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Hey guys, I have this weird fetish that is even more disgusting to even be on /d/ that I find arousing and I have a pretty large collection of this in my hentai folder.
The thing is that I am starting to date this cute 8/10 qt and I'd like to not like this fetish now, not because I feel that is immoral or something like that, in fact, I think that if I am insane for liking that thing on my hentai, all the lolicon fans and the netorare faggots would be pedophiles and cheaters irl, which is not true.
But at the same time, I'd like to only have clean, vanilla fantasies with this girl if everything goes fine, si just to not having weird ideas I'd like to just stop fapping to it.
So, any idea of how I would stop a weird fetish?
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So, any idea of how do I stop enjoying a weird fetish*
fuck my broken english.
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>>18417676
dunno but Teresa is a cute
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>>18417676
stop watching porn
I know this will be hard but you've now got something to aim towards, stopping fapping (or at least cutting down) should also help to suppress the urge to look at your fucked up shit
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I'm dating a "recovering" drug addict (Heavy Intravenous opiate and methamphatamine use) and she tells me all about the scheming and the lies and the stuff she's been through, but she says I can trust her completely, and that she's not like that anymore, and I want to believe her, but now she's been asking me for money for different things, and after I gave her $100 last week, she didn't text or call for a whole day and said she had slept the entire time and said that was normal.
I figured giving her money would help uplift her and help with all her past due bills and stuff, but instead it's like she withdraws which makes me fear the worst.
I don't want to think she's using again because she tells me she's clean and that I'm the only person she can trust, but am I lying to myself? Fundamentally, is it prudent to trust a "recovering" drug addict with money? If not, how are they ever supposed to snap out of it?
And inside I'm torn apart because it would crush her spirit to think that I thought she was using again. And I tell myself I'm just paranoid and that she wouldn't like. People get better don't they? People do change for the better even after heavy intravenous opiate and speed use, right?
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>>18417655
What is wrong with you that your standards are low enough to date a drug addict?
It is Allah's grace upon this Earth that you will almost certainly not ever be alpha enough to have children.
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>>18417682
I was wondering this too: why OP decides waste his time on someone who will clearly turn out to be a shitty partner, and clearly is a shitty person already. I imagine that sex is the reason; she must be an easy lay and OP would rather pretend he doesn't mind her past and her drug habbits instead of finding himself someone more trustworthy and less trashy.
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>>18417655
Totally normal too sleep all day after you ran outta meth too smoke and come down
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i just somebody to fuck, cuddle and listen to
preferably not a shit person and not a ugly looking one either
what should i do famalams
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>>18417344
Get a girlfriend.
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>>18417344
Get a dog ;).
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>>18417344
You're to self absorbed to be in a relationship.
All I hear from your post is
>me me me
If you go forward with this mentality your relationships will always fail.
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Should I leave my fiance? 2017-06-14 01:44:19 Post No.18417317
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I am in my mid-20s and engaged with a good woman. She has a good head on her shoulders, financially steady, and we've been dating for the last 5 years.
We met online and had and still have very little in common. I am a big computer nerd since i work IT for the government and she has a really good job too as an district manager for a west coast bank. But, again we share very little in common. When I get exited for playing in my sandbox/testing environment she complains that I spend too much time on the computer. Since we have been together my artsy side had diminished and I've become more professional and I don't feel like myself anymote. We do have fun, mostly at restaurants or amusement parks but I feel we may have lost our spark. She is stresses from work and lashes out at me on a daily basis, when I give her her space she yells at me for not being there and when I am there she yells at me to leave her alone.
We are to be married soon and I feel like it may not be the best move since I will be locked to be the person that I am not. And I feel like I'm in too deep to leave. I'm at losses her to figure out what should I do. I still love her but I don't think I'm in love with her anymore. I feel like we are more like glorifies roommates.
Now fast forward few weeks after this realization I started to talk to a childhood friend from my hometown. We used to crush on each other at bad times, she had a boyfriend or I was dealing with family issues like death and what not. She was always My type cute, nerdy, and slightly awkward like myself. My friend has always been artistic and we used to paint together, but currently she is not in a good career path.
I am conflicted on what to do because I want to make my Fiance happy but I want to be happy also. My friend is not really in the picture but I definitely can see myself being with her after I figure out myself.
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>>18417317
Met online? Really?
Well on the other hand , let me ask u this. Do u really want to force ur self in a marriage u don't like. Man u only have a limited amount of time on this earth to be happy, don't u want to be happy?
