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Girlfriend wants a kid. 2017-04-19 09:57:17 Post No.18238215
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Hello.
I'd like to ask for advice.
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We will soon turn 24.
we live in Russia, which is going through economic turmoil and is generally full of shit.
We do not have financial issues, she has a degree in managment and an average job, I will likely finish my degree next year(a bit late because I said fuck it during year three and got a job).
I work as a software eng and make good money by local standards.
the thing is.
She is dead set on having a kid at 27 max.
It seems to be her number one priority.
For me this way early, I am not mature enough.
I have not experienced enough.
I would like to consider immigration, but I won't get that done that soon.
I'd like to be atleast 30 when this happens.
her opinion is based on the fact that she wants a lower age gap between her and the kid.
And also has health concerns.
(just general female reproduction stuff at the age of 30, nothing specific to her personally)
I have tried talking and all, but just won't budge.
I can't really ask for specific advice,
But I'm just stuck and mezmerized.
is there anything that can be considered instead of breaking up?
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Spare both yourself and her the eventual fights and break up, i mean it's obvious you have different goals.
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>>18238215
>She is dead set on having a kid at 27 max.
How about you don't have kids now, and come back and discuss this when you're 26. Two years is a long time, and you may feel differently by then.
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>>18238239
She seems to have this mindset for a very long time. It's unlikely it will change.
As for me, maybe, but probobly not.
I have too much plans to achieve in the near future.
And the thing is, if I reconsider at 26 where does my decision leave her? she will not get what she wants as well in that case.
>>18238217
I do understand, but after a very good to years with little problems it's far from being easy or desirable.
I appreciate you taking the time to answer.
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I'm in my mid 20's and I have been seeing this 18 year old girl for almost a year.
At first she had a boyfriend, but she cheated on him several times with me. She recently broke up with him because she almost did not feel any love anymore for in.
She is always telling me that she is truely loving me and promised me that she would be not doing anything with any other guy except me but that she cannot be with me now in a relationship because of various reasons.
The main reason that she keeps repeating is that the fact that I'm living almost 1500km away from her and that I can only see her one weekend a month and that its not enough for her.
I have often showed that I can be a little jealous or annoyed when she is meeting with other guys who are showing clear intrest in her. She keeps telling me not to worry and that she is just enjoying the attention but not feeling anything besides friendship towards them..
So maybe another reason could be is that if she would be in a real relationship with me that she is afraid that I will say that she can no longer meet with these guys?
I told her I would move to her country in 2018 if I could find a job in her city and she said that would be amazing..
Any advice for me from people who have been in similar situation?
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>7ish year age gap
>she's fucking 18
>she cheated on her boyfriend several times
>she tells you she loves you but can't be in a relationship with you
>1500km apart
Oh my god, you actually think this is going somewhere, don't you? You claim to be an adult, but you're as gullible as a 3 year old.
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>>18238168
I never claimed to be an adult. I know for my age I'm immature but I know I love this girl and I know things would be different if I would be living in the same city as her.
Remember she has only cheated on her boyfriend with me. It was after we have known each other for more then half a year and after spending an entire week with each other.
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>>18238176
You are in for a world of heartbreak, buddy.
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Can't pay for Med School 2017-04-19 09:07:09 Post No.18238137
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Got into a med school, but parents can't and refuse to pay for it, cause nobody thought I would make it this far. Ahhhhhhhhh what do I do?
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If you can't afford it, don't go.
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Look into government facts and scholarships.
Also, some jobs help you pay off student loans as a benefit
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>>18238147
Government grants*
Autocorrect
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Boyfriend and I are in a LDR.
Normally he is the lead in anything "sexual" we do (phone sex, camming ect) . I want to take the lead once , what are some things i could say or ask him to do without coming off to strong. He is pretty vanilla so i don't want to scare him to bad.
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Have you met in real life and had sex?
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>>18238132
>vanilla means the girl isn't allowed to initiate sex
That's not vanilla, that's fucking stupid. If you want to get sexy, get sexy. Tell him you've been thinking about him and you're turned on and want to do something about it. It's not fucking difficult.
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>>18238132
That sounds so unsatisfying.
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Dressing up my girlfriend 2017-04-19 09:03:13 Post No.18238130
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Dressing up my girlfriend
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2017-04-19 09:03:13
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So my girlfriend and I were talking about kinks and testing the water a few days ago. We both think it could be fun and if I buy her some clothes that I think are hot and leave them out for her to change into and meet me somewhere.
Anyone done this before? Any idea where to start?
We are saving for a trip to asia so I don't have much money for slinky dresses and stuff (she won't mind if it's from aliexpress or something, it's just for some fun)
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>>18238130
>she won't mind if it's from aliexpress or something,
Unless she has the body shape and size of the models (including being like, 4'10" tall), she won't fit those cheap clothes. That's assuming they look anything like the picture in the first place.
