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>>18417706
>I was watching an episode of Murder, She Wrote
Can we please get married?

>>18417706
Probably like, a dollar or two

I'm don't really do much

>>18417706
If I thought my performance had been normal and boring, then the standard amount in my country (like 10%); if I thought I'd been a fucking sweetheart, 15%; and if I'd been shit, nothing.

Yeah, I'm an honest guy and I guess that's the one good thing about having been raised by a tyrannical and verbally abusive father: I can tell when I've failed to meet expectations and deserve to be punished.

>>18417629
Change your views or be single for the rest of you life, its that simple folks

>>18417629
Think about this, in first place you're not a virgin yourself are you? Isn't it bit too harsh if you hold her with that double standard?

You should also at least appreciate her honesty of telling that she's not being a virgin to you, if she wanted to trap you or some shit she could just lie and say she was a virgin and her hymen broke because of irrelevant things, so she could marry you without any hindrances. Honesty and open communication between two are keys for healthy long relationship.
If she's really into you and not cheating, I don't know why you should bother with being jealous. Now, if she's cheating on you that'll be a different story.

But If you couldn't stop thinking about the guy who took her virginity maybe you could just go bent that guy over and dominate him until you're satisfied, or just ragefuck her imagining your dick scraping every single drop of semen from the other guy.

>>18417629
>▶
seriously this day and age you are better of not having a virgin.

I mean,... it's fun and all that but they are going to want to see how it is with someone else some time anyway.

you are better of getting a girl that had one or two partners before you. they are usually good for a stable relationship.

>independence
>disposable income

Pick one.

>>18417624
It's really expensive and kind of shitty. You will meet a lot of people and have homies around every day though, which is nice.
I'd get an off campus house if the college is in a city or has close suburbs, you should be able to split one with other students for around the same price or cheaper, you won't need to rely on the dining hall, you can have privacy and you can do whatever you want like smoke weed, drink or have a party without being fucked with.

>>18417624
cost is not worth it unless you've got grants or scholarships to cover it or you already plan on moving to an apartment. even then an apartment will likely be cheaper and nicer.

Literally just do it.
How can you tell before you read the book?

Start with the greeks

Crunchyroll and my anime list gives recommendations based on what you like for anime.

Amazon is very good at giving recommendations for books.

>>18417575
If you scheduled it first and told him months in advance (like before you even got hired), then I personally would go. If this was a "last minute" vacation then you should cancel it.

I don't know what you're asking other people about this for. It's up to you to decide what's more important to you.

A few things that you could consider though. Did they already approved your holiday before? If they did, them changing their mind is very unprofessional. This kind of things happen all the time though, people make mistakes. More importantly, those people who want to take off days during the same time as you, did they ask for it before or after you? If they asked after you, were they also asked to cancel their plans? This is very important, because if there were people who asked for it after you and then the boss told you to cancel your plans so they can go he's pretty much treating you unfairly and you shouldn't put up with it otherwise it will keep happening.

>>18417587
It was more like
>Hey anon do you want come with us to this trip ?
>Yeah but I got to see with my boss if I can

>Boss can I take vacation this week un august ?
>Sure go

>Start paying stuff for the holidays
>Tell some Friends i'll go with them

And after a week he just asked me to cancel

>>18417574
Well, if she still speaks with you it at least means she holds some interests on you. If you wanted to know if she's into you as BF - as sexual being, then you could try being subtly sexual with her.

I don't mean verbally speaking you like/interested in her, but just talk like usual even banal topics are fine as long as she hangs with you, then adjust your manner and body language to indicate you're interested in her sexually. You could try touching her somewhere safe, like arm, forearm, shoulder when talking. If she's comfortable gradually increase the frequencies and durations of safe touches.
If she's still responsive, you could try to be more intimate, touch her back, nape or hair briefly. If she's still comfortable with that go on... Repeat until she lets you move her around somewhere and she's comfortable with your touches in erogenous are.

Build the tension, but don't ease it with joke or awkward laughes.

>>18417574
>I don´t want to be speaking with her, being his close friend

So ya already talked to her? Cuz it sounds like the start you were asking how to approach her. But if you are a talk to her than just make a move since you consider her a "close friend". Ya will see what she thinks, if ya just in the fz or not. It is cool if yall still be friends but ya need to open up to her and ask her if she would like to go out with you, whatever you do if she says yes do not go to the movies. I mean it is cool having nice female friends I do and understand that despite a lil teasing no srs shit like sex will occur since we are just buddies. That is cool cuz i know. Where she stands and I won't waste my time or a good friendship doing something stupid.