After ur married only 2 out come exists, divorce or live with her for the rest of ur life. Can u do that?
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>>18417317
I recommend talking to your fiancee about this and tell her you need some things to change before you're ready to take a vow. You love her enough to get engaged to her, give her a chance to be the wife you need her to be. You have to talk to her and try and resolve these feelings before anything.
As far as being more professional than you used to be, welcome to adulthood. I don't know what you want anybody to tell you about that.
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Hey guys, my girlfriend has anorexia, i know she needs a doctor and all that. The thing i wanna ask you is how i can be there for her when she vomits, when she gets sad because she feels fat. How to comfort her and just make her feel a little better. I'm sure there are here some people who had to deal with similar situations.
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>>18417242
>dating a mentally ill person
Save yourself grief, dump her and find a fit, stable girl.
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I had anorexia so I can understand where shes at. Number one thing is don't yell at her or get overly mad with her, its frustrating but that kind of thing will push her away. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her, and just that you're there for her no matter what and that you want to help her get better. Try not mention weight around her, even if you're just talking about yourself.
Something to remind you of though is that she isn't going to get better until she herself wants to recover. So you can force it down her throat all you want and threaten her but at the end of the day none of thats going to work until she actually wants it. Its going to be really hard for you desu because there really isn't that much that you can do other than be supportive to her.
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>>18417242
>when she vomits
This is a symptom of bulimia, not anorexia, btw.
But honestly, I had a sister with anorexia and bulimia and there's not much you can do. Leave it to the professionals and just be there for her. Do with her things you'd do with a gf without such an illness. Do things together, take her fun places, give her complements that don't relate to her weight in any way. Listen to her when she wants to talk, but don't pressure her to speak if she doesn't want to. Just be a bf, not a nurse. With such disorders, good times and some level of normalcy are mote important than trying to "help" her. Just remember never to nag about food and don't put her in situations that might trigger an episode.
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I'm a second year (starting 3rd year this fall) physics student and so far I've had 16 courses (4 per semester) and my grades are basically split between D's and C's, and I haven't gotten these grades from a lack of trying. I've worked my fucking ass off, tried all sorts of new and different ways to study, I've read books and even bought courses on study techniques, but nothing's working. I've only got one year left to complete my B.Sc. and so I'm just gonna grind through it to get the degree because it would feel like a waste to drop out now that I'm so close, but man I just don't know what the fuck to do after that. Having just a physics BSc is hardly worth shit so I feel like I should just go and study something else, but I don't know what. My backup plan was supposed to be comp sci but I just got back the results of a C++ programming exam I thought I would get an A on and I got a fucking D, like I don't even understand how it's possible. So yeah, I guess that's not an option because apparently I suck at programming too.
I'm feel so fucking lost
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Comp sci student here.
The only people who are good at this are people who naturally just like doing it. That goes for all stem fields.
You went for the money, not your passion.
Retards like you fail every time.
Do what you like, what your good at, it's not fucking hard to balance your talents and find out which one is worth the most.
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>>18417113
These days it is pretty standard for high school kids to come out, do some uni course and not know what to do after. 30 is the new 20's, find something you genuinely like, clearly what you're studying now is not your thing, swallow your pride. Forget what your potential salary is. It only really occurs to you a bit later in life after working full time that people realize it wasn't cliche bullshit when people said to do something you love.
Note: It doesn't even have to involve studying, Trades, apprenticships, business doesnt necessarily need further education.
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Spend some time and reflect on what you want to do, then pick a masters.degree based in that.
Not all graduates stick to their core subject
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Do women like this still exist? Where I can I find them.
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depends on what you assume that girl is like.
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>>18417060
Pretty girls? Yes.
You can find them anywhere.
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"Innocent" qts are the biggest hoes of our generation.
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My sister lost her virginity at a music festival 2017-06-14 09:23:14 Post No.18416803
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My sister lost her virginity at a music festival
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I was supposed to pick up my sister and her friend at a local music festival. I arrived in the morning, and asked to have their tent pointed out. Someone told me they had "gotten a little wild" last night.
I had my suspicions, but wasn't prepared for what I found. When I pulled down the zipper to their tent and entered, both girls were sleeping side by side. Their hair was tangled in each other, they were undressed at the neither regions and their legs were spread apart. Both girls were spattered with semen, and had a red spot in the sleeping matt. And yeah, there was a distinct smell of sex.
