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Talking to women who are basically out of your/my league 2017-06-15 12:15:19 Post No.18420516
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Talking to women who are basically out of your/my league
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Is it foolish for a guy (who doesn't have a lot of 'game') talk to women who look this pretty ?
Should he stop talking to these really attractive women, if he keeps getting rejected constantly ?
Is it better for him to lower his standards (for a higher chance of success) eventhough he knows he won't be that satisfied with women who don't look that pretty ?
Lastly, should he just keep working out and try to get financially successful, just to possibly hook up with someone who looks as good as 'pic related' ?
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>>18420516
Get fit and successful for you not for them, dumass.
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No woman is out of your leauge.
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It's foolish if you expect sex from every woman you meet. Just talk to them like they're another human bean and you'll have no problem.
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Going back to college at 25 means you get your degree at 29. SO basically you'll enter the job force at the bottom of the ladder when you're 30.
I guess it's better than not having a degree but understand that you're behind the career curve. I did pretty good with an associates degree (2 year) in accounting but didn't get my BS until I was 40.
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>>18420517
>SO basically you'll enter the job force at the bottom of the ladder when you're 30.
That's not a big deal outside the US and bongland
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>>18420517
Come on I have a few years of experience in a true job I don't see it as "beginning again" but expanding my possibilities.
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I want to kill someone.
Long story short; me and a girl I care for was threatened on our lives by a mid-level criminal. Nothing could be done but flee the city.
This was almost a week ago, and the urge to kill the fucker hasn't left me. It's not an edgy "hurr imma kill that sunnofabitch" kind of feeling, it's straight up wanting to watch him die by my own hand kind of feeling.
I've never felt such deep hatred before, and it's poisoning my mind and ruining the mood of people around me. But there's no way for me to get revenge.
How on earth do I come to terms with this?
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>>18420453
Have report this to local authorities? I mean not the killing part, but the fear you feel from that particular person.
I'm sure police at least would have issued an order or something and the person violated it then he/she would be arrested.
Also don't overthink it about the murder, I get that you hate that person but think like this.
> Nothing will happen. I have to move on.
New city, new experiences.
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>>18420467
He's part of a bigger organization that the police can't touch. So reporting it would be moot.
This is also what frustrates me. He's free to continue doing scumbag things to other persons.
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How did you know the target? Why did they threaten you? What was it all about?
I have always wanted to live in an action movie. You may have gotten a chance to do so. In the spirit of movies and less one dimensional plots, would it be possible/applicable to have some of the targets enemies, people like that always have them, think that it is in their best interest to unknowingly share your goal?
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I have got 2 and half months of vacation.
How must I spend this vacation?
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Read and travel.
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>>18420334
Learn a new skill or hobby (Woodworking, painting, new language, etc.) or you can travel/rest. Up to you OP
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Spend it on 4chan asking people what to do with your life. It's probably what you're going to do anyway.
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So to put things simply, I went out on a date with a girl two days ago and we both had really good time together. The thing is I haven't texted her except after we parted ways after the date to tell her how much fun i had with her and to say good night. She seemed really pleased too so i'm not really sure when i should text back.
Tl;dr: went out with a girl and haven't texted since. What do?
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>>18420250
I'd wait til the weekend; I bet she'll message you before then.
You don't really want to be caught in juvenile text convos, just get plans down and move things along irl.
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Text her back again or call her and ask her out. If you don't, she'll think you're not interested. Do it and don't wait to long.
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>>18420256
Well she was the one who added me on facebook right before i was planning on doing so (i was the one who asked out tho). We also had a long chat on whatsapp before the day we went out and we spent 5 hours together. Guess that's a good sign.
>>18420257
This is actually the first time i asked a girl out in 25 years. Usually girls asked me out and tried to keep it going by texting every once in a while so i never texted first when i wanted to show i was not interested. So i have fuck all idea what to and what not to do with this girl.
Should i ask her out again? When should i break it down and tell her i've got feelings and all?
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I met a girl online who is really fat and unattractive, but she gives great head. Should I keep meeting up with her to get sucked off? also why would she just want to suck me off? seriously, she just blows me while we watch netflix, that is hanging out with her.
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>>18420087
>that pic
Great now I have thoughts of getting blown by the Predator in my mind. Thanks asshole.
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>>18420096
Could be worse, the girl whos been blowing me looks like Ellie from Borderlands 2
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>>18420087
She has so little self-esteem that she believes that is the only way to get a guy to spend some time with her. It's like she's paying you to date her because buying the illusion of a boyfriend is better to her than nothing at all.