>>18417640
I´ve asked her to go out but she´s always busy, and we speak, but I always start the conversations asking her how was her day and that kinds of thing. I also make compliments to her. I think that she knows that I´m trying something, but she doesn´t say "Stop, I don´t like you" neither show interest in me.

>>18417332
>just working on myself
I swear I don't know what this is supposed to mean anymore. it sounds like masturbation to me

>>18417348
Existing without being addicted to things and wasting away takes work. It's not fun to live, it's work.

hah, no fucking clue man.

Call center.

>>18417314
Join the milit-

>>18417321
Just got done getting rejected from one, I had a misdemeanor on my record which was supposed to have been expunged (was pot, placed on STET, paid 30 bucks in 2015 for the expunction) but got a hit on. Army looked at it when I joined and they said "who cares," go figure.
>>18417323
Would re-up at this point, but my dumb ass wanted to do school so I signed a guard contract instead, kill me

If she had the sense to cut off the ones she KNOWS has feelings for her, I'd say you're in the clear.

I flirt with all of my friends, male or female, but it's in a 'sassy gay man banter' sort of a way.

Are there ever situations where you're in a group together and she's doing it? Some good ways to determine the intention behind the flirting are:
>If she will do it openly in front of you/other friends.
>The terminology used. I'll call my friends 'mate', 'bro', 'shitcunt.'

For some reason men look at banter as flirting when a woman is involved.

>>18417310
She knows that she's prone to flirting and I'd say she really watches herself around me. And even watches herself when I'm not around, according to her best friend. When I'm in a group I tend to be her #1 attention but I don't talk much when I'm around her friends so she's involved with the group.

I'd say that she doesn't flirt with other guys anymore, actually, now that I'm looking at the whole picture.

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>>18417322
Well I mean, there you go. Even if the flirting didn't mean anything to begin with, she still acknowledges that it's inappropriate while she's in a relationship.

You've got yourself a good'un, anon!

She is polite.

>>18417287
>It's a slightly disappointed tone?
That's not a fucking question.

>>18417316
It seems kinda bitter in the way she talks to me though?

why don't you combine hobby with fun and commute on your motorcycle back home to see your m8s?

>>18417186
I have no m8s currently, because I don't know how to meet anyone who shares my hobbies.
I thought of going to some bike meet ups or something, but that still doesn't really help me find a gf when none of them ride or like guns.

>>18417207
>I don't know anyone who likes vidya, movies or motorcycling
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that only happens when you have shitty goals.
you're not meant to surround yourself with idiots who happen to be able to do some minor task due to physical superiority. you're supposed to surround yourself with people you look up to as a whole.

>>18417129
>Implying I'm talking just about physical differences
Physiological differences include mental disposition and propensity to develop depression/anxiety.

>>18417118
>make as obnoxious and generalized thread as possible
>wonder why nobody gives you advice
Good thread.

You are supposted to have friends you like. That is all. To have somebody to talk to or as back up.

What do you want from life op?
And why cant you obtain it?

seneca

>>18417108
Tyler from RSD

>>18417108
https://actualized.org/
Leo has great content, even though he took the direction of his videos to a more spiritual level, his older videos are great in mi opinion, i have learned a lot from this guy

Erowid you stupid ass.

You dont know what the fuck you are talking about
You will be knocked out, lol
Knocked out as fuck and have some major realisations (like our facet of reality is not real, everything is energy around us, there is no time and so on)

Resourceful site thanks

we can't answer that for you. but you can answer me this:'
if a fairy would approach you right now and grant you 3 wishes, what would you wish for? you could ask for materialistic stuff or relationship related stuff or self improvement stuff, whatever your heart desires.

Well first, It whould be for everyone in my familyto be happy for once. secondly, I whould want use to have proper income to support us. And for the third one, I whould wish I could meet Kek himself.

>>18416891
so your core values are (in this order):
family
finances
spirituality

neat. so nw that we have etablished this, let's see how those departments are lacking in your current state and how you can improve them.

let's start with family:
why isn't everyone happy?
what would have to happen that everybody IS happy?
how would you notice that everybody is happy?