Both girls were very embarrassed when they came to. They went out to pee, and didn't say much in the car. For what I know, they slept with several guys. Advice on this, should I tell their parents?
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Why would you tell the parents? Assuming they're not underage, what business is it of theirs? And yours, for that matter?
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>>18416807
They're both 16 and weren't supposed to be there.
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>>18416803
This is extremely normal for girls in America
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Dating a divorced man 2017-06-14 08:44:34 Post No.18416764
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I met a man who is basically perfect for me - I've never liked a guy in the way I like him. He seems very into me as well, and we've been going out for a month or so and greatly enjoyed it.
The only problem is that he divorced 6 months ago after 10 years of marriage.
He was very unhappy with her - he told me that they didn't even have sex over the last 7 years, wouldn't basically even talk for the last 5 years and that it was generally a miserable experience for him.
Do I even have a chance to make something serious out of this?
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>>18416764
>He was very unhappy with her - he told me that they didn't even have sex over the last 7 years
Yes, OP, you can lock him in a chastity cage.
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>>18416780
I'm not the type.
I really love cock :^)
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>>18416764
>chance
Adv is not your crystal ball to predict future.
However if man is able to withstand 10 years of mental torture before he snaps, you can be almost sure if you two will ever break up, it will be your fault, not his.
Cheers.
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>over stayed my visa in Japan
>currently hiding at gf's apartment and only leaving if necessary
So I have 2 options, I want to leave by the end of the month,don't want to get her in trouble
>turn myself in, face up to a week in jail and 5 years banashment
>apperently her cousin knows somebody that can smuggle me into russia, and from there fly out of Vladivostok or just hang out there for a bit (I know some russian and I don't want to go back to US) but how and when is vague and would involve some sketchy people
what do?
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>>18416377
Maybe make your way to the embassy? I'm sure they won't arrest your for self-deportation
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>>18416381
This. Especially if you say "Tasukete. Mayotte."(Help. Lost.) to the police. They'd have to take pitty on you.
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>>18416396
It's true, it's the law there
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How to handle an age gap and not be a creep?
>be 27yo engineering undergrad
>girl in another course starts tuning me in a group chat
>she slides into my DMs
>we have the same kinks, great chemistry
>sends pic, solid 9/10
>is 18yo
>has daddy kink, just wants to please me
>have first date on sunday
>she wants to date seriously, i think i do too
She's putting a lot of power in my hands, and I don't wanna fuck her up, so I'm gonna campsite rule that shit. But also I'm just worried about what people are gonna think. She's literally 2/3rds my age. I doubt her parents would ever accept it. I'm sure my parents would think it's weird. Let alone what her teenage girl friends are gonna think. Or my adult friends.
I just don't know how to handle it. The age gap plays no part in why I like her, I genuinely like her as a person, and she has so much to offer sexually I don't need that for it to be hot either. But I feel like there's no way in hell anyone is gonna be ok with this going ahead, regardless of how much the two of us want it.
How do I not be a creep in this situation?
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>>18416229
Quite honestly, don't bother dating seriously. She has psychological issues and will probably be a nightmare to deal with, not to mention immature.
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>>18416229
27 isn't that much older and it sounds like you both dig each other.
Don't worry about it man. You are nothing like OPs picture.
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Who gives a fuck what people think? yeah you are a fucking creep and if I was her dad id beat the fuck out of you, but still, 18yr pussy man fucking do it
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Should I tell my boyfriend? 2017-06-14 02:13:03 Post No.18415986
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Should I tell my boyfriend?
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A while ago I caught my boyfriend flirting with a couple girls online and some from his work and basically trying to get a "back up girlfriend" because during that time I was sick and just got found out i had something wrong with me health wise and I guess he was scared of me being too much to handle or something because of me having something medically wrong. This really upset me so a few weeks after that I started to just flirt with this random guy online who lives in another country because I wanted to feel special (yeah I know stupid lol) and I also sent him nudes. I end up feeling bad because my boyfriend was and is making an effort to make up for what he did so I cut off contact with that random guy. Anyway, its been a couple months since all this has happened but I'm wondering if I should tell my boyfriend of what I did? I feel bad about it and its been kinda bothering me because I know what I did was wrong even if it was in spite of what he did. Or is it better to keep this kinda thing a secret?
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No, because he's actually fucking one of those girls behind your back. That's why he's being extra nice. Not because the girls disappeared.
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Im going to reply as if this wasnt a generic bait thread.
