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What's the most stable and guaranteed way to earn a comfy income with limited cash initially? I want a job that'll still be around in 60+ years, and wouldn't be affected too much by recessions and changes in demand. Not interested in cooking, cleaning, or super physically intense, dangerous, and boring stuff.
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Become a doctor.
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>>18242783
Don't know about elsewhere but here there is a massive doctor surplus, mostly immigrants. Doctors have to go across the world to even make a decent wage. Same with lawyers I hear.
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>>18242788
Just because third world shitholes don't pay much doesn't mean it's not an amazing option. In fact it should mean it is an amazing option because even with the surplus they still manage to be one of the most stable and relatively high paying options out there.
Doctors will still be needed in 2100.

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how do i buy a plane ticket without anyone finding out
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>>18242777
You...don't tell anyone?
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With money like any adult.
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Probably with cash in person.

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>be me
>37 year old male
>go to a party
>talk to group of girls
>have them all laughing
>yadda yadda, nothing comes of it
>3 nights later, drunk - find one on facebook (one I wasnt really after during the party, but still in the group)
>message her
>yadda yadda, shes super into me
>i tell her im not ready for a relationship
>she still wants to hang out with me
>start hanging out, few weeks into it
>shes 19, shes never had a boyfriend, virgin
>im her first kiss
>she 'loves' me
>still tell her I dont want a relationship
>i feel im taking advantage of her. feeling kinda bad about it, but i see her prime body,pussy, and fuck her anyway
>take her V.
>im fucking her young pussy and ass whenever I can
>continue hanging out for few weeks\months
>always tell her I dont want a relationship but seems were doing everything except the title
>im really not into her anymore and want to move on. shes def attached. but im looking for wife material and shes not.

what do? I need some guy responses too. im getting young pussy, whenever I want. she does everything I want in bed, even rimjobs. shes not who I want in a relationship. should I keep her hanging on while I look for a new one, or cut it off? shes very attached. its hard to shake. shes 'in love' even though I told her im not ready for a relationship but its just I dont want her to give me that title.

its like I know what is right, but I cant say no to that wet pussy and perky tits.
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Either invest yourself with her or break it off. This is going to end messy otherwise. Try not being a slave to your dick.
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sounds like quite the predicament there friend. either keep fucking her or don't.
this seems like an incredibly tough decision i'm sorry you have to go through this. this thread also doesn't come off as a lowkey humble brag thread with no actual reason to make it other then bragging either, so don't worry about that , your good
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What makes someone wife material and why doesn't she fit it?

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How do you get over the feeling you're going to kill yourself eventually
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>>18242649
Don't know, been asking myself the same question actually
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You do it.

Or you don't and finally move on and be happy.
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>>18242649
Everybody dies, at least you'll know how and when you do. Suicide doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing.

So i need help deciding something. I have a massive urge to uproot my life and go exploring but im torn betweeb 2 options. I want to either want to drive a truck for the career experience because i already uber for a living. Option 2 being i move to san francisco/somewhere as populated and uber drive there and go for a bartending license. Thoughts?
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>>18242628
They both suck, but only the first option is even possible. You'll never afford San Francisco, kiddo
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>>18242712
But then how do any minimum wage workers stay alive?
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>>18242716
They ride the bus for a very long time from a support city like San Jose. Up to or even over an hour each way. I worked in West LA at my last job (extremely expensive, but not SF level), and this qt Latina who worked in the gas station across the street came up from south-central every day to work there. A gas station. That must've taken hours in traffic

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>make friends with nice normie, who thinks your antisocial and autist ways are quirky
> introduce you to all their friends, and remain pals for many years
> start to pick on you when you start being more confident, and progressing towards a real career. learn they gossip about my past etc.
> spaz one day and say ur not my friends etc etc they reply with you're full of yourself now, and you didn't even go to that good of a uni
> completely ignored and shunned by entire group
> still feel bitter
> sometimes i think of getting abck in touch and that it could all have been my fault
> explain why they were my friends in the first place please
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>>18242621
p p please
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Friends by proxy are rarely real friends you'd be better off without them go out and find some for yourself.
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>>18242647
what do i do about being left humiliated? part of me wants to post shit about new career and travel. not to make them like me but a pity attempt to let them know the hurtful shit and putting me in my place didn't work.

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Is it wrong to get in a relationship with a girl with a view to stealthily getting her to lose weight?

Also, has anyone here tried to do this and suceeded?
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Is it wrong to buy a dog expecting it to become a cat?

Also, has anyone here tried to do this and suceeded?
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>>18242553
Fat people can become thin, many people including myself have tried this and suceeded.
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>>18242560

and my dog just meowed, but stealth isnt key

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I developed feelings for a longtime friend of the opposite sex and want to drop them. How do?

A little background is we have been internet buds for a long time and only met a handful of times IRL. Last time we hung out I got the feels and I'm seeing them again soon so
I'm worried about acting weird around them/not being myself... more than usual. Dating is out of the question... I'm so fucked...
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>>18242472
You usually get rid of them by dating or distancing yourself. Why is dating them out of the question?
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>>18242480
probably because the dude already has a gf
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>>18242484
I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt since I like to assume not all people are cheating assholes initially. I figure distance is the reason.