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my bf and i have something similar in planning. but we will go shopping together so i can actually try the clothes on first to see if they fit.
what you pick strongly depends on what you like. i'd say, go to the website of a clothes store in your area and go trough the categories to get an idea of what you want to get for her. also consider her body type and what would look nice on her.
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>>18238139
forgott to add, i think it's important that they fit and smthat she feels very sexy in them. i'd rather invest in some normal clothes than cheap and tacky ones that will look like shit. you want her to feel very hot for you. that's why i suggest taking her type and proportions into consideration.
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>20 year old man
>Have no desire to help other people
>Considering going to college for either Marketing or Social work
Is it possible to develop a desire to help other human beings? I've never felt it before.
Is it just due to immaturity, or is it something more? I always score lowly on empathy quizzes.
I thought I had Aspergers, but it turns out I'm just an INFP (on MBTI personality test), and Aspergers is largely just the pathologization of introversion.
A lot of people say compassion is something that must be cultivated to be experienced. Is this true?
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>>18238116
You don't need to have the desire to help other people? Why do you even care for it
I recognise that if I scratch someone's back, they might scratch mine, but that sure as hell doesn't mean I'll help people purely out of desire and goodness.
So long as you're conscientious enough to avoid fucking people over, its all good.
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>>18238123
It's a direct attribute of Social Work.
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It will happen when it happens. Then you'll lose it again. It's the eternal cycle. Just do you.
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I am trying to decide how public I should be about my moms murder trial.
She was murdered by her boyfriend in 2011, police botched the evidence and its taken till this year to go to trial. I have had to tell everyone that she committed suicide for the last 6 years. But the boyfriend was caught in the last 24 hours and charged with 2nd degree,
I have a good 60 friends or so on facebook and most are pretty close. I dont know if I should tell them. It will be a public trial and I would rather say something over people hearing gossip. But its also pretty personal and I dont want to seem like im whoring for attention.
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Unless it's a high profile case, people aren't going to know. And I don't see any reason for you to go around telling people even if it is.
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>>18238090
You are right on the first point. The 2nd is that I do have a fairly small network of friends. Its difficult having people to talk to because my brother and father hate the subject. I might be over reacting at the moment, but I feel like I have been sitting on a huge lie for 6 years and its been driving me nuts.
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>>18238112
There's a difference between talking over something painful with someone you trust and broadcasting your life to the internet for attention. Facebook muddies this process immensely, but maybe don't go wide announcement. If there's friends you really want to know what's going on, you should probably tell them in person anyway. If you don't care about them enough to tell them in person, it's probably not their business.
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Is it bad for me to date white girls? Be honest.
>be 50% white 50% black
>20
>studying mechanical engineering
>minding my own business, sitting alone before a lecture
>white girl sits next to me
>nothing special obviously
>brunette, ice blue eyes, cute, fucking sexy voice
>time passes
>she starts asking me questions about my hair
>ahhwhat.gif
>small talk
>i realize she likes me
>we start to always sit together in that lecture
>ask her for her number
>we go on dates
>people looking at us holding hands and stuff
>she doesn't care
>I try not to care either
>but it still feels so taboo
What do you guys think?
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Nice humblebrag bro
What an insecure attention whore you are
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>>18238078
Eh, I think the /pol/ shitposting or overall 4chan shitposting is affecting you OP.
You will be fine getting in a relationship with her and all, after all I don't think some other white dude or another dude will be dating her or anything so, just get into a relationship with her and have the good life since you seem like a good educated anon.
And no, I'm not a Jew but wished I had their intelligence for that Nobel and Fields prizes desu.
Also ignore the /pol/tard crossboarders, they will be here soon.
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>inb4 /pol/ shows up
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Help I'm socially retarded.
Want to go to a cafe.
Do I just sit down somewhere or order at the counter?
Wtf do I do?
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>>18237978
Depends.
I've been to cafes where you order at the counter, ones where you sit down somewhere and a waitress gets your order and ones where you walk through, pick pastries, then go to the counter.
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>>18238136
How do I know what kind of cafe I'm in so I don't act like a retard?
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>>18238177
If there's a cashier at the counter attending a line of people, you go up and order.
Only the fancier places have waitress/waiters, so you'd know. Most places you go up to the counter
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Anyone have any good books on conversation? I cannot converse with people very well and I'm too shy and insecure to talk about my (almost nonexistent) hobbies. Often I just can't think of anything to say to keep the conversation moving or even start a conversation with someone who obviously wants one.
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A book isn't going to help you. Experience will. Just keep the conversation away from yourself if you have trouble, other people love talking about themselves.
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>>18237974
Watch more stand up comedy.
There are two types of interesting people.
Those who do interesting things
Those who think up interesting things
People who do interesting things generally are long winded and annoying about it. Those who are creative in thinking up ways to explain themselves are better in conversation.
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>>18237980
I can't do it in the heat of the moment. I have a very slow processing speed and I just blank out or get really nervous/stressed when I have to pick up the weight of the convo
I can only talk to people online and no one wants to do that with me for whatever reason.