Youre a moron. Dump him you hypocrite.
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>>18415986
>Do:
Tell your boyfriend about the pictures you sent, because it's not right for you to do things behind his back like that.
>Do not
Tell your boyfriend you know about him seeking a back-up girlfriend, because you reveal yourself; it gives your boyfriend a bigger need to sneak around. Essentially, you're revealing your sharpness before you need to cut.
>Optional.
You could tell him, but if you tell him that just means you could end your relationship. By telling both, you're essentially admitting it's over. That isn't what you want. Keep honest, but keep vigilant. Stop being a cunt.
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I've been physically and mentally disabled for 8 years. Years ago I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, degenerate disc disease, and many other crippling problems. I can barely walk or function, and even when I can I'm overwhelmed by lack of interest to do anything and lack of energy. I've tried to seriously commit suicide multiple times, but after hospitalizations and worry I'm being monitored by my family. I'm a medical mystery to a lot of doctors and being as I'm on on welfare level of insurance I don't have access to specialists that I'm being told I need to see and instead offered amateurs in the professions that make me wait 6 months for an in take appointment only to not understand test results and contradict themselves then recommend I "just take pain killers" or "physical therapy" which neither ever helped. I tried going to psychiatric therapy and just got pumped full off tons of different antipsychotics, SSRIs and the like. Nothing worked there either all of them either made me actually psychotic , more depressed, or had other terrible side effects. Some doctors even put me on drugs that apparently had deadly cocktail effects and may have screwed with my brain permanently. I applied for SSI 8 years ago at the end stages of a severe diagnosis and handicapping event and I've been denied at every level including the Appeals Counsel (they didn't review my case just refused to review it) with a lawyer that has been no help at all and others refuse to help. I'm lost and don't know where to turn. I'm scared and disgusted
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>>18415904
You have a few choices,
have hope and power through this with all your heart or don't mess up suicide again.
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>>18415904
I don't have any advice, this just makes me really sad and not comprehend our Social Security system. Hang in there, anon!
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>>18415945
Thanks guys I'll try. I try to keep my head up it just feels good to be reminded that just because I'm only ever exposed to negative and bitter people, myself included, there are genuinely good people out there and to help another complete stranger. Worst case if I do end up without any options, suppress any feelings of who has the deal with my death and grow a set of balls to end it all I'll try a handgun with a slug bullet or an exit bag instead of overdoses, suffocation, or hanging
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I borrowed my friends laptop. I went to Google and he had a bookmark titled pre pube girls and a folder titled the same filled with what I assume is pictures. Is this something he could get in trouble for? Is it even legal? I don't want to be a snitch but do I need to tell someone? Should I just act like I never saw it? What even is it I'm too nervous to search it or click on his bookmark.
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well owning child pornography is definitely illegal. if it's a folder of hentai's it's fine.
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If they aren't nudes, I guess he's fine legally. Socially is another story. Also, what kind of person keeps pics of minors bookmarked out in the open on a laptop that he lends to a friend? Sounds like he might have a case of "I don't give a fuck about anything, let the cards fall where they may", which is a sign of depression.
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>>18415411
Don't be stupid, man. It's probably just some anime he downloaded. Don't be a dumbass. Your friend is being a TOTAL BRO helping you allowing you to borrow his laptop. Don't be a bitch and snoop around his private stuff, man. Really.
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Hypothetical situation:
You feel like you are going completely insane. Your thoughts are no longer coherent. You've been isolated from the rest of the world for years. Every day is a struggle to function in basic ways and suicidal thoughts are becoming invasive. You are useless, worthless, unlovable. You lost your spark, ambition, your sense of humor and your ability to enjoy anything life has to offer. You can no longer contribute to society in a positive way, you're a drain and a burden on everyone around you.
Should you go through with it and just end your life?
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>>18415120
no. unless you are parapalegic you can find some form of volunteer work that yo wont fuck up
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>>18415739
What if you're too unmotivated to work, let alone leave your own house?
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>>18415120
If i was in this situation I would take an objective look at it as an outsider and try to fix something. Anything at all. Maybe the area im in isnt allowing me to feel right. Maybe Ive fallen on bad habits. Maybe I never tried enough. I would try as hard as I could to fix the situation I was in even if I thought it wouldnt do anything. I think it would be worth working hard for. I already find no joy in much of anything. Its not like trying would make me find even less joy. motivated or not I would try to force myself to do something. anything to improve