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Questions about a conversation I had yesterday with a female crush... 2017-04-21 11:25:48 Post No.18244077
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So I had this crush in my college since 1st year basically, and she was going to completely another class. About 3 years ago we started talking on facebook, for a few months, but then we stopped, then again we talked, and even went for a walk together once, and again stopped and now we haven't talked for a good year I think and I talked to her again on facebook and the conversation was very smooth and fun but I reall have no idea what she's thinking of me. I will tell you how the ending of the conversation went:
Me: Okay I will be going to bed already and I will stop bothering you now (I was always joking that I'm bothering her whenever we were talking).
Her: You weren't bothering me. It was nice conversating with you. And thanks for the tip, I will try to remember it (it's about something completely unrelated).
M: Thank you, I had fun too. So maybe we should have fun talking to each other tomorrow as well?
H: Well IDK if I'm gonna be here, because I'm taking my friend (female) X to me tomorrow.
M: Oh, too bad.
H: But if I'll show up I will gladly talk to you.
M: Okay so to know if we are both online I will send you a friend invitation (I was on my new fb account)
H: Okay, we are friends now :).
M: Not since today :). And if you will be bored in your work you can message me on my phone (gives her my phone because IDK if she still has it). Goodnight my child.
H: I still had your number (damn, and I got ridd of her's). Goodnight my child :).
cont...
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And that's basically it. My question is isn't it random how all of a sudden she takes her female friend to her for a whole day after work, exactly the next day after I messaged her? Doesn't it look like she is looking for reasons to not talk to me? And if anything, I am sure she's not talking about a guy because she is single and knowing her she would have to be months in a relationship to bring a guy home so if anything she wouldn't lie about their gender. IDK really what to think of her. I freaking like her, she is really nice and good looking too, maybe too shy, but we only dated once and used to text A LOT, and always if I was asking her out she would find some reason why she can't. IDk maybe she really couldn't or maybe she just didn't want to, although as I said we meet each other once outside of uni. I don't understand women. HELP ME.
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I think she only likes me as a friend :(.
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kys beta cuck
man the fuck up u pussy
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My ex boyfriend cheated on me with the porn star, Skyler Nicole 2017-04-21 11:11:18 Post No.18244044
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My ex boyfriend cheated on me with the porn star, Skyler Nicole
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>Lived together for 6 months
>were considering marriage
>Knew something was up when he didn't come home the day before Valentines Day
>Comes back home the day after, showers immediately then has sex with me
>couple of days later I find their fucking sex tape and various pictures they made together on his computer
I feel like my heart has been destroyed. I don't know what to do, who to turn to, what to think. The shock still feels as real as if it happened yesterday. Please, any advice would be welcome.
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>>18244044
Questions to answer for yourself:
Is it really relevant that it was a pornstar?
Like, does that have some special meaning to you, one way or the other?
Which part of this is so shocking to you?
What's your hangup about this?
Take a breath, ask yourself some questions, figure out where this shit is actually coming from.
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>>18244044
You just move on. Sometimes the people we fall for turn out to be assholes. It just happens. Try to do better next time.
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Fucking Nice
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can a relationship ever work out if we have different political views?
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>>18244038
Yes. Why not?
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>>18244048
because it is a sign of different values?
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>>18244052
Unless they directly impact your relationship, there's really no issue.
You can have different opinions on things and coexist perfectly fine.
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Yo I just straight up skipped work yesterday, , no call, no show. someone tried to call me fromwork and i ignored them. need excuses. help. i will tell you why i skipped work, if you help me.
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tell them the truth
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That is 100% out of the question. I am going to hell for what I did, and thats when I intend to pay for my crime. But not now. Not now.
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>>18243965
No, don't tell them what you actually did instead of work, just tell them you were busy.
Anything you say is an unverifiable lie. What you tell them doesn't matter. Tell them your car caught fire. Your friend got hurt and needed your blood. You sucked dicks all day and lost track of time.