If you want to take advantage of her neurosis and desperation, go ahead.
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What do I do about my GF having boring ass hobbies? All of her shit consists of shit where she pretty much has to stay inside or at least sit down and do, meanwhile I like doing shit like hiking, rock climbing, etc. For example, she likes shit like sewing and knitting and refuses to even try going hiking with me. She's not fat or anything, but she pretty much doesn't want to do anything active/outdoorsy with me other than fishing which i dont even like but she does and it's one of the only hobbies she has that are semi-fun. She wont even go out of country with me. How can I get her to try something interesting for once?
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>>18420086
Let her have her own hobbies and you have yours.
If she doesn't like hiking and such things she has every right to stay at home knitting while you go.
Just make sure you do something together.
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that's her personality, don't change her you retard. If someone wants me to start sewing and start watching Bachelorette you're outta ya fucking mind
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>>18420086
consider it good her hobbies do not include going out and talking to other guys
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/AOGA/ - Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-06-15 06:48:25 Post No.18420078
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/AOGA/ - Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: https://imgur.com/a/y6BF2
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Girls:
Where do you want to eat?
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>>18420118
at home because eating out is expensive and I can cook some yummy shit
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>>18420118
Just bought some "downers" from a friend and it looks like normal medicine. Did I get ripped off, pluses their aren't any numbers on each side. I got 5 for 20
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>>18420037
put one on your tongue my dude, they just look like candies. also don't buy drugs from 5th graders.
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>>18420037
what do you think they should look like, most drugs are normal medicine, pop one and find out
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>>18420037
those look like smarties or something lmao but swallow one with water and wait an hour or just text the dude and ask what exactly they are
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How do I talk to woman? 2017-06-15 06:23:07 Post No.18420007
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Like talk to man but with vagina
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>>18420017
How do I talk to man?
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Have your disgusting male genitals removed.
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tl;dr
>me and wife love sushi
>wife is 6mo pregnant, can't eat sushi
>try to be good husband, shoulder the burden of pregnancy
>lose willpower, go to sushi place on my lunch break and eat a $50 sushi lunch
>wife confronts me about it when credit card statement comes
>basically accusing me of cheating on her with another woman
before you ask if it was about the money, i asked her if it would have bothered her if spent $50 at a steakhouse and she said no. i understand she can't eat sushi for medical reasons, but am i really in the wrong here?
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>>18420003
Her problem is that you ate sushi or because she thinks you went out to eat with a female?
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>>18420003
no you're in the right but you have to understand that pregnancy really fucks with a womans brain chemistry. shit is just strange as fuck.
also she can have sushi just not raw fish. is there something wrong with rice vinegar, rice, sugar, and seaweed along with whatever other junk would come in something like a vegetarian roll?
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>>18420016
hell why settle for vegetarian roll? there's plenty of baked sushi rolls that are better than raw imo a baked salmon roll is gods sushi.
>>18420003
so confused. does she actually think you went out with another woman or is she treating it LIKE you cheated on her with a woman?
regardless if you made a point to say you wouldn't drink or eat sushi or what have you then yeah you're in the wrong for going back on that, but its not like you did something horrible and she can and will get over it, i doubt shes going to terminate the pregnancy or get a divorce over it.
especially if you go out and buy her those aforementioned salmon rolls i jus tmentioned. pick me up some too.
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I met a girl at college, she told me she was in a complicated on/off relationship.We began to develop a friendship and havy many things in common.
One night she tells me to come over to study.
We have sex, she had multiple orgasms, was p good i would say 7/10 (only because she lives with parents and we couldn't make noise) .Next day we act lowkey about everything dropping hints here and there. She began to distance herself slowly as the days went by and begins to communicate less & less and barely any social initiation.
We are talking over text one day and she says shes going over her exs house and that we would talk the next day.
She only hits me up 2 days later, I act cool about everything like its not affecting me. Monday she told me she got back with her ex.
I saw her today at college she invites me to sit and talk with her asks if i'm okay and shit and i say everything's good, she asks about my ex and i tell her i don't really see much there, mediocre conversation, she seeks my attention most the time & follows me around.
What should I do, I can't stop thinking about what happened, I really want her. How should I handle our "Friendship"?
Pic related, Her
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>>18419967
You need to look around. See the fire exit and run as fast as you can to that fucker.
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>>18419985
Wait are you being serious?
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>>18419967
Sex probably wasn't that good or she just is so attached to her ex/current boyfriend.
Why do you like a girl that treats you that way, just find someone else and earn yourself the emotional problems.
