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>late 20s
>have two kids w/ gf
>my grandparents (my late mom's mom and stepdad) always complain about not seeing the great grand kids
>give them copy of work schedule, tell them they are more than welcome to come to my house on my days off and just to call to make sure we (me, gf, and kids) are home
>they never come over, but always want me to come over, even though my kids are bored as hell at their house because there is nothing to do for them (grandparents are cheap and sit in a dimly lit room all day)
>I live maybe 5 miles from said grandparents
>grandparents constantly driving to casino 2 hours away, but won't make time to come visit the great grandkids
fast forward
>invite them to my oldest one's bday party, mail cards w/ RSVP all that stuff
>get text from aunt (mom's sister) at 8am day of party saying grandparents won't make it
>grandparents were offered a ride from another family member to and from party, still didn't go
Am I rude for saying I'm done with the grandparents? They call me up crying saying they never see the great grandkids, but have been by the house probably 3 times since my oldest is born (she's 2 now). I mean me and my gf work, so whenever we're both off, sometimes we just want to sit around the house and enjoy the day off and don't want to run the roads.
Who is responsible for attempting this great grand child/great grand parent relationship?
My dad's mom always comes by the house (she lives about 20 miles away and usually comes to my town once a week to see my little brother play sports/band/etc.)
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>>18362257
Next time they act upset just say litterally what you wrote here, it might make them upset but anyone with a little bit of rational thinking will agree with you.
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>>18362273
At what point do I just give up? I've been by their house, but my oldest clings to me and won't go near them because they are such strangers to her.
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OP Here:
To Clarify these are my great-grand parents. My dad and stepmom are involved in my kid's life a lot.
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To update the closed thread ...
Turns out husband has thousands of big booty twerking videos and for the past month has been jerking off to them while ignoring me.
He's moving out and I'm moving on
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Failed marriage anyway
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You should've become his personal ho. Send him vids and shit.
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>>18361763
Good for you, OP. He didn't deaerve you and you don't deserve a man who doesn't pay attention to you.
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I've never left a girl on "read" before 2017-05-29 04:43:53 Post No.18361564
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I've never left a girl on "read" before
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This one deserves it and I really don't want to mess this up (she's an 8/10 from POF).
How should I...what should I do
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Lmao
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>>18361564
why the fuck would you go see such a shit movie when betters ones are out? Just message her later asking if she's free, thats what I would do
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Lmao
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GIOYC -- Get it off your chest 2017-05-29 11:22:15 Post No.18360798
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GIOYC -- Get it off your chest
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Write letters you will never send,
Confess your sins,
Vent what's on your mind,
Ask for advice,
Let it out
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All my friends are drug addicts or mental like me. No one wants to be close to me. My mood swings have left me jaded, I don't even know how to open up anymore, I lie constantly. I'm not strong enough to climb back up to the rightful path on my own. I worry most of the time.
I need someone, not something but someone that I can trust, someone that believes in me and guide me through this shit. Cause I'll be damned if I ever end up like my parents.
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lol, you faggots try so hard to gaslight me or make me feel guilty.
It's not working. You guys are retarded.
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I posted about this the other day. I have a college chemistry assignment, we do the laboratory together but we can't work together on the assignment related to the class. One of my lab partners asked for my report, I didn't want to send it because I don't want them to piggy back off my hours of effort into it and I don't want to get done for plagiarism. I told her I don't give people assignments and they replied 'can I get x,y,z section of assignment though' which is 4/5ths of the assignment. Should I just ignore them at this point?
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Are all crazy girls terrible for relationships?
Basically I'm talking to this crazy girl and I really like her. She has scars all over her from cutting and has all kinds of panic attacks and stuff. She's been raped multiple times.
How can I know she won't be a terrible psycho bitch? I've talked to get for a month and she hasn't shown any behaviors I can't handle.
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>>18360226
Yes, of course.
In 6 months you'll be here asking how do you break up with someone who threatens suicide when you do.
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>>18360226
Run bud. She's obviously neurotic to the point of self harm, but she's probably lying about the rape. I've met too many that did.
She'll threaten suicide if you try to leave, or accuse you of rape.
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>>18360226
>Basically I'm talking to this crazy girl and I really like her. She has scars all over her from cutting and has all kinds of panic attacks and stuff. She's been raped multiple times.
FUCK NO OP. ABORT ABORT ABORT.