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>ask out girl at last based on /adv/
>she worked nearby and we'd been exchanging glances for a few weeks and talked a little
>she didnt have a boyfriend
>cut to now
>ask when her break is
>she tells me
>ask if she wants to go get coffee with me
>the look on her face is a reluctant bad news kind of face
>tells me she just recently started seeing someone
>apologizes and she asks my name
>i tell her and then she tells me mine and we talk a few more seconds before i go
Is she kind of considering her options now? I got the impression she didn't want to say no to going out to coffee with me. Is asking my name and introducing herself mean anything?
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>>18243919
>Is asking my name and introducing herself mean anything?
It means she thought you were worth enough of her day to introduce herself. That's probably a lot more than some guys get. Just, be polite, try and make friends if you can do it without being a sperglord, and leave her be. Maybe if it doesn't work out with the other guy you can try again.
As long as you don't fuck up.
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Probably asked for coffee too fast, she didnt even know your name. Sounds to me you 2 didnt even have à proper conversation. Stop sweating and try to Enjoy talking with the human in front of you, you'll get There.
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As I'm reading this I feel like blowing my brains out, since I can't even hope for this outcome with my oneitis.
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I think I am going to lose my virginity this weekend and I'm panicking.
I am 24 years old which is pretty fucking sad for a virgin. I met and befriended this cute coworker and this weekend we're going out and since I live in a city close by she told me I can just sleep at her house.
How do I not fuck up way too badly?What things to avoid? I have massive performance anxiety with even the most mundane things so this is killing me. I really like her, but this is giving me so much anxiety I'm considering just making a shitty excuse and flaking on her.
Picture unrelated, just a nice drawing.
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You will fail. She will make fun of you and you will feel embarassed, even worse, she will ditch you after you fail really badly. No help here, and even wroser the anxiety will kick in at the moment so you are doomed either way..
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>>18243841
You're going to have to tell her.
Look, I know it's scary and you're afraid of rejection, but if she genuinely cares about you she won't care that you're a virgin. What would you rather have happen though, struggle and fail at sex trying to act like a big tough sex person and putting her off with your lack of skill, or struggle and fail while she guides and instructs you on what to do and how to do it.
Most women will be pretty vocal about what they want in bed if you care enough to ask questions, lots of them relish the chance to mold a virgin into their own personalized sex machines. She doesn't have any bad habits to break you of, get it?
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>>18243848 here
Just do your best and don't be afraid.
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I'm 21 and I want to date younger women.
Hopefully in the 17-19 range.
But how do I do this without being a creep?
In my current environment and lifestyle most women I meet are a few years older.
Younger girls don't really go to bars and clubs :/
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Is it legal, first off? Also you're 21. You're a younger person. Why do you want even younger?
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>>18243854
Volunteer. Most people at my organisation are teenagers.
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I dont understand this, why Do you especialy hunt young women. If a 20ish would like to go out with you you'd refuse ? Also, they Do go out in bars and clubs, you have to find the right ones at the right Time.
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Apparently, I'm Stupid 2017-04-21 08:10:32 Post No.18243803
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So I've been aware for a long time I don't seem like the brightest person, from the way I speak, to how I present myself. But as of a few weeks ago I started trying to make my self seem more intelligent. The main reason is because it was revealed to me that my entire friend group thinks I'm a dumb ass. I began to think about what I was going to say ten times over to not throw out a big word that doesn't fit with what I'm saying, and my grammar has become impeccable. However in a group chat yesterday, even after all I've done to fix this image I was again called, "The dumbest one here". Out of curiosity I asked them why they think that, I was pretty pissed so I just said fuck it and asked. One of them said,"You don't seem like you know common knowledge very well." Everyone agreed with him and so I responded by asking what constitutes "Common Knowledge". I asked if they were talking about political knowledge, historical knowledge, and even down to just general day to day news, I got no straight answer. Apparently what constitutes common knowledge is common knowledge. I am so confused at this point and infuriated at my friends because apparently they think I'm just stupid, with no real basis in calling me that. What should I do? I can debate any of them when it comes to any of the above topics I listed plus, and I'm one of only 3 in the group of 15+ people that goes to a fucking university. Tell me what I should do, or just give me any advice on how to try and correct my image.
