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>Is it cheating if I've never slept with the girl I'm seeing and we've never discussed being in an exclusive relationship?
Nope.

>Do I tell her?
Nope.

>>18414859
it's exclusive from the point you both agree it's exclusive. theretofore, it's just up to your moral compass.

>>18414864
This. This this this. Every other post in this thread will be superfluous because this is objectively the answer to your question.

>>18414827
Have you thought about controlling your alcohol consumption?

It's always the people that can't handle their alcohol and drink too much that make an ass of themselves.

t. worked in alcohol industries for years.

Met many and had many friends like you

9/10 times the solution is to stop drinking completely or to not get past the halfway point when drinking

>>18414827
Are you British?

>>18414820
in what context, sexually?

>>18414820

>what kind of reaction do I do if someone at school

Grow past the age of 18.

>>18414820
If he is harassing you at school talk to the administrators or a teacher. It's their job to preserve your learning environment.

Otherwise >>18415473
Realize whatever shit your going through in school is very, VERY, temporary.

>>18414768
>Isolated Island with a lack of opportunity
Be more specific. You a Scottish Islander or Channels or Wight or what?

In general it sounds like you're in a prison of your own desire to escape, maybe try to accept your situation then you can change it without the panic. You don't sound like you're in a good enough place to do your A levels yet tqbh senpai.

Have you tried meditating?

>>18414785
Channel Islands

>>18414806
kek, that's literally as shit as it gets. Just get out man, no matter what it takes get out of that cultural wasteland tax evading piece of shit archipelago.

t. ex channel islander, haven't been back to jersey in a decade

>>18414767
A honour degree is a symptom that you rely to school and their sucking system to prove yourself and you ain't that bright. People treating you like shit also proves that. If you are not able to defend your own interest in life, you either should find a job where they treat you like the princess you are or you get back studying and don't ever come out of that again.

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>>18414767
I'm gonna level with you, anon. Did you fuck up? I can't say for certain, seeing as I'm just some faggot on the internet. I don't know your circumstances, or if your decision affects the life of anyone else.

I will say that if your health was falling apart like you say it was, and everyone around you was begging you to quit, then perhaps it was the best thing for you to do, despite the uncertainty of your future.

As far as finding jobs, that shit's out of your hands. You can't force people to hire you. You can only wait and see what happens, which isn't something anyone wants to hear, but it's the fucking truth. You just have to keep looking, and take shitty jobs until you've got an offer that is worthy of your education/job background.

Maybe you could go back to school and learn a trade. You wouldn't be the first person to do that after getting a 4 year degree. You gotta find something you like and will pay your bills.

I was homeless after losing my job. I've lost everything save for a trashbag full of clothes and box filled with the shit I could carry. It fucking sucked for awhile. Friends and family let me couchsurf while I worked at part-time at Walmart. I was suicidal, and tried (but failed) in killing myself. The only thing I had going for me was the promise of tomorrow. Eventually, I was able to get on my feet again, and I'm almost back to where I was.

I was lucky enough to have a strong support system, which by god, I hope you have one too. They won't let you die of starvation, and they will help, you just gotta ask.

My advice boils down to keep working, stay hopeful, because the promise of a better tomorrow is all you have. Again, no one likes fucking hearing that, because it doesn't solve it today and it's ambiguous at best, but it's all you can do.

I wish you luck, anon. Keep fighting.

>>18414767
Join the armed forces

>>18414742

>being numb helps maintain an erection

Nigga what?

>>18414761
So you don't cum quickly.

>>18414770

I was always under the impression that people with ED couldn't get it up enough to even cum.

>>18414677
>> 6 months
>> love her
Move on bro. The relationship just did work, its not your fault

>>18414685
Didnt

>>18414677

>i cant call her and sit in silence like i used to

well now you can sit in silence with your self.

seriously though, nows the time to invest in your own life.

plan out your remaining week
write realistic achievable goals
follow that shit up

I too am the type of dude that does everything in the last possible minute... but I DO it

>>18414673
Stay in school.

Meaning, if you have any homework, or studying, do it on campus. Come early, stay late, something.