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My parents told me that I can't get anywhere in this life without a college degree so I did my best and got on one of the best universities of my country.
But the only thing I want in life is being comfy, I do not want to form a family nor being wealthy, I just want to have a peaceful, relaxing life by myself. Can I achieve that even if I drop out? (I'm from Chile, btw sorry for my poor english)
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you can't achieve it if you DON'T drop out
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>>18242387
>comfy
You will grow out from this phase eventually and then you wish you finished your school when you will be slowly wasting your time in job you hate in order to survive.

Just endure it and study. You can fail anytime.
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>>18242387

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>*NEW* How do I ask a friend out without it being awkward, ruining our friendship or putting them on the spot?
You don't. Ask them out or don't ask them out, it's up to you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, and fart guy
Fuck off
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>you ask a guy what he does in his free time
>"I like to go on the internet, play video games, look at porn, listen to music, and watch movies"
What would you think?
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>>18242420
boring
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Any advice would be nice for this one
>send a photo I think is funny to my group chat in facebook with work friends with a caption
>one friend's sister found it real funny I guess and told him to give me her number
>text her that day talk for about 3 hours, ask her to a small lunch on X day
>says she's busy with homework and school, so not a yes but also not a no
>talk to her all day everyday for like a week and a half
>ask her what he schedule looks like on X day
>ask if she wants to take an ice cream break that day
>I don't know I'll have to see how my homework goes
>talk for a few more days
>then out of the blue she's stopped talking to me of course this was five days ago right after I sent her a text before her class
>I haven't sent anything either
So what I wanted to know is should I keep trying and should I text her at all. She's really enjoyed my sense of humor and I've worked with her before but not for too long my problem is why give me your number if you aren't willing to even just get ice cream?

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Hey /b/ what's a good way to casually and "coincidentally" introduce/meet someone you've been stalking? I recently found this girl online recently that lives in my city and I was recently able to track her name down and find out where she works. How do I into casual introduction? Any suggestions?
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That's so creepy that I doubt you'd have a chance with her even if you pulled this through
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>>18242361
say she looks cute and ask to coffee

what type of job does she work
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>>18242396
Fucking women... Every time a man falls in love and follows his instincts, they think he is acting creepy. Women dont deserve love and rightfully so.

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I'm 18 and at school in my junior year currently, and I've completely ruined my reputation in my grade, and while I already have a few great friends, I still envy people who are in big social groups, they look really happy.

Is there any way I can do it or is it better not to try?
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>>18242310
obligatory post about join clubs, find hobbies, it brings you close to people with similar interests to you, yatta yatta, etc, etc. huge friend groups aren't all they're cracked up to be though make sure the friends you make are your true friends and not all acquaintances blah blah blah

all shit I don't do but valuable advice nonetheless that people will tell you to do inevitably.
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>>18242321
But how do people who become "popular" do it?

What do they do right that people like us do not?
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>>18242344
Well there's a number of reasons why someone could be popular. Most often it's just because they're attractive and possess good social skills. You can develop social skills with practice if you'd like, they're very useful and can help you achieve a lot in this world. You can also make yourself more attractive with exercise, self care, and wardrobe.

Really though if you want my personal opinion, you should focus less on how to be "popular" and more on how you can learn to build meaningful relationships with people. Nothing wrong with having associates, but you will get the most social satisfaction out of people who you've grown so close to that they feel like extensions of your family. You're only eighteen. You'll be graduating high school soon and most of those people will disappear anyway.

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>match with girl on tinder
>get along great
>setup date for Sunday
>today she's a bit short-handed in her responses and the conversation really suffers

Did I bork it or should I just let the conversation lull a bit and then continue later?
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>>18242275

You had the date set up why did you ruin it with talking?
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>>18242279
Because it wasn't in the cards to just say "WELL SEE YOU SUNDAY!"
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why would you set it up on sunday tho what a shit date

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>Be me
>Meet a girl
>Talk with her in class regulary
>Find out that she has mental problems
>Very long time passes
>She asked me if want to go out with her
>We do something together kind of our first "date"
>Time passes like 1-2 weeks
>Says that i'm her best friend
>Wtf.jpg
>She flirts with me and does a ton of shit that indicates that she wants something from me
>Ask her what the fuck she wants from me and what she expects from me
>"Anon let's just wait and stay friends for now maybe it develops into something more?"
>"And Anon i'm careful with boyfriends my last one did broke my heart and made me not love anymore"
>Last boyfriend beat her and raped her and other shit
>Did something again with her today kind of second "date"
>We looked into each other eyes for a fucking long time
>After date she messages me and says :
>"Anon you are probaly the best friend that i've ever had in my entire life"

Fuck me i don't want to be your best friend i want to be you partner, you fucking cunt.


Does she waits or do i have no fucking chance at all?
Should i dumb her or wait?
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you fucking piece of shit
I hope that you never get raped so you can never feel the way she felt. She wants to trust you and be connected to you emotionally and you just want to fuck her. If you actually want to be with her and love her then be there for her you stupid little cunt
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>>18242300
and she has mental problems you dumbfuck
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>>18242300
I fucking love her.
And no i don't just want to fuck her.

But why should i continue to love a girl that will never love me?

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I'm 23. How do I stop feeling like I'm old and I've already done everything necessary to do in life and that it's aimless waiting for death from now on?
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>>18242189
I'm 26. You don't know shit, Go out and experience debauchery and leave the fear of losing your youth to me.
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I'm on the same boat, OP, I wish I knew.
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>>18242195
>debauchery
I love this word so much.
Chills down my spine kind of good.

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