On a side note I know they aren't just trolling me or fucking with me, none of them know I am actually really pissed off about this.
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Maybe they weren't talking about easily measureable knowledge like mathematical, political or whatever. Maybe they couldn't tell you what they meant because they meant something more foggy like social intelligence.
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Your friends sound like complete faggots
You don't sound stupid. Next time someone tells you you're stupid or insinuates it, promptly tell them to go fuck themselves.
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I don't get it, how exactly are you stupid since I don't think that's the case since you can continuously speak with people somehow. Could you give us a pastebin of your random conversations even if it's just from the internet? This shouldn't be too hard, we can spot your problem in an hour or two.
I hope your conversational topics has none of those political, historical knowledge, trivia, news and other pretentious crap though.
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Girl that "dumped" me at work is acting like a huge bitch 2017-04-21 07:37:09 Post No.18243749
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Girl that "dumped" me at work is acting like a huge bitch
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So I don't even usually say things like this, but this is getting out of hand and today really angered me. I work in a restaurant with a girl(server) and we had a thing for a while, then she started seeing some other dude and really kept rubbing it in my face. I was upset but never treated her like shit and even took time off work to "refresh" myself mentally. It's been a couple months now and last week we got slammed with almost 20 plates of appies. I asked her, along with two other servers to come grab their large appies so that we could put more stuff in the window. They came and got them, no problem, right? Then today another similar situation, we get rocked and I ask her specifically to come grab some takeout items as they were getting cold and had been up for a very long time with her coming and going in the kitchen and not taking them. Our platers were falling behind and I jumped in to help them get the food out. Her response to me? "K, fuck off". I was taken aback by this as I'd asked politely as I do to everyone and was stunned for a second, before responding that I was asking because the platers couldn't keep up, and that I didn't want to get the kitchen to remake her food and make the customers wait or cause a problem for her. She was then silent and I walked away. Then later this evening I get a text from her saying that I'm bullying her and she's always busy when I call for her and that "it cannot keep happening". I didn't respond to the text and am probably going to just sit down with her tomorrow along with a couple other managers to go over her behaviour. I'm not sure what the problem is, I've been very polite and cordial to her; helped her change kegs, rush things she forgot to ring in, etc. I have been kind even though she treated me like garbage. What the hell is she trying to pull here?
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Just watch out she doesn't turn the meeting around and accuse you of something, she seems to be a person who would do that. Maybe she was just stressed, but it is definitely bad behaviour in a working enviroment.
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>>18243763
This woman is legit fucking insane. I have worked at this job for over three years, employee of the year three years in a row as voted by my co-workers; and have only ever had one write up. A write up that I told my manager to do for me, because I felt that I'd been out of line when I snapped at someone and raised my voice. Like holy shit, how the fuck is me asking her to run her orders "bullying" her, especially since it's been 2 fucking total times in MONTHS.
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>>18243774
If that's the case then you will likely have some sympathy from your managers, since they know you and your achievments. Honestly I hope you can get her fired, but if the bitch brings up the relationship you might be in deep shit
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Anyone in my situation? 2017-04-21 07:35:13 Post No.18243746
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All my life I've had the opposite problem most people on 4chan seem to have
I've never had problems picking up girls but I just can't seem to get any high paying job.
I guess it is because I come off looking dumb during work
I found this job as a consultant and after 2 years I still can't get a promotion. All my peers are doing better despite not doing much more than me.
I send my cv to many other places but I never get any calls
Any advice or links?
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...anyone?
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>>18243746
every single person on earth is in your situation. we have globalized world where countries no longer exists and deficits don't matter sharia economy. there are no jobs in this CIA lemon person gestapo. jobs serve as "arbeit macth frei" type carrots for donkeys so they compete for position in queue near the slaughterhouse. So think about job market as game of musical chairs in Auschwitz where winners get rain check to visit crematorium. So don't bullshit about "consultant" job - there are no such jobs.
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>>18243746
Where is that op image from? If Orlando that's my ex in background
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"Friends" grow distant, don't even remember my birthday, or invite me to anything, even their 420 bullshit, even though they think I'm a stoner. How do you actually make more friends in college? Please respond
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My fault for asking useless /adv/ of all boards
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>>18243740
vouch
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>>18243744
What does that even mean?
