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>>18415360
You cut all ties to him?
Maybe sounds easy from my perspective but not from yours, you have any money you could use to live a minimal life?
Does he have something he can blackmail you with or something he will shove in your face when you leave?

Betray him and get some mone and flee, find yourself a new life and leave a note to someone else atleast so he cannot use the police's help.

Ah and make sure you get all your documents you need together first.

your dad sounds like an alright guy. he's a dick at work because he's stressed out over having such a monumental ingrate fuck up as a son to deal with

>>18415399
well i cant really do that, i do have two cars that i can sell and use the money to start a life somewhere else. but he has $18500 of mine and if i were to leave that money would be gone. i am also the general manager of the business so if i were to leave in theory he would have to close down, i wouldnt have a problem with this if i were an only child but i am the oldest son of 4 and the rest are much younger and depend on the income from the business.

>What the fuck happened and how do I stop feeling bad?
She wanted casual sex and attention, you wanted a relationship. It was always going to go this way.

Look for a commitmentphilic grill, they aren't hard to find.

>>18415317
>>18415317
So fucking frusterating.

She's the only girl that I've REALLY liked since I was in high school. I just don't get why she ghosted me like that out of no where.

Well maybe I do get it, she probably found a new guy and is riding his cock as we speak. I guess she decided ghosting me and acting as cold as possible was the best way of "breaking up".

FUUUUUUU

>>18415314
Dude, what the fuck are you doing, man? How can you be heartbroken about a girl like that?

Be heartbroken about some little religious girl not talking to you. Be heartbroken about your high school sweetheart. Be heartbroken about your puppy love crush even, but how are you going to be heartbroken over some girl who apparently only wanted to fuck around?

It sounds like you need to tell your mom and dad, or you know, call the police and tell them exactly what's going on.

>>18415144
Except the guys are 17. I turned recently so isn't minor issues normally not dwelt with by the police?

Have you done the obvious thing and called the police? If you're scared then go arm yourself with a knife or something from the kitchen. I don't know why you're getting hunted down, but you're on home turf. You have every advantage.

>>18415060
talk about something you're passionate about.

Read a book and reccommend it to her or something.

Her life is dull from what you can tell me, so show her how exciting you can be as a person?

Learn how to tell stories

>>18415060
You have to sell what she's buying

One time a girl casually mentioned she liked some band. Weeks later I saw they were coming to town. Hit her up on facebook
>hey what are you up to
>nm just schoolwork
>thats cool. so listen i was going to the concert this weekend with my friend
>he now bailed but i have the ticket, wanna go
>OMG OF COURSE
i then proceeded to buy two tickets online

In your case, work the puppy angle. Say you're shopping for a puppy for your mom for her birthday if she wants to come to the dog shelter with you next week. You would literally get an hour or two just you two hanging out, playing with puppies and getting food afterwards.

Or if you have a dog, ask her if she wants to go to this awesome dog park you heard about some 30 minutes away. Get the idea?

>>18415075
>>18415093

I know she likes the beach, would it be weird to invite someone you only somewhat know to the beach?

Lets say I ask her to something and she says yes, what do I talk about then? Just hope a conversation keeps up naturally? Like I say, she is really shy. She doesn't really talk to anybody much at work outside of her older sister who works there too. Any good go to conversation starters maybe?

>>18415039

Sorry to hear it. Any friends/family you can crash with until you get back on your feet? Besides your upcoming eviction, anything else in your life contributing to your thought to commit suicide?

>>18415043
I've been offered places to stay yeah.

But I don't want that.

Even with friends all I think about is suicide.

>>18415049

Take a place you can stay. If you want to contemplate suicide do it under a roof which is better than being homeless. You are lucky you have the option to stay with people, some people have no one and no where to go when this happens to them.

Anyway, I feel the same way. But there must be other reasons. What makes you depressed? What is the root cause?

>>18415036
how's it having a sixpack tho? Skinny guy here. Must be nice no?

You are either chasing the wrong things or clinical depression. Do you feel like there are other things that can make you happy?

>>18415041
more like I think nothing I do now will ever make me lastingly happy because it comes and it will go.