I know, when I got home, nomatter what grand plan I had for doing work, I'd see my shitty environs and not do jack shit besides what I wanted to do. When I get "home" I'm not doing "work". So I stayed at 'work' to do 'work'

Go to your library or study hall or suchlike and do your work there, before allowing yourself to go home. IF you get assigned some work, walk out the class, walk into the library, start working on it right away.

Or if you REALLY like to procrastinate, go to the library two hours before class and do your assigned work then.

>>18414673
I pretend that aliens are watching and filming me to make a documentary on pathetic humans who procrastinate. For some reason that always motivates me to do shit

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what my goal would look like. keep in mind that i had two babies, i'm not sure how realistic this is.

>>18414564

you can always go back to looking chubby.

you can also start saving money now and promise to use it for skin tightening when/if you meet your goal. i see no shame in rewarding your self if you work hard enough to do most of the work on your own.

that being said its generally a slow process and your skin will naturally tighten over time, especially if you're aiming for muscle.

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I actually look a lot like this, face and body, and I have the man's charisma too. My question is, would you like to have sex w me?

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>>18414535
Here is a fairly neutral picture of my face, for reference.

try some on

>>18414535

by trying on different glasses at the store, and seeing which ones look good on your face.

for best results bring a friend with you to help balance out your opinions. talk to the mirror for more than just ten seconds, tryt each pair on for like 5 minutes at a time and see what you feel comfortable with. dont worry about sales assistants being bugged by it, you have to wear these things on your fucking face all the fucking time, you deserve to actually spend sometime choosing whats going on your face

>>18414483

its not considered 'taboo' but its considered a little weird, but entirely understandable

>>18414483
Is she hot?

>>18414503
Yeah she's very hot actually. Soccer player, tanned, blonde, athletic, playful personality, petite but toned body, popular in school. Photogenic even. Fml

>>18414264
Learning another language teaches you things about your own language. It also exercises your mind, and can be used in niche situations to impress people.

So yeah, it and any other language is worth learning, even if we're already living in a world where English will be the only language you'll ever need.

>>18414268
I'm already bilingual but was thinking of expanding that.

>>18414268
This poster makes good points about the benefits of learning a language.

Try learning one that won't be extinct in 200 years, if you can help it. Spanish?

>>18414185
How long have you guys been dating? Sometimes it takes a little while. Orgasm is partially a comfort thing, so it might take her a while to get comfortable enough with you to let herself go.

That being said, if she told you this:
>Allegedly she's had this problem forever/for a long while
Then I'd take that as gospel. Presumably she knows her own body better than you do, and better than random internet strangers could ever possibly know it (even based on our many, many anecdotal experiences).

My only suggestion: Does she masturbate to get herself off in your presence? If she does, try and pay attention to what she does to get there, and then replicate it. If she doesn't, and instead does it privately, maybe try and encourage her to start doing it in her presence. If her orgasm is being blocked by some shame/self-consciousness thing, then the first step to fixing it will be normalising her orgasm with you, and then before you know it she'll be having it with you.

>>18414185
I struggled to get off because I think too much when someone is fucking me.
It has really nothing to do with you. I really enjoy sex, feel a lot of pleasure, but rarely climax.

>>18414185
Have you tried using any vibrators while having sex? That could help things along.

Also try not to make sex all about the climax. If she feels pressured to cum in order to not hurt your feelings that often makes it 10x harder. Focus on the journey rather than the destination.

>>18414128
take against one guy in particular and build up to beating him up.

>>18414128
Try to act like an adult and just tell her. Straight and to the point.

That you are jealous and scared a bit, but you know you have to pretend to be tought male in order to not lose value in her eyes. I know you will consider this as stupid idea, but if you ever plan to marry or have babies with her, you should learn how to have honest open communication asap.

If you cant talk to her openly like this, your relationship wont go anywhere anyway.

Dont forget to hug and cuddle her a lot. Girls love that during any communication.

>>18414128
Sorta in a similiar situation. Fuck cunts with red flags like these. Just move on to a better girl.

>>18414098
Just go for a fucking drink and decide then. Are you sure she's not a bot though?

>>18414098
Her prime years are gone and is looking for a beta male provider. Enjoy being king of the cucks

>>18414102
Nash she has legit social media stuff and lots of pics.
>>18414105
I don't know man, she plans to go back home soon since her visa is gonna be up at some point