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I'm 25. Can I be in a relationship with a 19 almost 20 years old boy? 2017-05-30 03:39:31 Post No.18363585
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I'm 25. Can I be in a relationship with a 19 almost 20 years old boy?
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I felt so guilty about it
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>>18363585
if you are a woman is fine, if you are a dude kys
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>>18363585
if you are a man is fine, if you are a chick kys
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>>18363590
I'm a woman. But I felt like a predator. Help me please
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This is a long one, but I'd really appreciate some advice.
>When I was 14, my friend asked me out
>We ended up dating for 4 years, all through high school
>We lost our virginity together. He was kind of depressive and addicted to video games, but overall, I thought, not a bad boyfriend
>I cheated on him once and then broke up with him because i felt horrible about it, but he forgave me and convinced me to come back to him
>Then my freshman year of college I broke up with him for good; a month later he essentially raped me
>He tried to apologize after even though I really didn't want to talk to him, kept sending me messages that he'd kill himself if I didn't respond
>I asked him why he'd done it, he said he thought it would make me love him again
>My friends helped me realize that he had been pretty manipulative like that all along
> the whole thing kind of fucked me up a little, and I haven't really talked to him since.
>he would message me like once a month trying to get me to talk and pull me back in, just "hey" or "remember this" or link me to something, or even to wish me a happy birthday for a couple years. I never answered
The thing is, he's not a bad person and I know that, but I don't think he actually realizes how much he hurt me, and I don't think he ever can.
Anyway, now I'm 20 yrs old, it's been a long time and I'm trying to live with no regrets or loose ends. I don't want to be mad at anybody. I looked him up the other day, turns out he unfriended me on Facebook. Do you think he doesn't want to talk to me anymore? Should I try to reach out? I'm not even sure I'm emotionally ready or what I would say to him. Any and all opinions appreciated.
Tl;dr my ex bf raped me, should I forgive him? Would he want to talk to me?
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>>18362829
>essentially raped me
What do you mean by this
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>>18362835
He came over to my house when I asked him repeatedly not to. When he got there I sat him down and tried to explain to him the meaning of the word "consent". I had just gotten out of the shower so I was just in a bathrobe. He kind of sat there for a minute like he was thinking it over, then he started crying. I felt bad, went over to comfort him, and he sort of brought me up to my room. I guess I thought he just wanted to cuddle? But that's pretty stupid. That's why I say it was "kind of" rape. I feel like I should've been smarter and just not gone upstairs with him. I definitely allowed this to happen. Anyway, we wound up on my bed, and before I know it he has his dick out. I wasn't expecting it so I was completely dry, but he shoved it in anyway and PLEASE believe me, it hurt like a BITCH. I teared up a bit but he didn't see, and I just lay there until he was done and couldn't look him in the face or really talk to him very much after. As he was leaving, we said goodbye and he pulled my chin up to kiss him, but I just felt so hollow. But I never said "no" or "stop" or anything; from his perspective I was probably being cold and frigid, I guess
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>>18362870
what would you be reaching out for? Obviously you didn't like what he did, would you just be chewing him out? I'm not sure I understand.
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I have to have a fight and defend myself every time I buy a present for my husband. Every birthday/Christmas is hell for me.
You see, it's fine for him to buy what he feels is the perfect gift for me if it's my birthday. But he gets fucking furious whenever I get him a gift in return. He monitors the bank account like a hawk and as soon as he sees a charge that isn't groceries he goes bananas.
Now, to clarify, I spend no more than $150 on him for birthdays and Christmas, and he spends the same or more on me. Also, WE CAN AFFORD IT. We both make alright money, and I actually make significantly more than he does. So dropping $150 on him twice a year is no big deal.
He has been wanting a new watch forever, so I bought him a nice Michael Kors watch from a factory outlet for half of the normal price. This is something he will wear and use every day for the next 10 years, so I feel like it was an okay purchase. Plus I love him and want him to have a nice birthday present.
Anyway, he is giving me the silent treatment right now, which I expected, but I'm also getting pretty tired of this song and dance. What can I say/do to make this easier in the future? Before you suggest it, there was one year that I actually made him a gift instead of buying him something nice, and he was super disappointed. I can't win for losing.
Also he doesn't know what I got him, he just knows I spent $150 today. So. He could still have a nice surprise when the day rolls around I guess (if he doesn't divorce me).
