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Damn that's a lot of miles, but then again you knew how far it was when you registered for the job. Let's just hope that Amazon sticks to the word and there's no more bullshit problems.

With that said you should always have a plan b especially since you're wasting gas on some bullshit the company makes up.

>>18364995
>Damn that's a lot of miles, but then again you knew how far it was when you registered for the job.
I'm perfectly happy making the commute all the way there, but it's for my job where I make money. I haven't made any money in the last 3 days because of their error. So far this whole thing is going to end up costing $400+

>>18364995
>With that said you should always have a plan b
What do you mean by plan B?

In Canada an employer has to pay you 2 hours worth of work if you show up and they turn you away.
Perhaps there is laws like that in your state, or even federally. But AFAIK labour laws are state issued in 'murrica

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>>18364894
And part 2 is she hasn't gotten back to me on this text which is fine but the anxiety and insecurity of worrying has made sleep last night and the start of work today vomit inducing and even if we break it off cleanly I just want some resolution.

>>18364894
>long distance
Dont even bother. Break up with her and find girl in your location.

Stop wasting your and her time. LDR are scam and ultimate waste of time and emotions.

Forget about her.

>>18365093
We've spent vacations together irl and fucked and that was also really good. She's been a good friend

>>18364874
shes nuts, but it doesnt seem dangerous so whatever right? just sleep with your door locked.

Didn't you watch Peanuts? She has a comfort blankie.

Still gross though

>>18364881
What's the objection to washing it?

>>18364761
Why are you self conscious?
Just take off your clothes when you are hard already. Boom. Done.

>>18364761
what about when I'm not hard? then what?

>>18364788
Then nothing. Why would a woman care?
Your dick is big when it is needed.

>>18364659
This is a franchise operation, just like a McDonalds. They pay to use the corporate name but run the business themselves. Chances are that this one isn't doing well, and so the boss is cracking down. It is ultimately foolish, of course, because she chases away good staff.

Take the paycheck and move on.

>>18364771
Good point.

I've worked at two other Kumon centers and I always did really good work. She could even call and ask the people themselves. I help contribute to the positive statistics and helped the kids move onto the next level.

It's just annoying how she is letting me go for small things.

>>18364659
Threaten her with a wrongful termination suit if she doesn't give you good references. Definitely file for unemployment.

>>18364571
I have never in my life heard that word before, it doesn't even sound real. Coming from an average Amerifat

>>18364587
interesting.
anyone else able to weigh in on this?

>>18364698
Ive heard the word bollucks used on some british tv show or something like that before but i always thought it meant something like 'bullshit'. I doubt Americans would understand what you meant in that context but they would think it was very British of you to say that.

Kill yourself

>>18364561
Not that anyone will believe me, and I genuinely don't care if you do, but I'm pretty certain I'm a sociopath. I have no real feelings or emotions inside, my while life I would look to other to find out how to react to things. I only feel rage and anger that can never be filled or go leave. I still remember wanting to kill people back in elementary school. I feel the worst felling anyone will ever feel which is nothing inside. I swear I actually want to kill myself sometimes. Recently I've discovered that the bottled up desire I've had all my life was the desire for homocide tendencies. I look at living things and get the urge to kill it. Like my dogs I want to so bad kick their face in juts for laying their. I want to get help but don't want to be put in a hospital or on meds.

Kills yourself

>>18364543
Congrats anon!
Don't worry, remember these amateur comps are essentially vanity stuff, or to get entry money.
Nobody will read it except the people involved in the comp and your mum probs.

And it's good to be critical, it'll push you to be even better.

>>18364548
But the thing is that my name and photograph are both published ONLINE along with the story, so it's not difficult to get hold of if anybody comes across it. If it was just in print form I wouldn't care, but the fact it's on the internet makes me want to cut my veins open.

>>18364543
I've written some embarrassing stuff. My senoir year of hs all I did for writing assignments was creating bs stories or ironic shitpost stoures. Mainly random stuff that popped into my head at the time and found humorous . One even got me in trouble with a super religious teacher. I look back at them and cringe at the thought of my teachers reading them. But I don't regret a single one. You know why, because it teaches me a lesson to watch what I write, each thing I write will be seen by someone so I better make sure I don't embarrass myself.

do you have a small penis?

>>18364528
5.5 inches, I guess that's kinda small

I went through that phase once, then I realized how stupid it was and atop thinking like that after a day or two. SAmerican thing happened to me with furries. Really feel like i dodged dome bullets, just wish I could say the same about anime. I knew it would leave tk no where but despair, but it was just so inviting. OP unless you are 100% sure you want to live with that for the rest of your life then cut your loses rn. Trust me you'll get over it and go back to being normal.

Focus on finances and health first, when you are stable try to feel happy on your own. You don't need a women to be happy, the sooner you realize that the better you'll be. Then when and only when you are satisfied and stable should you try to date agian. It will just be worse for you to try to get in a relationship when you are not stable at all.

>>18364381
I'm not sure how important your love life has been to you in the past, but maybe it's best to spend time focusing on yourself.

I'm in sort of a similar position as you in that I'm depressed and just recently got out of a pretty serious relationship. I've always felt that the one thing I want to do with my life is raise a child with a woman I love, but that sort of life goal can be frustrating since you have much less control over becoming successful than you would be if your goal was to have a career. To counter this frustration and keep from trying too hard and coming off as desperate, I've noticed that it's extremely helpful to focus more on yourself than finding someone else to help you feel happy and fulfilled.

