Kind of heartbroken

>What the fuck happened and how do I stop feeling bad?
She wanted casual sex and attention, you wanted a relationship. It was always going to go this way.

Look for a commitmentphilic grill, they aren't hard to find.

>>18415317
>>18415317
So fucking frusterating.

She's the only girl that I've REALLY liked since I was in high school. I just don't get why she ghosted me like that out of no where.

Well maybe I do get it, she probably found a new guy and is riding his cock as we speak. I guess she decided ghosting me and acting as cold as possible was the best way of "breaking up".

FUUUUUUU

>>18415314
Dude, what the fuck are you doing, man? How can you be heartbroken about a girl like that?

Be heartbroken about some little religious girl not talking to you. Be heartbroken about your high school sweetheart. Be heartbroken about your puppy love crush even, but how are you going to be heartbroken over some girl who apparently only wanted to fuck around?

>>18415328
He isn't heartbroken. His dick is sad. Have some empathy, Jesus.

>>18415314
if you want real advice, you shouldn't have let up on her. You should have kept yourself in her mind, but you let your own pride and self-esteem push her away, for better or for worse, and this is the result.

It's too late to feel all bent out of shape about it now, right? Learn your lesson. Be more focused if you really want the girl. People today forget the meaning of human connection. It sounds like she was alien to it considering she didn't like to cuddle (Who the fuck doesn't cuddle? It's literally one of the most basic Mammalian comforts that we share across all mammals) Girls who don't like to cuddle have some kind of emotional fuck up, usually.

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>>18415328
Because I don't fall in love with little religious girls who are actually wife material but I fall in love with hot crazy sluts who want to take it in every hole and live out all of my porn fantasies.

I literally broke up with a nice little religious girl last year and felt absolutely nothing.

Wat do?

>>18415336
lol

It sounds like you won't learn until you're a depressed old man, regretting your shitty life choices, son.

Or maybe you can wake the fuck up and realize that it's all about finding the wife and knocking her up. A joy that is real and profound and not just "HRRRNNGGG IMA NUT IN DIS SLUT CUNT"

>>18415336
Post more pictures.
>captcha: Select all pictures with shorts
MUH!

>>18415314
Anyway, it sounds like you're just fine, m8. Did you come to brag, today, or what?

Your slutty tinder girl ran off. Is that a surprise to anyone?

>>18415334
I actually think if I texted her right now and said something very light hearted and sexually aggressive, there's like a 50% chance she would want to meet up or rekindle things.

But I just know she probably has sucked three dicks since I saw her, and I don't think I could stand getting rejected by her again if she didn't respond.
>>18415339
>won't learn

Obviously I already learned. I am completed self-aware of the situation, but I can't help the way my brain naturally responds to these things.

Well actually the little religious girl was kind of a retarded bitch so maybe if I meet a hot and nice one it'll be alright

>>18415344
>come here to brag

No I am trying to emphasize that I had a girl that I really liked but she just ghosted me and treated me like I never existed. I am giving minor details to paint the scenario in case any anons know something that I don't about the situation and what to do about it

>>18415349
That's the spirit, son. And I use the term "little religious girl" loosely, you know. I just mean someone stable and classy that's into commitment and planning, and who has a framework to live by that you can grow around vs someone like that girl whose whole relationship foundation is fickle and fanciful sex appeal.

>>18415334
Also how did I let my self-esteem and ego push her away?

>>18415361
>>I text her again a few days later, and she says "Oh you're still alive?"
>>a few weeks later she snapchats me a picture referring to an inside joke we had
>>I am so angry that she ghosted me, I don't respond


That snapchat joke meant that you were on her mind, dude. Make no mistake, she was thinking of you! Don't get me wrong, this girl doesn't sound like a keeper, but if you wanted her back, that was your in right there, clear as day.

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>>18415368
I just thought she was baiting me into giving her more attention so she could ghost me again.

I thought if she really wanted to get in touch that she would text or call me or something.

I guess I just need to force myself to forget about this and look for another woman that I like, because it clearly was never going to and it probably still wouldn't if I tried again.

What do you think the chances are that she would reply if I tried to get in touch with her? Or is that impossible to calculate?

It's time to move on anon. It's not going to work out, and there's nothing wrong with that.

It's time for you to find a girl more on your wavelength. You owe it to yourself. Don't be needy, and find a girl you actually vibe with.

you stuck your dick in crazy

>>18415395
>What do you think the chances are that she would reply if I tried to get in touch with her? Or is that impossible to calculate?

It's a lot easier for you to calculate that, than for us. You know her better than any anon on here. anyway, that's what I was talking about your pride and self-esteem. That's the only thing stopping you from texting her.

For better or for worse, right? I mean, maybe it's good you don't want to talk to her, but that's the reason why, clearly. Your pride and self-esteem.

>>18415314
something very similar happened to me not long ago anon.

we didn't actually date but I let her into my feelings way more than I should've and turns out: she wasn't into me in the same way. we hooked up a few times & she dipped.

I guess we've just gotta make our own mistakes to learn that surprise surprise, chicks who are on tinder aren't worth trying to date.

>>18415433
oh also the age difference isn't insignificant--the girl in my scenario was 21 & I'm 25. Me & you are at very different points in our lives than some hot young thing in university, you know?

>>18415441
>>18415433
>let her into my feelings

There's no way to control this. It just naturally happens in my opinion

>The age difference

Yeah that's what I've heard. I like hot little university things though.

I was pretty retarded at the age of 20 though. Pretty sure I ghosted some decent women for absolutely weird/bizarre things. Unfortunately I was stalking her facebook and saw she left a flirty comment on this 30 year old's facebook picture.

Some 30 year old is now plowing that ass. Son of a bitch.

I think I need to meet other girls and stop cyber-stalking her.