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>>18420750
You stop kissing her on mouth and dont allow her to give you oral anything until her burst heals.

Stay cool, everybody have it.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes_simplex

>>18420750
No it's not as big a deal as you think. You know oral herpes is incredibly common, right? That's what cold sores are. Cold sores = herpes simplex = oral herpes. Something like 75% of adults in the US have oral herpes without knowing it, and once you have it, it's with you for life. There's a good chance you have it too. There's a good chance you already had it before dating her, if you've slept around at all or kissed more than a tiny handful of girls. Seventy five fucking percent (and I've seen higher numbers given too, I went with the average).

Be smart, read up a little about it, and obviously do not let her give you oral sex while she's having an outbreak. But no, this isn't nearly as big a deal as that scary word, "herpes," makes you think it is.

>>18420750
Just don't kiss her when she has the sores. It is not aids.

My mom has it, my dad doesn't. My boyfriend of 7 years has it, I don't.

Kys

>>18420738

The answer is that you're a stupid faggot. 100% honesty is the only way to rebuild trust in a relationship and you're fucking up. That includes coming clean on when you met the other chick and exactly everything you did with her. And informing her of everytime she contacts you again.

Or are you too much of a pussy to own up on your deeds? Or a pathetic repeating cheater? If yes then end the relationship sooner rather than later and save both of you a lot of time.

>>18420738

Research it why? That's not a mental illness. That's just wanting to confront the problem. You cheated on her, she knows that, so now she wants context. Nothing weird about that.

Worst that could happen is she says no and it ruins the friendship. Just bring it up casually? You're already good friends with her, the less weird about it you are the less weird about it she'll be.

Stick long enough with her. Then one day out of blue bring the matter up casually.

If she respond with "you're joking", or some kind. Keep pressing the matter slow yet casuallly. She'll get it.

Same thing happened to me, dude. Like seriously - same fucking situation.
>She's pretty much the only girl I get along with really well on a personal level and I really value her as a friend
>We've fucked in the past
>I'm 90% sure she's not interested in a relationship.
Sounds eerily familiar.

Look, full disclosure, I told her, and although she didn't reciprocate at first, eventually she did, and we've been together for five years now. So I'm biased, because in my case it all worked out. But it easily could have gone the other way, and I still wouldn't regret having told her. The way I see it, you really don't have a choice: you do NOT want her to fall for some other guy and have to live with seeing her on his arm, always wondering if that might be you, if only you'd told her. If that happens, and someday it will happen if you don't tell her, fucking trust me, it'll
>make things awkward or even ruin our friendship altogether.

Yeah. Just tell her.

As for what you say? Say anything. If you can't think of anything else then just say: Yeah, I'm totally falling for you. Or: I'm starting to like you as more than a friend. No they aren't smooth lines but come on, she knows and trusts you (you guys have fucked, after all), she is not some random girl in a bar. The smooveness of your delivery is not that important here.

>>18420697

Never happened to me, but I'm a nervous wreck even when just meeting girls for drinks, so I know a thing or two about anxiety.

I guess, it's about being in the "zone". Focus on right that moment. You are there, having fun, and you know that even if you don't get it up she won't mind. You literally cannot fail.

Don't fap for a couple days. Eat well and sleep well. Don't let your body turn on you. And next time, try to chill. As she said, it happens. Don't fret it.

>>18420697
nofap. Also less foreplay

>>18420697
Nofap is what you fking need men.

Btw this all happened in the span of a few days. I know I'm a fucking idiot so you don't have to tell me.

Swallow your pride and move back.

>>18421074
That is what I am leaning towards, yes. My orientation for the job was supposed to be this coming monday and Tuesday.
If I can figure out a living situation I should be good.

if you have friends that are that close to you that they wouldnt care when you vent to them then by all means do it. just dont be that guy who never has anything positive to say to them because that will make uncomfortable to be around you. You should be open to taking advice whenever you can but also acting upon it because your goal should not be to keep feeling the way you do.

Anon, no one knows it if it is "acceptable" to do so or not. There is no rule. You are in your own situation and your friends are in theirs too, we can't help you on that. I say when in doubt, it is better to talk than to hold on to.

If you want to talk about it here, I'm here to listen to you. I'm not a psychanalyst, but I have plenty experience with it.