My life partner, who I have a child with, has an issue. They call themself an Empath, and is constantly enough letting me know that I am thinking fucked up stuff about her, and that they can pick it up.
We rarely have sex, and were going to tonight, but they let me know, that, again, I am the horrible person for this and that.
I care so much about this person, and still want to support them. They can't get medication for a few months due to medical reasons, but nothing I do seems to help.
My word isn't good enough, and while I have almost infinite patience, tonight broke me, and I cried for the first time in front of them, in 3 years of togetherness.
What can I do? My word doesn't seem to matter, and sometimes things do get better, sometimes for weeks or months, and then it is back to it again.
No matter what, I supported them, but everything hangs on this issue. We have a house, paid for in full, by me. I am constantly showering them with affection, kisses, hugs, getting them coffee in the morning, telling them I love them, surprising them with flowers.. just coupley stuff like that.
What can I do to fix this? I don't want them to always be a ticking time bomb, and I'm sure with medication it can be fixed, but until that day I just want a relationship to be about joy.
Tl;dr .. Person of significance to me whom I have a child with thinks they can hear my thoughts, and that those thoughts are negative. Sex life non existant, and I cried for the first time being with them because I got told my words/promises, even on a dead parents grave meant nothing. Please help.
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Are you actually legally married?
Also what health reason is delaying medication?
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>>18243673
DID SOMEBODY SAY BAIT?
BAIT THREAD DETECTED
UNLEASHING MEMES
BAIT FAIL. QUALITY TOO LOW
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Yes, legally married.
Breastfeeding.
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Martin Shrkeli is coming to my school. Tickets are free. what do /adv/?
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>>18243595
Go see him talk if you're interested. I find him pretty interesting.
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>>18243595
Get him to give up that wutang album.
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>>18243595
this has gotta be a troll. Why would any school want anything to do with this scumbag?
Can two different people be in love?
She's introverted and analytical, I'm extroverted and more risk taking.
Any of you guys in the same relationship? Any major disagreements and how you overcame them? Please share.
We're kind of going through a rough patch.
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>>18243587
Be in love? Sure. "Opposites attract" and all that.
Have a successful relationship? The more similar you are, the more compatible you are likely to be.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mjD3K96MVY
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No.
I just broke up with my girlfriend.
She called me a cunt. She knew going into our relationship I was a jealous, horrible person with lots of hatred and jealousy and she said she loved me regardless and she'd never leave me
We were two opposites. Don't listen to opposites attract bullshit. They don't. Un the end you'll end up like me, depressed and needing of comfort.
She won't ever read this
But I love you, Addison. I'm sorry I wasn't a good boyfriend. I'm sorry I got jealous so much. You must've been driven crazy. I'm sorry. Don't worry, I won't bother you or anyone else again.
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>>18243587
>Opposites attract
that's why the term exists
My gf is a republican and I'm a democrat. We don't talk about politics but I will joke around about it sometimes. We disagreed about marijuana usage for a while but with time one of us came around.
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I'm going to study programming next two months.
What am I in for ?
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There are tons of programming languages, but you'll find they all follow pretty similar rules and logic. You generally don't need to be good at math unless you're doing something graphics/physics related. If you're trying to find the quickest route to a job then C# or Java combined with html, javascript, and sql for web development is where money is flying everywhere right now.
I'm going to bed but in spite of /g/ being a consumerist mixed bag of pc gaming hardware, there are programming threads that you might benefit from, probably more than here. For starters though you should just pick a language and immediately start doing shit, anything.
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>>18243538
can you be a little bit more specific ?
for what purpose ? anything specific you want to achieve?
what programming paradigm ?
which language ?
do you have any experience ?
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>>18243706
Thanks.
>>18243756
I need advice about programming. If it's stressful, if it's for intelligent people, and anything about it.
To improve my pc and to make money, My pc is bad in specs that's why I want to improve it by programming.
I don't know what's paradigm and any language.
I don't have experience in it that's why I'm studying it.