>>18415004
I'm quite dubious of that saying. I interpret it more to mean 'take a break from dating apps bc you get fatigued, and make sure to develop hobbies and interests outwith dating'.

>>18415004
No - I stopped looking many years ago, nothing happened. It's just a thought-ending cliche.

>>18415012
are you implying I should die alone?

fuck this site , bye

Work to death.
Simple as that.

>>18414926

Have gay sex. It will open up the remaining 50% of libido you're currently not using.

>>18414926
Have children, be good parent and raise them so well they will continue your legacy.

Easy.

It's general good advice for self-improvement, dunno if it's strictly true or false though.

There will always be another person who's better than you in anything, but you always have the autonomy to improve yourself.

>>18414909
I would go crazy eventually if i had to compete with my yesterday-me every day.

Sometimes you just have bad days. Try doing some sport, you will see that progress isnt linear and can even fluctate. Even in thinking part it is true.

>>18414909
ugh, americans are so cringeworthy.

>impossible
you + her = relationship

>>18414675

>she knows im into her and said nothing

have you asked her to say anything? if you want closure you will likely have to insist upon getting it. unless she straight up ignores you and walks away, but that is an answer its self, really.

girls are not video games. there is not some special buttons you can press to guarantee an outcome. there isn't going to be this epihphany moment where all these feelings for you suddenly surface. if they existed they'd already be there.

the only way to escape the friendzone is to stop being her friend.

You can't go straight from friendzone to a romantic relationship, unless you're fine with the possibility of breaking the entire friendship all together. It requires a transition, and its not easy.

>>18414610

blow up doll

If your idea of love is fulfilled by having sex, then you have no idea what love is. You find some cartoons sexually attractive because you have conditioned yourself to do so over months and maybe years. Don't confuse yourself into some delusion.

>>18414610

cosplay prostitute

Everyone's different. What's bad is when they text a lot at first, and they text less and less as time goes on until you realize that they must not feel as strongly anymore.

It can be maddening, but take heart. The only thing that keeps some people from going insane is thinking of the good things, and not letting that anxiety eat you alive with images of her doing harmful or hurtful things.

You never know just how you look through other people's eyes.

>>18414626

Yeah that's very true, with my ex though we kept contact on a daily basis, she always wanted to know what I was up to or messaged me what she was doing. I know doing this takes away a lot of what you can talk about person to person but I got so used to it over the years that going from that to nearly nothing with this new girl is very jarring. I suppose I just have to get used to it. I mean she appears to like me a lot when we're together.

>>18414634
What happened to your ex, friend? It sounds like she cared about you very much, and you for her.

>>18414534
yes your AA would typically allow you to transfer to a 4 year state university in florida for a related degree. Since you mentioned being in florida I'll give some examples for you to work with.

Lets say you were in orlando and decided to go to Valencia College. You could view http://catalog.valenciacollege.edu/transferplans/ or maybe even http://catalog.valenciacollege.edu/degrees/associateinarts/articulatedpremajorsatvalencia/
that second one might be a better example because you can see that it's tailored for specific universities.

Once you choose which degree you want to go for the classes are pretty much laid out for you. Honestly just sign up for college and they'll tell you everything you need to know. There are advisors you can talk to and also orientation which tells you everything.

>>18414612
ok i will do this ty

>>18414625
are you actually in orlando
I go to florida college, I can help you

It's not a question of how long have you been in. If you didn't come inside there is a low possibility of getting your gf pregnant. She's on birth control so I wouldn't worry anyway

>>18414337
She's on birth control and you didn't come inside her. Don't worry.

>>18414337
if she be pregnant becouse of it give epic name for a kid.

>>18414321
Don't do a thing to them! That's what old paper product smells like (old book smell), and you risk really damaging the record covers. A record is worth more with a mint cover, and I wouldn't be surprised if a few of them are worth a bit.

So don't devalue a collectible just because it smells old

>>18414321
This anon >>18414338 is right. You've never smelled old books before. It's actually a nice smell.

>>18414338
>>18414373
It's not a pleasant smell at all and there is no mold on it, I just don't want it on my shelves with them smelling like that