I find having sex reduces stress
also diet and exercise, but you already know that

>>18420529
Tell them you have a prescription for a drug and that you're currently taking it

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>>18420534
The thing is the dispense date is May 30. So idk if that has any bearing.

In other words, I am not supposed to be taking it now.

>>18420546
Just don't show them the label, or that you take it as needed. Best I got for ya

>>18420507
UTI or STI?

I think that's a very common thing anon. After you cum, there really is a tingly sensation and feeling you have to pee.

When you cum, do you hold your cum or squeeze your dick so it doesn't come out much? Sometimes cum can accumulate on the walls and it feels rather weird and it's probably not healthy. It gets better after you pee though, cleans the pipes.

I don't think it has anything to do with accutane, even though I never took it.

Also, clean your dick. With just water and a simple neutral soap. And dry it well. Sometimes your dick is irritated because of other things and you are not taking good care of it. When you masturbate, you are not thinking about it obviously so you don't feel it, but you might be stressing it out and feeling it just after you cum.

>>18420511
Not STI because Im a virgin, but I havent ruled out STI
I have a lot of wet dreams were I wake up and my boxers are covered in semen. Im sure thats probably not healthy...?

>>18420474
just keep in mind that her child is her top priority. not you.

>>18420474
Dating someone with child sucks because most of time they'll make their child priority, especially if the child is still a young twerp. I've dated a similar girl like yours, but back then she was 28 with a 5 year old son. Took me a while, but then I realize everything she's doing is focusing on her son and she constantly trying to mold me into her son's new father rather than trying to have more fun together and knowing each other better. Needless to say, I break contact with her.

The one with grownup child is different though, they're more eager and most importantly will focus on you more like when they're still single. Downsides are they usually will be 40+ years old. A year ago I've a fling with one, she was a rare nowadays since she's 43 and her ass still tight. Tits are bit too saggy for my tase, but at least her technique in bed was amazing enough.

>>18420755
Curious, do you feel women are only good for sex?

>>18420412
You're not alone

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>>18420420
Poor word choice or a pun?

>>18420425
No pun intended xd

They're uncomfortable as shit

>>18420379
Ask your bf.

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>>18420379
Not unless you have a ball busting fetish and want her to turn your nuts into peanut butter. Those heels are giant blunt objects.

Now, fucking her while she is wearing the heels would be another story. You would ask her to keep the heels on when you just want it out in the open on a chair or something. Then once you cum you let the load out on her feet and high heels.

>>18420298
>>>warn of threat to life safety and financial
Are you in the US? If so, lawyer up or go to the EEOC. The reprimand may be considered retaliation for filing a safety complaint. That's a big no no by the company.

>>18420326
Not the US. But ill see if there are any other laws in my country.

Thanks.

This was just a warning to anyone considering a career with responsibilities in engineering or design.

Shit needs to be taken seriously, or people die.

>>18420389
I wish more people were as responsible as you anon. The big bosses think that they dont need employees. They are wrong. Without them they are super fucked. Too bad many people lack the courage and rather take the falling shit.

Probably swelling around your spine. See your G.P. to be sure you didn't break a little piece!

yes you should go to the hospital, if the pain is horrible chances are you broke something, and thats not joking matter

old ppl can actually die from it, you might become a cripple for life if you dont take it seriously

It can depending on the extent of the injury
At least go to a doctor.

>>18420259
>maybe this counts as emotionally cheating?

Yup.

In fact, I remember once hearing on some random chearing/relationship expert on a radio show say that 6 out of 10 women find it unspeakably more horrible and hurtful than if their partner physically cheated on them.

I'm a dude though, somehatnthenfuck do it know--except this doesn't sound copacetic to me

trying to rationalize that you regret your decision doesnt make it less true Jason, just get back with the girl
tell the other you are a shithead and you started this while not entirely sure about the last one, be honest, stop tiptoeing

dont fuck with the emotions of 3 ppl just because you are a coward

Lmao
>More influential socially
Normies at it again

Hippy*

>>18420236
>Should i go grab some beer or what?
Yes, always get some kings in.
>Virgin with a small dick
Doesn't matter, most women don't cum from penetration. Go down on her first.

>>18420238
What a feeble piece of shit i am, cheers for the advice brother youve genuinely helped me out here.