talk, we flow and agree nicely with each other. But I'm stressing out about spending time with her and how much she'd want, etc. I really like my alone time and I know it sounds like a dumb thing to complain about, but I'm not sure how much time I need to give. For those of you who have dated, is this just something you both figured out along the way, or is it something that I'm overthinking? I don't want to date for datings sake. I really need to like a girl before considering it. And this one is nice, knows what she wants, isn't a party girl and comes from a solid home. I don't want to pass her up and look back with "what if". I think her and I could last a very long time even, but I just want to be a good boyfriend. What do I need to do in order not to fuck it up? All my female friends say that I'd make a great bf and that I'm husband material; but I've never been in a relationship. Thanks.

Pic related is what she looks like.

buss it wide open

>>18241180
How the fuck are you a virgin by choice at 29. I'm not understanding how males can fucking hold it that long. You got magic powers to control yourself? Like a wizard?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEqbWqyCwIY

>>18241168
tldr: no motivation for anything. Dont want to work/cant drag myself out of bed for work because i have 0 motivation.

if i was forced to work, at this point in time i would killmyself. I dont know why its this way.

>>18241174
this video is not available ?

>>18241113
Yes, both in public and private (even if I prefer in private).
I do like feeling like my boyfriend desires me and it feels possessive and sexy.

Anyway, obviously, it's cool if my boyfriend does it - not if random dude does it.

>>18241113
Yes, but by Chads only ;p

only if the guy who is doing it is hot

otherwise its creepy

>>18241100
Stop liking dick.

Just force yourself. You have to do it anyways.

>>18241100
I think that only really shitty parents dont realize their kids are fags. The signs are almost all the time through the whole puberty.

Dont tell her. Just wax your whole body, be simply beautiful and dress like you really want. Sooner or later your mom will realize how different you are.

And now to the more important question:
Do gays have strong prefference for top / bottom or you want to do both in equal measure?
>>>/hm/

>>18240936

That's not acne, it's a plantar wart.

>>18240937
Pic unrelated

rinse your face daily even if you aren't washing with some kind of soap.
avoid touching your face
you can try to apply something like tea tree oil or calmoseptine/calamine lotion.
change your pillowcase daily.
cut down your sugar and junk food intake.

>>18240884
Expecting an instant connection

>>18240900
Solution?

>>18240884
you need some self-love

tell me 3 things you like about yourself

>>18240703
What makes you think that?

>>18240710
>need to take extra measures and assistance ever move of my life
>5 years of university life, never made a single friend
>"relationships" lasted very very short
>personality fundamentally damaged/distorted
>bottom of the barrel in my socially frowned upon degree

>>18240713
What do you mean by extra measures and assistance?
Why do you think not making friends or having a lasting relationship makes you worthless or pathetic?
What's wrong with your personality?
What's your degree?

>>18240690
Youre just not built for it.

Youll always be this way in confrontations. And yet your life will go just fine anyway.

Fuck it.

>>18240697
Nothing? I'm not looking for a fight, i just don't want to be a total stuttering pushover when someone is being an assholes to me.

I tried google and all i really got was a bunch of forum post of people saying "i know exactly how you feel" with no real solutions.

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Have you considered watching how people debate on youtube? I hear proper breathing exercises can also help you not choke when you try to give a counterargument. As for the shaky feeling, that's only gonna change through experience, you gotta get in there and fuck up and think about why you did, it'll make you a better debater for the next argument and so on till you eventually just keep your cool.

Also it goes without saying, but knowing is half the battle, so don't pick arguments where you don't have all the information, that, or learn how to extort the information out mid-argument.

Just don't it's never worth it

She should just keep ignoring/blocking him

>>18240623
>yo dog dont text sarah anymore unless you want me to break your legs.

For real though. He doesnt have anything to lose while you do and are at a disadvantage.

>>18240635
>>18240642
OP here.
I was gonna say something like "she doesn't like the comments you make and it makes her uncomfortable. Lay off."

Nothing serious or aggressive

>>18240612
The fact that your OP is so vague makes it seem like you are hiding something. What's the story?

>>18240612

I can already tell that this was completely and entirely your fault somehow. If it wasnt something you said or did, it was your shit attitude

>>18240618
It's a whole story I can't fit it in 2000 words

>>18240659
How so or what do you mean?

Are you saying I upset her somehow or is it "only me"?
I know it wasn't only me, and I fully realize she was playing me all along.

>>18240483
I lost my father and brother in a fire. Everyone grieves in their own way, anon. Seek out grievance counseling to help you through this if you're having a particularly hard time dealing with your friend's death.

>>18240483
i hope it is not unrelated but:
do you agree that we, as a society tend to ignore death?
do you think it would be better for us to more openly talk about stuff like death, grief, suicide?
or do you think it is a pointless struggle, and makes everybody else's life a bit more blue?

>>18240483
my gf died in a car accident about nine months ago. We hadn't been together very long but we were both friends and enfatuated with each other for a number of months before we came clean with feelings for one another.

It was pretty overwhelming at first, because she was so young and we were honeymooning hard. she was wildly popular and I'm posting on 4chan so you can understand the social dynamic of the funeral and aftermath; it was mainly a chance for them to remember her and grieve, and most had never met me or seemed to care much about meeting me (she was also extremely attractive and had a host of chad orbiters who were waiting for me to fuck up) so I grieved largely on my own.

I slept on the couch for two weeks because my bedsheets smelled like her and my pillowcase had her mascara on it. I still have the pillowcase wrapped up in my closet along with a notebook she gave me of drawings. I am actually doing okay, though, I've seen a grief counsiler and read a lot of books on life and death. The one that helped me the most was one called The Shortness of Life by an ancient Greek stoic philosopher named Seneca. I suggest you check it out, it's very good.

To speak to your experience, I noticed how petty and shallow people are in the aftermath of tragedy. I thought I saw crocodile tears everywhere, as if people used her passing as an excuse to boast about their own depth of feeling. So in some ways, yeah, grieving alone was better for me. But I still spoke with friends who cared about me, I know that helped.

sorry for your loss op

>inb4 OP is a faggot

>>18240397
Ew what's up with that pic?

>>18240412
Oddly pleasing picture

What kind of business?

>>18240376
My uncle is a Catholic priest who smokes weed and fucks hookers. Also god isnt real get a nice gf.

>>18240392
Oh he told my mom at my first communion party he was in love with a hooker

>>18240363
pay a hooker

To give sauce on that pic

Join a frat.