Modern Slavery?

>>18415360
You cut all ties to him?
Maybe sounds easy from my perspective but not from yours, you have any money you could use to live a minimal life?
Does he have something he can blackmail you with or something he will shove in your face when you leave?

Betray him and get some mone and flee, find yourself a new life and leave a note to someone else atleast so he cannot use the police's help.

Ah and make sure you get all your documents you need together first.

your dad sounds like an alright guy. he's a dick at work because he's stressed out over having such a monumental ingrate fuck up as a son to deal with

>>18415399
well i cant really do that, i do have two cars that i can sell and use the money to start a life somewhere else. but he has $18500 of mine and if i were to leave that money would be gone. i am also the general manager of the business so if i were to leave in theory he would have to close down, i wouldnt have a problem with this if i were an only child but i am the oldest son of 4 and the rest are much younger and depend on the income from the business.

>>18415426
yes he is very stressed out but im a relatively good person, im very compassionate and selfless. on top of that all my co workers and my siblings think hes a total dick because he treats everyone like shit because no one is as much as a work addict as he is

>>18415360
> been recreationally using drugs
> get into heroin/xanax/downers ect.
Here is where you fucked up.

>>18415360

Maybe you shouldn't have... oh, I dunno...

>recreationally use drugs
>heroin/xanax/etc
>not learn from best friend's overdose death
>start becoming a criminal
>work while high
>wreck several cars while high or drunk
>"only have fucked up a few times since then, nothing major"

You sound like a giant pile of shit. You're lucky your dad is letting you do anything at all.

>>18415461
>a relatively good person, im very compassionate and selfless

If you destroyed three cars while you're fucked up, you don't get to use those words to describe yourself.

>>18415454
>>18415461
Honestly you have fucked up so many times with drugs and dishonesty and trouble for your family. You need to re-evaluate your history and how important people in your life see you rather then just comfort yourself with this "I am very compassionate and selfless" bullshit.

You wreaked three cars. You stole. You lied to your parents multiple times. Why the fuck would they trust you with anything?

You're self centered and a narcissist from the little you have told us here. Get over yourself and apologize and work to either make things right. What you think is your money probably isn't even yours.

You need to repair or start making a life for yourself instead of making excuses. Get sober.

>>18415461
from the sounds of it no you are neither compassionate nor selfless. those require self-sacrifice. and if college, a wasted 2 month stint in whole other country, and nodding off all the damn time are basically inconsequential provisions of your job then you are general manager in name only and the business would get along fine or better without you. your dad on the other hand would not. siblings...eh little of column a, little of column b.

>>18415360
I'm with a lot of other people. You need to spend some time doing hard labor to make up for the years of poor choices you've made and being a fuck up.
You don't even sound like you've learned anything, are sorry for anything, or would change anything.
You come on here bitching and moning with zero remorse trying to convince everyone how your dad is the asshole and you're the victim.
From this view, it appears the opposite.
Get your shit together, pay off your debts, stay out of trouble, and then tell other people not to fuck up their lives.

>>18415360
Fucking druggie or drunks suck monkey balls go to AA and straightenyour shit out.