I'd say get /fit/, focus on your career and do whatever you must to mold yourself into the kind of man a great woman would be lucky to be with. Focus less on finding some random skank to fill your time and focus more on developing new hobbies and skills that will make you more attractive to the type of woman you actually want to be with for the rest of your life. I mean you could do this all just for yourself too, but do whatever you need to do for motivation.

>>18364420
>dont need women to be happy
I've heard this a few times before anon, maybe I should start to listen. And yeah I'm not that stable right now, is using tinder and online dating sites on the side a bad idea? I do think it brings out the worst in people.

>>18364449
My love life has always been the most important thing, but then I have always been pretty unhappy, just a strong of awful girlfriends bar a couple. I can fully relate to wanting to raise a child, whenever I picture my future self I always see myself with a lovely brunette waifu with kids and me making enough money to provide from my own business.
>some random skank
I have managed to bang one girl since the breakup, that made me feel happy that one night but the feeling disappeared as soon as I got home.

I'll try to take what both of you are saying on board. I'll focus on my health and career. Trying to get laid has always made me feel like a loser which makes it harder to get laid so maybe I stop trying to make that the goal.

Background:
For 3 weeks we've been working at this. I was/am an overweight slob with bad hygiene and an anger/jealousy problem. Atleast the past 1.5 years I have been. We've been together for 7 years now. She said this trend began about a year ago. The past 3 weeks i lost enough weight to wear a belt, cleaned my house, shower and laundry regularly and have greatly improved my mental state with my girlfriend. Field was too long for this info

>>18364340
Only she can decide what will happen, at this point.

Just don't waste any time guessing what she's thinking or how to appease her.

You're better off focusing on positivity and health moving forward, regardless of whether it's alongside her or not.

>>18364479
Well yeah, but my preference is I go with her. I'm focusing on unfucking myself but she is what made the matter clear to me. I'm just simply asking, based off this repeating trend of positive connecting experiences being initiated by her, would me backing off of all the physical and emotional smothering help give her breathing room to grow any feelings she might actually still have for me? My nature is to smother, but should I not? Thanks for the reply

>>18364146
post pic :)

Won't post my pic on 4chan for obvious reasons.

>>18364146
No, it's fucking dumb to do it. I'm in the exact same position, and I'm choosing to stick with my heritage instead of suppressing it like a faggot.

I know how you feel, but idk I still think that though a lot of my opinions do align with some of what you're saying
(men hate feminism, because be real they do. But being a normal human being with an opinion is not feminism just because I'm a woman, I know that.)

Anyway, you were able to leave once, that's good. I go through the stages too. I leave this shit hole, and come back when I'm down. Hell, thats the only reason I'm on it today, first time in months, because tonight I was feeling particularly lonely and had no friends who would even be awake this late at night to comfort me.

But, that is the solution, taking breaks. Its ok to come back, this place is kinda like a drug. You don't quit cold turkey. Just make sure your stays are brief, and then return to the real world. And while you're out in the real world, just remind yourself to take it in. That's reality. This is a place where people hide behind their computer screens, and say the shit they would NEVER have the balls to say irl. People come here to vent and work out frustration, usually on other people. Most of what you see on here, I honestly believe is not "real" people.
That neckbeard screaming about how all women are whores? I'm certain is a stand up guy 90% of the time out in the real world. Everyone gets frustrated, and when people get frustrated they get ugly. It happens. Even I come here to blatantly troll because it does give me some weird closure.
Anyway, I digress, this place isn't real. So don't take the majority of your opinions off here, it's not based in reality.
Its ok to come back to us every now and then, but don't set up your life here. That's bad news. When you need a little validation, come on board. Once you get it though, get off asap.

>>18364013
How and why does this site make you feel jaded and disgusted with yourself?

>>18364013
It's great that you've recognized the toxic nature of 4chan. That's one step already done. The next step is to formulate a plan of action that is future proof.

For me, I started by blocking r9k on my main pc. R9k is is the worst, you can feel yourself getting dumber as you hang around bitter pathetic people who have no intentions to improve themselves. Hang around people like that, and you absorb their bs whether you believe it or not. I haven't been there for over a year and a half, and things are getting better.

I also blocked /adv/ on my main pc, and now browse rarely on my phone. Also helped my mental state.

I don't think you need to abandon this site entirely, just try to stop going to bad places like r9k and pol.

Just give her some space. Wait a day or two to talk to her and then check in.

>>18364007
But what does the don't kiss me in public and then being passive aggressive mean? Does she care but is like embarrassed of me?

>>18364028
No clue, but giving her space won't do any harm and it'll be a good starting point to figure where you two stand and what's going on. She could just be annoyed after seeing you so much. If that's the case, and she's friendlier to you after you give her space, then don't take it personally. Too much of anything is bad, and you should continue to talk to her every other day or so.

Are you a straight male?

>>18363964
and I bet the lions think the females are beautiful and that the males are scraggly. you're speaking from an inside perspective where objectivity is impossible.

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>>18363964
>Males are ugly
Yes, european depiction of males are ugly. But not in long forgotten cultures.