>tl;dr just spent money for my husband's bday and when he found out he flipped his shit and is super pissed at me. wat do
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What the fuck? Who gets mad at gifts?
There's something wrong here. Go talk to a couples therapist about this.
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>>18362441
Go up too him and look him dead in the eye and ask him why he doesn't like presents ?
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What happens if you skip getting him a gift?
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HOW CAN I BECOME ANOREXIC ? 2017-05-29 08:58:20 Post No.18362312
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HOW CAN I BECOME ANOREXIC ?
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Tell me in simple how can I have anorexia. I need to know.
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>>18362312
I just god bullied enough, ask your family to do it, it worked for me.
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>>18362324
*got
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just eat less, fuck.
it's not rocket science
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I've got a job interview in about 2 hours and im kind of panicking. Its for a job in the kitchen at hooter
>printed out resume from make a resume website
>combed my hair and shaved
is there anything im missing guys essentials?
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Check their Wikipedia for the basic info. (So, what do you know about Hooters?...)
Wear aftershave and dress well regardless of the role you're going for. Other than that, try not to sperg out and take it slow.
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>>18361560
lookup questions they might ask you on glassdoor (just google your job title, the company and glassdoor) and research what to say. Interviews like most things in life go a lot better if you are relaxed.
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>>18361560
OP here
the interview was pushed back to tuesday but thanks now i know what to expect
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im a 19 years old girl,i posted my picture in a guess age thread and i got 24,25,27 which hurted me. i never smoked a cigarette in all my life and never got drunk beyond a sip of wine at church. so why do i look old what can i do to look more youthful?
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>>18361510
>hurted
Also post pics again for those who missed out.
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>>18361510
26 is not "old" you dippy bint. Give less fucks.
Oh and stop with the god bothering.
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Might be the way you do your makeup. Go for something less mature? Or if you don't wear any makeup start using some to cover up dark circles etc?
This seems like a better question to ask on a beauty subreddit, desu. Go on makeupaddiction and say CCW explain what's your issues.
>>18361519
wtf.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-05-29 03:56:56 Post No.18361423
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Guys. No actually both genders: is it okay to lie to the 'how many sexual partners' question, or refuse to answer?
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>>18361458
Lying, no. Refusing to reply, yes.
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is it still possible for a girl to truly love me if I've been a friendless handholdless virgin long-term NEET until now (31 years old)? if I start trying hard to take the reins of my life immediately, will I end up only attracting golddiggers/providerdiggers who do not actually like me for me?
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The pain is now unbearable. Its effecting my heart rate and breathing and I can't sleep.
I've been afraid of the dentist because of past pain but being sleepless for 2 days is shit.
How do I rip this out
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Ask the dentist to try and save your mouth.
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>>18360987
this is bait or you need to get diagnosed right after you see the dentist because this is too autistic
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you cant, its broken
go to the dentist and stop suffering
it will be much better anon
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My boyfriend is awful in bed. Actually fucking awful.
He has no stamina - he fucks me mindlessly and doesn't have any rhythm. He doesn't pay attention to the angle and just fucking hits my cervix. He comes way too fast. He sucks at foreplay. He is goofy and not sensual at all.
He never managed to give me an orgasm, even if I can make myself come in 45 seconds and without any effort.
How do I help him improve?
We're each other's firsts.
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Tell him, not us.
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>>18360932
I tried to bring up how I like to be touched especially during foreplay but he still doesn't get it. He gets tired after a minute of oral or 30 seconds of fingering.
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I came here to answer you but than I thought to myself "what did I do to improve" and it was always my will the be a beast in sex, nothing other.
He needs to want it otherwise it will be always shit.
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Why do so many fuck ups browse 4chan?
There seems to be more fucked up/ruined minds on here than on other web forums.
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Are you asking for advice?
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>>18360921
Not really.
People here are just honest.
If you only browse boards like /pol/ and /r9k/ I'm not suprised you get this idea. Try a board that isn't related to pop culture or modern stuff like /po/.
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>>18360947
This.
People here are comfortable with being completely honest IF THEY WANT TO, because that's the board culture.
People come here expecting the worst and at the same time they give the worst, which is their naked, ugly self.
Probably helps that it's an """"anonymous"""" image board and most people forget threads very quickly, whereas on other social media shit stays public unless you delete it and people are very petty because there's a persona attached to everything.
Let's be honest - normies are just as miserable as the people that come here, and they'd let it all out if they knew how to use this board.