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My sister farted in my face today. On FUCKING CHRISTMAS.
I'm so mad. How do I get back at her?
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>today
>Christmas
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>>18237912
you lucky motherfucker
that's my fetish
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>>18237918
Um, gross?
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>Go out to eat with friends
>See a cute girl working there behind the counter (it was a 50s diner restaurant, so she did a bunch of things
>As we pay shes in the back and I decide might as well go for it
>Write my number down because I don't on the spot girls anymore
>Walk up, introduce myself, hand her the paper with the number and say call me sometime
>laughs in my face
>sputter out you're cute as she laughs
>walk away
Worst she can say is no, amirite. How about laughing in my face? Fuck man, at least I'm trying right? I walk up confident and speak clearly, and I've done this before, with no success, I just think it's a good method though because ask for a girls number while she's at work may be a bad idea, so I give them my number and put the ball in their court.
Thoughts?
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>>18237895
Are you hot?
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Don't give workers your number you dumb fuck
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Ima be honest with you Op, that was a terrible way to hit on her. You didn't interact with her at all or have any conversation going. You had no idea what she thinks of you. Yet you went up to basically a stranger with "hey here's my number call me." It looked like you assume you're desireable enough to have some rando hit you up. Shit doesn't work like that.That's one sided and it takes 2 to tango.
If you think someone is cute start conversation. Ask for THEIR number. Don't ever throw the ball in a woman's court and expect them to go for you unless you're brad fucking Pitt with charisma out the ass.
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How do I get my pain tolerance up? 2017-04-19 06:46:53 Post No.18237894
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How do I get my pain tolerance up?
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i like to burn myself but the blisters are annoying. I want to train myself to just get used to pain so I can be manlier when i get hurt. cuts don't really hurt that badly and they scar all the time so that's not something I want to do.
Also can you get scars from blisters? What's a good method of training my pain tolerance up?
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I'm gonna ask the obvious question I guess: Why are you burning yourself?
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>>18237898
i already said, to get my pain tolerance up!
also sometimes i just feel like hurting myself. sometimes i get the urge to stab myself but obviously I'm not going to do that. it's only a small urge though so it's not like i'm crazy or anything.
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>>18237922
>I'm not crazy, I just want to stab myself a LITTLE
nigger get help
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Starting Camgirl Venture 2017-04-19 06:40:17 Post No.18237888
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Long story short, a guy with money and big house wants to start getting camshows; only issues are that he's not tech savvy at all, has zero charisma, can't build any hype in the chat room so people start tipping and can't wrangle new girls. They'll all old escorts and shoes he's been fucking for years.
Tonight, I checking out the room he turned into a 'studio' and I started broadcasting as a test. We had two girls just chilling with us.
I hyped the crowd and the room blew up to 700 people and tokens started flowing.
He refused to talk to me about money/salary until I was about to leave, he gave me $100. But he lives 42 miles each way and I'm the true talent.
He's going to text me tomorrow asking me for two forms of ID so I can perform under his account.
Do I explain that I want $150-$200 a week or just cut ties completely and go solo with a few girls I know?
I think he'll panic and try to keep me but I would make more money making my own account but he's loaded and it could grow into a decent sized business.
Suggestions?
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>150-200 hours a week
You could make more flipping burgers and that commute is no joke. How many hours of work would you be putting in for him a week? Also, what does him being loaded really do for your profit potential? It sounds like he's doing nothing more than supply you with a studio.
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I'd say go solo, it sounds like he needs you more than you need him. Doesn't seem like you'd need much equipment honestly.
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>>18237896
He's a lawyer so he works full-time; he wants me to wrangle an audience for all the girls that are all registered under HIS account name. So all tips/money made goes into his account and he pays the girls next to nothing. I'm also the idea guy, transportation, tech support and an 'actor'.
He also works all day, crashes by 8 PM and goes on trips often so I'd have to run the operation more often than not.
I know he's going to text me tomorrow and ask me to come out again. Should I offer him my services for $200 a week and once it becomes profitable, a 15% cut? All in a contract of course?
OR
Get his girl to come cam with me and my girlfriend instead? All three of us would make a lot more than him being involved. He's just kinda creepy and is off putting.
>>18237897
Yeah, I'm heavily considering that but if agreed to pay what I asked, would you stay?
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How to find real escorts 2017-04-19 06:34:43 Post No.18237877
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Backpage seems like a minefield especially since I'm from an area where local police have been faking ads for years. Looking around ive only seen decent looking girls charging 500+ on their personal sites. Everything else seems too sketchy to believe. Any decent way of getting fucked by a female (non cop) and decentish price?
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leave state, ask a sketchy gestation or truck-stop clerk clerk where you can find a hooker. Go there and roll down your window. Acquire hooker aids. I swear to god this new generation wouldn't be able to reproduce without a youtube tutorial
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just go to europe
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Use Backpage but search t3r
You're welcome