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Fucked up thoughts and self doubts 2017-06-15 05:33:18 Post No.18419879
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Fucked up thoughts and self doubts
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Hey /adv/, it's been a while.
Business owner here, and I'm about to fire one of my closest associates for neglecting his duties in favor of another job he's constantly asked me not to worry about (well now he's made it clear he wants to collapse everything he's helped build).
The gf is having doubts about whether or not I can run this business anymore and, considering how rocky things have gotten between us about our future and whatnot, I haven't told her I'm firing another person from the company. It's been choking me a lot how I can't share bad news with her lest she decides to leave me. I still love her and I still get indications she still loves me too but I feel she has to fight herself (and me) to convince herself to stay with me. I've offered her the chance to break up several times but I always promised her I wouldn't give up easily - it's her I feel suffering more doubt. I just keep feeling life would be easier if I didn't have to hide bad news and constantly fear abandonment by others if I trouble them with it.
So now it's past 3 in the morning and I'm up watching and rewatching NGE 26, constantly focusing on answering stupid questions like "what defines your worth?" and "should I continue to exist?"
I'm new to weed but it's recently gotten my brain thinking about these things more and more. I've gotten less scared of these thoughts but my insecurities (and arguing with others all the time) have started overwhelming me and my relationships.
Before I completely give up and pursue professional help (in this shithole of a country overrun by "positive psychology" and pills), I wanna know from you guys if there are any options I haven't explored that can at least help calm down these nightmares of cognition and suicidal thoughts I'm drowning in, or even better - solve these thoughts and doubts for myself once and for all.
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Also one more thing - I'm severely addicted to porn, despite how I'm making really good love to my partner and always keeping her satisfied from a sexual and romantic point of view. It's the rest of my life she and I both find troubling outside of that.
I feel solving my pornography addiction might also help out a lot.
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>>18419879
>that filename
Lies and deceit, all of it! They are clearly clothed. Dismissed!
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>>18419891
Lol, I just remembered the photoshoot my dude, you can have more of the real thing here: http://tettie.livejournal.com/638514.html
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I'm not sure how to feel
>Meet girl at work
>Hit it off go on a couple of dates
>3rd date take her to a event for a organization I'm with
>She gets fucked up at the bar and long story short I spend the night taking care of her
>Next day go over what happened
>Boss tells me that I fucked up and realized that too (we're friends outside of work)
>We both feel different about each other now because of the incident, she hasn't been drunk since and I don't feel comfortable around her but still like her
I'm just confused on what to do next or how someone would evaluate my situation and if I can unfuck it.
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Also we have texted a lot less since the event
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You fucked up
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>>18419844
Some might say everyone is entitled to one fuck-up but not two, and you should continue with her for the good times. But if she seriously hurt you professionally you'd have to cut and run.
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Extremely difficult time to climax 2017-06-15 05:09:41 Post No.18419822
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Extremely difficult time to climax
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>Be me
>Neither pre-mature ejaculator nor does it take too long to climax
>Get girlfriend
>Sex is okay, 1 year of this
>She has to visit her family abroad for 2 months
>In moment of weakness bought cheapo Chinese fleshlight
>Did not use enough lube, scar glans penis
>It hurts so much when its touched, sees doc, gets medication, normal shit
>1 month after it no longer hurts
>Finds sensation on glans extremely or not at all present
>Girlfriend returns
>Has sex with her, I still feel good with my shaft but I cannot easily climax anymore
>She apparently enjoys the hell out of it, but its merely pleasurable to me now
>Girlfriend gets increasingly addicted to sex and is happy with my new performance
I'm not happy, I can only orgasm to handjobs now. Been too ashamed to tell my girlfriend why. Is there a way to restore sensitivity?
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Steroid or hydrating creams. I use them from time to time and they work wonders. Just ask a doctor or look one up online.
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>>18419822
>>Did not use enough lube, scar glans penis
Holy fuck anon. How did you do this? I've personally used fleshlights and I have no idea how you could manage this. Maybe it's the cheap ass fleshlight you bought.
Go back and talk to your doctor dude. Sounds like you very seriously damaged your penis. There's a possibility you might not get your sensitivity back completely. But it's not like we're dick wizards who can tell you your dick destiny. See a doc.
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>>18419859
It was the cheapo fleshlight and the cheapo lube, i got really into it and didn't stop until orgasm, saw my glans looking red as crap. I thought it was sore but later after a day or two it scabbed over
>>18419851
I probably have to, though I'm worried my girlfriend will think I have STD or some shit